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The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 1736 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.27 — 489,191 ratings — published 1990
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love (Hardcover)
by (shelved 1173 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.13 — 130,032 ratings — published 2010
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert (Paperback)
by (shelved 908 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.26 — 36,708 ratings — published 1999
Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic (Hardcover)
by (shelved 783 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.17 — 51,505 ratings — published 2006
Hold Me Tight (Hardcover)
by (shelved 722 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.12 — 23,446 ratings — published 2008
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus (Paperback)
by (shelved 679 times as relationships)
avg rating 3.58 — 201,769 ratings — published 2008
How to Win Friends & Influence People (Paperback)
by (shelved 508 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.21 — 1,179,371 ratings — published 1936
Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples (Paperback)
by (shelved 479 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.05 — 14,688 ratings — published 2005
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life (Paperback)
by (shelved 474 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.32 — 51,234 ratings — published 1999
Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life (Hardcover)
by (shelved 453 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.21 — 89,508 ratings — published 1992
Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love (Hardcover)
by (shelved 421 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.23 — 11,141 ratings — published 2019
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life (Paperback)
by (shelved 399 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.28 — 90,008 ratings — published 2015
How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving (Paperback)
by (shelved 368 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.10 — 8,268 ratings — published 2002
The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity (ebook)
by (shelved 352 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.35 — 24,385 ratings — published 2017
How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love (Hardcover)
by (shelved 351 times as relationships)
avg rating 3.96 — 20,301 ratings — published 2021
The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities (Paperback)
by (shelved 337 times as relationships)
avg rating 3.94 — 27,978 ratings — published 1997
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy (Paperback)
by (shelved 325 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.34 — 17,005 ratings — published 2020
All About Love: New Visions (Hardcover)
by (shelved 322 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.00 — 147,663 ratings — published 1999
Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs (Hardcover)
by (shelved 307 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.15 — 61,738 ratings — published 2004
Modern Romance (Hardcover)
by (shelved 289 times as relationships)
avg rating 3.80 — 190,474 ratings — published 2015
Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship (Paperback)
by (shelved 277 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.09 — 6,626 ratings — published 2012
Models: Attract Women Through Honesty (Paperback)
by (shelved 276 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.30 — 20,977 ratings — published 2011
The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God (Hardcover)
by (shelved 266 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.49 — 54,423 ratings — published 2011
Why Men Love Bitches (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 260 times as relationships)
avg rating 3.81 — 69,847 ratings — published 2009
The Art of Loving (Paperback)
by (shelved 256 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.00 — 99,043 ratings — published 1956
The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship: A Toltec Wisdom Book (Hardcover)
by (shelved 253 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.27 — 61,659 ratings — published 1999
The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (Paperback)
by (shelved 251 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.04 — 34,946 ratings — published 1997
Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself (Paperback)
by (shelved 247 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.12 — 51,515 ratings — published 1986
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents (Paperback)
by (shelved 244 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.35 — 99,705 ratings — published 2015
Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment (Hardcover)
by (shelved 241 times as relationships)
avg rating 3.77 — 52,699 ratings — published 2009
Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead (Hardcover)
by (shelved 239 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.29 — 247,685 ratings — published 2012
Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality (Hardcover)
by (shelved 232 times as relationships)
avg rating 3.97 — 32,058 ratings — published 2010
Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High (Paperback)
by (shelved 227 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.07 — 84,408 ratings — published 2002
How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 224 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.02 — 43,585 ratings — published 2023
He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys (Hardcover)
by (shelved 221 times as relationships)
avg rating 3.66 — 67,417 ratings — published 2004
The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships (Paperback)
by (shelved 218 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.05 — 3,788 ratings — published 2001
The Art of Seduction (Paperback)
by (shelved 214 times as relationships)
avg rating 3.90 — 43,746 ratings — published
Normal People (Hardcover)
by (shelved 201 times as relationships)
avg rating 3.81 — 1,954,309 ratings — published 2018
What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal (ebook)
by (shelved 190 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.23 — 3,408 ratings — published 2012
The Course of Love (Hardcover)
by (shelved 189 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.01 — 50,727 ratings — published 2016
For Women Only: What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men (Hardcover)
by (shelved 186 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.04 — 29,875 ratings — published 2004
Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience (Hardcover)
by (shelved 185 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.32 — 101,044 ratings — published 2021
Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection (Hardcover)
by (shelved 182 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.52 — 5,636 ratings — published 2024
How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships (ebook)
by (shelved 182 times as relationships)
avg rating 3.66 — 46,784 ratings — published 1998
The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 180 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.11 — 29,905 ratings — published 1985
8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 179 times as relationships)
avg rating 3.89 — 31,179 ratings — published 2023
Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 179 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.07 — 4,149 ratings — published 2007
No More Mr. Nice Guy (Hardcover)
by (shelved 176 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.04 — 25,195 ratings — published 2000
Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself (ebook)
by (shelved 173 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.24 — 39,420 ratings — published 2021
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last (Paperback)
by (shelved 173 times as relationships)
avg rating 4.14 — 3,397 ratings — published 1994
“To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow - this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.”
― Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage
― Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage
“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it's got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.”
― Daily Afflictions: The Agony of Being Connected to Everything in the Universe
I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.”
― Daily Afflictions: The Agony of Being Connected to Everything in the Universe












