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September 19, 2017
Do you ever commit crazy stupid and fun acts with your lover?
I don’t know but whom ever I loved in my life were total weirdos and maniacs!
My all girl friends were unique and were just too out of this world.I don’t find average interesting and even if I find them to be interesting, I loose my interest very fast.
All my love stories were quite difficult as I choose people who were not of common league. Many of them were ‘out laws’, eccentrics with behavior very difficult to understand.My whole love life was crazy, what moments I can choose.But if you think craziness as in kicking the police man and running after 60 mph speed bus, then no.
What I am stating is about emotional roller coaster we gave to each other.
I am a detached person. One time I am your ardent lover and other time you can find me roaming with afterthoughts of Mahavira and Buddha. The moment I am with you, I am mesmerized by you, but the moment I leave your world, the canvas changes!
I live in present.What ever is present, I am with that environment. In gym, I am gym, in office, I am totally office,I cinema I am with cinema totally.Love is a background music to me. Some times it may appear to my lovers that I had forgotten them totally! This was the greatest conflict in all my love stories.
Hence every single moment was a roller coaster ride!
Love is a background music.Best music is always silence.
Next, I am not very expressive in direct terms. It is horribly difficult for me to put in concrete words that ‘I love you’. To me it can be felt that ‘I love’ and that is enough!
I am a roller coaster of emotions my self, what else any one need!
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How come Pakistan (23rd) has a higher IQ ranking than India (25th)?
Because
There are more pro Pakistani in India than in Pakistan.
They might be counting in top down order.
IQ might be defined as ISIS Quotient.
IQ test machine might be designed by CIA.
They might have been confused for absolute number with rank number for Pakistani’s.
They might have scrambled with other list of Barking Quotient.
If you say ‘Is this answer a joke ?’
My humble response ‘ who started!’.
Jai Hind
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How should I stop my mobile addiction with simple tricks?
I have a simple trick.I have all notifications turned off, even calls.
I don’t get distracted by constant ting tong.No anxiety in my mind to check phone that often.
For calls, if I am near phone I can see it flashing.If not, then I can always call back.
I am an Email person.People who know me well are very much aware of it.You want some real message, mail me. I may not read your whatsApp text or FB message for ages.E mails are real productive tools.I can attach files, write long paragraphs, send links and even pictures. Instant messaging is just fast food for me.Even though I do chat a lot on Quora (messages) and on whatsApp with many people, for real stuff,I prefer mails.
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Does the concept of soulmate still work or is that all a mumble jumble story?
Soulmates exist.But are very rare to find one.Reasons
It takes time to open up.Our inflated egos, insecurities, social climate,psychological barriers, evolutionary instincts and hundreds other factors make it very difficult to recognise soulmates.
Thus even you might have met your soulmate, it is very difficult to ‘really’ catch them.
I believe life gives you at least one chance to get your soulmate.
A lover is NOT equal to a soulmate.It is a different category altogether. One sure sign is that whenever you meet your soulmate, every part of your body screams for them. You must feel intense relief and joy in their presence.You must think about them for at least few hours each day.You must remember each and every meeting of your with them with almost everything said or implied.
Soulmates are so intensely connected that you start to feel their pain from quite a distance. Just a glance of theirs is what you want.You forget every thing in front of them (not as infatuation though).Love becomes so intense that you become one soul in two bodies.
It often happens in advance stages of love.
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September 18, 2017
What does it mean by understanding a concept?
Einstein defined it long ago
‘If you can’t explain it to a six year old, you don’t know it yourself’
More precisely you must be able to teach a concept you understood well, to a junior two years younger hence.
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Why do people say that real life experiences come after completing the education?
It’s time to find a new friend.The best friend you have is YOU.Love your self.No one can love me like me.
People who are content with being with them selves are extremely attractive as they do not sound needy or dependent.
If you love yourself means that your positivity is sky high. Usually we rate our selves a bit lower than we really are (negativity bias).
Being alone is not the same as being with your self. Alone people are alone but they crave social participation. People comfortable with them selves do not crave any social validation. They are equipotent in both the conditions.
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What does it feel like when your best friend doesn’t have time for you?
Its time to find a new friend.The best friend you have is YOU.Love your self.No one can love me like me.
People who are content with being with them selves are extremely attractive as they do not sound needy or dependent.
If you love yourself means that your positivity is sky-high. Usually we rate our selves a bit lower than we really are (negativity bias).
Being alone is not the same as being with your self. Alone people are alone but they crave social participation. People comfortable with them selves do not crave any social validation. They are equipotent in both the conditions.
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What are the most important things I should know to become a good writer?
Good writer is regular writer. Writing is a skill which improves by practice.
Perseverance and patience are only virtues needed to become a good established writer. Writing is same as brand building. Any successful brand needs at least five years for establishing itself. Again brands become big brands in 15 years.
A good writer is keen observer. Writer’s primary job is to give words to feelings, unknown emotions and unexplained thoughts. He is a perfect communicator between the reasoning mind and the emotional mind of humans. You can say a good writer is both a scientist and translator of human emotions. He has to be best in both worlds.
At last a writer is a wonderful student.
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I add the following contributions to the article.
I think writing is a skill that improves by practice and good writers are avid readers. I believe writers evolve with every topic they write about . The learn more and began to share experiences and tell stories . Reading enables writers to learn more words and helps writers to express themselves and explain their views.
Anissa Watins
All great points, but let me add that, to become good writer, we should also learn other skills and read other content that’s in line with or even remotely related to our niche or craft. By doing this, we open our doors to new, exciting, and sometimes confusing things which could help us become better communicators in our niche.
What are 2 traits you like about yourself and 2 traits you dislike about yourself?
Positive Traits
I am absolute lover. If I love you.,be sure that it must be complete. I am sort of extremist Either full or none.
I am relatively silent and calm person. If you are with me, you can enjoy two perks.
You can be yourself. Can remain silent in my presence and that silence shall never haunt you to speak.
You can speak your heart out and I shall never interrupt. I am a great listener. I genuinely love people and their stories. I love to listen and learn from each one and every one.
Negatives
I am perfectionist. Sometimes it becomes a burden.
I am extremist. Hence when I stop loving you, I stop altogether. I burn all bridges.
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Is there an actual way to have your future told?
I can tell you future right now.In future there will be
Pressure to perform
Happiness due to events
Dismay due to failures
Moments of joy and episodes of craziness
People will betray you, use you and break your heart
People will help you, be with you and extend their support
There will be deaths and more births around you
Season will change and floods will hit at many places
Politicians and nations will fight with each other
New iPhone shall be launched
You career will see transformation
You will get old. Older than you ever imagined
Similar all predictable events!
Once some one asked Buddha
‘Is there any god ?’
He answered ‘What will you do even if you know this ? What difference will it make to your life? If any change was about to happen or due to happen, it will happen with out your consent or permission.Live life in the moment.Don’t waste it in unchangeable past and unimaginable non existent future.Future is just now and past was just here.
Life is so unpredictable and that is the best part about it.You don’t know whom you fall in love with tomorrow, you don’t know whom you might see tomorrow, you are unaware of your future and that is what makes it wonderful and exciting.Surprise is life. If some one tell you about every thing that might happen to you in future, would you love living your life ? It will be scripted and boring!
Go out of you house and enjoy the morning sun, the chirping of birds, cool breeze and stop thinking for a while ,please.We don’t waste 30% of out life sleeping but waste 90% of our life thinking with out direction or consent.Having a ‘No mind’ is real meditation and true enlightenment.
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