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What are the things Indian boys are collectively doing wrong?

‘I love you’ to someone is NOT just a statement but also taking a stand for the person in every hue and cry. If love doesn’t sooth your mind, calm your nerves, makes you more productive, more hardworking, more focused, then it’s NOT love but a relationship! BNBR everywhere .You are not a person on […]

How many things do we miss in our daily life?

Humans are a confused breed. We want all those things which we miss. When we get all those things, we don’t value them. When we lose those things, we crave them yet again. We are infinitely dissatisfied, greedy and selfish. Most importantly, all the things that we crave are available right in front of us […]

Do people judge intelligent people as aloof?

No. But intelligent people are generally aloof by themselves. Being intelligent can sometimes be extremely boring, and produce a feeling of loneliness. You understand many things without explanation and thus you devoid the other people the joy of telling stories that comes from explanations! You know almost all the little trivia that people tell you […]

What trick do you think everyone should know?

Functional psychology. Please read some of good literature available for the subject. Do not learn by text books. You will thank me later. Your most important possession is your mind. Protect it from hunters and hackers. I support mind games but only to get your love. Start with Art of seduction, then Influence and many […]

What things should I never do?

If you hate that bully and want to punch him hard, do it once. What ever will be be the outcome, you must feel proud that you did it. Else, get  yourself the best argument to not hit him but stick to it .Don’t regret it later. I know of only one thing to not […]

Who’s more of a hypocrite, a woman or man?

Usually both Man wants sex disguised as friendship while a woman wants comfort. We all have our hidden agendas and process to fulfill them is called as love.

Are love and attachment the same thing?

The eternal quest of lovers is to ponder the question; whether to be, or not to be be attached to your lovers. We have wide misconceptions about being in love, and being attached. The differentiation between the two is razor thin. Shouldn’t I communicate with my lover often? If I feel jealous when she or […]

What five don’ts have you learned from others’ failures and life experiences?

I have my own list.It may or may not confirm the general bias.(These are my observations). The best time is ‘now’ : I am a staunch follower of Osho. His teachings have taught me that the best time is now. Neither past nor present but now. Right here, right now. Nothing can give you real […]

What are your self made quotes?

I write several quotes when I get time. Some of these were also my WhatsApp status. ‘Hard work’ should work hard (Not just show off). I shall never employ the most skilled, but rather the most passionate. I don’t worry when people follow facts and derive reasons. I worry only when people follow reasons to […]

What are some good manners a person should possess?

I know only one good manner. The ability to listen to anyone without thinking about your answer or what to say next. An intelligent person makes you feel that ‘he is the most desirable person in this world’. A charming person make you feel that ‘you are the most desirable person in this world!’. It […]