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How can there be a difference in falling in love and thinking that someone’s attractive?

If you want to pluck a flower and put it in a vase, you are attracted to some one. If you want to nurture a plant and help blossom that flower, you love them.

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Source: How can there be a difference in falling in love and thinking that someone’s attractive? – Quora

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What advice/wisdom would you share with someone in their 20s when you are over 40?

I am not yet naughty at 40 but still have seen plenty of life.

Do not chase girls. I repeat please do not chase girls when you must be chasing books. I know hormones are rushing at your age and you too want ‘emotional support’ and some physical comfort.

Girls usually look for mature men even at tender age. They do not like boys.
Your relationship will die premature death (most possibly) if you are not strong financially which in turns means strong career.
Girls chase guys who have strong future prospects and are knowledgeable.
Your peer pressure to have a girl friend is nothing as compared to societal pressure of having a strong career.
Okay as a fun filled activity, you can do the chasing on the weekends and that too for 10% of your total productive time.
Girls are very shrewd as far as selecting partners are concerned. They will come to you if you are really good, else they will shun you even if you follow them 24/7.


Start investing early on. Just google compound interest and you can see that nothing can make up time in compound interest.
Stay away from all kind of loans. DO not take a home loan or even a car loan if they are not helping you in your career or making money for you. A simple calculation can show that SIP of home loan amount beats selling price (asset appreciation) by a factor of 40%!. I have done these calculations in one of my earlier answers (written long back). Nothing beats equity in long run…nothing.

If recession comes, home prices will plunge too!
If recession comes, equity will go down but also the whole economy!
People forget the maintenance cost in home.
A mortgage makes you a slave for your whole life!
Buy land in out skirts, if you really want to invest in real estate.They are cheap and grow at much faster rate than apartments.
Buy only if you can pay 50% down and EMI less than 5 years.


Avoid alcohol as well as smoking. It is just a cheap thrill. We smoke or drink (i.e. we have urge to drink) when our body lacks certain micro-nutrients like sulfur and phosphorous. Ty ginger cookies instead of cigarettes.
Your body is your greatest asset. You live in your body. Physical exercise and proper diet keeps your well being in tact both physically and mentally. Never neglect your body. Almost all depression can be cured by proper diet and exercise plan.
Before falling in love with any one, be sure that your love is not only hormonal. Test your girl or boy friend. You get bored by most sexy diva and best chiseled body in less than two months! Sex is not boring but the flame lasts only with those you really love. Nothing surpasses true love in real pleasure.
Peer pressure in more dangerous than all drugs combined in whole universe.Let them laugh at your frugality, let them laugh at your antisocial ways of not drinking and smoking. Time will tell whose gall bladder are saved and who is paying cancer bills. You only live once. Think long term, always.

What advice/wisdom would you share with someone in their 20s when you are over 40? – Quora

What single change in your daily routine had the biggest impact on your life? – Quora

I gave up junk food,white salt,tea,refined and white sugar.

I was a junkie foodie. Mc D and KFC were my second home. Street vendors selling those delicious junk food knew me by my name!. It was difficult in the beginning with a lot of with drawl symptoms. But in only ten days, my bio chemistry for food changed. I stopped craving. Now I cannot eat oily food. If I eat too much junk at any time, I start to feel like vomiting.Even after looking at those old pals of mine give me upset stomach and disgusting feelings.

My skin quality (blush!) improved.
I have fewer (close to zero) fever,cold and flu.
My energy sky rocketed (I am still very lazy though!).
Sleep quality improved.
Quality of thoughts and clarity of mind increased manifold.
I became less vulnerable to ‘In love with every good girl’ phenomenon!


Leaving other products mentioned and replacing them by honey,black or pink salt, mustard oil (unrefined) etc. my health improved significantly (proof coming). My blood test report is near perfect now.
Right now I am missing my gym due to a mild nerve pull, but exercising at least half an hour a day integrates all those benefits mentioned earlier, 2X better.

For transformation pictures How many of you have achieved something you can call a great physical transformation?

Source: Hemant Pandey’s answer to What single change in your daily routine had the biggest impact on your life? – Quora

What human traits/behavior you dislike the most? – Quora

Girls friendzoning guys for their benefit.
Sexism faced by men.
Using girls for sex (Both paid and out of fake love).
Trying to make Quora another FB.
Preaching A and practicing B.
Fake ‘candle march’ sympathy on social media.
Fake social media activism.
Fake respect/love quotes (for parents) sharing on social media and neglecting same parents back home.
Strategic fake friendships which are facebook on face and linkedin on back.
Dishonesty both financially and in relationship.

Source: Hemant Pandey’s answer to What human traits/behavior you dislike the most? – Quora

Greatest benefit of approaching lot of girls : seduction

Greatest benefit of approaching lot of girls from seduction

 

What is something that is absolutely worth the money? – Quora

Good pair of sturdy shoes.
Nice bed mattress.
Good pen
Kindle e reader
Nice wireless key board
Strong Helmet
Fast Laptop
Good education
Books
Electric shaver
Gym supplements like multivitamins
Good watch
Nice headphones
Vacation at exotic location
Water proof wallet
Gym membership
Good sunglasses
High class travel tickets any where either in train or plane
Tasty meal at a good dhaba
Good fitting branded clothes

Source: Hemant Pandey’s answer to What is something that is absolutely worth the money? – Quora