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September 23, 2017
What’s the most common life lessons that mankind never seems to learn, ever?
In the old age people regret only one thing ‘Not taken risks’.
Only thing which gives real ecstasy is ‘love’. All other things might give you comfort. Every one realizes this, sooner or later.
You only live once. Take your chances. Go, fly,love,kiss,run up the hill. Live life and not pass it in airtight cabins for filling numbers on computer screen.
Traveling is most important luxury in life.
Do not care for society, friends and every other advisor.Le life on your own terms. Even if you lose, you are satisfied that you tried.
We all will die one day. Ask those who are dead today, does any one care for what they did and what they missed.
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Is it possible to meet your soulmate online?
It is quite possible. In fact I would say its easier.
Why ?
To find your soul mate you need to know about core values of any one. To know core values, you must know the person quite well.Online profiles are a great way to know many hidden things in any one’s personality.
You can constantly track some one online and know what they like and what they don’t and plan accordingly. You can connect to them easily.Its less awkward and also less painful!
You can write long messages to them which you can never do while you are offline with them. You can really pour your heart out. You can present your better self to them and quite easily.
Having said all that, I must confess that love can be initiated online but cannot be successfully carried forward. You have to come face to face, may be on call (Ear to ear), or on Skype etc. Text only love is too dry. At least attach pictures to text-only love for love to thrive. I don’t know about girls (As they are more imaginative and emotional), but boys need real voice, real pic and real date!
Out of sight, out of mind.
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What are the things that people will realize after a long time in Jobs and Careers ?
These are gospel truths of career.
Job and career are two different things. You can’t have both.Statistically speaking, companies pay on an average 10% of your output to them.
People never get rich (wealthy) by doing jobs because their ability to think in terms of investment and wealth is marred by myopic vision of corporate life.Investment for an employee is just loans and tax saving. Bigger your salary, bigger your loan!. One house loan over, banks offer you second home!. One car over, get one more.This loan trap never gets over and your future income is already taken by banks.
Real currency is freedom and not numbers in your bank account.
80% of employees who think of quitting and starting a business and fail to do so because of loans and unnecessary liabilities.
Every body has a boss who fucks them equally.
Our society is programmed to work for the rich and make them richer.
This article will change nothing except giving 2 day boost.Real change occur to those who have courage to assess the situation and plan for couple of years to exit this rat race.Remember even if you win a rat race , you are still a rat.
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What is the most pleasurable experience of life?
Alone time with your true love (not # relationship stuff). Love is some meditation in itself.If you are with the person you love (Mutually), your mind should find immense satisfaction,assurance and bliss. In advance stages of love, sight of love can be orgasmic. Love is a spiritual experience. In meditation you become zero i.e. 1= 0.In true love 2 = 1, i.e. two souls combine to become one mind, thought and body. It happens only in advance stages. Spiritual union of two souls is ‘moksha’ (enlightenment) but thorough path of love.
PS : Although I have experienced lot of relationships, this state of love I experienced only twice (i.e with two people only).
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What is the most difficult thing you ever experienced while dating?
My experience with life and love.
The most difficult thing which I ever witnessed was getting at right wavelength and time sync with my lovers.
Some times I was ready and they were not.
At other times they were ready and I was not!.
Let me explain. Suppose I loved some one and was ushering all my love on her with no return or all neglect or all ego play. Eventualy I would stop trying altogether and suddenly their cupid will become over active.This sequence shall follow and in turn a simple relationship shall become “its complicated”.
After initial years of this tantrum based logic less ego play I adopted neutral approach.I accepted that drama is part of love. Then onwards I stopped keeping baggages.The moment you want to return,I am super ready but burden of initiation shall forever rest on you.
Tip : We make those lovely relationships complicated for our falsely hyper inflated imaginary ego.Sometimes a simple ‘hi’ is all that is needed.We can spend 24 hours thinking about them but can’t spare 24 seconds to break the ice.Huh!
Relationships are NOT about compatibility but about complimenting.
Lovers must complement each other.We must make a pair of opposites and not a link of similarity.For an angry partner a complementary partner must be calm , cool and composed. For a sensitive partner we must have a material world know how partner.For an expressive partner, a silent listener is the best bet.
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What is the one thing that I can start doing today that will promise a greater life for me in the future?
If you ask for only one thing, I will vote for physical exercise. Our bodies react slowly to change. When you stop physical workout, you don’t realise the loss.Mind relies on a tool called cognitive delusion (we think we know but we really don’t).
Same occurs with exercise. To avoid hard work your mind keeps assuring you that everything is fine and you are intact.The best approach is to take a test.
If you think you can run a mile in 6 minutes that you used to do a year back, try today and you shall be surprised to find out that you simply can’t!
Strength diminishes slowly and we fail to realise the loss unless we really need it. Physical work out is the best investment out there.
A diseased body with a million bucks in your account is of no use.
If you ask for a second best advice, I will recommend automated saving and investing.Third best (actually same as second best) is to avoid loans of any kind.
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What is the difference between acting smart and having wisdom?
Smartness is exhibited but wisdom is felt.
Smartness wants to shout to every one ‘Look I am here’. Wisdom just don’t have too.
Smartness is like a costly perfume but wisdom is your natural body odour.
Samrtness has to be applied but wisdom is self explanatory.
Smartness is gained, earned but wisdom is sprouted out of your experiences.
Smartness is artificial and wisdom is natural.
Every wise person is smart but not vice versa.
All in all with smart people you feel that they are the best, with wise people you feel that ‘You are the best’.
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What is more important in life than education?
Experience trumps education hands down.
If your education is your experience, then you have best of all worlds.
Education is ‘what’, experience is ‘how’.
In real world we favor ‘verb’ than ‘noun’.
Education is doing what you know. Experience is knowing what is do.
If education is the best experience, then experience is best education.
PS : Again Self learned experience is valued much higher textbook experience. You learn to hunt in a jungle and not in a zoo.
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Can someone become shrewd, cunning, street smart and clever from being slow, naïve, vulnerable and a simpleton?
Yes, absolutely.
But then why people don’t change ?
Few reasons.
Starting issues : Most of us know what to do , how to do, but we never start!.
You never started that morning jog which you planned 18 months back!
The course which you ‘intended to take two summer back is still ‘intended’.
Oh yes you are still waiting to propose to your girl/boy friend (and waiting them to move on to some one else!)
Your SIP is yet to kick start even after two years 37 days to be precise.
Oh just remembered, that self help book you bought last fall is still waiting to be opened from the ‘original’ packing!
Starting any thing requires half the energy to finish the job.Hence it is wisely said, well begun is half done.
2. Expecting fast food results : Yes next point of failing is expecting ‘noodle’ results. It took 22 years to be what you are today, how come in next 22 days you can completely transform ? It takes time to change. People are not ready to accept that.They want quick, really quick results. Change your self in 10 days , loose 10 kg flat etc. Quick rich look alike sc(ams)hemes make you move always.
3. Lack of investment : People don’t invest in process. Don’t take me wrong. Best investment in you life is not investing in terms of money but in terms of time. What do you think that 15 minutes per day of running on that tread mill and playing candy crash for rest of the time in gym will fetch you zero figure!. Sorry to bust your misconception.It will NOT. Efforts needs ‘time’ and NOT money.
You know why break ups hurt so much ?
Not because that you spent couple of thousands bucks on that movie or on that Goa trip, but because you spent countless hours of your time thinking about your loved ones!
Time > Money , any time and every time. When you invest time , you value the progress.
Only Rule You need
Start today, Start now.
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Hemant Pandey’s answer to What are the happiest pictures you have seen? – Quora
The real joy with most beautiful girl in this world…
I have shared this picture of me with my daughter in my other answers also but couldn’t refrain me from doing it again. You decide whether it is the best or not.
Me with my little bundle of joy…My little princess…Anubhuti.
Here is the other answer with same cutie cum sweetie pie…
Why does the father loves his daughter more than his son?
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