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September 26, 2017
Is it so tough to live a happy life?
Drop the ‘Expectation’ from your life and it shall be happy. It’s all in the mind.Happiness is living in present and NOT in past nor future.Root cause of all our sufferings is ‘desire’. Have goals but no attachment or expectations from it.Derive pleasure from the journey. Work really hard, earn money, live a grand life … Continue reading "Is it so tough to live a happy life?"
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How to improve my learning?
I have a much broader perspective of life.I simply don’t measure what I do, how much I do and how often I do. I have certain interests and what I truly care is to learn as much as I can in those ares. I am a perpetual researcher. I skim forums (Reddit) or other wise, … Continue reading "How to improve my learning?"
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How to differentiate between confidence and over confidence?
Self Confidence vs Overconfidence vs Super confidence Confidence : In an interview, panel asked the candidate to define confidence. He answered ‘What is the need to answer, if I am going to get selected!’ That’s confidence. Over confident candidate didn’t appeared for the interview! Confidence is knowing your abilities and putting enough efforts. Over confidence … Continue reading "How to differentiate between confidence and over confidence?"
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September 25, 2017
What are the smartest ways to deny people if they demand the chocolate from your hand?
Tell them ‘You have to earn a bournville !’
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Why is it hard for a pretty and sapiosexual like me to find an intellectual good looking partner for relationship while all they want is to hook up?
Men usually want hook ups if you don’t entangle them in some sort of emotional jargon.
This inbuilt in men via evolutionary mechanism.Men usually like two things in any woman.
Whether she can be a good (read sexy) girl to flaunt to their peers and make them buy burnol.
Whether she can bear very healthy children. We have this evolutionary need to pass on our genes. We are born to breed and not to do sex. Our constant desire roots from our inner desire to breed and pass our genes to healthy females. If a man really loves you (Not just for sexual pleasure), he will surely want to have kids from you. If you tell him in any wrong moment that your are pregnant and if he is elated, then he is your man.
Men look for love, care, compassion and nurturing partners. We are care less by nature and also restless physiologically. If you can be an anchor to them then they are into you. Instead of focusing on your sexy thighs, focus more on making him believe that you care for him. He shall be yours forever. This is the soul reason men love their mothers the most. They give them nurturing and care.
To love a woman give her love, for a man caring is enough.
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September 24, 2017
What should I tell my girlfriend who thinks I am much more physically attractive than her, and she feels complex about this?
Love is between ‘differences’. We have business in similarities.
Attractiveness is a subjective term. I may not find those traits attractive or feel proud off for what others feel so.Going by same analogy, no one has yet able to find exact cause of love. If your love can’t sooth her, how can mere words do the needful?
Multiple studies indicate that people who date for more than 6 months, physical attributes take secondary seats in moving forward to the relationship.
Love blossoms only when you start to look beyond the body.Till that it is just lust disguised as love.
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Is it bad to be a penny pincher?
Yes and No both.
Don’t be penny wise and pound foolish.
Happiness of life lies in real small things. The bank balance of yours may boost your ego but it does nothing to your internal bliss.I can never sacrifice my real happiness for few copper pennies.
You know when we dig old civilizations what we found most. Gold and precious metals hidden in land.Look they stay here forever but your life shall be over some day.My funda in life is ‘ Life must be fun’ and I care for nothing else.No body cares for your happiness. If any one makes me happy, I shall do the same. Happiness is life.
If you are happy being a penny pincher, do it. Don’t care for what others think, say or believe.
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Why do I feel awkward around my boyfriend’s friends?
Dear because you know from inside that they know each and every detail about you inside out!
PS : Yes they know about that secret mole on your back’s bottom.
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What are some common communication problems?
Miscommunication and lack of communication
Where ever we live what ever we do, our life thrives around communication.Life becomes complicated only when we misread the signs and misinterpret the signals.
We are overtly complicated beings.We take cues from body language, tonality of voice,gestures and words.
Cure : Take extra efforts while communicating, little more warmth, a bit more enthusiasm. The extra makes all the difference.
Let me share a secret. We love talking (all of us, no exceptions). We love sharing things, thoughts and ideas. Surprisingly we never want to initiate, take charge and love to sit in our little cocoons of so called life.
Go talk to a stranger. Say hi to an old pal. Give thanks to your driver.I am sure you will start feeling a lot better as time moves on.Afraid of talking to a stranger. Who knows they may also be feeling the same!
Playing mind games makes life complicated.
Being unnatural makes it difficult.
Over thinking and analysis paralysis kills the wonders of life.
Love some one, go and say ‘I love you’ (Off course at right time).
Want to be friend of some one, just say it. (100 % of time , no one says no to your friendship proposals.
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September 23, 2017
What kind of intelligence is best?
There are many types of Intelligence Quotient.
To name a few, Intelligence Quotient, Emotional Quotient,Social Quotient etc. The intelligence which I value the most is Functional Intelligence. You might be very good academically or may have many degrees to boast about, but I am more interested in what you do with those degrees in real life.
Inherent intelligence is like a plastic flower and is of no use in real life until or unless it is used some where.
For example if you learn mathematics for and use the knowledge gained in the real life to solve problems , I value your intelligence. But if your academic knowledge is not transforming into any real life problem solving, your intelligence is null to me.
PS : Mathematics teaches you logic and how to apply your mind. This is universal and not limited to solving equations.
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