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February 15, 2020
Do I Like Him or The Idea of Him? 5 Questions to Ask Yourself
Have you ever asked yourself, ���Why the f**k am I with this man?���
There comes a time in every woman���s life when she must evaluate if the man she is with is the right man for her.
What are the reasons I���m dating him? Does he complete me?
Sometimes we like the idea of being in love over loving the right guy. The thought of children running around on the perfectly manicured lawn with the swing set in the backyard might overtake your choice.
If this is your reality, ask yourself a few questions to gain perspective.
What exactly do I like about him?
If your first thought is ���Wait, do I even like him?��� Houston, we have a problem! You should be able to rattle off a few reasons without much thought. They should be good reasons too. Like ���I love how he makes me feel when we���re together���, or, ���The way he took care of me when I was sick was amazing!���
If you find you���re telling yourself that you���re with him because you don���t want to be single like your best friend, dig a little deeper.
Do I like him for who I think he can become?
This is one of the most common signs that you like the idea of him more than you actually like him! Often a woman will take in a stray kitten of a man, think she can clean up his matted fur, and make him into the man of her dreams.
Instead, she gets a wet kitten who won���t pee in the litter box! Love a man for who he is and not for who you think he will become. Anything else will only lead to disappointment and misery. Too many women have gone down this losing path.
If these questions lead you to thinking about finding a new guy then I have a GREAT offer for you!
Do our core values and goals gel?
You want kids but he thinks he might someday. You save money while he spends like a fool. You feel you are independent, but he is needy.
These things are a big deal and cannot be overlooked. If you do, do so at your own peril. You must get the big things worked out before marriage or you are simply liking the idea of him and not him!
How much do I know about him?
Have you dug into his past or run a criminal check? Do you know what his family and friends think of him? Does he love animals? What���s he passionate about?
If you don���t have these answers, you probably don���t know him well enough to be in love with him. You might just be infatuated with the idea of him. Or maybe you don���t care to know about these things. This too states that you might just like the idea of him and not him.
Am I ready for love?
A woman is ready for love after she is confident in her ability to be one half of a great relationship. This means she���s happy alone without the need of another person in her life. A man simply completes her and adds the ���cherry on top��� to her already complete life.
If she is not ready for love, he will become her only hobby. This will constrict him and potentially ruin the relationship.
Do I Like Him or The Idea of Him?
Ask yourself these five questions as you evaluate what he truly represents to you. If your answers confuse the heck out of you ��� then reevaluate your motives behind dating this particular guy.
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February 7, 2020
How to Apologize to Your Boyfriend
You know I���m not a big fan of apologies unless you purposely ran over your boyfriend���s dog ��� which I know you would never do. ��I prefer acknowledging the mistake, fixing it and moving forward.
But, there are times when you mess up big-time. Maybe you had too much to drink and you flirted with the waiter, or you called out your mother-in-law���s bitchy behavior.
I get it. So what are some tactics to apologize to your boyfriend?
It’s as much about what you��do say as what you��don’t. Check these out.
How can I make it up to you?
Acknowledge that you were wrong and do something good to make your boyfriend happy. Maybe it���s under the sheets, or it could be making his favorite chili.
While executing something nice, make it clear you were wrong, and that it won’t happen again.
Put yourself in his shoes
This can really help. Say, ���If you were flirting with a hot waitress I would have reacted just like you did. I understand and now I see where I was wrong.���
This type of language diffuses the situation quickly.
How to apologize to your boyfriend: Don���t explain away your behavior
This gets dangerous. The very moment you start to justify your actions, you’re preparing to start an even bigger argument.
���Somebody had to tell her that her chili sucks���
���You were flirting with the bartender earlier, remember?���
These will never work. Apologizing to your boyfriend by putting it back on him will backfire. Swallow your pride, own your mistake and move on.
Leave it be
Once you apologize let it go. Do not keep apologizing! This just reminds him of the incident and puts him back into his bad mood towards you. Now, he will get jittery the next time you are out drinking in public.
I see this often ��� a woman will feel so bad that she keeps apologizing over and over. Her apology becomes meaningless, and it’s a signal of low confidence. Show your strength by saying it once and letting it go.
Be your best
Get back to being the woman he loves. Laugh, have fun and do the things he likes to do. Get his mind off his anger. Displacement works very well in these apologetic times!
But, don’t go overboard or be fake about it. Overdoing it won’t help either. It just becomes an empty gesture.
Fix the issue
Many people apologize the right way but do the very same thing again and wonder why the relationship ends abruptly. If you drink again and overtly flirt with another waiter, I’m gone!
Instead, handle the apology and then have a talk with yourself. Do I have a drinking problem? Do I need help? Am I flirting because I am not happy with him? Am I a hot, jealous mess and therefore I feel I need to flirt? Is my confidence in the dumpster?
He doesn���t need to know this part, but you do ��� and you need to fix it before it bites you in the ass again!
How to Apologize to Your Boyfriend Conclusion
These are very simple but powerful tactics! Don���t underestimate the damage you may have caused to the long-term health of your relationship.
Take time to own what happened, put in the energy to fix what might be broken inside and move forward to a healthy, happy relationship.
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January 31, 2020
What Do Guys Really Want for Valentine’s Day
Ah, the stress men face when Valentine’s Day nears. For me, and many men, it’s as tough or tougher than Christmas because it needs to be romantic. It needs to be right or we are screwed!
But what about men? What do we want? I mean it’s our day too right?
Well, I got on it and I surveyed my vast network of guys and here are the surprising results.
Make it about us too
Surprised? I wasn’t. Getting some nice cologne is okay, but if I must then shower you with gifts the rest of the night, well that doesn’t seem fair. We want it to be our day too. Somewhere along the way, Valentine’s Day became more about women than men. At least that’s how my guys felt. Don’t shoot the messenger!
Okay, okay. How about 75% you and 25% us? That will work.
Spend quality time
Yep, we want to be together alone too. You and me against the world! A cool restaurant maybe, with white linens and candles glowing. The real ones, not those fake plastic flickering things. It’s fun to look around at other couples enjoying themselves and think just how lucky we are today.
Many guys I talked to live in cold climates and they loved the idea of cooking at home together and snuggling up around the fireplace.
Others were fine doing whatever their significant others wanted to do as long as it was quiet and intimate. Yes, I’m talking about men!
What Do Guys Really Want for Valentine’s Day | Recognition for their effort
This may sound odd, but the guys told me that they get worried about not spending enough or doing something that every other guy does like getting flowers or chocolates.
Gary said, “I worry about Beth looking disappointed at me because I didn’t make it special enough.”
It’s important for women to realize that most of us are not good at this romantic stuff. We try, but we still need your help to make us better. Tell us that we made you happy and recognize the effort. If you do, you’ll find that we can and will get better.
Go for it in the bedroom
Let’s face it, sex can get a bit boring after years together and three kids running around. Make tonight special for both of you and mix it up this year! Spend some extra time doing some fun stuff with your hands and your tongue. Set a new precedent in the bedroom by teasing him.
He should be in as a romantic state as he ever will be on this day so go for it!
Massage!
This is my favorite. I’ll take a massage without having to reciprocate (I know, selfish) over a gift any day. And most men agreed with me. Follow up with a some oral givings and we will be in heaven!
What Do Guys Really Want for Valentine’s Day
My big takeaway is this: Valentine’s Day should be fun for both of you, but through the years, it has become a chore for men. Yes, that is our fault but help us be better won’t you?
And on behalf of all the men that screw up on Valentine’s Day, let me say, “There is always next year to get it right!”
Check out my great infographic and get some ideas churning for the big day!
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What Do Guys Really Want for Valentine���s Day
Ah, the stress men face when Valentine’s Day nears. For me, and many men, it���s as tough or tougher than Christmas because it needs to be romantic. It needs to be right or we are screwed!
But what about men? What do we want? I mean it���s our day too right?
Well, I got on it and I surveyed my vast network of guys and here are the surprising results.
Make it about us too
Surprised? I wasn���t. Getting some nice cologne is okay, but if I must then shower you with gifts the rest of the night, well that doesn���t seem fair. We want it to be our day too. Somewhere along the way, Valentine’s Day became more about women than men. At least that’s how my guys felt.��Don’t shoot the messenger!
Okay, okay. How about 75% you and 25% us? That will work.
Spend quality time
Yep, we want to be together alone too. You and me against the world! A cool restaurant maybe, with white linens and candles glowing. The real ones, not those fake plastic flickering things. It���s fun to look around at other couples enjoying themselves and think just how lucky we are today.
Many guys I talked to live in cold climates and they loved the idea of cooking at home together and snuggling up around the fireplace.
Others were fine doing whatever their significant others wanted to do as long as it was quiet and intimate. Yes, I���m talking about men!
What Do Guys Really Want for Valentine���s Day | Recognition for their effort
This may sound odd, but the guys told me that they get worried about not spending enough or doing something that every other guy does like getting flowers or chocolates.
Gary said, ���I worry about Beth looking disappointed at me because I didn���t make it special enough.���
It���s important for women to realize that most of us are not good at this romantic stuff. We try, but we still need your help to make us better. Tell us that we made you happy and recognize the effort. If you do, you���ll find that we can and will get better.
Go for it in the bedroom
Let’s face it, sex can get a bit boring after years together and three kids running around. Make tonight special for both of you and mix it up this year! Spend some extra time doing some fun stuff with your hands and your tongue. Set a new precedent in the bedroom by teasing him.
He should be in as a romantic state as he ever will be on this day so go for it!
Massage!
This is my favorite. I���ll take a massage without having to reciprocate (I know, selfish) over a gift any day. And most men agreed with me. Follow up with a some oral givings and we will be in heaven!
What Do Guys Really Want for Valentine���s Day
My big takeaway is this: Valentine’s Day should be fun for both of you, but through the years, it has become a chore for men. Yes, that is our fault but help us be better won’t you?
And on behalf of all the men that screw up on Valentine’s Day, let me say, ���There is always next year to get it right!���
Check out my great infographic and get some ideas churning for the big day!
GET YOUR INFOGRAPHIC
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January 26, 2020
Why You Should Never Stop Dating Your Husband
When you first meet a new guy, you���re excited for every date. Each time you get together, it���s special for both of you. For you, you���re taking the temperature of the relationship. For him, he���s enjoying the mystery he considers to be you.
However, after you���ve settled in, maybe even moved in together or gotten married, you stop dating each other.
This is a mistake.
Falling into a routine where you exist among one another without really spending quality time together becomes detrimental to your long-term relationship success. Instead, settle into a routine of a weekly date night!
Why is date night so important?
It Helps You stay out of a Rut
It���s so easy to fall into a rut. You put your lives on autopilot and just go. You wake up every morning, get ready for and go to work, come home, fix dinner, watch some television ��� maybe even together, and go to bed.
This is boring – Spice it up!
Men don���t survive well in boredom, and many women don���t either for that matter.
As humans, we crave excitement and adventure, and yet this can feel risky and frightening. It���s when you push past the fear and experience that excitement and adventure that you begin to feel alive!
When you do this together, it���s such a bonus for your relationship! You get away from the daily distractions of work, kids and other responsibilities and spend a couple of hours focused on one another and your relationship.
Dating Your Husband Again Helps Build Intimacy Between You
Intimacy isn���t something you build between the sheets. It���s built-in the special moments you share together. It���s in that excitement and adventure you share together.
Early on, romantic moments and opportunities to build intimacy come frequently, but somewhere along the way, you begin to try less. It���s not intentional. Other aspects of life just creep in and take over.
When you go on dates, you take the time to remember what it is you love about one another, what drew you to each other. This helps keep that flame burning.
You Build a Stronger Foundation
Connecting on a weekly basis helps you build your relationship. Not every date night will happen during the best moments of your relationship, but if you have a regularly scheduled date night and you stick with it, no matter what, you have the opportunity to sit down in a quiet space and work it through.
Date nights shouldn���t be about arguing or disagreeing with one another. They should be about working through solutions without the distractions that often get in the way.
Working through your problems in a calm, patient way helps you improve your communication skills. This builds a strong foundation to fall back on when things get tough.
If you take the time to work through the small things as they come up, to communicate with one another in a healthy way, more difficult challenges will be easier to overcome.
Dating Your Husband | You Experience Fun and Playful Moments Together
A great way to interject good moments into your relationship is to have fun together. Go putt putt golfing or zip-lining. Go hang out at a comedy club with some friends or just get silly together. Make a game of grocery shopping or bake together and make a competition out of it.
This type of investment in your relationship is HUGE and definitely makes a positive impact on your long-term relationship success!
While the correlation between fun and relationship success is big, it���s an even bigger deal for men, according to studies conducted over time.
Overcoming Date Night Hurdles and Excuses
There are many excuses couples use for not practicing a regular date night routine. Most of these are just excuses, and using them is like laying down the bricks to divorce court. IF you want your relationship to be successful, take my advice and overcome these hurdles!
Excuse #1: It���s too expensive to go on a date night every week
Date night does not mean going to a five-star restaurant. It might be something as easy as taking a walk around the neighborhood together or heading over to the beach if you have one close by.
Date night can also be staying home and watching Netflix or something on a DVD or your cable DVR. You can stay home and do something you both enjoy together like cooking or even entertaining friends.
You can have a game night or find a book to read together in whatever genre you both enjoy.
Excuse #2: We���re both just too tired to go out on a date
In this instance, choose something low-key. Light a fire, snuggle up on the couch together and talk. Set the cell phones aside, turn off the television and give one another your undivided attention.
This is another instance where reading a book together can be great. Take turns reading aloud to one another.
Think of date night as a form of self-care. It���s a great way to experience some much-needed downtime while also making time to connect with one another.
Even though you���re both tired, a workout can be a great way to recharge. It releases endorphins and makes you feel energized again.
Excuse #3: I always have to plan everything and I���m sick of it
Yes, this can always land on one person, but then I suggest that you make a game out of it. Challenge him to come up with a better date night plan. You plan one and then challenge him to do better.
Men love a challenge! Of course, it���s up to you to participate in whatever he plans. Even if it scares the heck out of you. You���ve issued the challenge so it���s up to you to play.
If you make a game out of planning date nights, he���ll be more likely to participate. He might not want to participate because you haven���t found something that piques his interest yet.
Sit down together and come up with some ideas together. He���ll be more likely to participate in the planning if he gets energized and excited about the process.
Excuse #4: He never wants to do anything
Chances are, that���s half of the sentence. He might not want to do anything you���ve suggested so far. Again, plan a date night you think he will enjoy, even if you won���t, and then challenge him to come up with something more fun.
Another thing you can do to keep dating your husband is involve his friends. Plan a couple���s date night with one or more other couples. This might be a great way to get him involved in the beginning, and then when he discovers that he enjoys spending this time, you can transition into some date nights for just the two of you.
���Rules��� of Date Night
When you and your guy are having a date night, it���s important to try your best to follow a few simple ���rules���:
Turn off cell phones, or if that is impossible due to being on-call or having children, at least keep the use to those situations
Practice good listening skills
Try to avoid arguing with one another ��� work on more positive problem-solving skills
Plan the next date night while you���re together
Dating Your Husband Wrap Up
Falling into a routine where you exist among one another without spending quality time together becomes detrimental to your long-term relationship success. Stop the downward slide and start making you and your spouse the most important part of your world again. Settle into a routine of a weekly date night!
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January 20, 2020
How to Stop Liking Someone | 5 Simple Tactics
Have you ever jumped into a hot tub only to have the water spill over the edge? This is called displacement. That water spilling over the edge will never make it back into the hot tub���or it shouldn���t unless you allow it to return.
We���ve all been there. Crushing on some guy or gal that we shouldn���t be. He is married, a player or simply a lousy fit. He only calls you when he wants to get laid or he borrows money from you all the time but never pays you back.
Heck, I���ve gotten questions from women with all the above issues and it was long distance to boot!
Stop the madness. Learn the ways to stop liking someone that has no place taking up space in your life and brain.
Displacement
Take the time that you are spending with him or thinking about him and fill it up with something you like a lot. Notice, I said a lot. If you fill it by jogging four miles and you hate jogging, you will simply cry about him while jogging.
But if you love horse back riding and you are on the back of an appaloosa ��� then BAM���displacement!
The more time and the activities you can attend, the better you will feel as time works its magic.
Reasons I hate your Ass
You���ll enjoy this one.
Make two columns. On the top left write in bold letters: ���Reasons I hate your ass.���
On the top right, write: ���More reasons I hate his ass.��� I like having two columns the same ����
OK, hate may too strong so go with ���why he���s not a good fit��� if you like.
Start writing. Really think about the hurt you will feel if you continue down this road that your gut, family and friends are warning you about. Look over your list whenever you start thinking about him or he texts you (late night) to join him.
How to stop liking someone – Don���t sit idle
This is when it hits. You���re staying home on a Saturday night when all your friends are out and you start thinking about him again.
Get back out there! Meet new people. Have fun with your friends and go easy on the alcohol. Flirt with new men you meet even if you have little interest. The confidence boost will feel great.
Block him
If you are allowing him to see you on social media, you aren���t letting go. Block him. Make it clear to your friends that you need to let go so they stop talking about him, even if they have nothing good to say about him.
What happens is that just when you begin to heal, he will contact you to say hi and the feelings start to flow again. Take this option away.
And finally ��� Break your routine
Rearranging your day is exciting! It makes you think more. Routines are programmed so you don���t think. Exploring a new Mexican restaurant instead of your usual dig will have you more engaged in the moment.
To stop liking someone means making a conscious plan. It���s like taking Theraflu right when you feel your first symptoms ��� you���ll heal faster!!
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December 8, 2019
Are You Selling Yourself Short in Your Dating Life?
Have you ever had a friend tell you that you are selling yourself short when it comes to men and dating?
I have and it���s pissed off a lot of women!
It���s no wonder relationships fail at the high rate they do ��� people sell themselves short.
Why?
It���s all about self-worth. If you don���t think highly of yourself there is a greater chance that you will pick a mate that doesn���t have much self-worth either. The negative mind reminds a woman of how average she looks, how incapable she is in life and how awful her attitude is.
Is this the right way to go into a relationship?
No. Friggin. Way.
Build Yourself and He Will Come.
I beat this to death in my books and teachings. The man is not the answer. A positive you is! What your mind tells you all day is not reality, it���s the false reality created by a hurtful past.
It���s not your fault. There was no class called ���Life Coaching 101��� in high school or college. So no wonder women choose the stiffs who use them and move on. They expect to get dumped.
It really is pathetic and sad but it so not your fault.
What to do if you are selling yourself short?
Be aware of all the words your inner self is telling you during the day. Be especially aware around the mirror at home. Lose ���I can���t, I won���t, I look like crap, why did I��� type of negativity and replace it with the opposite.
I look great today
I am deserving of love!
Let���s work out
What a beautiful day
I am thankful today for���
Hey, I don���t even care if you don���t believe what you are saying! Just start replacing the ugly with the positive and soon the magic will happen ��� you will believe what you say to be true!
Hocus pocus? I���m afraid not my friend. You see, your mind can be trained. Feed it positive input and out pours confidence. Feed it shit and out pours depression, stress, lack of confidence and yes ��� shitty relationships.
So today is the day to stop selling yourself short! If this is you and would like to delve deeper into how to change this and live a happier life please checkout these two freebies below and my best selling confidence course called ���Comfortable in Your own Shoes.��� ��
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November 20, 2019
Why Online Dating Sucks and Sends Women Running for Cover!
Online dating sucks for a variety of reasons. Fake pics, embellished profiles and guys living in the basement smoking pot with no career hopes are a few reasons.
Then, you get him out only to find out he is a total dirt bag. He’s actually ‘separated’ which means he is in an argument with his wife about his porn addiction and anger issues. Of course, you don’t find this part out until much later.
Basically, men lie because they can get away with it! That means you end up wasting your time with some loser which gets you friggin’ frustrated as hell and you give up. Then, coaches like me get yelled at.
I get it.
Why Online Dating Sucks
But online dating does work for the few women that know how to game the system! The facts don’t lie. Many folks meet and find love online. So how do turn the cards in your favor? You put a plan in place long before you join Match.com or whatever dating site you choose.
I’m the dating coach who games the system for you! And a quarter million books sold says I ain’t jokin’
Your plan arrives on Dec. 6th and is called:
What To Do When Online Dating Sends You Running For Cover
EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO SUCCEED IN ONLINE DATING AND FIND THE MAN OF YOUR DREAMS
If you’re like most of the women who email me, you’re tired of swapping emails with men, only to be ghosted or to meet guys who turn out to be real jerks in person, even though online they seemed really sweet.
I get it and hearing about your painful experiences makes me so annoyed with men!
The issue isn’t with online dating, it’s with not knowing exactly what type of man you’re looking for and then being able to articulate that in a way that weeds out the players.
I want you to have the relationship of your dreams. I want you to meet the guy who will be your dream guy online and in person. I want to help you overcome the frustrations of online dating and meet the great man you deserve!
That’s why I wrote What to Do When Online Dating Sends You Running for Cover!
Inside this book, you learn the skills you need to succeed at online dating, including:
Taking a deep dive into who you are and what you want out of your life
Higher confidence so you can attract that great man who’s just right for you
A deep dive into the male mind to help you understand why men behave the way they do
The best primer ever on building an irresistible online dating profile
Tools to weed out the players and losers
Sure-fire methods to get him offline and on a real date
Now longer will you utter the words, “This is why online dating sucks!”
Look for it Dec. 6th!
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November 19, 2019
Why Is He Texting Me If He’s Not Interested and What to Do
Doesn’t this aggravate the crap out of you? You meet a guy. You like him and you think he might be worth a shot and he likes you too, right?
Well, maybe not.
You don’t know because he blows hot and cold. He keeps you hanging but doesn’t pull the trigger. He keeps texting you but doesn’t ask you out.
Why does he keep contacting me?
You’re on deck
Of course, right? You are his #2. His girlfriend, or wife for all you know at this stage, has been boring him lately, and he’s thinking he might need a break from her. He figures if he can keep you hanging long enough, he can keep his options open.
He’s clueless
I was that guy. I thought I wanted a girlfriend, and I did around the holidays and when I lost my cat Tucker, but then summer came along and my friends wanted to party in Boston.
YEE-HAAA! Relationship Gregg was gone and I was single. Then, I got lonely again. I texted whoever I was ‘sort of’ dating at the time…yep, I was clueless.
Ego
Guys and their egos. Many sense a woman might like them so they keep them around through text even though they are not serious. It keeps what little confidence they have in check.
Why Is He Texting Me If He’s Not Interested and What to Do
So how do you handle his ass?
Confront him
Get in his face! Text him. Call him on the phone and be crystal clear about where you stand. Do it in a way that fits your style, but do it!
Tell him to stop texting you unless he is serious. Then, tell him that his window of opportunity is quickly closing. Smile if you want as the words roll off your tongue but tell him!
You are a high-value woman and a high-value woman waits for no man who can’t make up his mind about what he wants within a reasonable time frame.
Forget the “Oh he will come around” or, “Maybe I need to change a few things to draw him in” crap.
Screw him! Time is too precious and there are too many great men out there to be bothered by some guy you hardly know that keeps texting you when he’s not interested.
I am amazed at how much time wonderful women waste on guys who aren’t even in their league.
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Why Is He Texting Me If He���s Not Interested and What to Do
Doesn���t this aggravate the crap out of you? You meet a guy. You like him and you think he might be worth a shot and he likes you too, right?
Well, maybe not.
You don���t know because he blows hot and cold. He keeps you hanging but doesn���t pull the trigger. He keeps texting you but doesn���t ask you out.
Why does he keep contacting me?
You���re on deck
Of course, right? You are his #2. His girlfriend, or wife for all you know at this stage, has been boring him lately, and he���s thinking he might need a break from her. He figures if he can keep you hanging long enough, he can keep his options open.
He���s clueless
I was that guy. I thought I wanted a girlfriend, and I did around the holidays and when I lost my cat Tucker, but then summer came along and my friends wanted to party in Boston.
YEE-HAAA! Relationship Gregg was gone and I was single. Then, I got lonely again. I texted whoever I was ���sort of��� dating at the time���yep, I was clueless.
Ego
Guys and their egos. Many sense a woman might like them so they keep them around through text even though they are not serious. It keeps what little confidence they have in check.
Why Is He Texting Me If He���s Not Interested and What to Do
So how do you handle his ass?
Confront him
Get in his face! Text him. Call him on the phone and be crystal clear about where you stand. Do it in a way that fits your style, but do it!
Tell him to stop texting you unless he is serious. Then, tell him that his window of opportunity is quickly closing. Smile if you want as the words roll off your tongue but tell him!
You are a high-value woman and a high-value woman waits for no man who can���t make up his mind about what he wants within a reasonable time frame.
Forget the ���Oh he will come around��� or, ���Maybe I need to change a few things to draw him in��� crap.
Screw him! Time is too precious and there are too many great men out there to be bothered by some guy you hardly know that keeps texting you when he���s not interested.
I am amazed at how much time wonderful women waste on guys who aren’t even in their league.
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