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May 27, 2017
These 6 Things are Killing Your Chances of Meeting a Man!
Meting a man takes work but can be fun! One needs to commit and not just hope someone pops into their life. These six things are ruining your chances:
You compartmentalize your social life.
I see this all the time and I did it once too. Women tend to dedicate one or two nights to meeting a man. She might work all week and then head out on her weekends to rendezvous with her friends. This allows a whopping total of 8 hours to meet a guy. Of this time, she is catching up with the latest news from her friends, further lowering her odds. There are 112 non-sleeping hours in the week to meet men…use them!
Every day, all day, is an opportunity. Meet men getting coffee, grocery shopping, riding in elevators, and at lunch. Yes, it takes a bit of confidence and that’s why I teach it! The more social you become during the day, the easier it becomes to strike up a conversation with a guy. I call this desensitization and it works.
All the wrong places.
I consider most bars the worst place to meet men. Sure, go to bars to have fun but if you want to meet quality men I prefer you patronize wine tastings or charity events. Supporting a great cause gives you something in common and most players are too into themselves to bother giving their time or money to a charity so you are safe.
I’ve said it a thousand times and I will say it again, sign up tonight for a hobby you have always wanted to learn about and go. This kills two birds – you will learn something new which will grow your confidence and you will meet some great people. With any luck, a cool guy will be there too.
Your body language is poor.
Every Saturday night I go out and purposely engage a group of women. They will ask me why are they single and what are they doing wrong. I tell them to spread out and get into groups of twos or, even better, go it alone for few minutes and regroup later. Guys don’t want to approach a bunch of women huddled together like kittens, they need to see an opportunity to approach – give them this opportunity by spreading out and squaring your shoulders towards the room and not towards each other.
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Also, smile at people and laugh together. People are attracted to laughter and positive vibes so throw a few out there.
All talk but little action.
Coaching women brings a few with excuses: “I don’t have the time”, “No one likes me”, or “Gregg, I attract all the losers.” Yes, that’s what happens when you put 10% effort into anything. Don’t say you want a great guy, instead go out and take the necessary steps, time, and strategies to increase your odds. I like to set goals around meeting the guy of your dreams. Why wouldn’t you? Isn’t it one of the most important things in life?
Your screening sucks.
You wouldn’t bring a bad pair of shoes home from the mall would you? No, you would try them on, look at them from every angle and even interrogate your friends about how they look on you. So why do you continue dating any guy that’s cute and breathing? You shouldn’t until he passes all your tests. Until then, date multiple guys until one makes the cut. Some women can’t do this because they have morals. I get that, but you are not sleeping with these men – you are screening potential suitors by dating them once or twice, and having fun. No big deal.
Dating is a chore.
If your attitude stinks then men will pass on you. Embrace the single life! You grow and learn about yourself when you are single. You could be spending the rest of your life with a guy, so why would not enjoy a single stretch? Guys are more sensitive than you think. If they feel your bitterness towards dating, then you will not be showcasing yourself in the best light. Find a wing-woman and have some fun!
If you get these 6 things under control then your outcome will be a forgone conclusion! Fall into one of these six traps and you might remain single, or worse, you could start dating the wrong guy.
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Helping you find a man,
Gregg
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May 17, 2017
Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 8: Men Love Challenge
Men and women in relationships are easy to figure out when you have an ace in the hole. Hello, I am Gregg, a #1 multiple best-selling author and a dating and life coach. I am your ace!
I have been answering your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding men” from a man’s perspective has become very popular. Let’s get to it!
On February 24th I blogged about the 12 ingredients that go into men. Can you name all 12? You need to. Please read that blog now
May 9, 2017
Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 7: The Importance of Status in Our Lives!
Happy Monday and thank you!!
Why am I thanking you? Because you sent my latest book, The 10 Secrets You Need to Know About Men to the moon! In fact, it is sitting at #1 right now in all of the dating books on Amazon! You wrote this book, you told me through our private emails what you needed the most and I responded – I am just your messenger for understanding men. This is your book!
So I’ve kept it at 99 cents for you until Friday May 12th.
For you first timers, I am Gregg, a #1 multiple best-selling author and a dating/life coach.
I have been answering your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding men” from a man’s perspective has become a very popular subject, so let’s continue!
On February 24th I blogged about the 12 ingredients that go into men. Do you know them? You need to. Please read that blog now
April 29, 2017
Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 6: Money and Its Importance to Men
Happy Saturday!
Today it’s 80 degrees in Boston and I am a very happy camper to be able to blog to you gals from my deck!
For those of you who are new, I am Gregg, a #1 multiple best-selling author and a dating/life coach.
I have been answering your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding men” from a man’s perspective has become a very popular subject, so let’s continue!
On February 24th I blogged about the 12 ingredients that go into men. Do you remember them? Please read that blog now
April 22, 2017
Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 5: Why Men Hide Their Feelings
Happy Saturday!
I’m Gregg, #1 best-selling author and a dating and life coach for women.
I have been answering all your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding men” from a man’s point of view seems to be what resonates the most.
On February 24th I blogged about the 12 ingredients that go into men. Do you remember them? Please read that blog now
April 14, 2017
Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 4: Rejection!
Hi Ladies!
I’m Gregg, #1 best-selling author and a dating and life coach for women.
I have been answering all your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding men” from a man’s point of view seems to be what resonates the most. Even my podcasts with pros like Lorna Poole, Suzanne Oshima and, coming in May, Dr. Allen Darbonne, are about my strategies to understand and get what a woman desires from men.
Everyone, even the pros, want to hear more about my game changing strategies!
On February 24th I blogged about the 12 ingredients that go into men. Do you remember them? Please read that blog now
April 8, 2017
Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 3: Competition!
Hi Ladies!
I’m Gregg, #1 best-selling author and a dating and life coach for women.
I have been answering all your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding men” from a man’s point of view seems to be what resonates the most. Even my podcasts with pros like Lorna Poole, Suzanne Oshima and, coming in May, Dr. Allen Darbonne, are about my strategies to understand and get what a woman desires from men.
Everyone, even the pros, want to hear more about my game changing strategies!
On February 24th I blogged about the 12 ingredients that go into men. Do you remember them? Please read that blog now
March 31, 2017
Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 2: Winning!
Hello readers!
Gregg here again trying to be a good blogger.
I have been answering all your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding men” from a man’s point of view seems to be what resonates the most. Even my podcasts and video summits that I have been asked to do with Lorna Poole, Suzanne Oshima and, coming in May, Dr. Allen Darbonne are about my strategies to understand and get what a woman desires from men.
Everyone is amazed who hears about these strategies!
On February 24th I blogged about the 12 DNA ingredients that go into men. Do you remember them? Please read that blog now
March 20, 2017
A Closer Look At Long Distance Relationships
The phrase “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” is used by many to console those who may have their doubts about committing to a long distance relationship. However, there are many factors that go into making one work, and each case will no doubt have its own unique qualities that need addressing. In this infographic, we take a look at long distance relationships on a wider scale and provide some interesting statistics to put a little data behind the distant dating game. Read on to find out just how many people are loving from afar, why that may be the case, and what you can do to help ensure your long distance relationship stands the test of time and space.
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March 18, 2017
Young Women and Their Dating Choices
I’m down in Delray Beach Florida for 2 weeks and I am meeting up with a lot of spring breakers and women in their mid-twenties. I wanted to learn more about young women and their dating choices. I am hearing a constant theme as they discuss their dating issues.
Young men have very little motivation for anything!
Of course they must be generalizing or I hope they are. As they brought me along through the night, “Uncle Gregg”, I started to believe them more and more. Guys were being rude, they showed little respect and they just wanted to hookup and would lie about almost anything to do it. Now I know this is spring break to some but many women were mid-twenty year olds out of college and pursuing their careers and facing the same problem. The few men who were respectful and “datable” were quite a bit older, in their late twenties and early thirties.
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I was aware of this decline. I believe it has a lot to do with technology and the ease of GPS to spot a woman with a nice ass 1 mile away – it’s crazy!
I asked over and over, to the women who really wanted a real man in their life, where they were meeting them. They said “at bars”, where else?”
I then went into my rant about trying to find a man who wants a relationship at a bar is akin to lying in the Florida sun all day without lotion – you’re gonna get burned!!
Young Women and Their Dating Choices
My 2 step plan is better!
1) Start early and develop your story in life.
What’s it going to be? How will you be defined? What will you be exceptional at? Create your vision by brainstorming 50-100 pursuits that you always wanted to do – a bucket list in your twenties. Then, pick 5 and do them! If you are thirty or forty do the same thing! Heck, if you are fifty or sixty, start now!
Here is where you will meet that guy of dreams or at least have a much better chance of doing it. The wonderful bonus is that you might find your future career choice! At the very least you will have fun and meet some new friends.
2) Date a few years older.
I found if women meet and date guys a few years older, say 5 years, they will find a better pool of datable men. Guys seem to hang on to their college years much longer than women. But to do this women must hang out at places that older men hang out at, which brings me back to my point above.
Almost every woman that I said this to, agreed, but out of about thirty, only two were actually meeting men outside of bars and being more constructive in their lives.
Now I realize 21 year olds are just having fun – I get that. Heck, I love bars too. But next year (or this year for many) they will graduate and I wonder how many will heed my advice and slow down the partying and set a more positive and fulfilling course in life.
Regardless, I’m headed back out on “The Ave”, as they call it in Delray Beach Florida, to see if I this old man can change some young lives for the better – wish me luck!!
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