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How to Text a Guy You Like

The “Screw with Him” Text!

In chapter One of Power Texting Men you learned how to build tension and attraction with your texts. Here, I want to give you another method to hit him hard early in your relationship. This works best with an alpha male who you think might be a bit harder to coral.

This texting method is sneaky but fun!!

Guys love a challenge and your texting is critical to keep him salivating until your next date. “Catch me if you can” is your motto, remember? How do you do it? You show him, through text, that you are potentially dating other guys.

Here is your example:

You: “Gonna be late, be there at 10ish! If I see you in that silly shirt don’t look for me:)”

You: “Whoops, sorry Jeff, wrong Jeff!”

You can adjust your text to fit what you are most comfortable with, but the concept is the same. You are purposely sending the guy you’re trying to woo a text meant to go to another guy. In my example, even your text screams that you are a catch and that you have options. The text also shows that you are not afraid to screw with what your date might wear!

You accomplish multiple goals:

He now knows that you have other guy options
He sees that you can stand up to men and tease them – this shows confidence
Your text is short and laser focused – just like his best guy friend would text him so he relates
His challenge and mystery DNA chemicals run through his veins!

Yes I doubled text like I say never do but this is your powerful exception. You just told the guy you like that he had better try harder because you, my friend, have options. If he runs – who cares! This means he can’t compete and he was never interested or he is a jealous man… all of which makes him undateable.

Sneaky? Yes. Are you screwing with him? Yes. Will he think that this is a hoax? No way.

Why does this work? Because how many times have you done this? Tons right? I still text the wrong person on occasion because I have so many people I text during the day. I get lazy and send the text to last person (the wrong person) I just texted.

So let’s take advantage of this fact and create tension and attraction with your texts!

Remember, you can be the best texter in the world but you still need to screen men and make sure they are even worth dating! Get my best seller Weed Out the Users today

Texting up a storm over here

Gregg

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6 Conversation Ideas for Your First Date

Hey it’s Gregg and I’m so excited to bring you a guest blog post from a friend of mine, Pauline Plott. Pauline is a London-based blogger on DatingSpot. You can read her bio at the end of this post! Enjoy!

There you are, sitting down for dinner with a person you hardly know. You exchange pleasantries, talk about the pasta, and then it hits you…

SILENCE.

You’re thinking, “This is not good.” 

Suddenly you’re so tongue tied that you have nothing to do but look down at your food. “Make it end!”, you beg internally.

We’ve all experienced it before, but part of being prepared for a date is coming with a list of conversation ideas that ensures you’re never caught bereft of speech.

Now, let’s explore some of my favorite conversation ideas for a first date. They are guaranteed to inspire, compel, and even build rapport. But first, let’s go over some discussion basics…

Listen More Than You Speak

The point of a first date is to get to know the person you’re with. It’s pretty hard to do that if you don’t give them the opportunity to do so. Listening more than you speak is a good rule to abide by in general, but is especially important on a first date.

If both you and your new friend follow this rule, there will be a fairly even exchange. A good indicator of a relationship “clicking” is the ability to volley a conversation back and forth. Kind of like a ping pong match.

Be Genuinely Interested

No matter how your first date is going, it’s important to give it your all. Part of this can be achieved by showing genuine interest. Even if your date is not the most interesting person in the world, you should still take advantage of this unique opportunity to learn about this person’s unique perspective.

You may find that your concerted effort to act interested actually makes you interested.

Avoid Taboo Subjects

There are certain topics you should always avoid on a first date. One would think that many of these are obvious, but I have been on innumerable dates where these topics have come up. More often than not, when these issues are brought up it was ‘one and done’ for me.

Past Relationships
Money and How You Spend It
Intimate or Sexual Details
Marriage Plans
Politics

First dates are meant to be lighthearted and fun. Mixing in this kind of discussion makes it… Not that. Of course, that leaves plenty of topics that you CAN broach.

Here are just a few…

Conversation Ideas for Your First Date

Now that I’ve discussed the basics, we can talk about some great conversation ideas! Feel free to expand on these and even come up with some that relate to things you discussed during the online dating process.

1. Who has been the biggest influence on your life?

This question is pretty typical and seemingly innocuous, but really says a lot about who a person is and what they want to be in life. If your date talks about a family member, it means they probably come from a healthy and loving home. If they choose to talk about a famous figure, it means that they have a passion for things outside of their own world.

2. Where is your favorite location on earth?

This is a good question for learning about where someone has been and can lead to a much further and deeper discussion about travel. You can also use this response for the planning on dates later on. For example, if your date says their favorite location is Niagara Falls, you can take them on a picnic to a local waterfall.

3. What is your favorite movie ever?

Asking about movies and pop culture in general is a great way to connect with someone. That’s because it is so pervasive that everyone has something to say about movies, TV shows, and celebrities. Once again, the answer to this question can lead you down a conversational path that is rich, interesting, and capable of creating some nice side discussions.

4. What is your biggest goal?

Similar to question one, the answer to this question can tell you a lot about a person. Goals are an indication of drive and people who can immediately identify their biggest goals are often those who don’t need to go on dates to begin considering the matter.

Keep in mind that all of these questions will be volleyed back to you, so make sure you have an answer yourself!

5. What do you hate most about dating?

Nothing brings people together better than a mutual dislike of something. Dating isn’t always fun and everyone has something to say about the matter. Talking about your frustrations together is a surprisingly good icebreaker.

6. What should I know about you that I wouldn’t think of asking?

This final question is my favorite. The things that someone chooses to voluntarily reveal about themselves that may be quirky can say a lot about them. Like all of the other questions on this list, it can also lead to even more interesting and unexpected questions that result, ideally, in both you and your date having an amazing night.

As you may have noticed, one commonality these all share is that they are not ‘yes or no’ questions and require a little bit of thought. Each one can tell you a lot about a person, their expectations, and their dreams.

You may find that you really connect with many of the answers and, perhaps, that you do not.

I always recommend a second date if you think that it’s worth continuing to suss things out.

About the Author

Pauline Plott is a London-based blogger who became a dating guru after learning the psychology behind modern romance and signing up for every dating website in pursuit of relationship bliss. She shares her reviews and opinions on DatingSpot.co.uk.

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Date With Your Head And Not Your Heart!

Date With Your Head And Not Your Heart!

Meet Megan and Jennifer. Megan dates with her head and Jennifer dates with her heart. Watch how each fares in meeting men.

Jennifer’s story never got developed. Her parents divorced early in her life and it negatively affected how she views men. She saw her Mom fall apart after the divorce so she decided she would find a good man who would make her happy, unlike how her dad made her mom feel. This was her goal. She didn’t have boundaries. She didn’t have a great story. She set herself up to be dependent on a man to determine whether or not she was happy, much like her mom.

Unfortunately, this thought process leads to failed relationships. When you aren’t looking within yourself for your happiness, you are missing the mark. Looking within for happiness means you pursue things you’re passionate about. You educate yourself, both for a career and in terms of the world around you. It means you find yourself some hobbies and you surround yourself with a group of girlfriends who are also single and looking – I like to call these your wing-women.

Men want to date interesting women who intrigue them. They want to date women who have a great story. Jennifer needs to develop her own story. She needs to determine what she values in life, what her goals are, what interests her and she needs to pursue those things. Happiness lies in pursuing goals and activities which align with your goals, not through the man you’re dating. Jennifer needs to learn this lesson.

Instead, she seeks a man.

Her destiny is sealed. Men will define her happiness. They will define her likes and dislikes. Think for a moment about the movie, Runaway Bride. Richard Gere’s character asks each man Julia Roberts’ character was engaged to one question, “What kind of eggs does she like?” The answer was different for each man. Why? Because the character was dependent on men to define her happiness.

Because Jennifer hasn’t taken the time to define herself, set boundaries and goals, she will make decisions with her heart. How happy she is from day to day will be determined by how she is treated by the man she dates. When he is disrespectful or even abusive, she will blame herself and she will be miserable. When he’s treating her well, she will be happy.

A woman who sets out to date in this way – with her heart and not her head, is vulnerable to players or users. She sees his chiseled good looks and hears his smooth lines and she’s all in. She’s immediately in love with him and maybe even sleeps with him on a first or second date because this is how she thinks she keeps a guy coming back. She eliminates the possibility of learning about this man because she jumps to the end – sex – before she knows his intentions (use her and then lose her or marry her).

This scenario will play out over and over, destroying her confidence and self-esteem.

Megan’s out look on men is vastly different from Jennifer’s. Megan’s parents are still together. They instilled in her a drive to follow her dreams, to have goals, to pursue her passions and to have hobbies. Megan dates, but she looks at the first few dates differently. She looks at these as if they’re ‘meetings’, not dates. She tests her guy by not letting him run the show. She is more confident than Jennifer, so she realizes she is a chooser of men, not a woman grateful to be chosen. Megan uses her head to evaluate men and quickly weeds out the users, who are intimidated by her confidence and don’t hang around long anyway. Megan doesn’t allow her heart to get in the game until she is sure this guy is for real.

Obviously, I’ve just given you one scenario but there are many ways in which you can land in the dating world. The big difference is often your level of confidence when it comes to dating. You can be a highly confident professional woman and still have low dating confidence. You can come back into the dating scene after the breakup of a long-term relationship or marriage, unsure of who you really are as a newly single woman. Regardless of how you get there, the end result is the same. With solid, high dating confidence, you will date with your head. With low confidence, you’ll date with your heart.

Good things come to those who put their goals and passions ahead of relationships and good men take notice! Men want a woman who has an interesting life. An interesting life filled with experiences results in a woman who is interesting! She has opinions and she naturally becomes challenging and mysterious.

Guys can’t get enough of her! Now things fall in place for Megan. She has choice and comparison. She doesn’t need a handbook on picking up men – she picks who she wants!

The next time you find yourself falling for some great-looking guy with smooth lines, STOP. Back up. Create your story. This way, you will have the uncanny ability to call your own shots. You will think with your head and leave your heart out of the decision making process – at least until you know you’ve got a keeper!

So I ask you, are you a Megan or a Jennifer?

Want to know how to Weed Out The Users, The Couch Potatoes, And The Losers? Get my latest #1 best seller on Amazon on Sept. 7th, 2017! How do I know it will be #1? Because readers like yourself helped me write it!

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Are You Dating A Loser?

Are You Dating a Loser? Or Have You in the Past?

6 months ago, Evelyn came to me with a sad, but common, situation.

She allowed me to share her story with you.

Hi Gregg, thank you for taking my email. In the last 6 months I have been dumped by no less than 3 guys all telling me how happy they were at the beginning and then either totally disappearing or slowly fading out. What am I doing wrong? It’s gotten to the point where I don’t even want to date anymore for fear of getting hurt again. HELP – Evelyn

You see, Evelyn was not a “rest stop”, she was a high value woman (keeper) with a good career and lots of friends and hobbies. She was busy, positive, and a happy woman. There was no reason why she should get burned my men.

I examined how she was acting once she started liking a guy. I figured she was making all the mistakes like never creating challenge or making him her hobby.

She wasn’t.

In fact, she had been following me and knew how to handle a man.

So what gives?

I decided to look at Evelyn’s situation on a deeper level. We looked at all 3 guys and an array of other men she had dated in her past. I was looking for a common denominator.

She was choosing the same type of men over and over without even knowing it! Evelyn chose the guys that were the loudest and the funniest in the room. They were totally opposite from her serious and demanding father. That’s OK, but she needed to screen these men more.

She was choosing wet kittens and not Lions.

Evelyn’s therapist knew why. Growing up was a lonely time and all the male figures in her life were horrible. She was being drawn to men that fulfilled a need, even though, they were bad too. They just were not “as bad” as the horrible men she was raised by.

The men were actually doing her a favor by dumping her – as odd as that may sound, because they were toxic. This tanked her confidence.

Evelyn was missing one key ingredient. I was failing to give her the one key ingredient – the tools to keep men from playing games with her!

She was looking for what she thought were strong men. These men were strong, but they were players and cons or guys that could not love. Some of the men knew it and others didn’t. Evelyn was listening to their spiel but not testing them. Why should she? These men were showing all the signs at the beginning. You see, these men are pros, many are careerists at duping women to get their needs met and then moving on.

This stops today

Basically, Evelyn allowed her heart to get involved too soon.

You must screen men through a series of tests so you can study their actions. Words mean nothing. Actions show their true feelings and if they don’t match up, you get the heck out of dodge!

This is why I am writing “Weed Out The Users, The Couch Potatoes, and The Losers: Expose and Dump The Toxic Men in Your Life!”

This books shows you exactly how to do this! I define the 4 types of men and then we test the crap out of them before your heart gets involved. If they pass, then you are good to go, if they fail, you dump their fluffy asses.

Evelyn, cried with tears of happiness when I proved that she was never the problem – it was simply the guys she was choosing. Evelyn found her man!

I gave her the new game plan and now you will have it!

The book is called Weed Out The Users, The Couch Potatoes, and The Losers. You guys have helped me write it and I am grateful to you.

I expect it out the 1st week of September.

Let’s expose and dump those wet kittens, so you can clear the deck and find your LION!

Kickin’ the bad ones to the curb,

Gregg

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Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Final Post: How to Keep a Guy From Getting Bored

How to Keep a Guy From Getting Bored

I have been answering your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding men” from a man’s perspective has become very popular.

On February 24th I blogged about the 12 ingredients that go into men. Can you name all 12? You need to know these so you can understand men once and for all.

Today I want to talk about the 12th and final ingredient – How to Keep a Guy From Getting Bored

A man who is always chasing a woman is a man who will never get bored. This can be you when you first meet a man or after 25 years of marriage. Challenge and mystery are at the very cornerstone of attracting and keeping a guy. These are your mainstays. Remember these two thoughts:

How can I challenge this guy? and
How can I stay mysterious to him?

Do these two things, consistently, and you will own men!

Here’s how:

Challenging Men

Stay One Step Ahead of Him

He goes to the gym, you have already been to the gym. He wants to explore or expand a hobby, you have three going on. He comes out of the shower – you have his clothes lined up and you’re gone. You know he wants to plan a golf trip with his boys – you say do it, and you go to Vegas with the girls.

This shows him you are quick on your feet and have a life outside of his. You love him but he had better keep up. Suddenly, he doesn’t feel comfortable sitting on the couch all day while you are always one-upping him with cooler, more important things. Can you sit on the couch with him all day? Of course, but don’t let it happen all the time.

Be “Less Intense”

Men usually have to be pretty serious at work – you might need to be too. When a man is out on a date, he wants to be more relaxed and have a good time, where you generally want to talk about serious stuff. Be less intense with your guy. Don’t be so easy for him to get to know. Let him continue to be intrigued by you. He doesn’t need to hear your entire life’s story on the first, second, third, fourth or even fifth date. He wants to work at getting to know you. Be a little aloof (not silly, aloof).

Be Open-Minded

Many people go into a relationship with a list of things they’d never do. “I would never ride that rollercoaster!” or “No way would I ever touch a snake!” Even comments like “I never eat dessert after 7:00 p.m.” tell a guy you’re pretty rigid and closed-off. This tells him you’re not going to be much of a challenge, or mystery. He will quickly know what the rules are with you, and this is not challenging at all! If he says “Hey would you like to try that new zip-lining place next weekend?” At least say you’ll think about it (then honestly give it some thought). If it truly causes you to curl up in the fetal position and break out in a cold sweat, chances are he’ll understand, but offer up something that is still exciting but more in your comfort zone – maybe even promise to reconsider!

Never Let Him Get Bored

He zigs, you zag. He thinks you can’t do a pushup, you crank out 10. He knows your favorite ice cream is butter pecan – tonight, its black raspberry with a baby scoop of chocolate chip cookie dough on top. You always wear jeans? Break out the little black dress. Never stop learning and surprising him with new things.

Keeping him interested is fun! You are always trying and learning fresh stuff. If I am living with you and you come home with a gardening book on growing upside down tomatoes , I will just laugh and say, “Babe what’s up with the book on growing upside down tomatoes?” I won’t care how you respond, I will just be amazed and amused by the fact that you all of a sudden took an interest in upside down tomatoes! Have I ever dated a woman who was interested in upside down tomatoes? No. Will I ever? No. Will I always look at an upside down tomato plant and think of you? Yes.

I don’t want you to do these things just for your man. No! I want you to keep growing and trying new things for yourself! The bonus is, of course, this guy will never get bored with you and this becomes a key ingredient to keeping your man.

As crazy as this may sound – do it! It works.

Share Your Opinion

Stop sometime and listen to two men who are talking. They constantly challenge each other by taking a different stance on any given subject. The first guy says one football receiver is the best, while the other says his choice is better and they continue on, discussing the reasons behind their choices. They don’t argue, they just share their different opinions, and they rarely back down. This strengthens their bond and you can do the same. Try this with a guy.

Of course, to share an opinion on certain subjects, you need to have knowledge of those subjects! This is why I keep encouraging you to engage in as many experiences as possible – so you can have an opinion on as many subjects as possible. This makes you interesting and allows the challenge with men to exist. To be really effective, find out what he’s passionate about, study up, and be ready for the next opportunity you get to talk with him about it!

Creating Mystery with Men

A new man doesn’t really know what interests you. You are a mystery to him. Finding out what makes you tick is a challenge to him, and men love the thrill of the hunt! As time passes, though, women tend to spill their guts – they tell their whole story. The mystery is gone. For men, so is the excitement of dating you! Even if you manage to get this guy to marry you, he will get bored soon.

Women argue with me often that they shouldn’t have to change who they are to please a man, and I agree. I’m not telling you to change who you are, at your core. Think about it this way. Do you think you will be the same person at 35 that you were at 20? Will you be the same at 50 as you are at 35? Of course not – why? You changed.

Rather than fight me telling you change is good, embrace the inevitable. If you have found a high value man, he will change too. It’s how we continue to evolve as humans!

Take a Few Risks

I’m not saying you need to risk life and limb, but try something new that feels risky, to you. It could be something as simple as a new hair style or a new hair color! Find the new pub in town and invite him out for an evening of beer and his favorite sport on TV there. Schedule a weekend trip someplace new. These all have some level of risk, even if it’s small. It is something different – a mystery. Shock your guy by knowing the players on his favorite team when you get to the pub! Surprise him on the weekend adventure with skydiving lessons. Risk. Mystery! You both grow!

Keeping Some Secrets to Yourself

You have many, many layers – you are an onion, but you smell a whole lot better! Save a few inner layers for later in the relationship. Who you dated, for how long, what you did with them and what they were like are perfect examples. Some of your sexual fetishes or fantasies are good examples too.

Keep Him Guessing – Break His Label

People like to label others, it is our nature. If I see you playing softball I might label you as a jock. If I see you laughing and screaming with your friends, I may label you as an extrovert. Then, I see you all dressed up at a charity acting shy! This confuses me because you messed up the label I gave you. Now my curiosity is piqued and I want to learn more about you. You have become a mystery to me and it’s driving me wild! You are like a chameleon! You are not doing this just for your man, you already have these traits, I’m just telling you to bring them to life and let the world see them!

Break Your Routine

This is very similar but applies more to a relationship. By breaking your day to day routine, you can fascinate a man. This is healthy for you too. It forces you to do different things, meet different people and keep growing, while being in a relationship.

Give Him Space

I’ve mentioned this before, but it is worth repeating. Let your man have his own space – somewhere he can retreat to, either alone or with his buddies. Let him have things he does that are just his. You don’t need to follow him everywhere he goes or do everything with him. Have your own hobbies and let him have his. Sure, show some interest in what he’s doing, but if you have your own hobbies, he’s going to be intrigued in what you are doing too! Mystery!

Final Thoughts

Now you know How to Keep a Guy From Getting Bored!

I can take ANY scenario, pick from the DNA tree (or the conveyor belt to manhood as I like to call it), and solve your problems that you have with men and now you can too!!

I hope you have enjoyed this series covering men’s 12 DNA Imprints and how to use them to your advantage! Next week, I get into my new book that’s on deck – Weed Out The Users, The Couch Potatoes, And The Losers.

Learning to moonwalk

Gregg

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Weed Out the Users, the Couch Potatoes and the Losers

Introduction to Weed Out the Users, the Couch Potatoes and the Losers

It’s a rare man who will tell you, “Jennifer, you are not the woman I truly desire, so I will keep you around until I find someone better.”

Or

“Patricia, I am an emotionally unavailable man incapable of loving anyone, but my words will convince you otherwise.”

Ah, no, it’s not gonna’ happen.

The dating world is full of predators that don’t want to date you or even know you more than a few hours (ideally it would be minutes). They want one thing and one thing only. And while it goes without mentioning, they’re damn good at it, too. I mean, they are careerists. Imagine having a 40-hour workweek trying to have sex with women. They know exactly what you want to hear, and they know exactly how you want to be treated. They are masters, professionals, ARTISTS in the trade.

You’ll meet them. You may even have an enjoyable night or two with them. But they won’t date you. They won’t meet your parents. They’ll say they like your cat when they don’t. And then, he will stop calling you and won’t return your texts. Even though you had a feeling, a hunch, it will still hurt like hell because you’ve been used, and that sucks for anyone. Ladies, do this enough times and you’ll be literally dying for a decent man.

And I’m only describing one of the toxic men on my list! There are even worse ones.

This is unacceptable!
This is what’s wrong with dating!
This is why women get so frustrated!

There is no guide, until now, for women to weed out the users and losers so they can get to their goal – Mr. Right.

Women are wasting days, weeks, months, and even years of their lives getting played because they don’t understand how to properly expose men that currently are, and may never be, emotionally available.

This book fixes this once and for all!

This is not your fault – you simply don’t know how to spot men who play these games.

I get it, being single is frowned upon in our society. Any relationship is better than being alone. Any, right? So grab a guy, any guy, who doesn’t wield an axe and showers once in a while because you can’t suffer the humiliation of being the bridesmaid wearing the ugly dress again!

I am working on the book as we speak.  Almost every email I answer ( I get 50 per day) involves a woman dating a man that might not be the best thing for her “long-term well-being” – meaning he sucks!

If you have a question that needs answering or a story to tell – there is still time – leave a comment below in the comments section and I will solve it inside the book. This is for you, help me help you!

Oh, this is gonna’ be FUN my friends!

Helping you take out the trash,

Gregg

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Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 12: Guys Take Longer to Fall in Love.

I have been answering your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding men” from a man’s perspective has become very popular.

On February 24th I blogged about the 12 ingredients that go into men. Can you name all 12? You need to know these so you can understand men once and for all.

Today I want to talk about the 11th ingredient – Guys take longer to fall in love.

A while back I met a beautiful woman from Russia in Delray, FL. No, she was not a paid Russian bride or a spy, haha. We spent three wonderful days together, and then I had to leave and go back to my home in Boston. She was bummed. I asked her if she wanted to join me in Boston for the rest of her vacation. She said yes and we had a wonderful time.

I quickly realized that we were not on the same page. I was getting to know her and having fun living in the moment. Unbeknownst to me, she was sizing me up to be a husband and father. Her decision, it seemed, was already made.  I was naïve to this, and just having fun getting to know her.

She perceived my invitation for her to join me in Boston to mean that I, ultimately, wanted her to be my wife, because that was her goal.

So what’s the problem here?

Men don’t fall in love like that. We take time.

My Russian girl (let’s call her Alisa) was reading into our relationship differently than I was. I was getting to know her, while she had already determined our fate and anything that did not fit this narrative was a disappointment to her.

The irony?

Because she was moving so fast, I never got to know her for fear of really letting her down! It was easier to just end things. Looking back, sadly, I really liked her but I will never know what might have been.

For more on this exact subject please watch another video with the pros and me at http://bit.ly/2rWQ13K?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss.

In this video you will see resistance from the women on the panel questioning my answer. They can’t possibly know how men feel! In fact, after the shoot the male producer came up to me and quietly said, “You are so right, man!”

Remember also, that my tactics have evolved over my 55 years and are the result of interviewing thousands of men. This is not just “Gregg” speaking.

You see, men live more in the moment than women do. We can’t spot our next relationship milestone if it slapped us in the face.

We are oblivious. Falling in love happens to us when it feels right. Women, on the other hand, seem to look at each positive event as a milestone to advance the relationship.

“I met his family”

“He took me away for the weekend”

“He said he loved me when he was drunk”

“His dog lapped my face – destiny!”

I did all these things with Alisa, (my cat licked her face, no dog) but I was not anywhere near my milestone! She would have been better served to just roll with the weekend and let love happen – if it was going to happen at all. Some women need to live more in the moment, stay happy, and enjoy the process. There needs to be time for both parties to get to know each other before judgement, before the “all in” is declared, and men normally take longer.

That said, some men will take advantage of this time and drag out this period because they have some outside issues and are afraid of commitment. These men are wet kittens and should be avoided. That’s why women should always set reasonable time limits.

So just because he is hitting your milestones does not mean that he is falling in love. My weeding out rules still apply.

So if you feel you have met Mr. Right, don’t push him, relax’ and give him time, and he will come to you!

I can take ANY scenario, pick from the DNA tree (or the conveyor belt to manhood as I like to call it), and solve your problems that you have with men and now you can too!!

Next week, I will discuss DNA Imprint #12 – Men can get bored easy.

Losing weight on Nutrisystem

Gregg

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Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 11: Men Need to Feel That They Can Provide

Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 11:  Men Need to Feel That They Can Provide

Relationship communication is easy to figure out when you have an ace in the hole.

Hello, I am Gregg and I am #1 multiple best-selling author and a dating and life coach. I am your ace!

I have been answering your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding men” from a man’s perspective has become very popular.

On February 24th I blogged about the 12 ingredients that go into men. Can you name all 12? You need to know these so you can understand men once and for all. Please read that blog now

Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 10: Why Do Men Cheat and How to Stop This From Ever Happening!

Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 10: Why Do Men Cheat and How to Stop This From Ever Happening!

Relationship communication is easy to figure out when you have an ace in the hole.

Hello, I am Gregg and I am #1 multiple best-selling author and a dating and life coach. I am your ace!

I have been answering your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding men” from a man’s perspective has become very popular.

On February 24th I blogged about the 12 ingredients that go into men. Can you name all 12? You need to know these so you can understand men once and for all. Please read that blog now

Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 9: Men Need to Feel Appreciated!

Take Control of Your Relationship By Understanding Men! Part 9: Men Need to Feel Appreciated!

Relationship communication is easy to figure out when you have an ace in the hole. Hello, I am Gregg, a #1 multiple best-selling author and a dating and life coach. I am your ace!

I have been answering your emails, every day, and the subject of “understanding men” from a man’s perspective has become very popular.

On February 24th I blogged about the 12 ingredients that go into men. Can you name all 12? You need to know these so you can understand men once and for all. Please read that blog now