Betty Dodson's Blog, page 24
March 23, 2015
Thank You for Promoting the Fleshlight
Hi Betty,
This is more of a thank-you/feedback email than a question. I wanted to thank you for promoting the use of the Fleshlight (and Eric as well, since I also read some of his stuff about it on your website). I will tell you exactly why.
We Suggest:
Training with the Fleshlight to Resensitize Your Penis
Why Wouldn't You Bring Your Fleshlight to a War Zone?
Make Your Own Fleshlight
Every So Often I Have Difficulty Sustaining My Erection
March 22, 2015
He Wants Me to Lick His Ass But Won't Eat Me Out
Dear wonderful doctor Betty,
So I'm seeing a new guy and I'm not sure if we're really compatible in bed. The first time we had sex he was very aggressive and seemed to like spanking me and choking me. I let him know I wasn't really into the choking and he's since stopped that. Now I have a few other issues with our sex and I'm not sure if I should just chalk it up to us not being compatible and move on, or work through it.
We Suggest:
I Once Believed the Sexual Double Standard Favored Men
A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation
One Blow Job Deserves Another
BF Doesn't Understand How to Make Me Orgasm
March 20, 2015
What Kind of Things are Best in a First Time Lesbian Sexual Intercourse Involving Two Virgins
Hello!
I'm having a few issues here that I would absolutely love to have some help with.
I'm really new to sexual and lesbian... Stuff (I guess I could say). I'm really attracted to my partner and I really want to explore a lot of things with her. But as a virgin who doesn't have much experience I'm not quite sure what I should be doing. I've had many fantasizes about what I would like to do with her, and I feel that we're both ready as she has fantasized as well.
We Suggest:
"What Does Virgin Mean?"
Because Even Lesbians Need Lubricant
Cosmo Covers Lesbian Sex Positions
Sapphic Love Throughout Time
March 18, 2015
BF's Dirty Talk About Me as Teenager Has Me Rattled
Dear Betty,
I have been dating a man for two years; for one of those years we have lived together.
Twice, while in the middle of some hot and heavy love making ( dirty hot sex really) he has whispered/asked me some things that have made me uncomfortable.
The first time he asked me how big my tits were when I was 15 and what I looked like while wearing a mini skirt at that age.
The most recent was that he asked me how old I was when I first started masturbating and if I masturbated all the time upon discovering myself. He whispered, "I bet you did. I bet you also wanted to know what it felt like to be f#cked, too."
Fine questions I suppose but not while he was inside of me getting himself off.
It has me rattled.
Does he engage in teen porn?
We Suggest:
How Do I Share My Age Play/Rape Fantasy With My Boyfriend?
Are Incest Fantasies Normal?
I MASTURBATED to a Fantasy About a CAR!
Pornography, Media Culture & the Proliferation of Fantasy
March 17, 2015
Can You Separate Love & Sex?
Dear Dr. Betty
Hello, I came to ask you a question which i believe you are qualified to answer. Im a 22yr old guy who is in LOVE with the most beautiful and sweetest girl to ever live, we are in a serious relationship for about few months now. And as it is only natural for a Young man to lust after the body of His 19yr old girlfriend she doesn't let me do anything else other then kiss her until marriage one unappropriatlly placed hand and I get a stern look from her, we are both Catholic by religion and I suspect it is to blame for my loves celibacy.
We Suggest:
"I Don't Think Love Works That Way"
"Sex Should be Viewed as an Expression of Love"
"The Love Between Two Women...It Is In a Way Self-Love"
"What Does Virgin Mean?"
March 16, 2015
I Get Contractions in My Vagina But No Orgasm
Dear Dr. Betty,
This is my deal— since I was young, I have only been able to feel anything in the O realm (and I’m using this term VERY loosely) by rubbing my legs together or rubbing on the floor (all with clothes on) . However, the feeling produced from this is extremely unsatisfying…it only lasts about a second, and I’d give it like a 1/10 on enjoyment scale. It isn’t very though I recognize it's *something*.
We Suggest:
Betty's Rock 'n Roll Orgasm Technique
First Time Orgasm
Awakening the Clitoris
"I Had the Best Orgasm of My Life"
March 14, 2015
"I was an Uneducated Cowgirl from Kansas. Dell was a Middle Class Jewish Girl"
4627298124_c2294c2343_o.jpg When I attended a birthday party to celebrate Dell Williams' 90th Birthday, I'd been asked to MC the affair that turned out quite a number of aging feminists as well as a few young ones. My birthday gift to Dell was a copy of the 1974 edition of my first self-published book, Liberating Masturbation: a Meditation on Self-love. Attached to the cover with a paper clip was a crisp new 100 dollar bill. Dell stared at the cover a few moments as her brain struggled to recall until she read my greeting:
“Against all odds, you made it to your 90th Birthday. Congratulations! This little book and Eve’s Garden kicked off the feminist sexual revolution!”
We Suggest:
Ms. Magazine, Liberating Masturbation & Betty's Art as Obscenity in Evergreen
My Romantic Love Wars: A Sexual Memoir - EBOOK EDITION
The Split Beaver Slideshow for Feminists
Having Sex with Machines: The Return of the Electric Vibrator
March 13, 2015
I Want to Explore Partner Sex & My New Ability to Orgasm During Sex
Hi, Betty,
First of all, thank you so much for your blogs and videos. Thanks to you, I've felt much more liberated and confident in my sexuality. I'm writing to you today to ask your opinion on a sexual dilemma I'm facing. I'm a 24 year old woman and just last year, I learned how to cum during partner sex. It's been so exciting for me, I want to try different positions and experiment with my orgasms.
We Suggest:
A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation
Addicted to Porn. Can't Maintain an Erection Without It
Boyfriend Struggles to Orgasm & Loses Erection
Every So Often I Have Difficulty Sustaining My Erection
March 10, 2015
I'm Afraid to Have Sex & Get Pregnant
Dear doctor Betty,
As you can see, the reason I'm sending this message is because I'm afraid of having sex and I would really appreciate a wise advise right now.
I'm 18 years old and I've been always very curious and open about my sexuality, but recently I found out one of my best friends is pregnant and she's just one year older than me. I know for sure that happened to her because she was very irresponsible and wasn't on any birth control method, in fact the guy came inside her.. but I still am really afraid even thought I am very cautious and careful when it comes to that.
I haven't had sex but I've masturbated A LOT since it can remember, therefore I really really want to have sex, because it's not the pain I'm afraid of, but the idea of getting pregnant at a young age.
We Suggest:
"I Should be Able to be Informed About What Birth Control Is & How I Can Get It"
My Birth Control History
Because Birth Control Changed the Social Contract Between Men & Women
Birth Control Doesn't Make You a Slut
March 9, 2015
My Orgasms Aren't Pleasurable At All
Dear Dr. Betty,
I am a 19 year old virgin who has been masturbating for about 3 years. I am about 70% sure I've been reaching orgasm for about a year, after experimenting with a shower head. The problem is, masturbation and these "orgasms" aren't pleasurable at all. Stimulating my clit just gives an unusual sensation, similar to needing to pee but stronger. The "orgasm" is just a point where the stimulation gets a little stronger and then I feel a little sleepy and subdued afterwords.
We Suggest:
Betty's Rock 'n Roll Orgasm Technique
First Time Orgasm
"Edging" is a Form of Orgasm Control
"Before I Knew It, I was About to Have an Orgasm"
Betty Dodson's Blog
- Betty Dodson's profile
- 122 followers
