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New Question: Do you have a favorite smoothie place? Whats your favorite smoothie!?"
My favorite smoothie is one I make myself!! I like to get a bag of frozen mixed fruit and go crazy!


It is hard to describe. I am not much of a coffee drinker (unless its flavored, i dump LOTS of sugar in it..i am a tea person). It is somwwhat sweet. Not too pumpkin-y & the spice off-sets it nicely. VERY good and addicting to me. I guess it may be kinda like pumpkin pie?? maybe??





I like the idea of being a shifter, but I am going to go with being magically inclined. I don't know if this falls into that category, but I would love to have the power to move things or have the ability to knows things before they happened. Sounds like the force...maybe I just want to be a Jedi Knight! :)



TEMPORARY MADNESS DUE TO GIRLFRIEND TROUBLE (oh well, she was leader of a group that captured him and was unaware that some of her fellow fighters made a sport out of torturing him while she was looking everywhere else for him. One can go mental after that, I concur.)
BOS by Sherrilyn Kenyon




mmmm...I think it would have to be my husbands made from scratch cheese cake. Nothing compares and that bastard will only bake it for me once a year because he hates to bake. lol

New Question- What do you think Victoria's secret is?

Didn't Lady Victoria have a secret diary about all the men she had affairs with?
Well, it is no secret that drivers in Victoria, Australia are known for being the worst on the planet. The big secret though is that it is actually the South Australians (neighbours, in verbal fights with the Victorians all the time), that are the worst drivers. And I should know, I live in South Australia. LOL

Eh it was originally suppose to be a place men could go and not feel embarrassed about buying lingerie for their women


Yea Frederick's of Hollywood is great. But don't have that anywhere near us at all. Plenty of Lion's Den places and a VS in the mall.


I've never been to a Fredericks. I buy a lot of underwear from VS and I'll treat myself to a bra or two if they have my size and there is a sale going on

No worries, I've only seen Frederick's online and I think mentioned on tv shows.
Oh and you have mail again Shari.



When I first found out about that story I was like, really a man!? A man had to be the first to invest in this.






LMAO ikr.

And as for Victoria Secret being for bigger busted women...I disagree. I have yet to find one that fits me becuase i am larger. Not that the undies would fit either....or that i would pay the nutsy prices.

I was thinking more in the double d range kind of Valerie. Although I have seen up to J's in Wal-mart before though too. My mom gets just my size bras and undies too. Have you tried them Valerie? As they are for larger ladies.

If you are used to having really bad cramps, then labor pains should not be a problem. I had really bad cramps, so I was afraid too, but the labor pains felt the same. Look at it like this, your cramps last a week, labor pains; hours. Now the good news, after I had my first child, my cramps lightened up a lot.... A whole lot.

Bad parent! LOL I have one: Due to work and Christmas shopping, Santa did not have anything under the tree, BUT, there was an email on my tablet addressed to my daughter ( her name) from Santa, explaining that he was caught in a really bad snow storm,but he was on his way. After our nap there were gifts under the tree. My daughter has heard the rumors, but she knows Santa is real because she has an email! She was more excited about the email than the gifts. Lol

What if you discovered that your child was switched with that of a rich family? Would that matter in regards in your decision-making or no?
Also what if the race/culture of the child was different? Would you consider keeping the child so they can learn more and appreciate your own culture better or give back the child all the faster because it is not of your own culture?
Speak on it.

it depends. if im able to get in contact with her/his biological parents then it would depend on what they and the child want. legally its up to them tho. as hard as that would be. but if i couldnt get in touch with the biological parents then i would continue raising the child as my own but also let them know what happened later on in life. i would wanna keep raising the child as my own tho lol x.x.
no, money wouldnt play a factor in it and it shouldnt. i would want the child to have more (in regards to money) but thats not what its about. it comes down to what the child wants and unfortunately the biological parents as well since legally they arent ur child.
it wouldnt make a difference to me tbh. if i knew the child was a diff race then i def know they werent mine biologically but adoption wise or not if they were a diff race/culture id teach them about their culture but that doesnt mean i would seclude them from mine (that would just be silly). i think its important for them to grow up with ur own culture bc theyre a part of u but i also think its important for them to learn about their own (that might just be bc of my own feelings on culture tho. ik to some ppl it doesnt really interest them, whether its their own culture or not). and when theyre older they can choose to lean toward whichever one they want more (if they dislike any of them that is).

I truly have to say when I came across this question online, my mind totally went to the show Switched at Birth that I've been watching and enjoying quite a bit. Because in that story, a rich Caucasian family and a single Hispanic single mother's daughters are switched. And it is not discovered til the "daughter" of the rich family has to do a genealogy/DNA project for school. So she swabs her parents' cheeks and her own and it comes back that they aren't a match and the story goes on from there.
I've also seen a movie where the rich family and the single mom kept lived next to each other. But didn't switch their kids after discovering the hospital mix up. Everyone was friends though and the kids went to the same school too.
So having religiously been watching this show from start to it's current break for the season. And even enjoying/being puzzled by certain decisions in the series and that movie. I, have to say that if *I* were the one to be in such a situation, without a shadow of a doubt, I would want my child back right away. As for the child that is not mine and my own child likely missing their other "family", I would be interested in maybe a open adoption sort of arrangement. Meaning that both of us would get our children back. But for bdays, holidays, sharing pictures, maybe even going to school events, would all be shared and open experiences between the families. But being the stickler that I am, I would have to put my foot down and want my child living with me after the switch is done. And feel the other child should be with their family as well. It's bad enough to know I missed some earlier parts of my child's life even if the children are still just 1 year old. I wouldn't want to miss more if the child was living away from me even more.
I'll be honest and say that if my child was switched with a family that is rich/living a little better than myself, I would really pause and consider how many opportunities my child would miss out on that the richer/better living family could provide them. Like a full ride to college maybe, or if they are into the arts or something that I couldn't possibly provide. But after that thought comes and goes through my head. I would still want my child back. Although maybe if the other family is open to the open adoption type of arrangement, then maybe they or even I could open accounts for the kids for their college fund or something.
To me the race or the culture difference wouldn't bother me with regards to having someone else's child. But it would concern me with regards to the family that has my child though. I want to believe that my hypothetical child wouldn't be harmed or anything like that do to it being 2013 and all that. But still regardless if the family is rich or not, I'd totally be concerned if that other family is mentally or physically abusing my child because he/she is black. That alone would have me sweating bullets and finding top lawyers and wanting to switch the kids back post haste.
But if it was not a situation of them disliking my child cause of their race. I still would want to give them their child back and get mine back as well. Because regardless of how someone else may feel they could raise the child that isn't of their own race/culture through teaching it to them. I still think that the child needs to know more than just being taught about their race/culture. That child is a wee bit more entitled to know about their family medical history than anything else. Because that history can truly make the difference between being treated for more serious things down the road or not. And that is very important to me.
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