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Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life (Hardcover)
by (shelved 84 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.21 — 86,723 ratings — published 1992
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Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself (ebook)
by (shelved 72 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.25 — 36,582 ratings — published 2021
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Boundaries: Where You End And I Begin: How To Recognize And Set Healthy Boundaries Boundaries: Where You End And I Begin: How To Recognize And Set Healthy Boundaries (Hardcover)
by (shelved 28 times as boundaries)
avg rating 3.96 — 1,515 ratings — published 1991
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Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are (Hardcover)
by (shelved 20 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.33 — 15,569 ratings — published 2022
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The Book of Boundaries The Book of Boundaries (Hardcover)
by (shelved 19 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.14 — 6,448 ratings — published 2022
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Boundaries in Dating Boundaries in Dating (Paperback)
by (shelved 16 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.15 — 6,709 ratings — published 2000
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Boundary Boss: The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen, and (Finally) Live Free Boundary Boss: The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen, and (Finally) Live Free
by (shelved 14 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.28 — 2,618 ratings — published 2021
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Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 12 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.26 — 6,292 ratings — published 1999
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Where to Draw the Line: How to Set Healthy Boundaries Every Day Where to Draw the Line: How to Set Healthy Boundaries Every Day (Paperback)
by (shelved 11 times as boundaries)
avg rating 3.84 — 1,030 ratings — published 2000
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Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships (Hardcover)
by (shelved 9 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.27 — 6,257 ratings — published 2023
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Don't Touch My Hair! Don't Touch My Hair! (Hardcover)
by (shelved 9 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.41 — 1,727 ratings — published 2018
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Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't (Paperback)
by (shelved 9 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.21 — 5,621 ratings — published 1995
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Don't Hug Doug (He Doesn't Like It) Don't Hug Doug (He Doesn't Like It)
by (shelved 8 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.38 — 1,923 ratings — published 2021
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Rissy No Kissies Rissy No Kissies (Hardcover)
by (shelved 8 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.28 — 607 ratings — published 2021
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Boundaries with Kids: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children Boundaries with Kids: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children (Paperback)
by (shelved 8 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.31 — 4,656 ratings — published 1998
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When I Say No, I Feel Guilty: How to Cope - Using the Skills of Systematic Assertive Therapy When I Say No, I Feel Guilty: How to Cope - Using the Skills of Systematic Assertive Therapy (Paperback)
by (shelved 7 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.02 — 3,026 ratings — published 1975
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Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents (Paperback)
by (shelved 7 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.36 — 87,742 ratings — published 2015
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Boundary Power: How I Treat You, How I Let You Treat Me, How I Treat Myself Boundary Power: How I Treat You, How I Let You Treat Me, How I Treat Myself (Paperback)
by (shelved 7 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.05 — 44 ratings — published 1994
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Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself (Paperback)
by (shelved 7 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.12 — 49,203 ratings — published 1986
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Boundaries for Your Soul: How to Turn Your Overwhelming Thoughts and Feelings into Your Greatest Allies Boundaries for Your Soul: How to Turn Your Overwhelming Thoughts and Feelings into Your Greatest Allies (Paperback)
by (shelved 6 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.19 — 1,592 ratings — published
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Necessary Endings: The Employees, Businesses, and Relationships That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Move Forward Necessary Endings: The Employees, Businesses, and Relationships That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Move Forward (Hardcover)
by (shelved 6 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.28 — 6,028 ratings — published 2011
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The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 5 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.06 — 220,295 ratings — published 2024
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The Joy of Saying No: A Simple Plan to Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, and Say Yes to the Life You Want The Joy of Saying No: A Simple Plan to Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, and Say Yes to the Life You Want (Hardcover)
by (shelved 5 times as boundaries)
avg rating 3.71 — 790 ratings — published
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Beyond Boundaries: Learning to Trust Again in Relationships Beyond Boundaries: Learning to Trust Again in Relationships (Hardcover)
by (shelved 5 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.34 — 1,150 ratings — published 2011
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Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You (Paperback)
by (shelved 5 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.09 — 4,203 ratings — published 1997
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Mason & Dixon Mason & Dixon (Paperback)
by (shelved 5 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.14 — 12,459 ratings — published 1997
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Boundaries Face to Face: How to Have That Difficult Conversation You've Been Avoiding Boundaries Face to Face: How to Have That Difficult Conversation You've Been Avoiding (Hardcover)
by (shelved 5 times as boundaries)
avg rating 3.99 — 1,389 ratings — published 2003
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The Assertiveness Workbook: How to Express Your Ideas and Stand Up for Yourself at Work and in Relationships The Assertiveness Workbook: How to Express Your Ideas and Stand Up for Yourself at Work and in Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.16 — 851 ratings — published 2000
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Boundaries After a Pathological Relationship Boundaries After a Pathological Relationship (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.15 — 272 ratings — published
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Keep Your Love On: Connection Communication And Boundaries Keep Your Love On: Connection Communication And Boundaries (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.47 — 3,913 ratings — published 2013
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Empowered Boundaries: Speaking Truth, Setting Boundaries, and Inspiring Social Change Empowered Boundaries: Speaking Truth, Setting Boundaries, and Inspiring Social Change (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as boundaries)
avg rating 3.96 — 203 ratings — published 2018
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The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency (Hazelden Meditation Series) The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency (Hazelden Meditation Series)
by (shelved 4 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.37 — 8,893 ratings — published 1990
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Changes That Heal: How to Understand the Past to Ensure a Healthier Future Changes That Heal: How to Understand the Past to Ensure a Healthier Future (Mass Market Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.38 — 4,758 ratings — published 1992
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Boundaries: Workbook Boundaries: Workbook (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.31 — 1,086 ratings — published 1995
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Setting Boundaries Setting Boundaries (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 3 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.15 — 496 ratings — published 2022
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Please Yourself: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Transform the Way You Live Please Yourself: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Transform the Way You Live (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as boundaries)
avg rating 3.94 — 1,645 ratings — published
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The Disease to Please: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome The Disease to Please: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as boundaries)
avg rating 3.89 — 1,523 ratings — published 2000
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Same Love, Different Hug Same Love, Different Hug (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.12 — 186 ratings — published
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When It's Never About You: The People-Pleaser's Guide to Reclaiming Your Health, Happiness and Personal Freedom When It's Never About You: The People-Pleaser's Guide to Reclaiming Your Health, Happiness and Personal Freedom (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 3 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.02 — 233 ratings — published 2017
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Real Self-Care: A Transformative Program for Redefining Wellness (Crystals, Cleanses, and Bubble Baths Not Included) Real Self-Care: A Transformative Program for Redefining Wellness (Crystals, Cleanses, and Bubble Baths Not Included)
by (shelved 3 times as boundaries)
avg rating 3.93 — 6,487 ratings — published 2023
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The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 3 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.52 — 234 ratings — published
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The Sugar Jar: Create Boundaries, Embrace Self-Healing, and Enjoy the Sweet Things in Life The Sugar Jar: Create Boundaries, Embrace Self-Healing, and Enjoy the Sweet Things in Life (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as boundaries)
avg rating 3.95 — 785 ratings — published 2022
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Better Boundaries: Owning and Treasuring Your Life Better Boundaries: Owning and Treasuring Your Life (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as boundaries)
avg rating 3.88 — 91 ratings — published 1998
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You got me fucked up: Creating healthy boundaries without compromising yourself You got me fucked up: Creating healthy boundaries without compromising yourself (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as boundaries)
avg rating 3.98 — 43 ratings — published
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More Than Fluff More Than Fluff (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as boundaries)
avg rating 4.12 — 262 ratings — published 2021
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Henry Cloud
“Training moments occur when both parents and children do their jobs. The parent's job is to make the rule. The child's job is to break the rule. The parent then corrects and disciplines. The child breaks the rule again, and the parent manages the consequences and empathy that then turn the rule into reality and internal structure for the child.”
Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend

Henry Cloud
“We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.”
Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend

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