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Manuel J. Smith



Average rating: 4.02 · 2,277 ratings · 200 reviews · 11 distinct worksSimilar authors
When I Say No, I Feel Guilt...

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Here Be Dragons: The Psycho...

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Kicking The Fear Habit: Usi...

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Sag' Nein ohne Angst

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Yes, I Can Say No: A Parent...

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Si, Puedo Decir No

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When I Say No, I Feel Guilty

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“A BILL OF ASSERTIVE RIGHTS

I: You have the right to judge your own behavior, thoughts, and emotions, and to take the responsibility for their initiation and consequences upon yourself.

II: You have the right to offer no reasons or excuses for justifying your behavior.

III: You have the right to judge if you are responsible for finding solutions to other people’s problems.

IV: You have the right to change your mind.

V: You have the right to make mistakes—and be responsible for them.

VI: You have the right to say, “I don’t know.”

VII: You have the right to be independent of the goodwill of others before coping with them.

VIII: You have the right to be illogical in making decisions.

IX: You have the right to say, “I don’t understand.”

X: You have the right to say, “I don’t care.”

YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO, WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY”
Manuel J. Smith, When I Say No, I Feel Guilty: How to Cope - Using the Skills of Systematic Assertive Therapy

“You are being manipulated when someone reduces, by any means, your ability to be your own judge of what you do.”
Manuel J. Smith, When I Say No, I Feel Guilty

“Giving reasons during conflict to justify or defend a viewpoint is just as manipulative as giving reasons to attack that viewpoint. Neither of these routes is an honest assertive I want that can lead to a workable compromise of interests to quickly resolve the conflict.”
Manuel J. Smith, When I Say No, I Feel Guilty: How to Cope - Using the Skills of Systematic Assertive Therapy

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