Attachment Theory Books

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Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love (Hardcover)
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avg rating 4.13 — 129,349 ratings — published 2010
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Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship (Paperback)
by (shelved 15 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.09 — 6,617 ratings — published 2012
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Attachment Theory: A Guide to Strengthening the Relationships in Your Life Attachment Theory: A Guide to Strengthening the Relationships in Your Life (Paperback)
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avg rating 3.91 — 1,419 ratings — published
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Attachment Theory in Practice: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Individuals, Couples, and Families Attachment Theory in Practice: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Individuals, Couples, and Families
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avg rating 4.33 — 693 ratings — published
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Hold Me Tight Hold Me Tight (Hardcover)
by (shelved 11 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.12 — 23,365 ratings — published 2008
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The Power of Attachment: How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships The Power of Attachment: How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 10 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.25 — 2,732 ratings — published 2019
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Attachment in Psychotherapy Attachment in Psychotherapy (Hardcover)
by (shelved 10 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.36 — 1,861 ratings — published 2007
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Insecure in Love: How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It Insecure in Love: How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It (Paperback)
by (shelved 8 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 3.92 — 2,556 ratings — published 2014
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Becoming Attached: First Relationships and How They Shape Our Capacity to Love Becoming Attached: First Relationships and How They Shape Our Capacity to Love (Paperback)
by (shelved 7 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.24 — 1,424 ratings — published 1994
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Attachment in Adulthood: Structure, Dynamics, and Change Attachment in Adulthood: Structure, Dynamics, and Change (Hardcover)
by (shelved 7 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.32 — 71 ratings — published 2007
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Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for Comprehensive Repair Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for Comprehensive Repair (Hardcover)
by (shelved 6 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.54 — 152 ratings — published 2016
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Attachment Attachment (Paperback)
by (shelved 6 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.16 — 679 ratings — published 1969
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A Secure Base: Parent-Child Attachment and Healthy Human Development A Secure Base: Parent-Child Attachment and Healthy Human Development (Paperback)
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avg rating 4.22 — 1,062 ratings — published 1988
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Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends (Hardcover)
by (shelved 5 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.04 — 8,514 ratings — published 2022
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Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime (Hardcover)
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avg rating 4.49 — 3,253 ratings — published
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Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy (Paperback)
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avg rating 4.34 — 16,935 ratings — published 2020
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Anxiously Attached: Understanding and Working with Preoccupied Attachment Anxiously Attached: Understanding and Working with Preoccupied Attachment (ebook)
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avg rating 4.15 — 34 ratings — published
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The Attachment Effect: Exploring the Powerful Ways Our Earliest Bond Shapes Our Relationships and Lives The Attachment Effect: Exploring the Powerful Ways Our Earliest Bond Shapes Our Relationships and Lives (Paperback)
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avg rating 3.92 — 650 ratings — published 2018
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Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.12 — 51,375 ratings — published 1986
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Avoidant: How to Love (or Leave) a Dismissive Partner Avoidant: How to Love (or Leave) a Dismissive Partner
by (shelved 4 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 3.80 — 687 ratings — published 2014
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Parenting from the Inside Out: How a Deeper Self-Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive Parenting from the Inside Out: How a Deeper Self-Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.16 — 5,750 ratings — published 2003
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Healing Your Attachment Wounds: How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships Healing Your Attachment Wounds: How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships (Audiobook)
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avg rating 4.33 — 520 ratings — published
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The Anxious Hearts Guide: Rising Above Anxious Attachment The Anxious Hearts Guide: Rising Above Anxious Attachment (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.11 — 588 ratings — published
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Adult Attachment: A Concise Introduction to Theory and Research Adult Attachment: A Concise Introduction to Theory and Research (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.44 — 16 ratings — published
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Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.00 — 4,377 ratings — published
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The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.34 — 298,933 ratings — published 2014
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The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.11 — 814 ratings — published 2011
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The Courage to Trust: A Guide to Building Deep and Lasting Relationships The Courage to Trust: A Guide to Building Deep and Lasting Relationships (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 3.78 — 138 ratings — published 2005
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Handbook of Attachment: Theory, Research, and Clinical Applications Handbook of Attachment: Theory, Research, and Clinical Applications (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.20 — 113 ratings — published 1999
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The Practice of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy: Creating Connection The Practice of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy: Creating Connection (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.22 — 885 ratings — published 1996
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The Journey from Abandonment to Healing The Journey from Abandonment to Healing (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.22 — 1,715 ratings — published 2000
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The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.30 — 1,821 ratings — published 1999
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Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships (Dr. Sue Johnson Collection #2) Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships (Dr. Sue Johnson Collection #2)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.09 — 2,764 ratings — published 2013
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Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder (Paperback)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.27 — 22,679 ratings — published 1999
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Healing Trauma: Attachment, Mind, Body and Brain (Norton Series on Interpersonal Neurobiology) Healing Trauma: Attachment, Mind, Body and Brain (Norton Series on Interpersonal Neurobiology)
by (shelved 3 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.17 — 167 ratings — published 2003
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The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture (Hardcover)
by (shelved 2 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.30 — 38,087 ratings — published 2022
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Patterns of Attachment: A Psychological Study of the Strange Situation Patterns of Attachment: A Psychological Study of the Strange Situation (Loose Leaf)
by (shelved 2 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 3.76 — 25 ratings — published 1979
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Loss: Sadness and Depression Loss: Sadness and Depression (Paperback)
by (shelved 2 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.15 — 175 ratings — published 1979
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Separation: Anxiety and Anger (Attachment & Loss #2) Separation: Anxiety and Anger (Attachment & Loss #2)
by (shelved 2 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.24 — 218 ratings — published 1972
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John Bowlby and Attachment Theory (Makers of Modern Psychotherapy) John Bowlby and Attachment Theory (Makers of Modern Psychotherapy)
by (shelved 2 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.21 — 220 ratings — published 1993
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In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction (Hardcover)
by (shelved 2 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.48 — 24,889 ratings — published 2007
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No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 2 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.25 — 26,084 ratings — published 2014
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What Happened To You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing What Happened To You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing (Hardcover)
by (shelved 2 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.41 — 113,232 ratings — published 2021
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Attachment Theory and Psychoanalysis Attachment Theory and Psychoanalysis (Paperback)
by (shelved 2 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 3.96 — 94 ratings — published 2001
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Attachment Across the Lifecourse: A Brief Introduction Attachment Across the Lifecourse: A Brief Introduction (Paperback)
by (shelved 2 times as attachment-theory)
avg rating 4.31 — 116 ratings — published 2011
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John Bowlby
“Thirdly and most important, the psychical energy model is logically unrelated to the concepts that Freud, and everyone since, regards as truly central to psychoanalysis—the role of unconscious mental processes, repression as a process actively keeping them unconscious, transference as a main determinant of behaviour, the origin of neurosis in childhood trauma. Not one of these concepts bears any intrinsic relation to a psychical energy model; and when this model is discarded all four remain intact and unchanged. The psychical energy model is a possible model for explaining the data to which Freud drew attention: it is certainly not a necessary one.”
John Bowlby, Attachment

Annie Tanasugarn, PhD
“If you are more avoidantly attached, emotional intimacy is often seen as something you simultaneously want but fear. Many who are more avoidantly attached are drawn to the intensity and newness of the early stages of a relationship. Yet, they often start pumping the brakes when the relationship becomes more emotionally intimate.”
Annie Tanasugarn, PhD, The Anxious-Avoidant Trap: Overcome the Push and Pull of Different Attachment Styles in Your Relationship and Build Lasting Connection

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