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by (shelved 978 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.09 — 4,489,446 ratings — published 2016

by (shelved 434 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.22 — 671,423 ratings — published 2012

by (shelved 366 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.21 — 95,136 ratings — published 2011

by (shelved 343 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.05 — 626,451 ratings — published 1999

by (shelved 318 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.14 — 457,591 ratings — published 1995

by (shelved 302 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.44 — 1,397,908 ratings — published 2022

by (shelved 283 times as abuse)
avg rating 3.93 — 1,248,357 ratings — published 2012

by (shelved 280 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.47 — 1,810,073 ratings — published 2018

by (shelved 277 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.16 — 117,254 ratings — published 2012

by (shelved 268 times as abuse)
avg rating 3.66 — 26,567 ratings — published 2014

by (shelved 268 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.04 — 55,810 ratings — published 2014

by (shelved 265 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.21 — 995,960 ratings — published 2015

by (shelved 262 times as abuse)
avg rating 3.93 — 74,857 ratings — published 2011

by (shelved 260 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.13 — 169,053 ratings — published 2013

by (shelved 253 times as abuse)
avg rating 3.84 — 226,543 ratings — published 2013

by (shelved 244 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.10 — 410,735 ratings — published 2020

by (shelved 244 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.24 — 1,970,500 ratings — published 1999

by (shelved 244 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.08 — 829,593 ratings — published 2010

by (shelved 232 times as abuse)
avg rating 3.92 — 43,222 ratings — published 2011

by (shelved 220 times as abuse)
avg rating 3.98 — 42,775 ratings — published 2013

by (shelved 210 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.45 — 500,881 ratings — published 2018

by (shelved 205 times as abuse)
avg rating 3.84 — 78,013 ratings — published 2012

by (shelved 203 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.09 — 26,944 ratings — published 2014

by (shelved 202 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.22 — 21,011 ratings — published 2013

by (shelved 198 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.20 — 220,264 ratings — published 2020

by (shelved 193 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.45 — 1,125,170 ratings — published 2018

by (shelved 183 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.30 — 71,458 ratings — published 2012

by (shelved 182 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.07 — 229,051 ratings — published 2012

by (shelved 178 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.23 — 1,395,576 ratings — published 2017

by (shelved 175 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.27 — 56,395 ratings — published 2012

by (shelved 173 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.31 — 1,102,468 ratings — published 2014

by (shelved 172 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.17 — 73,131 ratings — published 2018

by (shelved 170 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.17 — 3,408,883 ratings — published 2005

by (shelved 169 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.08 — 39,591 ratings — published 2013

by (shelved 169 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.29 — 88,356 ratings — published 2012

by (shelved 168 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.41 — 28,116 ratings — published 2015

by (shelved 166 times as abuse)
avg rating 3.78 — 33,920 ratings — published 2008

by (shelved 161 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.37 — 3,539,568 ratings — published 2018

by (shelved 160 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.13 — 29,464 ratings — published 2014

by (shelved 160 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.08 — 59,763 ratings — published 2013

by (shelved 160 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.13 — 548,214 ratings — published 2012

by (shelved 159 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.17 — 654,636 ratings — published 2014

by (shelved 158 times as abuse)
avg rating 3.93 — 162,795 ratings — published 2016

by (shelved 156 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.28 — 891,218 ratings — published 2015

by (shelved 155 times as abuse)
avg rating 3.97 — 736,858 ratings — published 2016

by (shelved 152 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.08 — 32,719 ratings — published 2013

by (shelved 150 times as abuse)
avg rating 4.12 — 42,649 ratings — published 2014

by (shelved 150 times as abuse)
avg rating 3.97 — 42,693 ratings — published 2013

by (shelved 147 times as abuse)
avg rating 3.90 — 83,854 ratings — published 2000

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not 'smash their mommy' and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
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“All too often women believe it is a sign of commitment, an expression of love, to endure unkindness or cruelty, to forgive and forget. In actuality, when we love rightly we know that the healthy, loving response to cruelty and abuse is putting ourselves out of harm's way.”
― All About Love: New Visions
― All About Love: New Visions