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Best Hacks to Tackle Dating in a Virtual World?

The year 2020 has changed everything around us. Society is forced to learn new ways of working, educating, entertaining, and connecting. During these times of countless challenges, we are being asked to live around the perimeters of social distancing. The modifications to our lifestyles can feel like a huge undertaking for social beings. Wanting connection does not stop when the world does. Our deep desire to find someone special is stronger than most things. People have an innate need to be loved but how do we find an ocean of love in a drought? 

Single nen and women everywhere may be thinking about the changing face of dating. They say, “Where there is a will, there is a way!” Stories of love are popping up in the most creative forms, as men and women look to find the perfect mate during quarantine. The option of public gatherings has been eliminated in many states, leaving the dating scene in a pickle! How do you meet the right guy or girl without physical interaction? Some friends have given cupid the boot, at least for the time being while others won’t let the small detail stop them from seeking love. Technology is rapidly becoming the most reliable connector to help couples link up. The use of drones, Zoom and Skype, in addition to dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are on the rise in cities like New York and Seattle to name a few. 

Making a virtual romantic connection is an alternative to the old fashioned way of meeting, particularly in the age of SD (Social Distancing). It offers a chance to get to know someone before jumping into their waters. The upside is, if it doesn’t work you have an easier out from a video or phone call, as opposed to a in-person date.

Here are some helpful tips to help lessen the pain of virtual dating.

Safety is key, remember the importance of setting boundaries. Never give your address or any personal information to sttangers. The reality is, you don’t know who is behind the virtual encounter. Using your phone is the best mode of contact, even add a  layer of security, although nothing is full proof, play it smart.

Voice Calls/ Caller ID: For security purposes. you can choose to hide your number from the person you’re calling by dialing *67 (area code) +  (telephone number). Do not use the “1”, by the way this trick varies depending on location and carriers. There are exceptions to every rule, keep the caveat in mind. Below is another way to conceal a smartphone’s telephone number.  

The iPhone has a cool feature that is easy to set up. Go to Phone Settings> Phone> Show Caller ID> Toggle to show/hide number.

The Android phone is similar. Choose Phone settings>Call Settings>Additional Settings>Caller ID> Hide/Show number

Caution: Cell phone carriers are all different, make sure not to create a false sense of security. Also, features mentioned work for voice calls not text messaging. You can find applications that will facilitate it, if you plan on communicating via text. 

Speaking to someone personally is a good start to get a sense of potential suitors. Taking  time to familiarize yourself with someone without physical interactions can be beneficial. We are often distracted by the “butterflies. ” The fluttering of the heart can be deceiving in dating scenarios, and getting to know a person can discourage jumping into a relationship head first.

Set Up a Virtual Date. There are dozens of ways you can go on a date together without leaving the couch. You can tour Paris’ Louvre Museum, Uffizi Gallery in Florence, Van Gogh Musuem in Amsterdam or Musee d’ Orsay in Paris, even the Guggenheim in New York City! If you enjoy music, there are live stream concerts happening all over. There is something for every couple, think outside the box letting your imagination wander to anywhere in the world. It is a great way to figure out if you and Mr. Wonderful have similar interests that may drive you to a second or third date before the big in-person mask reveal. Social distancing will pose lots of challenges, so manage one date at a time. Have fun with it!
Technology is Your Friend. Use your devices to entertain. Try playing a game of Words with Friends or Scrabble Go . It may be a great way to see how his or her mind works, maybe pick his/her brain.

Don’t be afraid to give it a go, reinvent the wheel during this period. It can prove to be a helpful tool in finding quality over quantity. Getting to know a potential mate before meeting is really valuable if you are looking for a true companion to complement your life, adding substance. 

Where will you go on your first virtual date?

If you have any fun ideas of your own, please share with our friends at AW!

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5 Strong Dating Mantras You Must Know

Getting it right on the first try is not the expectation. Our picker during the younger years can be affected by anything from hormones to blind lust. Choosing a partner who is right for you is difficult when you are not setting proper boundaries or acknowledging your worth. The idea that it’s okay to wait for the right guy isn’t always embraced but is crucial to remember. These mantras are useful to keep in mind before entering (or re-entering) the dating world. I believe sharing these helpful tips with the women in our lives can help navigate the often exhausting exercise. Keep them in your back pocket for the day you make a splash at the oasis that awaits you.

Greg Behrendt, Co-Author of “He’s Just Not That Into You” and Author, “It’s Just a F*! Date” was interviewed on Oprah’s SuperSoul Sunday along with his wife, Amiira Ruotola. During the chat, the couple discussed some blunders women often make during the dating phase that can hinder them from having a successful experience.

On average, personal dating stories are very bad or good depending on several factors. You get what you put into it, is one approach. Give a little at a time without investing everything, too early is another. Post-divorce, I wasn’t necessarily itching to go out on a big quest for a new love. For some time, dating was a chore, definitely not a fun time. Present-day, I realize there are a some things I could have done differently to improve the process, starting with the selection of candidates. But no regrets, as I am where I was meant to be.

Do any of Behrendt‘s fumbles ring familiar?

You Do Not Complete Me. It is key to know you are enough on your own. Whoever you choose will complement you not make you whole. You are already complete, girl!
Dating is Fun! Think of dating as a test drive. You wouldn’t buy a car without knowing what it can do, would you? Understanding a partner’s assets is crucial. You should have an idea of what he (or she) brings to the table, as the other half of the relationship. In the meantime, enjoy the ride and have fun as you get to know people. Make friends, and socialize to take off some of the pressures put on by society.
You Attract What You Give Off. (You attract what you are) Generally in life, put your best foot forward. Open up to the world of positive thinking. Cautiously, give others an opportunity to know you, in turn, you will draw good vibes.
Sex Will Not Guarantee a Closing. Physical intimacy does not guarantee an emotional connection. Having great sex does not secure a relationship. You cannot hold anyone down with physical attraction alone. There needs to be depth and meaning to make a lasting bond, otherwise, things eventually fizzle out.
Feeble Men Can’t Handle Your Success. Wait for a man that is not afraid to let you shine. Do not dumb yourself down or roll over to stroke a man’s ego. Staying true to who you are is essential for happiness. No man or relationship is worth such sacrifice. You are too valuable to the world to hide your gifts.

These mantras are powerful and a solid start into the journey of dating. I “winged it” as they say which made life miserable. Flying by the seat of my pants was exciting to a degree but deprived me of good options. If we don’t set limits, we end up accepting almost anything. Use dating as a tool to meet people, instead of making it a bear trap.

Thank you Behrendt for the sensible input! Haopefully, we can all take a little something from his nuggets of wisdom.

Happy Dating, Ladies!

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Celebrity Profile Interviews for BELatina News

Timing is everything. There may have been moments you were tapped on the shoulder by opportunity but you weren’t exactly ready for what was in store. I believe when the moment is right, things organically come together to get you to where you’re supposed to land. Meanwhile, the best we can do is do the work to create, improve, and shape the life envisioned.

I have been asked, when did I set out to write – a book, for a magazine, my blog? Truth is, I did not plan or set the goal to become a writer. Life happened, it still is happening, and I felt that sharing my experiences as a woman would help others who might feel alone or lost in their journey.

Cultivating relationships during this process has further inspired me to continue telling the stories that encourage others. The amazing response has led me to believe I had a gift to offer the world. Awakened-Woman was born from the realization that we all need a community and connection. A place to meet other women and have a healthy exchange about fears, insecurities, and all things female that we may not want to ask or discuss with anyone else. A circle to read topics that affect us all. If these articles lend a hand to others out of a dark or painful place and find some hope then it is worth it. Greatness lives within but it cannot reveal itself until we tap into our power. I am learning to use mine for light.

The possibilities are knocking more often these days, as I meet new people, write inspiring pieces while building the AW brand. In recent weeks, opportunities are knocking louder. The work with BELatina News has provided a chance for some great profile interviews –

Director, SJ Main Munoz who recently directed, an NBC “Chicago Med” episode
Chicago Fire, television Actor, Joe Minoso
Multi-Grammy Winner, Latin Pop Sensation, Luis Fonsi. Best-known for the 2017 megahit, “Despacito” whose music video has received 6 billion views on YouTube as of 2019.
Raquel Castro, Actress/Songwriter and Singer. She played Gertie in “Jersey Girl” starring Jennifer Lopez. She also had a recurring role on Fox-TV popular show “Empire.” Most recently she won NBC’s Songland with “Wrong Places” for R&B artist H.E.R. Grateful for the chance to speak with Raquel for BELatina News


Profile Interview with Actress, Isabella Sierra, Reina del Sur, Telemundo for BELatina News
NBC’s World of Dance, Professional Dancers, Jefferson & Adrianita for BELatina News
NBC’s World of Dance, Professional Dance Team, Show Stopper Miami for BELatina News
Nathalie Kelley , who plays Noa Hamilton in ABC’s “The Baker and the Beauty for BELatina News

The only way to know what we are truly capable of is by accepting challenges.  I would not have the rewarding experiences of today if I didn’t answer the call. Taking a calculated risk is better than living with the “What if?.” Take a chance to learn something new. Don’t be afraid to see what is on the other side of that door. It may guide you to thrilling adventures that help cultivate a life you could have only imagined.

I hope you check out my newest articles at BELatina.

Stay tuned for more exciting news to come!

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Celebrity, Profile Interviews for BELatina News

Timing is everything. There may have been moments you were tapped on the shoulder by opportunity but you weren’t exactly ready for what was in store. I believe when the moment is right, things organically come together to get you to where you’re supposed to land. Meanwhile, the best we can do is do the work to create, improve, and shape the life envisioned.

I have been asked, when did I set out to write – a book, for a magazine, my blog? Truth is, I did not plan or set the goal to become a writer. Life happened, it still is happening, and I felt that sharing my experiences as a woman would help others who might feel alone or lost in their journey.

Cultivating relationships during this process has further inspired me to continue telling the stories that encourage others. The amazing response has led me to believe I had a gift to offer the world. Awakened-Woman was born from the realization that we all need a community and connection. A place to meet other women and have a healthy exchange about fears, insecurities, and all things female that we may not want to ask or discuss with anyone else. A circle to read topics that affect us all. If these articles lend a hand to others out of a dark or painful place and find some hope then it is worth it. Greatness lives within but it cannot reveal itself until we tap into our power. I am learning to use mine for light.

The possibilities are knocking more often these days, as I meet new people, write inspiring pieces while building the AW brand. In recent weeks, opportunities are knocking louder. The work with BELatina News has provided a chance for some great profile interviews –

Director, SJ Main Munoz who recently directed, an NBC “Chicago Med” episode
Chicago Fire, television Actor, Joe Minoso
Multi-Grammy Winner, Latin Pop Sensation, Luis Fonsi. Best-known for the 2017 megahit, “Despacito” whose music video has received 6 billion views on YouTube as of 2019.
Raquel Castro, Actress/Songwriter and Singer. She played Gertie in “Jersey Girl” starring Jennifer Lopez. She also had a recurring role on Fox-TV popular show “Empire.” Most recently she won NBC’s Songland with “Wrong Places” for R&B artist H.E.R. Grateful for the chance to speak with Raquel for BELatina News


Profile Interview with Actress, Isabella Sierra, Reina del Sur, Telemundo for BELatina News
NBC’s World of Dance, Professional Dancers, Jefferson & Adrianita for BELatina News
NBC’s World of Dance, Professional Dance Team, Show Stopper Miami for BELatina News

The only way to know what we are truly capable of is by accepting challenges.  I would not have the rewarding experiences of today if I didn’t answer the call. Taking a calculated risk is better than living with the “What if?.” Take a chance to learn something new. Don’t be afraid to see what is on the other side of that door. It may guide you to thrilling adventures that help cultivate a life you could have only imagined.

I hope you check out my newest articles at BELatina.

Stay tuned for more exciting news to come!

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Celebrity Interviews for BELatina News

Timing is everything. There may have been moments you were tapped on the shoulder by opportunity but you weren’t exactly ready for what was in store. I believe when the moment is right, things organically come together to get you to where you’re supposed to land. Meanwhile, the best we can do is do the work to create, improve, and shape the life envisioned.

I have been asked, when did I set out to write – a book, for a magazine, my blog? Truth is, I did not plan or set the goal to become a writer. Life happened, it still is happening, and I felt that sharing my experiences as a woman would help others who might feel alone or lost in their journey.

Cultivating relationships during this process has further inspired me to continue telling the stories that encourage others. The amazing response has led me to believe I had a gift to offer the world. Awakened-Woman was born from the realization that we all need a community and connection. A place to meet other women and have a healthy exchange about fears, insecurities, and all things female that we may not want to ask or discuss with anyone else. A circle to read topics that affect us all. If these articles lend a hand to others out of a dark or painful place and find some hope then it is worth it. Greatness lives within but it cannot reveal itself until we tap into our power. I am learning to use mine for light.

The possibilities are knocking more often these days, as I meet new people, write inspiring pieces while building the AW brand. In recent weeks, opportunities are knocking louder. The work with BELatina News has provided a chance for some great profile interviews –

Director, SJ Main Munoz who recently directed, an NBC “Chicago Med” episode
Chicago Fire, television Actor, Joe Minoso
Multi-Grammy Winner, Latin Pop Sensation, Luis Fonsi. Best-known for the 2017 megahit, “Despacito” whose music video has received 6 billion views on YouTube as of 2019.
Raquel Castro, Actress/Songwriter and Singer. She played Gertie in “Jersey Girl” starring Jennifer Lopez. She also had a recurring role on Fox-TV popular show “Empire.” Most recently she won NBC’s Songland with “Wrong Places” for R&B artist H.E.R. Grateful for the chance to speak with Raquel for BELatina News


Profile Interview with Actress, Isabella Sierra, Reina del Sur, Telemundo for BELatina News
NBC’s World of Dance, Professional Dancers, Jefferson & Adrianita for BELatina News

The only way to know what we are truly capable of is by accepting challenges.  I would not have the rewarding experiences of today if I didn’t answer the call. Taking a calculated risk is better than living with the “What if?.” Take a chance to learn something new. Don’t be afraid to see what is on the other side of that door. It may guide you to thrilling adventures that help cultivate a life you could have only imagined.

I hope you check out my newest articles at BELatina.

Stay tuned for more exciting news to come!

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If Opportunity Knocks, Will You Answer the Call?

Timing is everything. There may have been moments you were tapped on the shoulder by opportunity but you weren’t exactly ready for what was in store. I believe when the moment is right, things organically come together to get you to where you’re supposed to land. Meanwhile, the best we can do is do the work to create, improve, and shape the life envisioned.

I have been asked, when did I set out to write – a book, for a magazine, my blog? Truth is, I did not plan or set the goal to become a writer. Life happened, it still is happening, and I felt that sharing my experiences as a woman would help others who might feel alone or lost in their journey.

Cultivating relationships during this process has further inspired me to continue telling the stories that encourage others. The amazing response has led me to believe I had a gift to offer the world. Awakened-Woman was born from the realization that we all need a community and cnnection. A place to meet other women and have a healthy exchange about fears, insecurities, and all things female that we may not want to ask or discuss with anyone else. A circle to read topics that affect us all. If these articles lend a hand to others out of a dark or painful place and find some hope then it is worth it. Greatness lives within but it cannot reveal itself until we tap into our power. I am learning to use mine for light.

The possibilities are knocking more often these days, as I meet new people, write inspiring pieces while building the AW brand. In recent weeks, opportunities are knocking louder. The work with BELatina News has provided a chance for some great profile interviews –

Director, SJ Main Munoz who recently directed, an NBC “Chicago Med” episode
Chicago Fire, television Actor, Joe Minoso
Multi-Grammy Winner, Latin Pop Sensation, Luis Fonsi. Best-known for the 2017 megahit, “Despacito” whose music video has received 6 billion views on YouTube as of 2019.
Raquel Castro, Actress/Somgwriter and Singer. She played Gertie in “Jersey Girl” starring Jennifer Lopez. Castro also had a recurring role on Fox-TV popular show “Empire.” Most recently she won NBC’s Songland for the song “Wrong Places” written for H.E.R

The only way to know what we are truly capable of is by accepting challenges.  I would not have the rewarding experiences of today, if I didn’t answer the call. Taking a calculated risk is better than living with the “What if?.” Take a chance to learn something new. Don’t be afraid to see what is on the other side of that door. It may guide you to thrilling adventures that help cultivate a life you could have only imagined.

I hope you check out my newest articles at BELatina.

Stay tuned for more exciting news to come!

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5 Tips to Recharge from the Overstress of Quarantine Life Due to Coronavirus

You have probably been trying to find ways to spend your time. Hopefully, you are not glued to the television watching hourly updates of the global pandemic. Staying informed is essential but oversaturating your mind in the negativity of current events, inevitably leads to more anxiety.  What have you been doing to distract or keep yourself grounded?

Like many others, it has been challenging for me to balance the worry and positive energy required to stay sane during this craziness. Women naturally give up everything to take care of everyone else. The new normal can easily consume us, taking selfless acts to new heights. It’s good to find activities that exercise the mind and body while everyone is restricted to their homes and life is on hold. But there are some things you can do as a way of releasing toxicity caused by the overthinking you may be living. Hopefully, you find some of these examples helpful.

Self-Care is important to maintain the spirits up. Beating yourself up or complaining about the things you use to do but can’t do now will further frustrate and depress you. Taking regular showers, washing hair, keep your nails clean, getting out of the old sweats can pick up the mood. Practicing hygiene is crucial to our well-being.
Take Breaks during the day. Ten minutes to center your thoughts is more valuable than you think. Collect yourself and organize your head. Eliminate fearful ideas you may legitimately be feeling, replace them with facts. Quiet your mind for a couple intervals throughout day.
Stick to a Daily Routine. I wake up each day to work from home, maintaining a regular routine, as if I were going to the office. Some days, I slap on red lipstick and jump on my laptop, thankful to get to work. Focus on any tasks, chores, goals you have lined up for the day. Most importantly, practice gratitude for all the things you are still able to do, as small as these may be. Gratefulness is a reminder of what matters most in life. Your health, the love of family, and friends to help keep you strong.
Reading is a wonderful tool that should be used during periods of uncertainty or hardship. Picking up a book to frame the mind, expand knowledge, gain positivity, or change perspective is useful. The power of words is sometimes underestimated. In many ways, books have done more for me during painful and challenging times than anything else. Reading expands my mind, often helping me look at things differently.
Embrace the time the crisis is giving you. We are spending endless hours at home with no control over the timing of the reopening of the city. Why not give into acceptance, using the time for yourself. It doesn’t mean that you need to go write a book, draw a masterpiece, or reinvent your life. Taking a pause to get reacquainted with yourself can help regroup. Do things that encourage you to stay balanced.

It is essential to remember that you are entitled to a bad day when you feel things are not okay. This ordeal is very difficult to manage phyysically, as well as, mentally, so don’t be too hard on yourself.

Also, stress contributes to the deterioration of mental and physical, weakening of the immune system is the last thing you need. Seek an individual safe haven. Once you find that center, do not forget to occasionally reach out to your tribe for comfort. Watch a movie to make you laugh or listen to music that inspires! Have a virtual brunch, dinner with friends or family to pay it forward. We will get through this time together. #StaySafe

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A Victim of Domestic Violence Speaks Out

In early April, The New York Times reported that cases of domestic violence were on the rise. The recent lockdown has forced many couples to remain in confinement due to worldwide restrictions. Most people quarantined at home with nowhere to go. Distractions are eliminated forcing couples to confront a reality that isn’t always pretty, aggravated by life’s stressors and rattling the pressure cooker. Events taking place in this type of home situation turn volatile, placing these women in great danger.

On average, close to 20 people per minute suffer at the hand of an intimate partner. According to recent statistics, the majority of the victims in abusive relationships are women. The unspeakable crime leaves a trail of terror, mistrust, and despair as a loved one creates havoc in the victim’s life. Sometimes, the abuse causes victims to feel tremendous guilt as they process the tsunami of emotions including the torturous voice in your ear,  whispering “You should have known better.”

During my late teens, I experienced a relationship with a controlling and troubled young man. His emotional maturity was minimal, my inexperience combined with the butterflies did not allow me to see things clearly until one fateful night. On prom night during my senior year of high school, my date’s true colors came to light. His dislike for my friends turned into an intense tug of war. My defiance during an argument won me a hard shove in an elevator. The fear and psychological toll of that moment lasted for a while but was a lesson in boundaries. It was our last date, the only time he got the chance to show his aggression. I was one of the lucky ones, recognizing the signs of abuse early in the courtship. Millions of women never get this chance, instead, they are roped into an unhealthy or perilous situation. Too often, trapped in a web of violence without knowing how to exit safely.

I met one of these women, inspiring me to write this article. Due to the sensitivity of the topic, her identity will remain confidential. She is a woman of intelligence, wit, and lives her life with gratitude. “Lovey” as I call her, carries immense strength with grace. You would never imagine the pain she’s had to endure at the hands of domestic violence. Recently, she was courageous enough to share some of what she experienced giving us a real look behind the picture of domestic violence.

1. How long were you a victim of domestic violence? Did your friends and family suspect your precarious situation at home?  I was a victim for 6 years, as naive as I was, didn’t realize the abuse actually began about 3 years into the relationship. Looking back, I think I had blinders on.

Oh my! Yes, they did and begged me to leave! I was very strong-willed during that time, did not like being told what to do. Even though I knew they were right, found myself making excuses for everything. I began to distance myself from family and friends. He “convinced” me that the people I loved did not have my best interest at heart. I was so desperate to be loved, he said all the right things, so I stayed. I thought it was how love was supposed to be.

2. Are you still in the situation or have you exited the relationship? What made you leave for good – the point of no return?  I walked out on Jan 31, 2011, he beat me so badly I was rushed to the emergency room.  It took him to beat me, for me to finally understand this was not healthy. It was my son’s 16th birthday, my baby boy saw me broken the day after the celebration. The blue and purple bruises along with swelling he witnessed, destroyed him. The look on his face was earth-shattering, I knew that instant, the truth was out.  My children were aware their stepfather was the culprit.

The last straw was being put in the hospital. I had enough after countless 911 calls resulted in a case of broken bones.  Seeing my kids’ faces when they visited me in the hospital gave me the ultimate shove out the door. It was sad that it took the violent incident to finally “get it”.

3. Were there any signs at the beginning of the relationship that your partner may have had a problem. Did something ever seem off about him prior to the first time that violence took place? Yes, I chose to ignore the signs. He was a habitual drinker. I was newly divorced from the children’s father. I thought I needed to keep up, party, be wild, and carefree but things got increasingly worse. Over time, I found myself working all around the clock while he drank the money away. Each night, I’d pick him up on my way home from work. He would be intoxicated, physically sick, and the night ending with him hitting me. Lateness on my part triggered accusations of cheating which were terribly unfounded but gave him justification to get violent – in his mind. Afterward, a scene of apologies and declarations of love. His mother claimed I deserved it because I didn’t do what was asked of me. A good wife gives up friends, kids, and caters to a husband, anything to keep the family together. According to her, I should accept beatings because he loved me, my job was to put up with it.  My freedom was limited, alienation from those closest left me with only him to depend on for happiness but there was none. The situation greatly affected my children. My biggest regret was losing six years of bonding time with my babies because of the abusive relationship.  The threat to hurt my children if I left, hung over me. I thought I was protecting them but keeping them in that turmoil did more harm than good, causing extensive damage.

4. What do you want to say to women that are afraid or not financially ready to leave their abuser? Abuse of any form stunts growth and endangers lives. It’s never easy or safe to leave but thinking of an escape plan in advance is helpful. Build your savings quietly, put enough money away to retrieve later if needed.  Have a support person to empower you with good advice. Abuse is about power and control, strategize steps as you think of how to make your departure. You know your abuser better than anyone, plan carefully. Many will feel they don’t have a choice due to financial restraints, as he (or she) may control everything.  You always have a choice.  As for myself, I’d rather live in the streets, on a friend’s couch indefinitely than live with the monster. An internal conversation or many will take place while deciding. The only person that can make the decision to leave is YOU. Violence is not love, you are worthy of magic, miracles, and purpose.  Your abuser is a skilled manipulator and the words “I love you” are for control. You may feel so broken, thinking he is the only person that loves you. You will be convinced it is love, I call them“Love Bombers.” It is in the abuser’s deck of cards, beware of this skill set.

Refer to hotlines for support and applications such as Aspire News app. It looks like a daily news site, hidden in a stealthy way is a safety net. The “help” section is a list of resources for domestic violence victims (it was a lifesaver for me).  Victim notifications of an incident are sent via the click of a button making it easier for situations requiring first responders.  Also, the One Love app is an aid for safety planning while in an abusive relationship, also worth checking out.  My biggest piece of advice is to be very cautious as you make sure there is a backup. Do not get discouraged because there are people willing to help, so reach out to ask for it.

5. What has been the greatest self-discovery since walking away from your domestic violence situation?  Finding my self-worth.  I am much stronger and speak my truths no matter what anyone thinks.  I don’t wish this part of my life on anyone but it made me who I am today. I learned to love myself again, despite the guilt of not being present, the way I should have been for my children.  A loved one, once said to me, “You spoke your truth, make amends, finish the apologies and remorse. Your kids know your story and everyone has healed, safely.  Life is perfect, you are perfect. Sometimes we forget that we have everything we truly need.  Stop to reflect on life for 15 minutes, you too will see how blessed you are.”

Lovey’s story had a good ending despite her ordeal, an opportunity to start over. Among the millions of domestic violence victims, too many are not so fortunate, as lives are lost to the despicable crime. During this time of pause let’s stay aware, empathetic, and informed. While the population suffers the consequences of a quarantined life, others are experiencing greater anguish as they live in their own silent hell.

If you or anyone you know needs help, there are resources available. To find out more about domestic violence, go to NCADV (National Coalition of Domestic Violence).

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Beautifully Inspired Badass Life

Have you ever felt inspired by someone’s life? Has anyone you know been devastated by a traumatic or life-changing event then turned around to create an amazing life? Are you an example of what is possible when life forces you to sink or swim?

Kellie Ann is a woman that has been strengthened by her many experiences. Life has placed significant barriers testing her will and courage. But like the warrior she is, nothing has stopped her from becoming the person she is meant to be. Since surviving a domestic violence relationship, there have been a series of wins. It took time but eventually, she developed the self-confidence and resilience to help tackle roadblocks placed on her path to greatness.

Women have a history of being smothered by societal views. However, the perceived “weaker gender” has been a source of support for some of the strongest and influential men in history.  Examples of the exact opposite are spread throughout the timeline of human civilization. Josephine and Napoleon, Cleopatra and Napoleon, Eva and Juan Peron, and First Lady, Eleanor Roosevelt partnered with FDR (Franklin D Roosevelt) and created her own individual footprint in American history. I would state that is pretty badass! Women today continue to carry the torch making a mark in countless areas of society.

Kellie Ann has done the same by living a life out loud and on her terms. The events that were once a source of affliction forced her to fight for a way out of ill-fate. She countered the negative with incredible faith that led to a shift, bringing her to where she is today. She provides therapy, motivation, and new insight as a consultant to her clientele. The study of Neuro linguistic Programming has given her the tools to help clients analyze and change past behaviors that have not served them. She guides people to see a different perspective that encourages transformation. The desired result is for individuals to realize their full potential. The mother of two is the Founder and CEO of Beautifully Inspired Life Coaching helping inspire others that feel cornered in their personal turmoil.

The Beautifully Inspired Badass Life Podcast host also works with the Valley Oasis Domestic Violence Council in an effort to pay it forward. We are surrounded by badass women like Kellie Ann that give back to communities and promote empowerment. The journey of AW is ongoing and grateful to continue providing a platform to highlight women that are rising from hardship, as well as, living their best lives.

Sitting down to chat with Kellie Ann for an episode of the Beautifully Inspired Badass Life podcast grounded me. It was a reminder of the power we all have to impact others with our stories. If you find yourself combating a time of overwhelming challenges and want inspiration, this is a good step towards your own awakening!

You can find Beautifully Inspired Badass Life on Instagram and Facebook, too!

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Beautifully Inspired Badass Life

Have you ever felt inspired by someone’s life? Has anyone you know been devastated by a traumatic or life-changing event then turned around to create an amazing life? Are you an example of what is possible when life forces you to sink or swim?

Kellie Ann is a woman that has been strengthened by her many experiences. Life has placed significant barriers testing her will and courage. But like the warrior she is, nothing has stopped her from becoming the person she is meant to be. Since surviving a domestic violence relationship, there have been a series of wins. It took time but eventually, she developed the self-confidence and resilience to help tackle roadblocks placed on her path to greatness.

Women have a history of being smothered by societal views. However, the perceived “weaker gender” has been a source of support for some of the strongest and influential men in history.  Examples of the exact opposite are spread throughout the timeline of human civilization. Josephine and Napoleon, Cleopatra and Napoleon, Eva and Juan Peron, and First Lady, Eleanor Roosevelt partnered with FDR (Franklin D Roosevelt) and created her own individual footprint in American history. I would state that is pretty badass! Women today continue to carry the torch making a mark in countless areas of society.

Kellie Ann has done the same by living a life out loud and on her terms. The events that were once a source of affliction forced her to fight for a way out of ill-fate. She countered the negative with incredible faith that led to a shift, bringing her to where she is today. She provides therapy, motivation, and new insight as a consultant to her clientele. The study of Neuro linguistic Programming has given her the tools to help clients analyze and change past behaviors that have not served them. She guides people to see a different perspective that encourages transformation. The desired result is for individuals to realize their full potential. The mother of two is the Founder and CEO of Beautifully Inspired Life Coaching helping inspire others that feel cornered in their personal turmoil.

The Beautifully Inspired Badass Life Podcast host also works with the Valley Oasis Domestic Violence Council in an effort to pay it forward. We are surrounded by badass women like Kellie Ann that give back to communities and promote empowerment. The journey of AW is ongoing and grateful to continue providing a platform to highlight women that are rising from hardship, as well as, living their best lives.

Sitting down to chat with Kellie Ann for an episode of the Beautifully Inspired Badass Life podcast grounded me. It was a reminder of the power we all have to impact others with our stories. If you find yourself combating a time of overwhelming challenges and want inspiration, this is a good step towards your own awakening!

You can find Beautifully Inspired Badass Life on Instagram and Facebook, too!

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