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What Rat Poison & Norovirus Taught Me About Gratitude

The scene: New Year’s Eve.
The plan: a quiet evening at home with family. The energy is palpable—a mix of magic, anticipation, and, in my case this year, a touch of mayhem.

Our house was brimming with holiday joy and the comfort of family, but then the heat started acting up—a major problem in frigid temperatures. Two technicians came out during the week and failed to find the source of the problem. By New Year’s Eve, the heat stopped working altogether. We found one more technician who agreed to come out and the third time happened to be a charm. After many phone calls, we found the only repair technician available who agreed to take a look immediately.

But the repairman had an additional finding. Miles, our chocolate lab, followed him down to the boiler room. The technician heard munching and saw pink crumbs on Miles’s mouth and on the floor in front of him. It didn’t take long for us to realize, to our horror, that his new “treat” was rat poison. Cue an emergency trip to the vet, only to discover Miles had also consumed one of Abigail’s Chanukah toys (because, of course, why not?). After life-saving measures, Miles was treated for rat poison and naughty-boy-toy ingestion and sent home to recover.

You’re probably thinking that’s it, right? My friend, it was not. They say these things come in threes; thus, my oldest son, David, began feeling not so great. It was soon clear that David was battling norovirus. He became violently ill, and I spent the next few hours back and forth between David and the dog.

By around 8 pm, Michael and I finally had food prepared and were ready to have our family dinner, although David would not be joining. I sat down to dinner, utterly spent and turned to Michael, exhausted, and said, “maybe we should go to bed and wake up next year.”

I intended to do just that, but, as fate would have it, the night held one more twist. Abigail appeared at dinner dressed to the nines in a sparkly dress and ready to party. I was still in jeans and a sweater. But when I saw her effort and enthusiasm, I ran upstairs to change. Maybe I crawled…

Then I announced that it was time to get ready for bed. Disappointment immediately washed over her 11-year-old face. She had her heart set on staying up late, watching the ball drop for the first time, and celebrating the turn of the year with us. And she reminded me that last year I’d been attending a wedding on New Year’s Eve, and she had been so excited to spend this one with me.

I paused. I cannot overstate how fully, completely, and desperately I just wanted to go to bed. But I had an opportunity, and the only thing standing in my way was my own comfort, in this case, intense discomfort. So, I pivoted and leaned in.

Next, there I was—fully spent and watching New Year’s Eve coverage, Abigail snuggled up beside me. We welcomed 2025 joyfully, and the next morning, everyone woke up feeling better, even David and Miles.

Kabbalists teach that gratitude clears the path for blessings to enter our lives. When we appreciate what we have—even in the face of stress, missed expectations, or plans going awry—we transform ourselves and our lives, creating spaces for more blessings. Our boiler broke, and it was cold, reminding us what a blessing heat is. Curious Miles made a bad judgment call that resulted in stress and vet bills, but how fortunate we are to have his wild, unconditional love in our lives. Norovirus is just not good. But I rarely get the opportunity to care for my grown-up son. And even though all I wanted to do was go to sleep, Abigail and her sparkly sequined dress glistening in the glow of the TV, watching her first ball drop on New Year’s Eve, is a moment we will both cherish for years to come. When we transform chaos into gratitude the landscape of our lives—very literally—begins to change. That is exactly what happened to me this New Year’s Eve.

Chaos doesn’t cancel gratitude. It actually helps us to make room for it when we take a moment to choose. In the stretch beyond what’s comfortable, in the moments where we push ourselves to show up despite exhaustion, we find our biggest gifts waiting for us.

And when the clock struck midnight, I felt it—not just the arrival of a new year, but the unmistakable presence of gratitude, wrapping itself around me like the warmth we’d so desperately missed just hours before. Here’s to finding the sparkles in our messiest nights. Sometimes, you discover them when and where you least expect it.

A Perfect Question

Years ago, my son Josh said something that I found humorous but also profound. “When I grow up,” he said. “I want to be on a football team.” This wasn’t the profundity, of course, but then he asked me if I thought he could do that. I replied, telling him that I hoped that he would be able to do all of the things he wanted for himself when he grew up. After a moment, he turned to me again and, this time, asked, “What are you going to be when you grow up?” I, of course, explained that I was already grown up. Without missing a beat, he pointedly and with genuine curiosity, asked: “So what are you?”

What a perfect question.

We are in a brand new year. New energy, new opportunities, new possibilities, and an entirely new you waiting to be unfolded. The new year is typically a time in which we all catch the collective energy of new beginnings and use this opportunity to begin anything we choose. Goals, intentions, plans, promises. These things are wonderful and exciting, paving the wave for so much growth and many blessings. But, many of us forget to really examine the type of growth and the kind of blessings we are drawing in.

Before you get to manifesting all this newness, I’ll ask you what Josh asked of me:

What are you?

Who are you? Who do you want to be? That may seem broad and existential, but it’s a very important question to ask, especially if you’re going to craft your next evolution. A simple way of investigating yourself is by starting with what you like—and don’t like—about yourself. What are your strengths? What are your weaknesses? Take a moment now to create a list of each. In one column, write down all the qualities within yourself that you are proud of, and in the other, write down all the qualities that you wish would disappear. Good.

Now, switch them.

That’s right. Put all of your perceived strengths under the weakness column and all of your perceived weaknesses under the strength column. How does that feel? My guess is confusing, frustrating, uncomfortable… But imagine for a moment how one of your weaknesses could actually be a dormant positive and, conversely, how one of your strengths could be holding you back. For instance, I’m independent and competent. But those “strengths” can actually keep me from asking for help. Thereby, people often think that I’m so strong that nothing hurts me when that couldn’t be further from the truth.

This self-awareness is crucial when we’re setting New Year’s goals and intentions. By taking this kind of thoughtful inventory of our traits, we can create goals that align with our authentic selves, leveraging our strengths and addressing areas for improvement. This intentional approach will help ensure that our goals are both meaningful and realistically attainable, setting the stage for a fulfilling year ahead.

Understanding our strengths and weaknesses is like seeing ourselves in a well-lit mirror—it clarifies who we truly are. Each strength carries potential challenges, and every weakness holds an opportunity for growth. For instance, passion might lead to incredible creativity but also risk overwhelming others, while caution can protect us but sometimes hold us back from taking risks. Recognizing our dualities allows us to approach life with more balance and self-compassion.

The kabbalists teach that this world is called Olam Hafuch which means “an upside-down world.” The things that are important to us turn out to be not really that important. The things that are not immediately important to us are usually the most important. The things that worry us, that bring us anxiety, that stoke our fears… they are almost always illusions.

This kind of inventory is challenging because many beliefs that have been long held, and hidden away, will come to light and begin to transform. This is rarely an easy process but one that promises new perspectives—a requirement for the manifestation of any new experience. As you look to your goals for the New Year, ask yourself who they are for and why.

Are your goals in service to your most authentic self, or are they a list of should-wants?
Are you clinging to a current “strength” that no longer fulfills you?
Are you ready to face a fear and reveal its illusion?
What—and who—do you really want to be?

Approach this task without judgment and, instead, with curiosity. Kabbalah teaches that our purpose in this world is to change our nature by getting uncomfortable, getting curious, and embracing change. This exercise leads to all three.

The New Year may have already arrived, but this inquiry and inventory will serve you throughout the year. Examine your strengths and weaknesses without judgment. Is there positivity in one of your perceived weaknesses? Is one of your strengths keeping you set in your ways? If so, choose a few actions for each item that will help you to go against your nature. Then, watch the most expressed, transformational version of you unfold—the you that you actually are.

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Capricorn: Time to Let Go

As we welcome the New Moon of Capricorn, we say goodbye to the abundant energy and miraculous light of Sagittarius. This may feel like a bit of a jolt considering there are still three nights left of Chanukah, yet I see it as a supportive shift in the energetic tide.

Capricorn is a sign of determination, stability, and steady growth. It is ruled by Saturn, an icy planet that gives off twice as much energy as it takes in from the Sun. Energetically, Saturn symbolizes limits, restrictions, opposition, and structure—not typically on anyone’s list of favorite things! However, without them, we are unable to grow and evolve, we aren’t able to manifest or create anything and even if we did, we would have trouble finding meaning in it. This is where its power lies…

This month is bringing us the energy required for committing to our long-term vision and seeing it through, for unwavering ambition, and impenetrable patience. People born under this sign take naturally to hard work and have incredible discipline; they are responsible, reliable—and love to be in control.

The challenge of this month is one of control but more specifically about the paradoxical nature of control: to gain control you must relinquish the need for it. How do we meet this challenge? By crafting our plans, dreaming big, getting into action, and then… surrendering it all.

Okay, so, this doesn’t come easily to anyone no matter what sign you were born under. But it also means that anyone can benefit from it which is why this month is the perfect time to practice. I also can’t help but point out the elegance of how this energetic change of the guard comes during the middle of a holiday designed to help us draw down blessings.

As you observe the holiday of Chanukah still sparkling with the abundant Light of Sagittarius, perhaps you have experienced a tinge of expectation about how your blessings will manifest. Maybe you’re hoping to “get it right,” as a means of managing a specific outcome. If so, that’s okay; we’ve all been there. We have all wanted to feel in control of what comes but, regardless, it isn’t our job. Our only real job is to let go and trust.

The idea of letting go is scary, but journalist Jill Sherer Murray insists that letting go actually makes you unstoppable in the pursuit of what you truly desire. From ending a 12-year relationship to documenting her weight loss, Jill credits her successes to letting go. In a TEDx Talk, she explains how letting go created space in her life for the things she truly wanted; it helped her get present and allowed her to show up in every area of her life as her full, authentic self. Suddenly, all of the things she had deeply wanted—a committed partnership, the career of her dreams, physical health—began manifesting in her reality.

The type of letting go she describes isn’t the releasing of outer elements of life. She credits five things she let go and continues to let go of that have created the freedom and joy she currently experiences. Spoiler alert: they all come from within. She lets go of taking things personally, of caring what others think, of needing to be “perfect,” of trying to be something she’s not, and of waiting for the time to be right.

What do these have in common? They are all examples of us trying to be in control of things that are inherently out of our control—especially when, at the end of the day, these concerns are unimportant. When we let go of the need to control, we surrender and put our trust back in the Creator, replacing fear with certainty. I actually have a favorite parable that illuminates the miracles that abound via the magic of letting go.

One day, kabbalist the Baal Shem Tov was walking with one of his students through the middle of a forest. They had been walking for quite some time and still had much further to go. As they walked, the student became increasingly thirsty and said to the Baal Shem Tov, “I am going to faint if I do not get some water very quickly.” The Baal Shem Tov turned to him and said, “Do you have certainty that the Light of the Creator knew forever that this day you were going to become thirsty and were going to need water?” The student had his doubts and though he didn’t want to lie to the Baal Shem Tov he did want to have that level of certainty. So he replied, albeit wishful, “I have complete certainty.”

A few moments later a man with a bucket of water on his shoulders approached from the opposite direction. The Baal Shem Tov called to him and asked the man if he would mind sharing. Curious, the Baal Shem Tov asked, “What are you doing here in the middle of the forest with a bucket of water?” The man replied, “My employer was acting so strangely today. Even though we have a well very nearby, he told me he needed water from a well that is all the way across the forest! So here I am, carrying this water back to him.” The Baal Shem Tov said to his student, “You see? When you have constant certainty in miracles, they will happen to you all the time.”

When the student let go of worrying about “the how,” the miracle manifested before his eyes. You don’t need to be the student of a great kabbalist to experience this, the same thing happened to Jill Murray Sherer.

No miracle is passive, we have to show up. As we say goodbye and thank you to the miraculous energy of Sagittarius, I invite you to welcome the discerning, steadfast energy of Capricorn with open arms. Allow this month to show you all the ways that having a plan, determination, and patience will get you where you really want to go—then surrender and allow the Creator to reveal to you the path, the blessings, and the miracles.

You Are The Wizard

During this month of miracles, nothing seems ordinary. Snowmen come to life on screen, people randomly break into song, love is lost and found again, and even the coldest of nights feel warmed by the bright displays of color. This Thursday, Chanukah, also known as the Festival of Lights, begins, opening a rare portal of opportunity for us to connect with the real miracle behind all other miracles…

Here’s a quick—and for fans of Wicked, topical—analogy. Remember “the man behind the curtain” in The Wizard of Oz? Dorothy and her friends believed that their wishes would be granted by an all-powerful grand wizard who governed everything around them—as long as they obeyed his thunderous, borderline-oppressive voice. However, the so-called wizard turned out to be a smallish, gray-haired man bellowing through a heck of a sound system from behind a not-so-magical curtain. The jig was up, and the magic they had all believed in was gone.

But, was it?

The characters had all obeyed that booming voice even when it tested their courage. They followed the instructions even when asked to exhibit uncomfortable levels of empathy, intelligence, and determination. They faced adversity on their yellow brick path and discovered incredible friendship amongst the challenges. Those experiences, gifts, and qualities all remained even after this charlatan wizard was unmasked.

Unbeknownst to everyone, they were being led to a power greater than any wizard: the realization that they’d performed the miracles on their own! The real magic had been within them all along.

This brings me back to the greatest gift we’ve offered during Chanukah. This gift needs neither a package nor a sparkly, pretty bow. When we light the Chanukah menorah, we witness the source of all our miracles–the creative force behind the proverbial man behind the curtain. The candles’ light connects us with the greater Light, made brighter in the dark of winter. And when we connect wholly to this cosmic channel, anything and everything becomes possible.

The Rav wrote that we expand our capacity to usher in miracles when we go beyond merely seeing the light and instead practice being the light.

But how can we possibly be like light? It’s easier than you think. If you take a candle and light another with it, does the original flame diminish? Of course not! In fact, it’s the opposite: the original flame burns on just as brightly while having made the space even brighter through its sharing. Likewise, each of us has a unique way we can better the world. When we give of ourselves–not just to our families, but to our communities and to those beyond our circles–we enter into the light consciousness behind every miracle that ever was or will be.

The story of Chanukah tells of the ancient battle between the Maccabees and the Greeks, where a small band of soldiers overcame a mighty army. As Rav Berg explained in Days of Power, the Maccabees did not win because they had better weapons or because some giant hand swooped down from the sky to save them. Their victory was a product of the consciousness they brought into the fight. While the enemy wanted power and glory for themselves, the Maccabees fought for their people–to gain back the freedom that had been taken from them. Their intention in battle went beyond their own desires, therefore had the Light of the Creator on their side.

Later in the story, a small jar of pure oil, about a day’s worth, was discovered at the holy temple. Instead of lasting for one day, the oil lasted eight days.

This Light doesn’t belong to any one person, religion, group, or part of the world. It is for everyone, and it is up to us to use it to help banish the darkness. Even better, by helping to channel and reveal more Light where and when we can, we also create a circuit through which more blessings can flow back to us. The energy moves in both directions… and this is how we invite miracles into our lives.

You don’t have to celebrate Chanukah to tap into the potent energy of this time. Whether you are gazing at the stars, setting candles on a family table, or practicing another tradition or ritual related to the idea of light, you are part of a mystical whole that seeks connection, eradicates division, and uplifts the world. This is the true light consciousness.

Instead of believing in miracles, we can set out to help create them. The world needs us to pull back the curtains and shine in all the ways we can. Not just for eight days, but for the rest of the year and beyond.

I wish you a happy, bright, and extraordinary holiday in all the ways that are most meaningful for you and I invite you to notice the miracle behind all of the miracles in your life.

A Mini How-To for Navigating the Holidays

It happened at a holiday event she attended a few years ago. My friend, a guest at an event thrown by a friend, marveled at how deftly the host managed to weave between the family and friends present. The dinner was served beautifully, the candles flickered warmly, and her home was decorated so immaculately it felt like being a movie. Everyone is around the table, enjoying themselves so thoroughly, when someone—apparently he was the host’s cousin—asked, rather loudly, “When are you finally going to get a real job?” 

Cue the record scratch.

Was it a joke? Was it out of context? My friend had no idea, but that only fueled the awkwardness. We’ve all, no doubt, experienced something similar. The room suddenly feels smaller, the twinkling lights dim, and the joy is yanked from the room. Luckily, my friend was quick on her feet. She cracked a joke about how “a real job” was on her holiday wish list! The room erupted in a chuckle (gratefully, would be my guess!) and the night proceeded on. Her experience was such a reminder that while holiday gatherings are rarely perfect… they don’t have to be disasters. 

With the right mindset—and a few well-placed jokes—we can navigate these situations with ease, turning even the most challenging gatherings into meaningful experiences. Seeing as we all have holiday events on our calendars this month, here’s a mini how-to guide:

Cue Up Your Consciousness for Joy

Before stepping into any event, take a moment to set an intention. Are you there to reconnect with loved ones, celebrate achievements, or simply enjoy a festive atmosphere? No matter what the event is, you can choose ahead of time to find and focus on the joy. 

Embrace Small Talk

Yes, most of us would rather not. But small talk doesn’t have to be awkward or strenuous! It can actually be an amazing exercise in curiosity. Prepare a little list of open-ended questions to spark conversation. For example:

“What’s been the highlight of your year so far?”

“What’s your favorite holiday tradition?” 

“What’s a favorite childhood memory you have from a holiday?”

Focusing on the other person can ease tension and shift the spotlight away from any discomfort.

Difficult Conversations are Calls for Empathy

Family gatherings often, or inevitably, bring up sensitive topics—whether it’s unsolicited advice, differing opinions, or revisiting old wounds. Instead of engaging defensively, try to lead with empathy. This might take a little more time, energy, or preparation, but it will be worth it. 

First, understand that holidays and family gatherings stir up emotions for everyone—we have no idea what someone else is experiencing, and their reactions are rarely personal to us. Decide ahead of time to cultivate an empathetic perspective. Holiday events may be where the difficult conversation happens, but they don’t need to be where we engage. Offer an empathetic response such as “I really hear you” or “I see that you’re upset. How can I help?”Finally, Know When to Exit Gracefully

Sometimes, the best way to handle a tough or awkward situation is to leave it. If the event becomes too overwhelming, it’s okay to head out early. Thank the host, offer a warm goodbye, and leave on a positive note. Prioritizing your well-being is an act of self-care, not selfishness, and will ensure that your holiday experiences remain joyful.

The holidays don’t have to be a minefield of discomfort. With a little preparation, empathy, and a touch of humor, you can handle even the trickiest events with grace. Who knows? You might even find yourself creating unexpected moments of connection or memories that you end up cherishing for years to come. After all, the true spirit of the season is about connection, love, and a willingness to show up as your best self—even when it’s not easy.

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The Perfect Gift

As the holiday season ramps up, many of us find ourselves in a familiar cycle—scouring shelves and online stores, stressing over finding the perfect gift. Will they like it? Will it show I care? The pressure to get it “just right” can often overshadow the very spirit of giving and can even find us spending to uncomfortable degrees. But what if we reframed this aspect of December and the holiday hustle and embraced a deeper understanding of what giving does for us—not just for the recipient, but for the giver, too?

Spoiler alert: it’s biological!

Research reveals that giving isn’t just a feel-good activity—it’s wired into our biology. Acts of generosity activate the brain’s mesolimbic reward system, releasing dopamine, the “feel-good” neurotransmitter. In fact, a 2006 study using MRI scans found that when people donate to charity, their brain lights up in areas associated with pleasure and connection.

There’s also evidence that giving boosts health. Studies show it lowers stress, reduces blood pressure, and even increases longevity. One study found that older adults who volunteered regularly had a 44% lower risk of early death than those who didn’t. The reason? Generosity fosters a sense of purpose and belonging—both essential for mental and physical well-being.

We don’t exactly need scientific studies to tell us that giving feels good—we all know that. Making our loved ones happy is a gift all its own but that also becomes its own slippery bunny slope.

Despite the clear benefits of giving, many of us fall into the trap of perfectionism. Ad agencies, social media, and shopping malls all have conditioned us to think that a gift’s value lies in its exclusivity, its wow factor, and maybe even its price tag. But science and likely all of our personal experiences tell a different story. It really isn’t about what we give—it’s about the thought, connection, and meaning behind it.

Think back to a gift that truly touched you. I’m guessing it wasn’t a big expensive “thing” that opened your heart, but something deeply meaningful, profoundly thoughtful, or even bespoke (my kid’s early handmade cards are some of the most special gifts I’ve ever received—they still are!) I’m willing to guess that even when you’ve received something you didn’t necessarily love, it was still just as amazing because there was care behind it.

So, how can we capture the spirit of genuine giving this holiday season?

Focus on Connection Over Consumption

The best gifts are those that nurture relationships. A framed photo of a cherished memory, a homemade treat, or even a heartfelt note can mean more than any store-bought item.

Give Experiences, Not Things

Experiences create lasting memories and often foster deeper connections. Consider gifting a cooking class, a museum membership, or a day spent together doing something meaningful.

Practice Acts of Service

Sometimes, the most impactful gifts don’t come in boxes. Shoveling a neighbor’s driveway, babysitting for a busy parent, or cooking a meal for a friend can bring just as much (if not more) joy as a tangible gift.

Give to Those in Need

The holidays are a perfect time to extend generosity beyond our inner circles. Volunteering, donating to a cause, or participating in community outreach not only helps others but also cultivates gratitude and a sense of purpose.

When we let go of the idea of the “perfect” gift, we unlock the true magic of giving. It’s not about impressing others or giving them the best gift experience of their lives but connecting with them. It’s about the spark of joy in their eyes, the warmth of the shared moments, and that euphoric, ripple effect of kindness. That’s what makes this time of year so special.

This holiday season, I invite you to embrace giving as an opportunity, not to prove yourself, but to celebrate the love, gratitude, and generosity the holidays are meant to inspire in all of us.

Remember, there is certainly nothing wrong with showering our family or friends with extravagant gifts. But there is also nothing wrong with showering them with handmade pieces of art or gift cards to their favorite coffee shop. Only you know what would make your people feel special and seen, and I can say from my own experience it’s the feeling special and seen that makes a gift truly perfect.

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Your Miracle Arrives Today

This week ushers in the New Moon of Sagittarius.

Although the days are shorter and the holiday season begs us to slow down, this is actually a month of thrilling power. It’s a month of unlimited possibilities, adventure, and miracles.

The word miracle is defined by Merriam-Webster as “a surprising and welcome event that is not explicable by natural or scientific laws and is therefore considered to be the work of a divine agency.” This definition sounds electric and astoundingly magical! Could something so, well, miraculous really occur to us? Absolutely, and in fact very real miracles are happening to us every day. We just have to know where and how to look for them.

Here are three places you may have not thought to look…

The Miracle of Everyday

Our days are defined by routine. We wake up, brush our teeth, grab a coffee and breakfast, send the kids to school, go to work (maybe just taking a few steps into our home office these days), eat lunch, reunite with the kids, have dinner, draw baths, oversee homework, read bedtime stories and then, it’s lights out. Until the next day. Seems banal when you list it in that way, but look a little deeper. It’s filled with miracles.

First, we wake up! How fortunate are we to have 24 hours in front of us to start anew? Every day is an opportunity to try something new, to learn, to grow. We have food on the table, and the children are able, healthy, and ready to learn. We have a roof over our heads where we can share bedtime stories and goodnight hugs that will be remembered (and passed down as a nighttime tradition) as a quiet parent/child moment together. There is hope for the future in the day-to-day routine of finishing up homework, a necessary step in educating children, and making them a bit more independent. These are all meaningful steps in our lives together.

The mere fact that we can do all of this, day in and day out, is a true miracle. It’s not the shining panacea of sudden fortune falling in our lap; it’s the fact that we can live, breathe, love, learn, change, and thrive. Every. Single. Day.

The Miracles We Don’t Recognize

“People usually consider walking on water or in thin air a miracle. But I think the real miracle is not to walk either on water or in thin air, but to walk on earth. Every day we are engaged in a miracle that we don’t even recognize: a blue sky, white clouds, green leaves, the black, curious eyes of a child—our own two eyes. All is a miracle.” Thich Nhat Hanh, The Miracle of Mindfulness: An Introduction to the Practice of Meditation

“The real miracle is to walk on earth.” How simple and so profound. When we venture outside, do we look around and see such wonder and connect to the miracle of this earth? Just taking a walk in the city park exposes us to nature, cleaner air, and verdant paths that—along with the exercise—help clear our minds and keep us healthy. In fact, in an article published by the Yale School of the Environment, author Jim Robbins references a study that found people who spent two hours a week in green spaces (like local parks or other natural environments) were substantially more likely to report good health and psychological well-being than those who don’t. The effects cut across different occupations, ethnic groups, and people with chronic illnesses and disabilities.

We know just getting outdoors is good for us, but to quantify two hours per week outside will actually improve our health significantly?

Again: another miracle.

The Miracle of Things That Never Came to Be

“It was possible that a miracle was not something that happened to you, but rather something that didn’t.” Jodi Picoult, The Tenth Circle

I think we can all look back and see that the things we supposedly “missed out” on ended up leading us to experiences we could have never imagined.

A missed flight that turns into meeting your soulmate at an airport coffee shop.

The job you lost that opened up your availability for the job you actually wanted.

Even just losing a wifi signal before sending an email, giving you time to adjust a typo.

Miracles are moments of lightning-bolt cosmic magic or gobsmacking divine intervention.

During this month, the energy of Sagittarius helps us shift our perspective toward seeing the miraculous good of our world. It’s not always easy; indeed, it can be difficult to rewire our brains. But the energy of Sagittarius is here to assist us in looking deeper and finding the true miracles that quite literally surround us.

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