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message 501: by [deleted user] (new)

Haha! That would be fun, a book/football party with me in a germ mask.


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Christine wrote: "Haha! That would be fun, a book/football party with me in a germ mask."

That's an interesting image!




message 503: by [deleted user] (last edited Feb 07, 2010 07:29AM) (new)

Lisa,

It was Shackleton's Stowaway

It's a YA book I grabbed for him to take on the plane. The author has created a novel based on published accounts, interviews and journals. My husband said it gave a bit more insight into Shackleton and his crew, but nothing new in the way of details. My husband prefers non-fiction -- he says it's better than anything anyone could make up.


message 504: by Lisa (new)

Lisa Vegan (lisavegan) Thanks Jeannette. I've never heard of that one. I know that there are a few of them. There are many good non-fiction polar exploration books!


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Lisa wrote: "Thanks Jeannette. I've never heard of that one. I know that there are a few of them. There are many good non-fiction polar exploration books!"

I will look through my shelves and post them on the appropriate thread and in the bookshelves. We went through a polar exploration phase a while back. I'll also check out what other members have posted. Always looking for books for my husband.




message 506: by Lisa (new)

Lisa Vegan (lisavegan) Jeannette, I've actually read quite a few but haven't posted/shelved them here because for me they're not exactly comfort reads.


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Lisa wrote: "Jeannette, I've actually read quite a few but haven't posted/shelved them here because for me they're not exactly comfort reads."

I don't consider a lot of the topics here as comfort reads, either (my definition is probably too narrow). I just thought I would add them to the thread for other members who might enjoy them.




message 508: by Lisa (last edited Feb 07, 2010 09:47AM) (new)

Lisa Vegan (lisavegan) I'm trying to add just books that are comfort reads. (There are plenty of GR groups for other types of books.)

ETA: Meaning: I am adding my own cr books, which might be very different from others' cr books.

If I added all my faves, this group wouldn't have much meaning, in my opinion. Even though many of my cr books won't be cr books for others at least they're mine.


message 509: by Manybooks (new)

Manybooks Well, I think many people automatically equate "favourite" reading materials with "comfort" reads. I have quite a few books that I would consider favourites, but not necessarily "comforting."


message 510: by [deleted user] (new)

Most of my favorites aren't comfort books because they are usually quite depressing. I'm a misery reader for the most part.


message 511: by Lisa (new)

Lisa Vegan (lisavegan) Jeannette and Christine,

I'm putting just my comfort reads here, and I hope other members will do the same.

Many of my favorite books are not comfort reads.

However, many of my comfort read books are favorites and are also quite depressing. I find comfort in depressing books - sometimes.


message 512: by [deleted user] (new)

I think my comfort books are usually lighter books, which I read only every once in a while. It is interesting how our definitions of comfort vary.

Now I have to go smear that black stuff under my eyes and get my football attitude on.


message 513: by Paula (new)

Paula | 184 comments Such a double-edged sword; Super Bowl day, the height of the season, but also the end of the season. Go Saints!

Just to add, too, my fiance isn't much of a reader at all. He has countless stories of reading only the first few chapters of books, then acing the exam. I don't know how many times I've told him, "think about how much more rich and rewarding it would be for you, though, to actually read the whole thing!" Alas, I will settle for him encouraging my habits at least. It is interesting, though, that more often lately he tries to get me to talk about what I'm reading. Since I'm usually reading about 10 books at the same time, though, I think it gets a little confusing.


message 514: by [deleted user] (last edited Feb 07, 2010 10:15AM) (new)

Lisa wrote: "Jeannette and Christine,

I'm putting just my comfort reads here, and I hope other members will do the same.

Many of my favorite books are not comfort reads.

However, many of my comfort read book..."


I've always been a little confused about what this group is really about. It seems to me that people get onto a topic and suggest their favorites to each other.

I agree with Gundula, most times "favorite" equals "comfort". Would you like the members to limit what they add to the bookshelves or what they discuss or both? I thought if I mentioned a book, it was hoped (by the moderators) that I would add it to the bookshelf. (for example, several people have asked for manga recommendations, but I don't know if they are comfort(ing) or that I just enjoy them).




message 515: by Paula (new)

Paula | 184 comments I have to admit, I am completely confused about the definition as well. I just know this has quickly become a favorite group and one I check in on continuously, both for the great book discussions, and the other randomness. For what it's worth, I like the broader interpretation because it introduces me to books and genres I'm not at all familiar with on my own. I just really like the atmosphere, too, where we can talk about anything and everyone is sooo respectful and friendly.


message 516: by Manybooks (last edited Feb 07, 2010 10:41AM) (new)

Manybooks And, one of the great things about this group is also the fact that so many people have such different ideas of what encompasses a comfort read. I love expanding my horizons and trying books I've never thought to try before. It's a bit like savouring new and exciting cuisines from different countries and cultures. I think that maybe we should also have some group reads in the future. It would be like a comfort read dinner, featuring a book as the main course (I know that sounds cheesy, but ...)


message 517: by Lisa (new)

Lisa Vegan (lisavegan) Well, Yes, any books mentioned in a thread, unless it's specified to be NOT a comfort read, should go on the shelves.

I would hope that the books people mention are comfort reads to them, favorites or not favorites.

If we start listing favorite books when they're NOT AT ALL comfort reads, then I think this group does get confusing.

Most of my comfort books are in my favorites, but I know people who have comfort reads that aren't their favorites at all. Also, I suspect most of us have favorite books that aren't at all comfort reads - I do - and I won't mention them in this group.

Just my take on things.


message 518: by Lee, Mod Mama (new)

Lee (leekat) | 3959 comments Mod
I think for the purposes of this group we are encouraging members to post and discuss their own personal comfort reads. What I've learned since we started is that many people have quite varied types of comfort reads and I would like this group to continue to be inclusive.

If you know of books that may interest someone else because we have a thread on the topic then I think it's a great idea to share them even if they are not personally comforting to you. I hope I'm making sense!

I'm very happy to hear that you guys like to hang out here. My intention was to create a warm and friendly group where we could share ideas.


message 519: by Lisa (new)

Lisa Vegan (lisavegan) Lee wrote: "My intention was to create a warm and friendly group where we could share ideas."

Lee, I think you've done that. Yay!




message 520: by Lisa (last edited Feb 07, 2010 10:45AM) (new)

Lisa Vegan (lisavegan) Oh, and I'm with Lee, that if a book isn't a comfort read for you but you think it might be to other members here, it's fine to mention it.


message 521: by Manybooks (new)

Manybooks Lisa, I have a lot of favourites that I would never mention in this group, simply because I do not consider them comfort reads. My definition of a comfort read is a book that I can and do read again and again, or one that I turn to (or have turned to) at times of stress, when I'm tired etc.


message 522: by Lisa (last edited Feb 07, 2010 10:51AM) (new)

Lisa Vegan (lisavegan) Gundula, Me too, although I have a few comfort reads I read only once. One example is a mystery series: Sue Grafton's that starts off with A is for Alibi. I'm up to through U. I read each only once but each has been a comfort read. But mostly, my comfort reads are also books I turn to over & over again, for various emotional reasons.


message 523: by [deleted user] (new)

Lee wrote: "I think for the purposes of this group we are encouraging members to post and discuss their own personal comfort reads. What I've learned since we started is that many people have quite varied typ..."

Thanks, Lee, that's exactly how I feel. I love the discussions and the relationships that are developing between members. I think that is the most comforting part about this group.



message 524: by Lee, Mod Mama (new)

Lee (leekat) | 3959 comments Mod
I also think of comfort reads as books that make me laugh, feel nostalgic, happy or uplifted. But I also love the spy/thriller/adventure type of book as a comfort read too and those don't usually inspire those types of feelings. It's like seeing a good action movie, you forget yourself in a completely foreign world for a while.


message 525: by Lisa (new)

Lisa Vegan (lisavegan) Lee, I too have many different types of comfort reads: escapist, uplifting, depressing too if it matches my mood or if I take comfort in someone else's adversity especially if it's overcome, humorous definitely. So many different types, which is why I assume our thread count will continue to grow.


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Lisa wrote: "Lee wrote: "My intention was to create a warm and friendly group where we could share ideas."

Lee, I think you've done that. Yay!

"

You've done that for me...I love this group, it's my favorite.



message 527: by Lee, Mod Mama (new)

Lee (leekat) | 3959 comments Mod
Yay! That makes me feel so good!


message 528: by [deleted user] (new)

Well, Christine -- I'm eating my words, my hat and one article of clothing of your choice! stunning!


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Jeannette wrote: "Well, Christine -- I'm eating my words, my hat and one article of clothing of your choice! stunning!"

Hahaha!! You're too funny! And it should be noted that my first impulse was to get on here and post so we must be getting tight. :)


message 530: by [deleted user] (new)

You mean tight as in close, I assume, even though I need another glass of wine after that mess. :(


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Christine wrote: "Very Off topic...Jeannette, Does the pic that I put up on Dixie's blog look like dancing? I can't tell."

I'll have to check it out later tonight. We have to go pick up the kid from a SB party. (I'll check it out cuz I'm curious now)



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Jeannette wrote: "You mean tight as in close, I assume, even though I need another glass of wine after that mess. :( "

awww!!! Well, I'll try not to Woot too loudly.


message 533: by [deleted user] (new)

I left Dixie a post on her blog. Even she is celebrating!! Tell her I said Happy Birthday. :)


message 534: by Valerie (new)

Valerie Reading in and of itself is my comfort...so basically everything I read I would consider a comfort read, LOL.

However, I do get that there are certain books or types of books that are more "comforting" than others.

For example, my husband, while a book lover, is a far more intellectual reader than I am. We do read *some* of the same books, but most of the time he wouldn't stoop to my level of fluff, LOL. The latest book he read is A Mind for Murder: The Education of the Unabomber and the Origins of Modern Terrorism by Alston Chase. Heavy stuff!


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I don't think I would put that on my comfort list, either! :)


message 536: by [deleted user] (new)

Yikes! I have too much of a freak-me-out factor to read a lot of stuff, and I think that might qualify.


message 537: by [deleted user] (new)

Christine wrote: "Yikes! I have too much of a freak-me-out factor to read a lot of stuff, and I think that might qualify."

I'm the same way......




message 538: by [deleted user] (new)

Hello Paula!

You haven't checked in since before the big game. Did your fiance' get home alright?


message 539: by [deleted user] (new)

I was wondering too...I hope everything is okay.


message 540: by [deleted user] (new)

Yikes, who felt that earthquake (midwest US)? We've been awake since 4:00 since my son can't relax now...he can't put this into perspective after what has happened in the world with earthquakes.

On top of that I was up late finishing Mudbound (awesome) and watching Lost (confusing). Need. Coffee.


message 541: by [deleted user] (new)

I haven't heard anything about an earthquake! Certainly not in Iowa. It actually woke you up?? I experienced a quake in Seattle, but it was day time. Off to check the news...

Everybody okay by you?


message 542: by [deleted user] (new)

Wow, magnitude 4.3, just north of Chicago. Too far away for me. How close are you to Chicago? I bet that Paula noticed it, too.


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Gabriele Wills (muskoka) | 178 comments How are you affected Americans surviving snowmageddon? Can't believe you're getting another dump of snow today!

And now earthquakes as well!


message 544: by Manybooks (new)

Manybooks We're actually getting a bit of snow as well today. In the Hamilton area, while it has been at times quite cold this winter, we have really had almost no snow. And the farmers desperately need moisture for the spring, so I hope we get more than just a dusting.


message 545: by Lisa (new)

Lisa Vegan (lisavegan) That's a pretty small earthquake (barely at the moderate level) so I'd be surprised if there were serious injuries/injuries. Do you know if it was on the New Madrid fault? Maybe too far North for that. Brrr. I'm scared of earthquakes and I live in major earthquake country.

I feel for all those in the blizzard zone.


message 546: by [deleted user] (new)

If I see one more snowflake, I might scream. We have no place to put the stuff we have shoveled off the drive and sidewalks anymore. The kids have missed 6 days of school, too. I feel sorry for the folks in DC -- at least here in Iowa we are used to the snow and cold.

Last report I read, the earthquake was pretty mild, so I don't think anyone was injured.


message 547: by Gabriele (new)

Gabriele Wills (muskoka) | 178 comments As Gundula says, we have a bit of snow today, but have not had much this winter at all. Photos from the previous few winters show us shovelling snow onto 6+ ft. high snowbanks, so I'm glad we haven't had that much again. I really sympathize, Jeannette, but I bet the kids love it! 6 snow days already!!!


message 548: by [deleted user] (new)

Well, they won't be loving it in June! The Governor is considering letting the schools skip Spring Break, or go on Saturdays.


message 549: by Manybooks (new)

Manybooks The first time I realised just how much snow one could get in a winter was when I attended Mount Allison University in New Brunswick. I'm from Calgary, and although it can get cold and snowy, the cold is a "dry cold" and is often lessened by Chinook winds (those are not that fun, though either, when you can go from -30º C to +15º C in the space of four to six hours, it can really give one a migraine). But New Brunswick!!! It was normal to get snowfalls of at least 50-100 cm quite a few times during the course of the winter, and, no, they never called the army like Mel Lastman did in Toronto a few years ago. However, the university was very reticent about declaring snow days. Once, after a major dump, it took me about 20 minutes to walk to the campus, and then the doors of the building I had my class in were locked. Actually, the only time university was ever cancelled was once during Christmas exams (so, we had to take the exams in January, what a pain).


message 550: by Manybooks (new)

Manybooks Jeannette wrote: "Well, they won't be loving it in June! The Governor is considering letting the schools skip Spring Break, or go on Saturdays."

I had to go to school on Saturdays (in the mornings) when I was a child in Germany. I hated it. I think it would be better if they cancelled Spring Break. Also, for any family who is Jewish, sending the kids to school on Saturday would not be an option. I know one thing. If I had children, I would not force them to go to school on Saturdays, no matter what the governor etc. decreed.



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