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Standing Out From The Rest – How To Get A Man’s Attention

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On this episode G.L. breaks down how to make an impression on a man, tattoo his brain, and seduce his soul in FOUR easy steps. No matter if you're introverted, shy, or struggle with your confidence, you can't lose with this strategy. Also we discuss dealing with insecurities in a relationship, the proper way to tell a person you only want casual sex, the cultural brainwashing and struggles of being raised by immigrant parents, and much more. Press Play...

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Understanding Men – Opinion Vs Facts… Unlearning What You Think You Know

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 I have brothers who taught me how men act… okay, then why do you still fall for basic game?
 
I have male friends who tell me all of their secrets… yet, you still can’t seduce and destroy these guys using those so-called secrets.
 
I learned from my exes how men are, so I’m up on game… then why do you keep picking wrong, year after year?
 
So many women think they understand men, that they have it all figured out, but when they put their knowledge to the test, what happens? They get exposed, they get confused, and they scream about how much dating sucks and how men aren’t shit because the male mind continues to be a puzzle that these know-it-alls can’t solve. Men are not complex! If you truly knew how we as males thought, you would understand that it’s not hard to make us chase you. Nor is it impossible to get us to open up fast or be more emotionally present. The problem is, when a person talks more than they listen about a subject they don't really know, the circle of confusion continues and the L's continue to pile up...

 
Right now, there are women reading this who STILL don’t know how to keep a man’s interest, who STILL can’t get the man she wants to commit, or who STILL can’t get consistency in a relationship. “Is there something wrong with me, is there something I’m missing?” HELL YES! You are out here dating with false wisdom and fake news about how men think or what men want, all of it provided to you by the internet or by friends who genuinely don’t know shit.  
 
If a man opens up about his rough childhood, that means he trusts me – FALSE ASSUMPTION
 
Telling you his sob story doesn’t mean you’ve broken down his guard and he’s ready to be emotionally available. He knows that you’re maternal, that you have a thing for wounded animals, and you like to fix dudes so you can feel like you contributed something to their growth. A Basica that feels a “connection” gives up pussy faster, she drops her own guard quicker, and she tends to hold on to potential forever all because she thinks, “I know the real him inside.” You know nothing!
 
If a man grows distant then comes back to me, that means he realized his mistake – FALSE ASSUMPTION
 
Competition drives so many typical women. This guy has four other chicks on his roster, but because he tells you you’re different, you buy into it. This guy ghosts you, gets too busy, pops up with a new bitch. You get in your feelings, question the meaning of life, then as suddenly as he left, he hits you up, wanting to see you again. Your ego does a dance—"those other women weren’t me.” Nah, Tina Typical, those other women probably got sick of him, and you’re the only one silly enough to give a man who will forever be shopping around for new pussy, a second chance.
 
If a man thinks you’re too masculine, he won’t chase. Males crave feminine energy – FALSE ASSUMPTION
 
Do you know what makes a woman feminine? The fact that he has a vagina. For all the be more feminine bullshit that you all soak up, there remains a tomboy who can get way more men chasing her than you because she isn’t afraid to talk back and challenge his ego. She actually knows the sports or video game subjects he likes to talk about and isn’t too dainty to connect with him on male-centric topics. Yet, you think the key to unlocking a man’s love is doing your hair up and rolling over and playing submissive??? Men want women they can actually talk to and vibe with, someone who is genuine, not a fake charm school bitch who puts on an act to get male approval. As men, we’ve all fucked Barbie doll types, we’ve all ran through those super girly girls, but it’s the strong women that we actually keep around. Why? Because any man raised by a strong mother, grandmother, or sister realizes that a woman embracing her strength isn’t masculine. It’s ...

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Ho Tactics – New Tips & Tricks

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The episode you've been waiting for as G.L. Lambert dives deep into some of the most common questions about Ho Tactics. Hear success stories, learn how to regain leverage over men, the key to dealing with young guys with money versus old sugar daddies, and the power to mindfuck even the most stingiest of men. Press Play!

This universe wasn't created for you to struggle or go Half on ANYTHING!
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Podcast Preview: Ho Tactics – New Tips & Tricks

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If you're over 24 your should be dating men with a substantial income! This Universe wasn't created for you to struggle! Listen to the FULL EPISODE @ https://farfrombasyc.com/2021/07/tact...
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Ho Tactics – New Tips & Tricks

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The episode you've been waiting for as G.L. Lambert dives deep into some of the most common questions about Ho Tactics. Hear success stories, how to overcome difficult situations, and mindfuck even the most stingiest men. Don't miss out on this one....

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Dealing With Rejection – Regaining Power & Control

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How does it feel to give your number out and it not get used? How does it feel to go on a great first date then get ignored like it never happened? How does it feel to have power over a man, to have him chase you, apply pressure, then months later he cools on you? Your ego yells, “I’m unbothered,” but you are very bothered. Read the room: The type of people you want don’t want you… Does that trigger you? Good! Hiding from rejection or pretending like you didn't want them anyway makes you delusional, not stronger. It's time to explore what’s going on under the surface so you can stop crying and start winning.

The sting of romantic rejection can last months, even years, and totally sabotage how you date moving forward. Confidence decreases, trust vanishes, insecurities deepen, and it all comes from another person having the power to make you feel like you're not good enough. Let’s run down some typical ways people get rejected and how to reverse these feelings…

The Ghosted Rejection:

You meet someone only for them not to use your number or to stop communicating with you after a few days of light conversation… Damn, was your personality that dry???

You go on a few dates and build a strong foundation for something special, then they stop responding to your texts and calls… Fucccck, you really weren’t worth the investment.

You not only date a person, but sleep with them, and everything seems great until they suddenly become too busy… Being curved after sex really makes you want to jump off a bridge!

The Commitment Rejection:

You’ve been seeing each other for a minute, and the moment you bring up “where is this going,” they give you an excuse… I don’t know… I’m not ready… I’m focused on blah blah blah – Wake up! They like sampling you, but they don’t want you on an authentic level!

You’re exclusive, yet they don’t take you anywhere, they don’t tell anyone about you, and when you ask for more out of the relationship, they gaslight you with, “Why do you care about other people being in our business” or “You know what we have, that should be enough.” You realize that it was all game, and they’re hiding you or keeping you on a short leash because they have someone else in the picture or on their radar in… cold world.

You’re in a relationship, you think this is headed towards marriage, but year in and year out, they drag their feet, give excuses, then finally you stop being an idiot and recognize the reality that you’re not who they want, you’re a PLACEHOLDER. You break up, get back together, break up again, and try to move on with your life. Then, without warning, this person who you wasted years with gets engaged or married, and you realize that you spent the best years of your life making someone else marriage material while you’re still single as fuck… it hurts to be this kind of Basic bitch, doesn’t it?

“See, G.L., this is why I don’t put myself out there to be toyed with. I focus on my bag.”

Stop lying, Basica! You would trade that “bag” for “love” 7 days out of the week because you crave romantic validation! You may not actively seek relationships, but you’re starved for affection, and every time you see a couple out in public, an I.G. post of a Baecation, or your little crush pop up on your timeline, you put that energy out to the Universe—when will that be me? You will always meet men that change your mind about love, who have all kinds of potential, and who give you hope that you can get that happy ending that you pretend not to want. The point is, you don’t need to put yourself out there to be rejected. It can still happen. It’s not about sitting on the bench. It’s about learning the game, so you play it smarter!

How do you make a guy fall so hard and fast he won’t reject me?

How do I get a guy back who rejected me so I can then break his heart like he tried to break mine?

Those are the two main questions I get when it comes to rejection. If you want the power to never feel the pain of rejection ever again then stop being a Basica and realize that power comes from strategy, not reacting with your emotions. If you’re ready to level up, let’s start.

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Ghosting, Guilting, and other Mind Games – How To Guard Against Gaslighting

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If you never understood how an abuser could make a victim feel like the one in the wrong, then read the below email:
"I’m currently in a relationship approaching the two year mark. **** my boyfriend, is a great friend and provider, I never have a want as he looks out for me in ways my exes have never. So why am I writing you then? I was recently introduced to your book and your break down of Hot and Cold men really bothered me. **** fits your description. At least once a month, he gets in moods where he’s not himself. He pushes me away. He brings up my past (I cheated on my high school boyfriend and I was abused by my son’s father) in a way that makes me out to be a horrible person. In the past he’s nicknamed me cheater then later says it’s a joke knowing that it’s a sensitive topic. He once said he understood why I used to get smacked because I like to have the last word. He took it back and said he was joking and that I need to get over myself. In addition to this he seems to keep a list of everything he does (and pays) for me and doesn’t hesitate to bring it up.
I’m not stupid, I know he’s doing these things because of his moods not because I am a bad person. My question is given what you wrote in the book, could there be an exception to your reasoning for this behavior? Could I be triggering him to go cold by not being an equal partner financially or with my behavior? My mother says my attitude is my biggest flaw and that I will push a good man to his breaking point if I don’t correct this. I can give you more details if you would like but could you tell me if you’ve seen cases of Hot and Cold being a reaction, not just a case of a guy playing games because that’s not the case here...”

As you can see by that email I received, Mindfucking is alive and well. There are so many women in relationships who are being driven to insanity by toxic males who have figured out the greatest manipulation trick ever invented—Gaslighting. Push and Pull. Being hot and cold. Habitual lying. Twisting and re-framing reality. Turning people against you. Saying they want a woman that thinks and acts like you, only to try and change you. Doing you dirty, then making you think you’re the crazy one at fault…. These are only a few tactics used to break even the strongest women down to their most basic level until they become fearful, docile, and utterly dependent on their abuser.  This defanging process happens so slowly that most women who I’ve talk to don’t even know they’re being gaslit until I point it out with specific examples from their own stories. Ladies! Recognize that narcissistic behavior is on the rise and it's time to stop pretending your can get through tis alone!

What You Will Learn By The End: How do you spot this in your own relationship when you’re blinded by love and chained by loyalty? How do you escape a situation when you’ve been told you can’t do better? How do you guard against Gaslighting at the early stages of dating before you’re too far gone?

Keep reading, because you’re about to get a Spartan Crash Course in how to become immune to the games. Let's start with the most importa...

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Dicknotized Dilemma + Dating With Anxiety

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The craziest episode of the year. On this show a reader struggles with leaving her broke boyfriend because the sex is too good. Is the thirst for quality dick driving women to hold on to bum ass men? We’ll break it down.

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Also how do you Spartan Up in real life when you’re afraid of rejection and full of doubt? The keys to doing the steps I write about in the books in the real world with maximum success. Plus the real reason men stop liking your Instagram pics, how to establish your value, dealing with a toxic childhood, and so much more… PRESS PLAY BELOW!

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The Steps to Attract High Value Men & Expose Low Value Pretenders

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What would make a high value man want you? Is it your looks, is it your conversation, is it your career, is it your education? Take a second and think about what would attract an upper echelon man to you?

Basic Bitch Answer: Because I'm pretty with a pussy that grips like gorilla glue.

Okay, Ms. Velcro Coochie, add up all the men you've had sex with. How many of them would be considered high quality? I'm not talking about if he had A1 dick or good looks. I'm talking about what did those men bring to the table in terms of substance that they were able to date you, charm you, and earn what was between your legs? If you're so pretty and your pussy hits so viciously, then why do you have a history of letting fuck boys sample your goods? Scammers and drug dealers aren't the pinnacle. Local club promotors or DJs aren’t at the top of anyone’s food chain.  I get so many "G.L. I think I messed up with someone who I can never replace" emails because what you qualify as high value men are just low value fucks boys who charmed you into a state of stupidity. The men who you think are “goals” are high-key trash, so why can’t you do better? I'll ask again, what about you, the person, not the physical would make a top-shelf man go crazy over you and never want to let go?

Typical Bitch Answer: Because I'm loyal and have a good heart.

Yawn! All that means is that you don't cheat and put up with way more shit than you need to in the name of being "nice." Fuck that noise. Where has that gotten you? How many men that make over 250k a year have you been in a relationship with? How many guys have unconditionally spoiled you throughout your life? From an emotional standpoint, how many men have genuinely cared about your feelings, been just as loyal as you are, and took an interest in your mental health? Little to none!

I know so many great women who stumble through life, praying they get snatched up by a quality man, but few of them know what a quality man looks like in real life. You don't need to get your stomach put into your ass to get someone with status to slide into your DMs. You don't need to be a certain waist size to get successful men to chase after you. There are certain intangibles that high quality men seek in women, and if you weren't so insecure, you would recognize that you already have what they want! The only thing stopping you from attracting what you want is a lack of belief. It's time to stop hoping that the next man is worth your time and use your brainpower to ensure that the next guy you choose is the one! Today I'm going to give you the entire roadmap on how to attract high quality men, step by step so even a 15-year-old could understand it!

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Ranking Your Looks + The Key To Meeting Men

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On a scale of 1-10 how would you rank yourself? Hold that answer in your head and I'll tell you why it's all bullshit that's hurting you more than helping you...

On today's show G.L. breaks down Kevin Samuel's ranking system, and the correlation between your looks and what you're manifesting in your love life. Also the keys to meeting new men this summer and the top thing you're doing wrong. Press Play and listen now!
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