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April 7, 2022
I Just Wanna Fuck – How To Tell Genuine Interest From Lust
Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert
Everyone dates with an agenda. Women tend to want the security of a relationship while men routinely lust after sex. Dating is a game of chess with both sides trying to get what they want without giving up what the other is after. He’s trying to act like he’s open to something deeper, talking about how his exes didn’t understand him and how “different” you are. If he scores enough points, then maybe you’ll fuck him without a need for a commitment.
Meanwhile, as a woman, you’re trying to play it cool and be this confident, feminine goddess that he’ll see as the wifey type and want to commit to you sooner than later. In reality, you’re anxious as fuck, hoping that this man is FINALLY the one, and you’re dying to know if he genuinely likes you or just wants to stick his dick in you. Spoiler Alert: He is just trying to stick his dick in you! Yet, you date and put men on pedestals, constantly checking your phone for messages and IG to see if he’s watching your stories. Why the hell would you get butterflies over a man who just wants to fuck you, Basica?
Women have the power. They wield the pussy and decide who to give it to—fact. Men will search the internet, spend money, and create entire fake personas just to figure out how to get her legs to spread quickly. Guys place so much emphasis on chasing sex, and based on the the stories I'm sent, most aren't even good at it! How have men become trophies? Males know that they are the gatekeepers to "the ring" thus they dangle the relationship carrot to get what they rarely earn. It's the biggest hustle ever! This Universe is built for women to ascend, yet you allow these men to rob you of your worth because you’re desperate for male love.
The biggest challenge as a male: How do I fuck her when I can’t just say “I want to fuck”?
The biggest challenge as a woman: How do I know if he’s worthy of my body or just a guy who wants to use me as a physical release and move on?
Think about it from the male POV, a girl will say, “If you only want sex, say that” then she will stop talking to you because HOW DARE YOU only want sex… it’s confusing as fuck. The solution has become to date a woman, pretend that you want more, and get sex by faking as if you want more. This, of course, causes women to hate men and see them as users who are only out for sex… but that’s only half the equation.
Sex is the bridge to two things—indifference or commitment. Most men aren’t honest about how they feel until after the sex lust wears off. Only then can most think clearly. “Damn, she’s a really great woman, and the pussy was fire! I need to lock her down.” or “Nah, this bitch is a lunatic. I’ll hit a few more times and get her out of my life.” Ladies, 95% of you have been fucked and dismissed by someone you thought was different. No matter how much you enjoyed the sex, you don’t want to be used physically and rejected emotionally. It hurts to hear someone say you’re so pretty, so special, and what they’re looking for, then they turn around and won’t respond to a text.
Men and women are constantly at war because most are afraid to say what they want. I have a lot of things to say to men today, but first, allow me to talk to the women reading this—yes, you, Ms. Know It All… Let me take you to school and give you a crucial key when it comes to dating that will save you a lot of heartbrea...
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March 30, 2022
Refusing To Be Vulnerable Is Holding You Back
Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert
You can't open up to everyone but that doesn't mean you open up to no one. How can anyone grow to love you if you're not willing to be vulnerable enough to show your scars, share your fears, and unload your worries? It's time stop pushing people away and sabotaging your happiness by being overly guarded.
"No one understands me..." No shit. You refuse to let new people in based on what others did to you in the past. You're so scared of being hurt that it's destroying your ability to grow, let alone connect, and in the end you have only yourself to blame.
On this episode I'll discuss how to become more vulnerable while protecting your heart. I will also dive into online strategy to attract and date younger men, dealing with heartbreak in a healthy way, and much more... Press Play!
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March 10, 2022
Dating With Kids – The Single Mom Survival Guide
Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert
“I never thought I’d be dating as a mom,” was how an email started from a dejected woman in her late 20s. Her boyfriend was supportive during the pregnancy… then found a new girlfriend. Not only was she confused, and heartbroken, but now she had to do everything on her own. Nearly a year later, she was finally ready to date again but didn’t know where to start. Dating and vetting is challenging enough when it’s just you, but it seems impossible when your life centers around a child. This reader had so many questions for me: When should she tell a man she had a son? How could she explain that the father is barely in her son’s life yet takes care of his new girlfriend’s kid like it’s his own? Would she be judged for not being able to keep her ex happy? And of course, the biggest question was, “when should I let a man meet my son?”
Countless women are in this same boat, and today I’m going to address all the important questions and the proper strategy to date like a Spartan when you’re a single mom. It upsets me that women who have GIVEN LIFE don’t recognize their power. You think that you can’t have the world, that you’re tainted, or will be seen as damaged goods? Confidence creates opportunity, and no matter if you have one kid or many, you MUST recognize that you’re still a fucking goddess able to attract high-value men!
The New Mom: Child Ages Newborn – 4
The Established Mom: Child Ages 5 -10
Multiple Children: More than One Child of different ages
No matter what boat you’re in, I’m going to show you how to maneuver, seduce, and test in order to get a man that’s worthy of being a part of your...
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February 23, 2022
He Doesn’t See A Future With You – Why Men Lie About Commitment
Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert
Ask a man what he wants he'll tell you what YOU want to hear. Men start off telling you how different you are JUST to turn around and treat you the same as the last chick. Another situation, another heartbreak, another frustrated cry of "why me!?" How many tears are you going to cry trying to figure out males, when the answer is clear: You aren't his top choice, you're a placeholder. Why play games and waste your time? Because immature men are about survival, not integrity! In reality he can't be honest and say "I want to settle down with someone, but that someone isn't you." He can't say "I can see myself getting married, but not to you." In order to keep the peace, keep you on his roster, and keep you filled with hope, men choose to lie and too many women choose to believe in that lie. Not in Sparta!
No matter if you're just dating you and he has no reason to lie, he will lie to fuck you. No matter if you're the mother of his child, he will still lie to keep you from making his life hell or putting him on child support. No matter if you're a woman that has shown him loyalty and held him down for years, he will not be honest about why he sees you as a placeholder. Everyman knows quickly if you're worth changing for or if you're just "something to do" until he can get to the type of woman he sees as special.
On today's show it's time to come face to face with the hard reality that you could be wasting years dating men who smile in your face and clown you behind your back. I'm going to ta...
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February 10, 2022
Using Ho Tactics On Rich Millennial Men
Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert
Year in and year out I'm contacted by women who want to talk Ho Tactics and new strategies. The two main groups are those that reach out to brag about what they've gotten from men and how to keep things fresh, and those that complain that "men today" don't spend and spoil. The difference between these two groups of ladies is simple, one read or listened to Ho Tactics, internalized the psychology and techniques and became deadly, while the other women skimmed over it, didn't get it on a deep level, and fumbled bag after bag after the first month.
Without snitching too much, I'll give you an example. Last month one woman got an athlete to splurge on her birthday while another woman flew out, got fucked, and didn't even get taken out to dinner before he shipped her back home. Both men play for the SAME TEAM and both men are known in Ho circles to be big time spenders. It's not about the man. Every one of you reading this is smarter than any man you'll come across. The problem is confidence and a lack of DICK DISCIPLINE when you get around handsome, young men, who also have money.
Once again Valentine's Day rolls around and once again these fuck boys show you that you're not even worth a box of chocolate, and you sit and you put up with it. Stop playing the game backwards! You all live on your phones, why aren't you using these tactics to get some bills paid or even snatch a rich boyfriend or maybe husband to be?
Any woman that tells you that a boyfriend isn't a source of income is broke, single, or jealous that they know one has ever put them up on Ho game!
Today I'm going to share with you the newest Ho Tactics tips and tricks, starting off with how to use Ho Tactics On Rich Millennial Men and How To Use Ho Tactics When You're an introvert...
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February 1, 2022
Struggle Love – Why Couples Hold On To Failing Relationships
Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert
It's better to marry late than to marry wrong. It's better to be single and looking than coupled up and crying. Where's the common sense when it comes to relationships? You ignored your intuition, downplayed the red flags, and entered a relationship even when you knew it wasn't going to work. The fussing, the fighting, the tears, and the stress aren't what love is supposed to be. You're so thirsty to prove to your friends and family that you can succeed at love that you keep trying to hold it together and keep lying about how you feel. You put too much time in to just walk away, so you hope and pray that it'll work out in the end. Spoiler Alert: You'll never be happy even if...
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January 11, 2022
The Mind Of A Man During The Dating Stage
Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert
Do you know how males think, what they’re looking for, and how to make them chase you? Even after that first date, do you know what’s going through his mind and what’s going to make him choose you over the other women he may be dating or even sleeping with?
Every month women pretend they know the game but fuck it up and come to me for help because being intelligent isn’t the same as having dating wisdom! If you want insight into what guys are thinking when they date you, how to avoid mistakes that will turn him off, or lead him to ghosting you without explanation, then stop fronting as if you have all the answers and open your ears.
I’m going to take you through the mind of a man during the dating stage and later the mind of a man during the relationship stage, to help you best prepare and plan for how to position yourself as the most valuable option he’s ever come across…
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December 31, 2021
The Key To Turning Your Life Around
Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert
New Year doesn't equal a New You. On Today's show we break down the key to turning your life around instantly. Warning, this isn't for the weak or faint of heart...
Plus, the best listener questions of the year! As we discuss everything from how to win someone back to why men are afraid to commit and much more. Press Play!
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December 8, 2021
How To Survive Love Bombing
It’s time for the next level of Spartan power in order to become mentally untouchable. Today let’s dig deep into one of the main manipulation tactics – Love Bombing.
Have you ever met someone new and from the JUMP they’re showering you with the kind of attention or treatment you’ve been dreaming of your entire life?
Internally you’re thinking, “See! This person recognizes how special I am, I knew God would bless me with this kind of partner one day.” …No bitch, you’re being love bombed!
Have you ever broken up with a person and they responded by treating you 10x times better than they did when you two were together?
Internally you’re thinking, “OMG, it worked! They don’t want to lose me and they’re adjusting their behavior to win me back” …No bitch, you’re being love bombed!
Predators who utilize love bombing don’t care how smart or pretty you are, they know the average person is starved for genuine love. By coming into your life like Aladdin’s fucking genie, they sweep you up in the excitement that you don’t even notice them execute their true agenda. Some of you are extremely guarded but your trust issues are basic, you’re worried about who wants to use you in terms of sex... and that’s where you fuck up at, this isn’t about sex, this is psychological warfare meant to gain control over your mind. To win this war, you need the right weapons...
Part 1: How To...
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December 1, 2021
Abundance Mentality – How To THINK & Create The Life You Deserve
The Scarcity Mindset… that feeling that you’re going to miss out on wealth, love, or any opportunity that you desperately want because this world has a limit on who can win. Many of you can’t break free of the paycheck to paycheck loop or if you’re financially good, you’re romantic life is in purgatory, terrified of NOT finding true love before you reach your next birthday milestone.
When you live life as if there “isn’t enough for me” or “time is running out” you don’t motivate yourself towards faster results, you self-sabotage. A limited mindset becomes quicksand that slowly drowns you as you make mistake after mistake trying to force success from a place of fear.
Nothing in this world is scarce when you live with the Truth of abundance. I’m not talking about some delusional bullshit magic thoughts, I’m talking about rewiring your brain to see through the brainwashing of the “can’t have” in order to get to the “already have”. On today’s show we break down the Abundance Mentality and how to shift into a new way of thinking. Don’t miss out– PRESS PLAY!
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