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Ask. Believe. Receive: How To Manifest A Winning Relationship

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

No one is a mind reader. No one understands how you need to be touched, cared for, or how to handle your personality quirks automatically. Yet here you are expecting someone to walk into your life and say the right things, do the right things, and give you that “happily ever after”.  That’s total bullshit.

I shouldn’t have to tell a man how to treat me— he should just know.

I shouldn’t have to ask a man for anything— he just gives.

I shouldn’t have to explain why I’m upset— it should be obvious.

Do you know who says shit like this? Teenagers, cowards, and Basicas who are afraid to express their needs for fear of rejection. You want someone to magically know what you want because you hate asking and you can't handle being told "no". It's time to stop living in fear and blaming it on bullshit.

"I'm an INFJ personality. I struggle with anxious attachment. My Cancer Rising/Aries Moon causes me to be avoidant." All that noise just to justify why you don't go for what you want in life. Stop diagnosing yourself with TikTok buzzwords and recognize that labels don't have power unless you give in to them. Who's in control of your mind? Who's the center of this fucking universe? YOU ARE. Everything you want in this world you can have, but you must have the heart to ask for it!

Closed mouths don't get Chanel! Weak bitches get played. Anxious minds manifest NOTHING.

“I shouldn’t have to train someone how to love me.” Tell me you’re on the spectrum without telling me you’re on the spectrum, Basica. Assuming that every person who dates you knows how to make you happy is why you all start off strong, only to argue and break up after a month. First dates are easy, it's superficial getting to know you bullshit, but the deeper you go, the more specific things need to become.

No woman is low maintenance. Each one of you reading this requires consistent effort that PROVES a man sees you, respects you, and cherishes you. Stop running from this fact just so you can get along with some dusty ass man, and start standing on business! Your heart requires work. If you don't believe you're special enough to get the type of men you like to put in that work, then you've already lost the war.

The first step in manifesting better relationships is understanding that you have to be a proactive Main Character in the story you call your life. This means getting out of your head and being vulnerable enough to open up about your core needs. You went on a few dates and text each other flirty shit... that's not deep, beloved. You're still strangers, so how is he supposed to know who you are and how to move in order to pour the proper love into you?

If a man’s ex was a homebody who didn’t want anything but quality time while sitting on the couch, how does he know that you require more if you don’t say these things during the dating stage?

EXAMPLE ON HOW TO MANIFEST REAL RESULTS: Last week, I gave this woman advice on how to deal with this guy she had been dating for nearly two months. I told her to test him out with a few simple demands that I scripted out for her (that script is below). This woman did exactly what I told her to do. Yesterday, she sent me a picture of a watch he purchased from Tiffany and updated me that he got tickets to the Hollywood Bowl. 

This woman wanted two things: She liked getting surprise gifts, and she loved music. Yet she never opened her mouth and told this man these things; she was waiting for him to just do it… Again, how the FUCK does he know what you like if you don’t open your mouth? I finally forced her to open her mouth, and SURPRISE SURPRISE, he did what she wanted. That’s not training a man; that’s called communicating your needs.

Every single one of you reading this should be doing that with the men you date, the men you’re in a relationship with, even the men you’re married to… but you don’t, instead you wait for the fairytale scenario of Mr. Mindreader. “G.L., I met a man who just speaks my language without me having to say a word,” and that’s because that man either was in a long relationship recently with a woman who was your exact same type, or he’s STILL in a relationship. ...oops, your "perfect mind reading man" knows what to do because he has other bitches on his roster who already taught him. Still feel special?

My homegirl always says, “you can’t find a better boyfriend than another woman’s husband,” and she’s right because married men are experts in reading a woman’s mind and anticipating their needs. But in the non-side chick world, you will always need to stop being shy, break that introverted shell, and be transparent about what you want from a relationship. No more waiting for him to figure it out. You're too old to be getting dinner, dick, and excuses as to why you're back on a dating app. Settle for more!

Most relationships never go beyond the lust stage because lust is easy, while love is effort. Don't think you're crazy for wanting someone to show up and show out for you. Don't let a lazy muthafucka convince you that the bare minimum should be enough. Real energy isn't telling you that they care, it's showing you. Value is everything. A person being obsessed with who you are, not what you can do for them, has to be the bar, or you’ll keep settling for fling after fling or end up stuck with a man who will always put his needs above yours.

The formula isn’t to go with HIS flow. It’s to stand up and let it be known what you need from the jump, so there’s never any confusion that you have needs that must be met if he's to win your heart. This is Sparta. There is no room for hints, beating around the bush, or any little girl games born out of a fear of being rejected. Know what you want, say what you want, and get it every time out. That’s what I’m about to break down…

HOW TO BE LOVED IN THE WAY YOU NEED

Words of Affirmation: You like to be uplifted. You want to be told how someone feels about you, that you’re doing a good job, and you need constant reassurance verbally.

Does that make you weak and needy? No. Then why the fuck don’t you explain this to the people you’re dating? You don’t need to come out and say “My love language is” like you’re some idiot lounging near a Love Island fire pit. What you need to do is wait for this to come up in real life organically, then double down on that want.

Every conversation is an opportunity to train a man how to love you and separate yourself from his exes. For example, if you're on a date and someone compliments you, praises you, or tells you how they appreciate something you did for them. Don't giggle. Don't blush. Don't shy away. Pause! Thank them for that and let them in on your secret.

“It’s the small things, like you recognizing me, that make me feel seen. The more you can tell me I’m valued, the further that goes in showing me that you understand who I am as a person.” It’s that simple. You don’t need to tell someone daily; doing this once or twice will be enough for them to pick up on the hint that words matter to you.

Here's the secret thing about men: we are slaves to appreciation. In sports, we love it when the coach gives us a pat on the back. As kids, we liked it when the teacher singled us out as doing a good job. Aiming to please is how men get rewarded. To tell him what you like to hear is the first step. Next, you let him show you that he understands by doing it without being prompted. The final step is to then reward him for doing so with a thank you, kiss, praise, etc... which will positively reinforce how to treat you going forward.

This is the easiest three-step psychology trick on the planet, but you're not doing it. Start, and I promise you it'll solve 90% of your miscommunication problems overnight.

Receiving Gifts: You like tokens of love. It’s not material, these things are symbols that a person appreciates you. Never feel like you’re shallow or will be perceived as begging.

Every week, I help women receive the gifts they want, rather than simply sitting around and waiting to be spoiled. Just this year, I've seen two women get cars, one get her own bank account that a man fills up monthly, and last month, this woman got all of her loans paid off as a graduation gift. The reason why these women were able to listen to me and then go back and get what they wanted was...

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How I Became The Main Character – featuring Samantha Brooke

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

On today's show, we're talking to a very special guest, the ICONIC Samantha Brooke (IG: MommyBaggYo GO here to connect), and how she went from struggling at a day job to discovering the power to manifest her current dream life.

If something is happening to you, it's happening FOR you!"

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Get ready to take notes on how to change your reality. This is the story of a real-life Alchemist who breaks down her blueprint for making the shift to financial abundance, peeling back the layers to heal past trauma, and how every woman can properly set power dynamics with men and become a magnet, not a Pick-Me.

Actionable steps, no-nonsense accountability, and the weapons to win the mental battle inside and romantic battles outside. Get ready for the most intriguing conversation of the season!

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How To Get What You Want—EVERY SINGLE TIME

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

There are no life hacks… There are no cheat codes… But there are secrets that people keep to themselves in order to win at life. You work harder— other people work smarter. “How did they do that… how did they end up with that person?” There is no luck, no coincidence, they manifest real results because they understand how this world actually works.

A Life of Pick Me Hope = you date hoping a man picks you because you’re thirsty to be seen as special, and a male’s love validates that you’re not ugly, boring, or basic.

A Life of Spartan Queen Power = you date using psychology, understand the secrets of men, and the triggers that automatically signal that you’re not a Pick Me but a Must Have.

90% of you reading this don’t know how to date in power, you’re just hoping the next guy you fuck actually wants you for real this time and didn’t just want a turn like the rest of them. Why are you such a hopeless romantic? Where does this lack of self-esteem come from?

You're a perfectionist who keeps falling for imperfect people because, secretly, you don't think you deserve the best. This lie that you're not good enough is manifesting a life you don't want to live, and it's time to start affirming the truth: You are worthy of so much more.

Your nervous system is overloaded with all these conflicting rules on how to date and who to date, but you're forgetting the most important part: another person can't make you happy. The survival mode desperation of "someone please love me" is distracting you from what you lack the most: self-love. Don't fix your lips to say that you love yourself when your actions reveal the opposite. Every insecure person wears a mask. It's time to take yours off. You haven't been the woman you could be. That doesn't mean you can't become her now.

Imprinting On A Man >>> Impressing A Man

My job is to help you understand that it's better to value consistency over perfection. The only way to become a true Spartan is to work on YOURSELF daily. Why do you make the basic mistakes when it comes to men? Because you're moving too fast and not utilizing a man's mind against him. Today I'm going to break down a few of the biggest unsaid secrets when it comes to men and dating and transform you from a woman who tries hard to a woman who doesn’t even have to put in much effort to get what she wants.

Do you know what it means to imprint yourself on a man? The secret that women have known for centuries is that you don’t have to make a man like you; it’s about doing certain things that both bother him and blow him away. It’s damn near witchcraft, which is why certain men fear women with this power. Those women who can imprint themselves on a man, are typically those who can break his heart, and a man would rather play in the face of a weak bitch who is powerless than get hurt... and trust me every man has cried over a woman because certain women are that damn powerful. You need to be THAT kind of woman.

Despite being raised in the women's empowerment era, you’re not empowered AT ALL. You still see men as the prize, and the proof is in all things you do to appease men that don’t even belong to you: Buying him things. Fucking him raw. Never saying “no” because you’re so terrified of him not liking you anymore. You’re not empowered and every "men ain't shit" statement you make is CAP, because in real life you constantly do things to prove that you’re a slave to dick and thirsty for male love.

Half of you can’t even get to a second date, while the other half can’t get a commitment despite giving up all these girlfriend benefits.  What’s the disconnect? You stay in the dating stage for way too long. Text way too much. Get fucked. Fall in love. Obsess over that man, but you still don’t know the formula to make him look at you as something to keep versus something to keep him occupied.

Ladies, there’s nothing wrong with you! But there is something wrong with how you operate! I’m trying to drill in your head that the secret to getting what you want from these men is to do the opposite of what you’ve been doing. Stop going with his flow and make him follow your wave.

-He doesn't want to go out on dates or do anything you want to do.

-He doesn't want a relationship and is good as is.

-He wants to pick you up and put you down when he feels like it.

If another woman was being disrespected like this, you would call her a dumb bitch. But when you get disrespected like this, you make excuses for that man. That's what I mean by going with the flow. As men, we don't like women who tap dance for our approval; we like the power you're giving us, but we don't respect women who let us do what we want when we want nor will we ever fall in love with weak energy. You're the type of girl other men didn't want, and we can smell that, no competitive male wants a reject woman.

Have you ever talked to a woman who cursed a man out? That man she cursed out doesn't block her; he comes running back for more because men like to be challenged. The way you challenge a man femininely is to keep your bar high in terms of what you want and don't budge until you get it. No matter how handsome, how wealthy, or how charismatic he is, realize that you tower over them. Knowing that you are the trophy is the core of my Spartan teaching. Stop running away from these lessons and freestyling. Did you not read Chapter 10 of Solving Single??? Listen to it again and get it RIGHT this time. Again, it's not you as a woman, it's your inability to stop thinking with your weak bitch past mindset, and start operating like a Spartan!

Men Think You’re Stupid… stop proving them right

The biggest hustle a man uses is to treat you like a girlfriend but never make it official. “I’m not ready. It’s not you, it’s me,” these are things a man tells his placeholder so he doesn’t feel guilty when he cuts you off in favor of someone new.  A Placeholder is a woman whom a man sees short time value in. She’s cool enough to date, sleep with, and even love… FOR NOW. But a Placeholder isn’t the kind of woman he sees himself with forever.

A man openly tells you that he doesn’t want anything serious. You pretend not to want anything serious too— then he tells you how different you are, how much he likes spending time with you, and a bunch of hollow bullshit that makes you start to fall in love... Nothing has changed; despite what he says, he still doesn’t take you seriously. His words and actions are confusing your brain because you think it’s love, when in fact you’re STILL a bench warmer, not someone I want on my team for real.

He didn’t hold you hostage. He never promised you anything. He just let you assume that the relationship was going somewhere. As an adult, you chose to follow along, so when he ghosts, he will not lose a bit of sleep. There is no “bad karma” for a man because in his mind, you chase him, he didn't force you to waste your time... and he's right.

So why would that same man keep you as a placeholder, then turn around and make the next woman his official girlfriend within weeks? It wasn’t something you did. It wasn’t an argument. It wasn’t his fucking horoscope. That man knew after the first few dates with you what box he was going to put you in. No matter what he said, how much he chased you, or how vulnerable he was, every man labels a woman early on based on how she comes off. As a woman, you will never escape that Placeholder label unless you know the secret of what a man looks for in a wifey type and how to clearly imprint his brain.

What’s the secret between a girlfriend vibe and a wife vibe?

Can you make a man go from being “unsure” about you to being “sure” about you? Of course you can. Just as a Basketball coach can be ready to cut a player only to make him their starter, all it takes is a few good games to go from being on the outs to being the star of that team.

It’s time to discover the secret to this kind of effortless power. I’m not talking pussy, I’m not talking being submissive, I’m talking the real character traits that makes a man step back and realize that YOU ARE THE ONE. On today’s episode, we’re going to break down the 3 Steps to become the ultimate wife type quickly.

Plus, I answer your questions on how to date multiple men and not get a reputation in your city— my thoughts on the DDG generation of men. Victim Shaming. Realistic date questions. And a lot more on this all-new episode of G.L. Lambert Explains It All…

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How To Play Hard To Get – 3 Steps To Control His Heart

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Nothing good has ever come from “I was bored, so I let him take me out on a date”. There are dozens of things to do with your life, but you chose to spend time with a person who isn’t your type... Where’s the logic? When you date because you need something to do instead of dating intentionally, you will always end up falling for trash. Be honest, your type is “attention,” and because you're so desperate all of the standards you preach go out the window the moment one of these bottom scrappers chase you and feed your lonely ass ego. You say you want "great," but you settle for "available." Then, you play the victim when it doesn't work out.

You like to be chased so much that you stop seeing these men as "something to do" and start seeing them as a potential husband. Don't lie, Basica. This is the kind of guy you wouldn't even let eat your pussy in high school, but now you're older, desperate, and OPEN. You're matching his last name with yours. You think about him constantly. You miss him throughout the day. You've really convinced yourself that this troll ass man is "God's Plan" for you.

Fast forward a few months: he got what he wanted and tossed you back to your boring life. Now here you are crying about “there’s no one out here for me.” There are plenty of people, but you don’t try. You sit around wishing a TEN would pick you, but settle for a TWO because you don’t think you’re good enough to get the guys you actually want. You deserve to be in a Weak Bitch Time Loop where you date men who are below you, get hurt, and then do the same thing, because you know better but won't do better!

BECOMING HER WHO DOES NOT LOSE AND ALWAYS WINS...

Humble women get passed over. That internal voice inside your head should be arrogant, snobbish, and disgustingly cocky. When you walk around like you’re the center of the universe, it attracts success! Stop trying to fit in with these peasants and be HER.

Weak men are intimidated by strong women. Which means the guys that you normally attract will run away the moment they see you acting and talking like a fucking monster instead of a girl who just wants his attention. Broke men won’t even get to second conversation because they realize that they can’t hustle you for pussy with cheap dates. It's not about "pushing men away" or "what if I never meet anyone with high standards," It's about knowing that permanent gains require extreme measures. You don't need ALL men to want you, to approach you, or to even think they're in your league. You only need the chosen few.

Switching to this mindset will upset your friendships as well. But again, don't run from this, embrace it! Those fake bitches you used to call “friends” won’t want to hold space with you anymore because low vibrational women can’t relate to someone on your level. You’re not trying to sit and talk about who fucked who or what celebrity did what, because you’re above it. You’re not trying to go to some ratchet ass function, you go where the money is, and they don’t have the confidence to walk into those rooms.

The biggest sign of growth is not being able to relate to childish things. Those women who are still on the same shit they were when they were 19, don't belong in your life. Anyone who dares to tell you to "stop being so hard on men and so high maintenance" isn't a friend, they're an opp.

Think different, act different, become different. It's a hard transformation because you've been brainwashed to be nice, to be sweet, to be considerate, and to be selfless. Fuck that. Do you want power or do you want problems?

To become HER, a Spartan, a goddess in the flesh, means that all those little weak girl emotions, that doubt, that fear, that indecision on what to do will melt away.

On today’s podcast, I’m going to show you how to move with power and pull off the greatest  trick in history:

How To Play Hard To Get And Control A Man’s Mind!

Dating stage: I will break down how to be mysterious and make him want more.

Sex Stage: I will show you how to seduce, not tease like a little ass girl, and then pussy whip him without spreading your legs.

Relationship stage: Even if you already fucked up your power, I’ll show you how to reset and mindfuck him.

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Thirst Trapping Isn’t Dead – You’re Just Scared

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

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There is NO reason a woman should be splitting the dinner bill, settling for house dates, or even paying her own car note or rent in this day and age. No matter how independent you are, why spend yours when there are countless men who spoil women like you!

Christmas shouldn’t be mid.

Your birthday shouldn’t be self-funded.

Your bank account shouldn’t stress you every time you check it.

If you just rolled your eyes with “but but but I don’t need anyone to do for me,” then hop off this page because I don’t have time for people trying to work harder and not smarter through life.

Every woman reading this is smarter than any man you’ll come across. The problem is confidence and a lack of DICK DISCIPLINE when you get around handsome, young men, who also have money. Your toxic trait is claiming you’re a savage then falling for everything a man says to the point where you once again get your heart broken! Your trust is way too easy to earn to ever win at love!

I updated Ho Tactics with the Gold Edition so it would include solutions to some of the biggest problems I get emailed. One of the biggest issues after women read the original Ho Tacitcs was that they didn’t know how to “think like a ho.” Instead, they think like a girlfriend because that’s all you’ve been trained to do.

-If you’re looking for love you ask questions, check a man’s ego, and don’t put up with red flags.

-If you’re working a trick, the only question you need to ask is “when can I see you, daddy,” because it’s not about vetting his heart, it’s about exploiting his pockets!

Can you flip the script and go from “I want love” to “I want to better my life”? Most likely not because even when you meet a mark with potential, you start to over-like him, and then you start to feel guilty or nervous, and you go back into “I want love” mode. You want this trick to be your man. That’s like saying “I want this thief to guard my money.”

By treating your mark like a potential boyfriend, you go from “fun” to “annoying” because you want to know what he’s doing, who else he’s with, if he really likes you… it would all be so simple if you stick to the Ho Tactics script. Yes, a wealthy mark can grow into more, but as I break down in the book, it’s a process that takes time and investment, but too many of you fumbled that in the first book, so I had to spell it out in the new one.

The worst offenders are women who try Ho Tactics, get a little power and confidence and then run back to exes or bum ass guys in their city to try and prove themselves to low class men. Why are you fixated with spinning the block for validation from men who are losers or scammers? I’ve seen a woman get married to a literal billionaire from using my book. What’s stopping you?

There is real money out here, but you would rather date Nappy Nolan with the old ass Apple Watch. Why? Because your type of man is: Barely surviving fixer-upper with big ideas, a lot of talk, but no follow-through. You attract who you FEEL you deserve. Look at your exes, and you’ll know where you were mentally. But are you still that woman today? You know better, but are you attracting better?

Men who are providers aren’t rare. The problem is, you listen to these brokies on the internet pandering to pick me women with this “real women hold a man down,” brainwashing. What kind of man wants to see his woman go into her wallet? What kind of woman gets wet after paying for her own Uber? The bar isn’t being set to teach young ladies value, it’s being set to shame you into being easy to access by men who failed at life.

These bums cry about “modern women are transactional,” okay Temu Timmy…. you want a bad bitch to fuck you for FREE based off of a coffee date and your corny jokes? You know damn well you respect women who are hard to get, not the low hanging fruit. The Basicas who do fuck just because they like you– never get picked! So, let’s be real with the male agenda: slut shaming women into being okay with zero courting, zero romance, and zero speical treatment is a hustle.

The men who don’t HAVE anything to bring to the table are the main ones crying about “transactional dating” because their cards would decline in a 5-star restaurant. They’re big mad that the girls they want are being empowered because if every single woman in this world raised her standards, they’d have to step their game up. Broke Brandon with no job but a phone full of “good morning, beautiful,” texts could not run game if every woman closed her legs and said– try again, clown! Court me like a princess, not like a ratchet.

A broke man can go viral online by claiming that “the wifey type” is selfless and splits bills because he’s going to be reposted by the rest of The Broke Brotherhood and the Pick Me Nation. Meanwhile, wealthy men are too busy making money to get into these low vibrational debates. Women who are taken care of know for a fact that their lifestyle does not include struggle dates or loans. So, what side are you going to listen to: the oppressors who tell you “be happy with nothing,” or the ones living that life of luxury?

THIRST TRAPPING IS MENTAL

What’s the point of having a pretty face if you’re not going to use it to get a man who can provide?

What’s the point of having a nice body, regardless if you paid for it, worked out for it, or were just blessed, if you aren’t going to use that body to get a man who can provide?

Thirst trapping a man is easy: Every man has several types of women they go for and a handful of fetishes that those women tap into. Ass. Titties. Face. Curves. Skinny. Fit. Dark. Light. Whatever your brand is there is no need to say “I need boobs like her,” because you’re not after ALL men you’re after the men who will be the most into you based on what you natuarally serve. Rubi Rose wouldn’t have been in Playboy in the 90s, but not having large breasts doesn’t hurt her in this era. Angele Reese has men lusting enough to watch the WNBA, yet there’s still some girl crying that she wishes she were shorter. Men are not the fucking prize, but you all look at your bodies in ways that are way too harsh. I don’t care who you are, how you look, you can thirst trap your way into a roster by simply putting your best attributes FORWARD.

Thirst Trapping 101

Post yourself sweating in the gym. Post your feet after a pedicure. Post a video winking into the camera. I could fill a fucking book with ways to thirst trap because all you have to do is exude sex and these horny bastards will slide into your DMs.

The missing art that I’m trying to beat into your head in this new Ho Tactics is that the game has three steps: Thirst trap. Engage. Hook.

What are you going to do with that attention, Ms. Fake Gym Influencer? You’re not out here trying to win tournaments in fitness; you’re looking to be the wife or funded girlfirend of a CEO. One of them is probably in your inbox right now. It worked. He’s right there. Engage and tell me how you’re going to make him open his pockets in a short time? You can’t do it because you don’t know what to do after the picture is posted. You don’t know how to flirt, tease, or even push his buttons when he’s moving slow.

What are you going to do when that entertainer or athlete stumbles upon some cute thirst trap photo you posted? Do you know how to mentally mind fuck him or are you going to just get flown out, get fucked, and end up with $0. Bitch, you don’t need a Hermes scarf, you need a lifestyle, stop selling yourself short because you let these men come into your life, tell you they want to see you, and then proceed to make you their whore. I don’t do whores, I do women who are fucking Gods. Do you want that or do you just want to look cute with some ugly bag in your hand that cost you your power?

It’s time to stop being afraid of men, and start using your ability to thirst trap to your advantage. If a man thinks you’re cute, and wants to fuck, he’s under your spell. Don’t run from that. Exploit that!

Men are winning! They can go online shoot 10 Dms, and at least 3 of them will lead to new pussy. They can go out in the real world, tap a girl on the shoulder, and get her number because most women don’t get real-life attention enough to be picky. They can go on dating apps, message 12 women and end up ghosting 8 because he doesn’t have time to fuck all of them… his plate is full and I’m talking about normal men, not the 1%. Why? Because women don’t have standards in real life.

Again– MEN ARE WINNING. They do less, and you give them more. Add up all the love, tears, and pussy you’ve poured into men, now add up what you’ve gotten in return… you’ve been hustled beloved! Stop thinking like a romantic and start thinking like a Ho!

Any woman that tells you that a boyfriend isn’t a source of income is broke, single, or jealous that they know one has ever put them up on Ho game! Stop playing the game backwards! Learn to be confident, learn to hook men online and offline, learn how to engage after you thirst trap them and secure not just the bag, but a new way of living…

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What Does A Healthy Relationship Look Like

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

“How am I supposed to do better and know better if no one has ever shown me what love is supposed to look like…”

Parents are supposed to be the model you study when it comes to love, but the majority of men and women I talk to experienced one of these childhoods instead:

An abusive or broken household void of love.

Divorced parents who took shots at each other.

Parents who stayed together too long and secretly hated each other.

If you’ve never seen your mother be shown love, grace, respect, and high-value treatment, how are you supposed to recognize that in your own life?

If your father left your mother, cheated on her, or abandoned you to create another family, how are you supposed to trust any man to be loyal?

If your circle of friends is filled with people who have the same fucked up stories or are constantly mistreated by men, then it’s easy to slip into the mindset of “There’s nothing out here...” But regardless of your parents’ relationship or the dating lives of your friends, you STILL want love—You STILL believe in love. So how do you break this cycle?

The problem when manifesting the love you desire isn’t the lack of solid candidates. It’s the mental disease of not knowing when to recognize “healthy love” and walk away from “unhealthy passion.” It's the self-sabotage of "I'm not good enough," or "what happens once they get to know the real me." It's the lifetime of bad habits that you brush off with "that's just how I am," instead of addressing your bullshit.

You overreact because you were raised to be defensive. You shut down because you were raised not to talk back to authority. You assume the worst because you've been taken advantage of. The average adult spends so much time trying to heal from things that aren't even their fault. Parents won't admit they failed you. Instead, they tell you they did the best they could and to stop crying.

How is a person with this kind of backstory supposed to communicate, let alone date, in a healthy way? They can't! Most adults are broken, failing forward, and falling for people who are also damaged. This is a world filled with kids from broken homes creating new homes that are even more broken because they've never been taught that love isn't a struggle. It's time to reverse course and stop pretending!

Men + Trauma = Tragedy

Male Excuse #127: I don’t know how to give you the love you need because I come from a rough upbringing. I was mistreated, so I don’t know how to treat women, how to deal with my emotions, and no one cares enough about me to be patient and fix my pain.

Shut the fuck up, with the gaslighting, bro! These are the clowns y'all like cuddling up with? Really?

No one’s life story is picture perfect, but accountability is the difference between a man who blames his past for his present versus a man who strives to be better despite his trauma. You can’t fix a person who is in love with playing the victim. Nevertheless, every week, I get a story about a woman who’s stuck on some broken man and desperately wants to love him into being better. Welcome to the world of male manipulation.

Red flags are easy to spot. Green flags should be just as easy, but so many of you take a Red Flag and paint it Green because you don’t know what to look for in a relationship. You stay on social media brainwashing yourself with a bunch of bullshit “If a man does this, he’s good. If a man does this, he’s bad” but when you’re face to face with a man those cut and dry “bad man/good man” traits are hard to see because you want what you want. Why are you attracted to the "bad boys" versus the decent guys? It's not hard-wired in you, it's because most predatory men size you up, and infiltrate your heart using this SCRIPT...

Attention. Dick. Rejection.

Attention = He chases you, wants you more than you want him, makes you feel valuable, special, and all the excited feelings that movies tell you are a sign of falling in love.

Dick = He fucks you like he just got out of prison. Sucks the soul out of your pussy. Then he wants to go again. Sex isn’t just sex; it's proof that he wants you, like really wants you, and that's all you've ever wanted was to be shown love. Unlike other men, he’s attentive to your needs and shows you with passionate strokes, deep kisses, and talks you through an orgasm you rarely get to experience until the physical becomes spiritual.

Rejection = The best tool to control a woman is to pour attention, give her epic dick, and then fall back. Mindfucking a woman AFTER she’s comfortable, happy, and satisfied, will convince her that no other man out there can give her these feelings. She will do the most, put up with anything, and most importantly, stay loyal to a fault because that woman knows it all can be taken away again if she doesn’t fall in line. That’s the power a Toxic man brings into an unsuspecting woman’s life.

Repeat after me: Attention. Dick. Rejection. That’s how certain men operate, and even if you know this trick, it’s hard to stop because in between those steps, he’s saying and doing everything you’re looking for from your Prince Charming. It’s a hustle, and today I will teach you how to spot the signs, take action, and turn the tables on this unhealthy relationship so you can Spartan up and turn it into a healthy relationship.

What A Healthy Man Looks Like Vs. What An Unhealthy Man Looks Like

Dating is supposed to be about vetting a man to see if he’s compatible with THREE things: Your personality, lifestyle, and future ambitions.

Can this man handle your attitude and calm your moods respectfully and patiently? Can this man fit into your family life, get along with your friends, and spend quality time with you, no matter his schedule? Can this man bring something to the table that instantly makes your life better—teach you things, expand your mind, add to your net worth, and prove that he’s on the same page in terms of what you want, be it marriage, children, or career aspirations?

...or is that asking too much?

"Come as you are... just be kind of cute... fuck it you can even be half-ugly, I just don't want to be alone anymore" has become the mindset of too many women who repost memes about standards yet throw pussy bassed on small talk and attention.

Laides, you get mediocre men who don't know how to love you because you're not vetting properly! If you don't know what I mean by the word "vetting" or what to ask specifically on a date or in a relationship, CLICK HERE for a free ebook that takes you through the steps. I don't have time to hold your hand through the basics. Today is about the advanced course that most of you should be ready for-- keyword SHOULD. Dating with power isn’t just about knowing what a healthy relationship looks like; it’s about pushing a man’s buttons with questions! Men should serve ONE PURPOSE: Better your life.

Do you ask questions or do you snoop?

Do you clarify or do you assume?

Do you know the kind of man that compliments YOUR PERSONALITY or are you walking around like your coochie is a universal remote: Anyone can activate that shit???

If you can’t verbalize what you’re looking for, how can you take steps to attain it? The unhealthy habits of your childhood have made you a passive airhead as opposed to a master manifestor! You don’t set goals, you sit around! You’re a bystander, not a creator, and that’s why your results are so inconsistent. You’re one step above a fucking NPC (google it, Basica)! You have the same wants as every other basic bitch online, you watch the same shows, reshare the same TikTok’s, wear the same type of clothes, thirst after the same men, and end up falling for the same male lies because you’re a fucking SHEEP not the main character.

The life you live isn’t one of manifesting, it’s one of reacting. You don’t know what you want until some other woman shows you what’s possible! Power is knowing that something is already yours before it happens. Doubt is the disease of convincing yourself you’re not good enough. The problem is you’ve lived in doubt for so long that moving in power seems impossible. Not after today…

The Ultimate Dating Test:

Find a piece of paper because I’m about to put you to work. Below is a short test that will be the most important thing in your dating life in terms of correcting how you think. Let’s begin…

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Why Men Deserve Less

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Men are the prize. Or at least they act that way because the VAST majority of women treat them like they're the female in the relationship. No accountability because you'll always forgive and forget. No need to hustle hard because you'll Mommy him and go into your purse to make sure he's good. No competition for your heart because the moment you "like" a boy, you delete your dating apps and start telling your friends you met your future husband... are you dumb? On the spectrum? What's actually going on that you think these men who come into your life with low effort deserve you?

A man wants to see you on his terms, so you break your neck to see him.

A man disrespects or embarrasses you, but you forgive him because who else do you have?

No matter what you have going on in life, career, money, family... it means nothing without a man.

No matter how many red flags he shows, you refuse to see it because you HAVE to make him fit!

No matter how happy you tell people you are... you feel lonely as fuck when you don't have a man.

The feeling of "I don't want to spend another year single" drives you, it eats at you, and it scares you because at the end of the day if you don't find a man your life will have been pointless.

...that's why men feel they're the prize. They know that YOU want their love, their validation, their dick, their last name, and everything they bring to the table. You've fucked up the game by allowing men to becoming the center of your universe.

STOP BEING DUMB FOR DICK HOPING TO BE PICKED!

Here's a secret. Men aren't the prize. Men are easy to get, easy to mold, easy to train, and easy to mindfuck BUT you won't be able to do that until you recognize that you have power and stop being just another Basica who is overly romantic and infatuated with having a Disney Princess Happy Ending! Fuck that. This is Sparta and Men Deserve Less! Read this ebook. Wake the fuck up. Break these basic habits!

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What She Has… That You Don’t: How To Revamp Your Personality

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

When you want something so bad, BUT it doesn't work out... When you fall in love with a person, but they fall out of love with you... When you feel on top of the world, only to see the world drop on top of you... It isn't just heartbreak; it's torture. All you can think of is "why me," and all you want to talk about is "what do you think went wrong." Your friends try to be supportive, but they're sick of you talking about the same situation over and over again. Your own brain is sick of replaying the events in your own head. But you can't let go of that hurt no matter how much you want to.

Everything will be okay. Just take time to heal. That's all bullshit because how do you heal? How do you take an L and still smile? How can you ever open your heart up to love someone else knowing that you just poured EVERYTHING into someone only to be told, "You're not actually my type, I want someone else."

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The lie you want to hear: You are good enough.

The truth you need to hear: You aren't good enough and need to become better.

Love is the only subject where people sugarcoat the truth so you won't sink into a depression. If this shit were math and you kept saying 10+10=32 a teacher would say "bitch are you stupid?" But when it comes to romance, you all go out here and do all the steps wrong, then want someone to hug you and say, "It's not your fault that the math isn't mathing." It is your fucking fault! Once you can admit you don't know what you're doing out here, then you can seek tutoring. You need to do this thing called "love" right. Heavy on the "admit" part.

All you're bringing to the table is anxiety and pussy, and clearly the way you throw coochie isn't good enough to make up for your mood swings given the stories I'm seeing. It's time to stop going in circles!

Do you know how to vett a man with your words to make him tell you shit that he doesn't want to reveal? ...no, you don't ask shit, you just want to be picked.

If a guy flirts with you, can you fire back in a way that shocks and glues him to you? ...no, you freeze like a deer in headlights because you're too awkward and insecure to seduce like a grown woman.

When you're early in a relationship, do you know how to pull back, not spend too much time, and keep the honeymoon stage burning? ...no, you jump when a man wants to see you, always pick ups up when he calls, and are deathly afraid of playing the role of "booked and busy, so you better lock me down ASAP!"

Women who exude confidence don't have your problems. Women who don't put dick on a pedestal don't have your problems. Women who recognize that they can take any man they want don't have your problem. What do you have inside of you? Fear, indecision, and anxiety. Your nervous system is a mess, your personality is timid, and your pussy game is in the mud because you don't know the first thing about power.

The problem is you let men see your flaws to the point where they no longer see you as special. A Queen doesn't crash out in front of peasants. You don't cheapen your brand by allowing others to get a reaction out of you. Your aura should radiate to the point where they don't even think you're human. A woman in control can't be controlled!

How do you ascend to this level of godhood? It doesn't take years or even months. On today's podcast, I'm going to break it all down.

Plus, we discuss the clear signs of a man trying to play you, the power of foreplay, whether rich married men make for good boyfriends, and the craziest celebrity date story in this show's history.

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Mastering A Long Distance Relationship

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

I know a woman from Miami that has a boyfriend in LA, a trick in Colorado, and some guy in Cinci who pays her rent. None of this could happen without the internet. Dating apps are great for using in your spare time to meet men adjacent to you, but social media is amazing when it comes to leading women to men globally who will literally prove what I've been saying for years: There is always a man waiting to spoil you in all the ways you deserve.

Each one of you reading this has come across a person in another city or even country who has caught your eye. But long distance relationships are messy. So the conundrum becomes, what to do with that attention? Explore it or dismiss it because you and he will never work. Let's dive into this.

What's the appeal of Long Distance?

The internet is a great place to meet new people if you live in a city that's dry, boring, or travel in the same small circles. Let's be 100, a lot of you have fucked around and gotten reputations in your city, you've made toxic friendships with girls who gossip about you, or you've dealt with fuck boys who hit and can't wait to tell the next guy about how he hit. In short, when you don't want the drama of your city or you crave someone who thinks different, has a different way of looking at life, or even has a different accent then you, it's time to give someone out of state a chance-- I said chance-- not ass. We're not fucking on first flyouts Basica.

Types of LDR

The Let’s Hold On LDR: You have a boyfriend/girlfriend who you love, but they have to go away for school, work, military, or whatever. Instead of breaking up and letting go, you decide to hold on. This usually fails when one or both people stop getting attention, or someone doesn’t want to uproot their life to make a permanent move so they can be together.

The I Don’t Know You But Let’s Make It Work LDR: You meet someone randomly and it seems like they are heaven sent. They are perfect for you… until you find out they are from out of town or about to move out of town. Instead of letting go and chalking it up to Right Person Wrong Time, you try to make it work anyway. This usually fails because neither person really knew each other deep enough to maintain an out of state relationship that soon after meeting.

The I Met Them On The Internet LDR: This is the most common form of Long Distance Relationship today. You don’t get pulled by the people you find attractive in your city. However, the internet it’s a buffet of new dick! Men don't take the best pictures online, but you meet them for the first time, and they're cuter in person, and you're OPEN. This is what you've been waiting to see: a man from a city you wouldn't mind moving to who is saying all the right things.... is this fate or fool's gold?

Out of State Ass: Not What You Think

When someone you love moves away, there is usually a strong foundation of trust and understanding. You knew them and spent time with them locally before the separation. You’ve seen their good side and bad side face to face, so you can deal with their mood swings over the phone. The hard part is NOT KNOWING what they're doing 24-7. One woman wrote me five emails in one day. Yes five. Each one crazier than the next because she was so afraid that her boyfriend, who had moved to Texas from Seattle, was cheating on her because he had not called her in two days. Men get bored, and when their is no legal marriage commitment, he knows in the FRONT of his mind, if I see someone else there is nothing wrong with pursuing that because she's not around. And that's what happened with Texas boy. He got tired of the phone calls and wanted a woman he could touch and talk to face to face, and most ment espicially younger ones break during LDRs the moment you move away.

A man is only as faithful as his options. 80% aren't desirable, they look funny, they don't have much money, they aren't that deep, and if you're dealing with someone born after 1995, they're most likely socially awkward and weird. That's a fact. So, LDR's that start off in one city and then one person moves can work because the man that you're in love with doesn't have the means to get these other women. he doesn't have options like you think to land a woman better than you. Ladies, if your man isn't a Green Bay Packer, chances are girl's aren't throwing pussy at him just because. So, being faithful isn't a problem in this situation; loneliness is. Holding on to someone after they move or after you move, is usually a mistake unless you can have a talk about longterm plans. Communication! I'm riding this out not because I don't want to start over, but because I see you as the person I'm going to marry. If you BOTH can't say that before the move, then it'll never work. LDR's aren't "just dating" it's too emotionally draining, you have to be all in and ready to marry that person.

Your city's played, predictable, and exhausting. But what about the men you meet on vacation? The guy in Miami who you bumped into at the beach? The guy in Vegas who let you sit at his table and drink bottles? The guy in New York who has that accent you like and who keeps liking all of your IG stories? Should you keep talking to these men knowing that it's going to be a hard road paved with loneliness and/or jealousy, or do you keep dating locally?

It's not about what you do; it's about how you date. I don't care if they live in your apartment building or across the border. You have to date from a position of strength. As a woman, you have to recognize that there's a power built into a man not being able to see you all the time-- but dying to see you all the time. You don't spend your own money to fly out just like you wouldn't spend your own Uber money to meet a man on a date locally. You don't get imported into a new city just to eat and fuck, you're coming to be courted and spoiled. Put some tariff's on your pussy! In order to have you, they need to earn you on the first trip, work even harder between trips, and maybe by the third or fourth trip, he might hit the latto. Pussy is power, flex it, don't hope your ass on Spirit Flight 6969 with hearts in your eyes because of a vibe. You're a goddess not a fucking 12th grader, act like it!

Men aren't that smart, but they're smart enough to know that women don't do any of the shit I just wrote above. "Come see me," = "I'm going to fuck." No hotel room, you're at my house. No just sleeping next to each other we're fucking. That's why long distance dating via IG DM's is a gold mine for all levels of men from athletes to the guy working security at Target to get so much pussy and all they have to do is message you, get you to come out, and it's a wrap.

What is an out-of-town man's appeal to you? They're not from where you're from, so they have a "new car smell" vibe to them. Think about socializing these days. Folks today aren’t going outside to meet new people; they’re staying inside and forming crushes on people they meet on an app. Part of the crush is that they're "exotic" but not in a "Damn, he's from Brazil way" they're exotic because they have a different new city swagger. Guys in a city like Atlanta tend to be culturally indistinguishable. They drink the same water, talk the same talk, play the same games, and tell the same lies. A girl who grew up around that bullshit is jaded; she wants to hear a new song, not a remix. She meets a guy at Buffalo Wild Wings … he turns out to be from San Francisco… mental orgasm! Dude automatically gets brownie points because he’s not local. The irony is that the girls in San Francisco would tell you, “These niggas ain’t shit either, watch yourself.”

The grass is ONLY greener because it’s a different city, not because these men are actually any different—Exotic Dick to you is Trash Dick to her. It’s all perspective. H&M in Vancouver has the same shit as H&M in Los Angeles, but LA girls still get excited when they go to Vancouver because it feels different. These men aren’t different, they just feel different, and because of that feeling, you don’t put them to the test as you would someone you were dating locally. You blindly enjoy that newness, drop your guard, and find out the hard way what the women from his city already knew—he still uses Dick Tactics and plays games, you just don't see it yet. Out of state men and women are placebos, they aren’t actually any better than the people in your own backyard are, but because you want to believe they are, they become that.

Fly Out Rules

When should a man fly out to see you? Should you fly out to see him? Who should pay for the plane ticket? Slow down. The first step is to screen him on the phone. Make sure he’s not some weirdo, that he’s not just talking sex, and that it’s more than jokes and chitchat. Never fly out to see a guy you barely know, he should have earned your interest and “he’s not a serial killer” trust, with solid conversation. Don’t get caught up on the actual period in terms of exactly a month from the time you first exchanged numbers. This could be a guy you met online a year ago, and just recently started to take seriously or a guy you met on vacation who you’re now starting to give attention to after a few months of curving him. The point being, you need to fly out within a 30-40 days of when you two start to develop serious feelings.

The longer you go without seeing him, the more you like him based on that synthetic bond I described earlier. Test him on the phone, but the true test won’t come until you’re in person. All this talk you’ve been doing leading up to the trip, is it really about him digging your personality or is it him laying the groundwork for sex when you touch down? Don’t let your ego and his, “It’s not about sex” bullshit pull the wool over your eyes. You don’t know his agenda until you visit and spend time with him over a series of days.

One girl asked me, “What man would put in all that work just to get sex, couldn’t he go get sex around the corner?” Ladies, there is no limit to what most guys will do for new pussy or even some quality repeat pussy. Players and pussy hunters don’t do shit but chase tail. He works. Watches TV. Scouts for chicks he can have sex with. Coochie is Life. It’s nothing to spend half the day texting you or half the night selling you dreams on the phone, because he’s not spending money or any real time away from things he would rather do. You want to think that it’s your beauty, your conversation, and your personality, but most likely, he just wants to feel your vagina just to say he felt your vagina.

The average man has to work for sex, it’s not handed out like club fliers. These men don’t get as much sex as you believe. “Oh he’s tall and chocolate, he’s swimming in pussy,” yeah old pussy. The Average Man Doesn’t Really Have Hos, He Recycles! You think he’s handsome, but he’s been smashing his ex-girl for the last year because he can’t get new pussy or doesn’t want to put in money and time to earn quality new pussy—that’s what makes him line you up with phone & text game. A $340 plane ticket where a man is promised pussy that weekend > Taking Jasmine to dinner, having to talk her into coming over his crib, needing to front like he wants to be with her, only to be rejected. Out of Town Ass is less of a headache for men!

I don’t want you ladies inflating your ego, flying across the country, having sex, and then be surprised when he gets busy the week after you get back home. Fly outs shouldn’t be about sex, it should be about compatibility, which is why you need to fly down their within (say it together) THE FIRST 6 WEEKS, and more importantly be stingy with your kitty kat once you are face to face. The real concern isn’t transportation, it’s how should you act during that first visit.

What do you plan to do when you get there? Men aren’t flying you out to give you a tour of their city, they plan to feed and fuck you. A man will introduce you to the crew, maybe Moms, but the goal is to get you alone in their crib and get what they’ve been masturbating about. Some of you are like, “shit, I want sex too! I get moist every time I hear his voice.” However, do you want sex with him or sex with who you think he is? I repeat, you don’t know this dude yet, you only know his representative.

Your job is to be a step ahead of him and not get tossed up just because you feel a connection based on that phone boning you’ve been doing for the past month. I don’t care how many times you sexted him about what you’d do to his dick, pussy shouldn’t be sold for plane tickets, that’s basic bitch behavior. He’s telling you he loves you and that you’re so different, next thing you know; you’re sucking his dick two hours after landing. Think about how premature those actions are! When you fly out for the first time and have sex, that’s the same as Cover Over & Chill, you just traveled further dumb ass.

City Rules: Go to his city; don’t ask him to come to yours. In his city, you get to see his everyday lifestyle AKA if he has a secret girlfriend, secret children, secret gay lover, a real job, etc… Some men may take you to the Red Lobster across town because he doesn’t want someone seeing him with you at the mall. Some men may keep you locked up in their crib because they don’t want snitches spotting you. Go to his town, explore it with him, and watch his moves like a fucking hawk to see if he’s nervous or trying to hide something. How many times do I have to say this: Men don’t lie well, women just ignore clues because they want to believe he’s not a piece of shit.

My friend dated a guy who played basketball overseas. He kept telling her how they were going to do this and do that when she arrived. She wasn’t naïve; they talked everyday 4-6 hours at a time when he didn’t have a game. In her mind, “He likes me for me, and he’s trying to make this work.” He never allowed her to come to his country, but he did go to NYC and bust that open. Comes to find out he had a girlfriend living with him, all those plans were bullshit, and she was never going to be allowed to come to his city. This bastard put in all those international minutes just for sex, finding hours to talk on the phone despite having a basketball career and a girlfriend. Don’t let your ego blind you! Men will make all kinds of fake plans to bring you out, because they know that’s what you want to hear, but how do you know what he’s hiding if you don’t actually force him to follow through? Go to his city, it’s that simple!

Money Rules: Is he supposed to fly you out or should you show him that you’re not some bum bitch and pay for your own ticket? You don’t spend your money to go see a man you don't know. You get him to buy your plane ticket. If he can’t afford to fly you out or only offers half the money, then why are you wasting your time? You put in a month of conversation; you mean to tell me you would still entertain a man who doesn’t even think your box is worth premium class airfare?

Don’t disrespect yourself by paying for your own airfare. Next, make him get your hotel room for the time you’re in his city or get your own room. That’s right, you're staying in a hotel room never his house. This is the first visit; you don’t know this man to be staying the night with him; that’s second visit privileges.

I’m actually being nice by saying it’s sort of okay to pay for your own hotel, because I know most of the guys you ladies date may not have that kind of money, but in a my world he should pay for all of this, ticket, hotel, meals, activities, and even then he’s not getting any pussy—you are the fucking prize! This is one of the things where Ho Tactics and Date Like A Spartan intersect; visiting a man gives him too much power, so you take it back by keeping your legs closed! Here’s where your inner Basic Bitch will say, “He won’t like that I’m staying at a hotel.” Fuck him! It’s called leverage! You have what he wants. Therefore, he agrees to the rules, or he doesn’t get to see you. Only weak women undersell themselves by saying, “I’ll pay half the ticket, and I’ll sleep in your bed for the next three days because we have good Skype chemistry” fuck that. He wants to see you! He has to either make it work or he won’t see you—it’s not that hard of a negotiation.

Sex Rules: The point of flying down to see him is to uncover his true character via dates. The same Date Like A Spartan rules apply from this point forward. Why do you have sex? Because he's cute and you're horny? Because you like him? How old are you? In Sparta we only fuck for two reasons: Because a man...

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Why Men Deserve Less

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Men are the prize. Or at least they act that way because the VAST majority of women treat them like they're the female in the relationship. No accountability because you'll always forgive and forget. No need to hustle hard because you'll Mommy him and go into your purse to make sure he's good. No competition for your heart because the moment you "like" a boy, you delete your dating apps and start telling your friends you met your future husband... are you dumb? On the spectrum? What's actually going on that you think these men who come into your life with low effort deserve you?

A man wants to see you on his terms, so you break your neck to see him.

A man disrespects or embarrasses you, but you forgive him because who else do you have?

No matter what you have going on in life, career, money, family... it means nothing without a man.

No matter how many red flags he shows, you refuse to see it because you HAVE to make him fit!

No matter how happy you tell people you are... you feel lonely as fuck when you don't have a man.

The feeling of "I don't want to spend another year single" drives you, it eats at you, and it scares you because at the end of the day if you don't find a man your life will have been pointless.

...that's why men feel they're the prize. They know that YOU want their love, their validation, their dick, their last name, and everything they bring to the table. You've fucked up the game by allowing men to becoming the center of your universe.

STOP BEING DUMB FOR DICK HOPING TO BE PICKED!

Here's a secret. Men aren't the prize. Men are easy to get, easy to mold, easy to train, and easy to mindfuck BUT you won't be able to do that until you recognize that you have power and stop being just another Basica who is overly romantic and infatuated with having a Disney Princess Happy Ending! Fuck that. This is Sparta and Men Deserve Less! Read this ebook. Wake the fuck up. Break these basic habits!

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