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God Mode: Heal & Find Love – 3 Step Blueprint

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Goddess Mindset = You Can Manifest At Will. The Universe Conspires To Give You What You Need. Life is Amazing.

Victim Mindset = You Have Bad Luck. Nothing Ever Works Out. Life Sucks…what’s the point?

Every time you step foot outside, you’re either in control or at the mercy of the world you’re living in. You either have the confidence to push through everything that comes your way, or you’re filled with anxiety because you know that you’re not built to be tested.

What's the difference between G.O.D Mode (GREATNESS OVER DOUBT) and Victim Mode? Winners believe in their powers, while losers wait for others to empower them. Are you triggered yet? Does looking at your life make you uncomfortable? Good! Because it's time to confront what's holding you back. Basic thoughts. Inconsistent results. A mountain of mistakes... and what the fuck are you doing to change these things besides repress and regress?

My books turn weak women into Goddesses, at least those who are open enough to follow what I write without fear, and it's not because of what I say, it's because I'm waking up what's inside of you. You are inherently powerful, but you refuse to honor that gift.

The biggest test I’m emailed about is: How do I find love, keep love, and not fuck it up.

Your dating life is mid and inconsistent. Why aren’t you dating men who are on your level? At least 2-3 times a month, you should be taken out by men who can actually bring something to YOUR table.

Your relationship is dry and unsatisfying: Why isn’t your relationship giving Happy Ending? Instead, you don’t go anywhere, you don’t get anything, and be honest-- you don’t feel special. It’s giving “be happy with mediocre love.” You don't think you can do better so you choose to be content instead of truly happy.

Your mindset is set to pick me and prove myself. Who taught you that a woman's job is to tap dance for dick? You trick on men, let them fuck you the moment they apply pressure, hold down guys who aren't even officially yours all because you don't believe just being yourself is enough for them to stay. You're so mentally broken that you think for an attractive man to actually want you, there must be some kind of exchange, sexual or materialistic. You talk empowerment online then pander for penis in real life because you don't believe you're worthy of unconditional love.

You're sad. You're lost. You're on a fast tract to being just another Basica who settles, gets used, and gets tossed back in the dating pool to repeat that pathetic cycle.

What man doesn't love a dumb bitch who does the most? Stop being so Basic!

It’s time to hit reset and get the love you actually want, from a person who can match your energy, not drag you down. The problem is you don’t know where to start. Your life has been up and down, and mentally, your trauma is getting in the way. Victim or God? Unfuckwitable or Low Vibrational? It’s on you to change because waiting on someone to come in and "fix you" isn't happening!

You want to be powerful. You want to be respected. You want to achieve what you're capable of... Yet you contradict then betray your own standards! You don't want to embrace Godhood, you want to submit and be a man's pet because all you ever wanted is the validation of "Daddy love me!" Enough is enough. Get off your knees and become the woman you know you are because it's never too late to Spartan Up!

Breaking Free From Victim Trauma

Do you know how to show love, receive love, and test that bond to know that it’s solid and not just another start-and-stop relationship? Today, we’re going to revamp your love life with some tough love:

Seek Therapy and Heal: Fuck that. I’m going to show you how to self-heal without spending all that time and money going in circles.

How Do You Know You’re Ready For A Relationship: Fuck that. Stop looking for signs and start creating your own reality where you easily test and see if this person is right.

Unsure of what to say: Fuck that. No more introverted relationships where you let people lead you, or you allow opportunities to pass you by because you lack the confidence or the words to express what you want. It’s time to open your mouth and get what you deserve!

All it takes to reignite your love life, no matter if you’re single, in a relationship, situationship, or just stuck—are these 3 Steps I talk about on today's episode. Plus, we answer YOUR top questions. This is the ultimate class on fixing trauma, killing anxiety, and healing that actually works!

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God Mode: Heal & Find Love – 3 Step Blueprint

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Goddess Mindset = You Can Manifest At Will. The Universe Conspires To Give You What You Need. Life is Amazing.

Victim Mindset = You Have Bad Luck. Nothing Ever Works Out. Life Sucks…what’s the point?

Every time you step foot outside, you’re either in control or at the mercy of the world you’re living in. You either have the confidence to push through everything that comes your way, or you’re filled with anxiety because you know that you’re not built to be tested.

The biggest test I’m emailed about is: How do I find love, keep love, and not fuck it up.

Your dating life is mid and inconsistent. Why aren’t you dating on God Mode? At least 2-3 times a month, you should be taken out by men who can actually bring something to YOUR table.

Your relationship is dry and unsatisfying: Why isn’t your relationship giving Happy Ending? Instead, you don’t go anywhere, you don’t get anything, and be honest-- you don’t feel special. It’s giving “be happy with crumbs,” because you chose to be content instead of truly happy.

It’s time to hit reset and get the love you actually want, from a person who can match your energy, not drag you down. The problem is you don’t know where to start. Your life has been up and down, and mentally, your trauma is getting in the way. Victim or God? Unfuckwitable or Low Vibrational? It’s on you to change because waiting on someone to come in and "fix you" isn't happening!

You want to be powerful. You want to be respected. You want to achieve what you're capable of... Yet you contradict then betray your own standards! List of dealbreakers longer than Beyonce's hair, buy you STILL settle for the man with the red flags. You can tell everyone else they're being dumb and give good advice, but in your own life you STILL make rookie mistakes and get talked into staying in unhealthy situations. You're so strong intellectually, but so weak emotionally. You don't want to embrace Godhood, you want to submit and be a man's pet because all you ever wanted is the validation of "Daddy love me!" Enough is enough.

Breaking Free From Victim Trauma

Do you know how to show love, receive love, and test that bond to know that it’s solid and not just another start-and-stop relationship? Today, we’re going to revamp your love life with some tough love:

Seek Therapy and Heal: Fuck that. I’m going to show you how to self-heal without spending all that time and money going in circles.

How Do You Know You’re Ready For A Relationship: Fuck that. Stop looking for signs and start creating your own reality where you easily test and see if this person is right.

Unsure of what to say: Fuck that. No more introverted relationships where you let people lead you, or you allow opportunities to pass you by because you lack the confidence or the words to express what you want. It’s time to open your mouth and get what you deserve!

All it takes to reignite your love life, no matter if you’re single, in a relationship, situationship, or just stuck—are these 3 Steps I talk about on today's episode.

Plus, we answer YOUR top questions. This is the ultimate class on fixing trauma, killing anxiety, and healing that actually works!

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Delusional Dating – Why You’re Stuck As A Placeholder

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Delusion: “The person that’s meant for you will find you.”

Reality: People are manipulative, and they will pretend to be everything you’re looking for in order to gain control of your heart and mind.

Delusion: We’ve been on and off forever, but we always come back to each other. I think it’s meant to be.

Reality: You’re wasting the best years of your life trying to force a person who isn’t right for you because you ignorantly believe that comfort = compatibility.

Delusion: I’m going to end up happily married because I’m good, loyal, and I know how to please a man.

Reality: Fuck that. How smart are you? How good at vetting are you? How good at reading between the lines are you? Your entire life, you’ve said you were “special,” but how often have you shown that you were special?

You’re loyal to men who have lied to you on more than one occasion. Clap it up. After everything you’ve seen, you still believe in men who aren’t consistent. Clap it up. You throw pussy on a man, hoping it locks him down… how has that worked out for you? Since you were in your 20s, you’ve lost at love. You’ve been fooled by big talk, you’ve fallen in love with potential, and you’ve wasted so much wet vagina on men who were never what they appeared. Clap it up for your delusional ride through life.

There’s a difference between being positive and being delusional. Confidence dictates that you push through your current fear and past setbacks and go for what you want. Your actions, thoughts, and choices shape your destiny. The lessons you learn by making mistakes should help you eventually make better choices. The key word is “should”.

Delusion is when you don’t learn from life, and double down on stupidity. You buy into some cliché saying or baseless belief and prop yourself up with false confidence. Why are so many women Placeholders? Why are so many women holding on to toxic relationships? Why are so many women single, and unsure of how to attract more men? 90% of you reading this don't know how to play the Love Game, you hope, wish, and pray, but you don't know how to activate your inner Bad Bitch, Spartan Up, and Get What You Need!

When you’re caught up in delusion, you convince yourself that a basic man is a king, water is dry, down is up, because your pride and ego have to be right... you're so afraid to fail that you keep lying to yourself.

“We’re going to get married, girl,” remarks your Basica bestie after two months of dick and promises. “Fuck him, these men ain’t shit,” growls your Basica bestie a few weeks later. It’s always fuck that last relationship, I've moved on. Never. Wait. What is going on inside of me that I got so caught up so fast. All this talk about the latest makeup bronzers, reality show reunions, and what you have planned for your birthday... but ZERO mention of your own mental health and why you feed into delusion, end up chosing the wrong people, and keep getting hurt.

 “Whatever, God got me... What’s meant to be will be... I'm waiting until the Sun is in Virgo...” Spiritual excuses are spit from your mouth, and you sound like a pychopath. Waiting on supernatural forces to bring you a husband or using it to explain away why the last man didn't want you is not taking accountability, beloved.

You can’t keep making mistake after mistake in the name of “I’m highly favored.” Your delusion has you believing that you have some kind of spiritual shield that will keep you protected. But why isn't it working? The truth is your intuition is broken, busted, and more off than a clock radio after Day Light Savings Time!  You're not highly favored, you're hard headed. The Universe opens a door but you choose to walk into a wall in the name of "I got this," No, you fucking don't.

Destiny is manifested. It isn’t handed out to everyone who clasps their hands together in prayer. “Please show me true love! Ancestors bring me my match.” Sis, your ancestors are disgusted that you still act dumb over dick at your age and routinely got left when the universe tries to push you to go right. You have all the tools to win but never use them. Instead, you wait until you’re sad, lonely, or disappointed—again, and try to lean on superstition and fake positivity, aka Delusion.

Look at you, Ms. Know It All... who doesn't have any results that prove that she's figured out this game called love. The reality you're afraid to admit is that you're too egotistical to tell if they're good for you or playing you. “This is the one. Our last few dates just felt right!” It didn’t feel right. It felt safe. They weren’t amazing. They were just different from the trash you’re used to dating. They weren’t perfect for you. They just gave you the perfect level of attention that you’ve been craving since childhood. But go ahead, pretend that you're so smart and see where it gets you.

Not everyone ends up with “the right person”. They end up with “who’s left.” Most people settle for a mediocre partner and call them the love of their life, but the truth is they fumbled their shot at a fairytale ending. Do you want to be the person with the leftovers? Or that person who got everything I wanted?

Placeholders stumble upon great men, then get passed up, and that’s not because “the universe has something better,” it’s because the Universe is screaming—when are you going to level up instead of shrinking yourself into just another basic woman who gets ran through and tossed because she’s afraid to flex the full power of her personality!

If you're reading these words, it's because you're in alignment with something you need to receive-- THE TRUTH. Stop running away, stop trying to figure it out on your own, and stop pretending you'll be okay. With each new day, you'll keep taking another loss, because you aren't following the SIGNS. On today's episode, I want to show you how to lean into your power, not run from it. How to get what you want, not what you’re given.

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Weak Bitch Thoughts: How To Stop Self-Sabotage & Negative Overthinking

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Hey, G.L. I hope this email finds you well. I am a plus sized woman, have been since my mid-20s. I recently reconnected online with a guy from high school and felt really insecure because I’m not the size that he remembers. Despite this, I pushed forward with the date. We’ve been inseparable since and we are currently in a relationship. The issue is I’m in my own head every damn day. He wants to go out, I would rather stay in. He likes to hang with old classmates, I don’t speak to any of those people for fear of being judged. Last week we had “the talk” where he told me that he feels it isn’t working out and we both need to change things. This destroyed me.

I know I can create positive manifestations in life, but also negative ones based on my feelings. I’ve done a lot of work to be able to have such a loving and handsome boyfriend, but I feel my inner Basica dragging me down, G.L. My anxiety has pushed him away, and we’re basically on a break while I get therapy. My therapists talks in circles, so I need something more practical. You’ve helped my best friend in the past, so maybe you can help me? Any tips to right this ship not just for the sake of my relationship but for the sake of finally living in power and not being hung up on my insecurities and what others think?

Too many of you are smart but fragile, confident in one breath, then weak as fuck the next moment. You can’t control your emotions, you can’t silence your fears, and you never learned to check your anxiety, so here you are, living life one trigger moment away from shattering. You’re a weak bitch. Just another typical girl who will find love and then lose it the moment a man realizes how broken you are… but it doesn’t have to stay that way. There is nothing inside of you that can't be corrected, the problem is do you want to remain weak or are you going to actually do the fucking work I list below?

The biggest lie you’ve been told is, “It all works out in the end,” HA! Look at the news; look at your own family tree—no, the fuck it doesn’t! There are people who get what they want out of life and then there are people that die with regret. Pick the fucking pill you want to take and stop going back and forth, unsure of which way is right. Do you want to become that old woman who fumbled her chance to be happy because of her own weak ass thoughts, or do you want to become the kind of woman that didn’t break, didn’t settle, and met her goals in terms of love, career, and life?

"I'm goofy and funny who wouldn't want to be with me," well let's add them up because a lot of people have passed on you. Wonder why men ghost you or fall back into the arms of another woman after too much time with you? Because you're giving dry, repressed, and vapid. You're a parody of what you see online because you don't know how to be yourself, only how to be what you think other people want to see from you, and that's tragic! Look at what you consume and how it consumes you. Going around thinking you’re a catch and someone fumbled you is easy. Actually looking in the mirror at how your personality turns people off is hard. Self-awareness will change your life overnight, but you’re not ready to go that deep.

Curating Your World View

You are what you think, but what is it that you think? Let’s cut through the bullshit and look at the world you inhabit. You are a goddess having a human experience. You possess a curious mind that’s constantly racing and craving new things. Your brain is a sponge that wants a creative outlet and needs to be fed daily or you’re going to spiral into boredom.

…so, what is it that you feed your mind each day?

-You wake up and think about bullshit from the day before.

-You worry about problems that haven’t even happened,

-You fixate on what other people think about you.

-You are consumed with your future and rarely live in the NOW.

Why is your phone in your hand all the time? Because you’re only happy when you’re distracted. Laughing at silly shit online, sucking up gossip, nodding along to plagirized affirmation videos, and of course, shopping for shit you don’t even need. When you do actually get away from the screen and go somewhere, you search for your phone so you can let everyone know that you're out somewhere.

Your mind is stuck in this loop of always needing something to do, yet you don't actually do shit.. You’ve lost the ability to be alone with your thoughts because facing yourself is scary. You were put here to rule, instead you’ve made yourself into a peasant! The high vibrational thoughts that come when you’re focused prove that you’re special, but you let those slip away and go back to drifting into anxiety and frustration. Let’s look at the “why”.

Impatience + Regret = Self Sabotage.

You want to win right now and you’re sick of waiting, so how do you solve it...

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Weak Bitch Thoughts: How To Stop Self-Sabotage & Negative Overthinking

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Hey, G.L. I hope this email finds you well. I am a plus sized woman, have been since my mid-20s. I recently reconnected online with a guy from high school and felt really insecure because I’m not the size that he remembers. Despite this, I pushed forward with the date. We’ve been inseparable since and we are currently in a relationship. The issue is I’m in my own head every damn day. He wants to go out, I would rather stay in. He likes to hang with old classmates, I don’t speak to any of those people for fear of being judged. Last week we had “the talk” where he told me that he feels it isn’t working out and we both need to change things. This destroyed me.

I know I can create positive manifestations in life, but also negative ones based on my feelings. I’ve done a lot of work to be able to have such a loving and handsome boyfriend, but I feel my inner Basica dragging me down, G.L. My anxiety has pushed him away, and we’re basically on a break while I get therapy. My therapists talks in circles, so I need something more practical. You’ve helped my best friend in the past, so maybe you can help me? Any tips to right this ship not just for the sake of my relationship but for the sake of finally living in power and not being hung up on my insecurities and what others think?

Too many of you are smart but fragile, confident in one breath, then weak as fuck the next moment. You can’t control your emotions, you can’t silence your fears, and you never learned to check your anxiety, so here you are, living life one trigger moment away from shattering. You’re a weak bitch. Just another typical girl who will find love and then lose it the moment a man realizes how broken you are… but it doesn’t have to stay that way. There is nothing inside of you that can't be corrected, the problem is do you want to remain weak or are you ready for that next step. I don't mean talk about change, wish for change, read books on change... are you going to actually do the fucking work?

The biggest lie you’ve been told is, “It all works out in the end,” HA! Look at the news; look at your own family tree—no, the fuck it doesn’t! There are people who get what they want out of life and then there are people that die with regret. Pick the fucking pill you want to take and stop going back and forth, unsure of which way is right. Do you want to become that old woman who fumbled her chance to be happy because of her own weak ass thoughts, or do you want to become the kind of woman that didn’t break, didn’t settle, and met her goals in terms of love, career, and life?

Love is supposed to be easy. I’m not talking about getting men to chase you, I’m talking about loving yourself. The moment your mind drifts into thoughts of “I’m not enough,” your world shifts into a mirror that reflects and proves every negative thing you believe. These stressful situations that pop up aren’t coincidences, karma, or bad luck. It’s all YOU. If you want happiness, you have to get out of your own way. If you want to maintain happiness and attract lasting love, you have to STAY out of your own way.

The good news is that no matter if you’re in a relationship like the woman above who wrote to me or someone who’s single, it only takes ONE fucking day to change the direction of your thoughts and set yourself up to attract and manifest the things you feel you aren’t worthy of having. Today, I’m going to break down the weak bitch thoughts, the toxic self-critiques, and the invasive imposter syndrome thoughts that are keeping you stuck, depressed, and sabotaging your wins...

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Lose Weight Before You Date

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

I once received an email where a woman wanted me to create her online dating profile. I wrote everything up for her in a way that was witty and appealing... then she says "for picutures should I just use face shots, I don't want them to see my body yet..." What the fuck do you mean "yet"? You can't catfish your own dating profile and hope you drop 20 pounds before he asks you out. Men are abundant, thirsty, and easy to snatch. But insecurity has too many of you leading wit the wrong energy!

There was a recent internet debate sparked by a tweet that women should never weigh over 180 if they aren't pregnant. We live in a world where some women don't want to date because of their size, and it's because of the damage that men do your self-esteem. Men sit back and laugh because they know it's all one big mindfuck to humble you into submission. Knowing that men are ALL CAP why feed in to it? Why do women care what men think about their weight? "Because G.L., I need these men to fall in love with me so I can be happy!"

Zendaya skinny is going to find you love?

BBL hourglass is going to find you love?

Fitness competition hard is going to find you love?

The worst thing a woman can do is try to chase what a man says he wants instead of being who she is! Men wanting to fuck you based on having an ass minus the stomach isn't the gateway to happiness. Starving yourself into a calorie deficet that makes you moody won't stop you from getting ghosted. Men will lie online about what they like and don't like, then go outside and continue to chase a variety of body types. Meanwhile confused women will try to fit into this perfect package and end up with body dysmorphia, health problems, surgery scars, and still not find a man who wants them for more than a turn.

Today, we need to talk about weight. I don't care what age you are, what race you are, or if you're the size of old Bebe Rexha or new Bebe Rexha, you need to understand the game, specifically the mind of men, when it comes to looks and the psychology behind losing weight before you date.

How To Make A Man Thirsty!

What’s the difference between thick and fat? The answer is t...

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Single For Too Long! How To Make This Your Last Year Being Alone

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Today I help a young lady who has been single for 2 years reset and Spartan up! Listen in as I breakdown how to attract your person without having to play games or be sexual!

I'm afraid to get hurt again...

I need to work on my body before I put myself out there...

What if I'm not done healing from last situation...

Stop with the bullshit, and Spartan up! Log in and let's get to manifesting some results this year! Stop pretending that you're not waiting for love, and proactively attract THE ONE... Press Play!

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Who TF Did I Marry – Spartan Breakdown

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

The United Nations of Red Flags! The Viral TikTok sotry of @ReesaMTeesa who dated, married, and divorced "Legion" the ultimate pathalogical liar, is a story that's captivated millions over the past weeks because it's so insane... but not really.... I've coached women through dozens of situations similar to this over the years and today I'm going to breakdown and guide you through the most important parts of Who TF Did I Marry. Doesn't matter if you never saw the video or if you watched them all, I'm going to remix it and give you all the best parts.

Met in March. Moved him in by April….. #whotfdidimarry

This episode will show you not just her mistakes, but the give you the tools to see through these kinds of mentally ill fuck boys, test for narcissistic triats, and avoid this level of truama. Reesa Tessa wasn't a fucking Spartan, she got victimized by a man who wasn't even that bright because she was desperate and fell for the deadly combination of big talk, imagined potential, and love bombing, but this can happen to even the smartest women so let's get into it.

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VDAY Special

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Welcome to the latest episode of G.L. Lambert Explains It All!

This Episode will SOLVE 90% of your dating mistakes! Sign In Now And Listen...

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What Do They Bring To The Table – The Power of Being High Maintenance

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

High Maintenance isn't about sitting on the internet talking about what you wouldn't and wouldn't do. It's about living a life where you PROVE that you have standards. This isn't about materialistic things, it's about self-respect. In my books, I've taught each one of you how to date like you're the prize. That's very different from some fake ass City Girl wannabe who sits on YouTube or social media clucking about, "I only date 6 figure men who would never take me to Cheesecake factory," because in reality 9.99 out of 10 of those women are LYING! They fuck any half handsome guy who gives them attention.

He's tall, played college basketball 6 years ago, but now works part time at Home Depot-- you're going to still fuck him Basica!

He has a nice beard and a bad boy disposition, but he acts mysterious about what he does for work, because he doesn't have a job... but his deep voice calling you "baby girl" floods your panties-- you're going to still fuck him Basica!

You don't have boundaries, you don't have high standards, and I'll prove it. List all of the men who have sampled your vagina and tell me how many of them would be considered successful in a white man's world? The men you allow to have you, are a reflection of you. How can you ever call yourself Great if average men can have you just by texting, flirting, and love bombing you with stories of their potential?

Every February I see a spike in women coming to me for advice. Why? Because the guys they've been fucking, sucking, and cuffing don't get them shit for V-Day. It shouldn't take a holiday for you to recognize that you want more and he's not in a position to give it. While people claim money doesn’t matter, it does. Your attitude towards that man and his attitude towards you will turn hostile after months or years of realizing that you will never get treated, tricked on, or spoiled like other women who aren’t half the catch you are. All this talk about "I'm entering my Such and Such Era" but you're still missing the point. Fuck an era, fuck what sounds powerful in a meme, and recognize that from this day forward you need to do the following things to get your value from the men you're dating or are going to date by...

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