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Perfect Conversation – The Five Date Topics That Will Make You Stand Out

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

What do you talk about with men... other than responding to his generic "I miss you," "when can I see you," or "send me a pic" bullshit? Sexual talk and asking someone how their day was, doesn't create a true bond! Most men lust after you, get to know you, and grow bored because the things you both talked about were basic. Do you want to snatch a man's soul with your words? Or do you want to nod along as he tries to joke his way into your panties?

On today's episodes I'm going to talk you through the top 5 conversation topics EVERY WOMAN needs to know. Plus, a special guest joins me to answer all the questions you've been dying to know about how to Spartan Up! What are you waiting for? PRESS PLAY!
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Perfect Conversation – How To Stand Out When Dating With These 5 Topics

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

What do you talk about with men... other than responding to his generic "I miss you," "when can I see you," or "send me a pic" bullshit? Sexual talk and asking someone how their day was, doesn't create a true bond! Most men lust after you, get to know you, and grow bored because the things you both talked about were basic. Do you want to snatch a man's soul with your words? Or do you want to nod along as he tries to joke his way into your panties?

On today's episodes I'm going to talk you through the top 5 (and maybe more) conversation topics EVERY WOMAN needs to know if they're in the dating stage or even in a relationship. Plus, a special guest joins me to answer all the questions you've been dying to know about my life! What are you waiting for? PRESS PLAY...

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The Insecure Male

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Is it hard out here for men? Of course, but that's no reason for the endless excuses of why you continue to act like a boy instead of a man. Many of today’s men are guilty of playing too many games that end up hurting their own stock, then throw their hands up as if they're so innocent.

Money, the people in power, feminist culture, blah blah fucking blah. No one's on the side of normal guys just trying to get by. No one understands that it takes time to build and grow. Everyone wants a man that's already successful and everyone judges the guy in the struggle... so what? You sit around and complain, instead of putting your head down and proving who you are? One of the biggest finger pointing complaints I see in males isn't money, it relates to dating and relationships. "Women Today Aren't Built Like My Mom's Generation! They're all gold diggers with attitudes and little patience," Yawn! Mentalities like that is why the dating pool is so toxic.

-Bitches today are only concerned with money.

-Bitches today expect men to do all the work in terms of dating.

-Bitches today aren't loyal and put way too much stock in clout chasing.

The list of negative male assumptions goes on and on depending on how misogynistic that man is.

There are men who do just fine, no complaints, no bitterness, and have no problem finding love in this modern world. Why can some men find Game Changers while other men cry and insult? Is the reason you can’t find a quality woman really the rise of so-called City Girl Ho Culture, a lack of female common sense, or this idea that women expect so much yet bring so little to the table, or is it the way you behave that keeps you attracting donkeys instead of Unicorns?

Today let's break down Male Insecurity. I have a son on the way and I will be damned if he's raised to see girls as the problem or make excuses for his own place in life. Many of you don't have Dad's or role models, just the internet or toxic friends who also come from poor family foundations. I want every man to read this with an open mind and every woman to read it even closer as many of you deal with insecure men and don't even recognize the signs. Ladies you can't heal a hurt man, you can only put a mirror up to him so he can help himself!

The first sign of insecurity in a man is easy to spots just look for at his past. Who does he date and why did he date her?

Grown Man Vs. Little Boy

A boy will lead on in order to conquer a girl he barely likes. He will hide his emotions to safeguard against a girl he likes too much. He will even go back to the same girl over and over again, off and on, on and off, only to realize what he already knew—she’s not the one. Why? Each one of these moves are emotionally safe and keeps him from being hurt.

-Only sleeping with women you have no emotional connection with makes it easier to ghost her or keep her in the situationship bubble.

-Playing it cool with a woman you really like to the point where you downplay your feelings and sabotage the connection keeps your heart guarded from the eventual pain that comes with that woman not feeling the same way about you that you feel about her.

-Going back to an ex that you know is weak and thirsty for your love keeps you in power. You control her mind, she's too "dick dumb" to realize you don't want her, therefore the power dynamic remains in your favor because she will never be strong enough to hurt you in the ways you can hurt her.

What's the point of these games in the first place? SAFETY! 99% of men have gone through some kind of hurt in the past when it comes to women. No matter who you are, how you look, or how much wealth you now have, there was a woman or maybe even multiple women that rejected you or betrayed you, and it still hurts. "Bro, that was high school let that hurt go..." isn't going to make someone heal. Once that hurt turns to anger and that anger turns to distrust, a bitter man is born and words alone won't give him the power to reset his past and evolve his mind. Every time he swipes on an app, goes to DM a pretty girl on social, or is introduced to a potential love interest, the pain comes roaring back and he goes on the defensive: I don't trust this bitch, so let me throw on this mask and get her before she can get me...

Little boys think like that, grown men think beyond that by first l...

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Overcoming Trust Issues

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Your relationship could be perfect if you could forgive and forget what they did to you... Your dating life would go so much smoother if you weren't so paranoid or anxious that the next person will hurt you like the last one did. On today's show we discuss trust issues and how to rebound mentally from being betrayed...

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Expired Pussy? Signs That Your Man Has Grown Bored With You.

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Basic Woman Logic: The man should break up with me first if he doesn't want me. He's still spending time and sleeping with me so he must still want me, right? ...wrong Basica.

Basic Woman Result: These Basicas end up holding on to a toxic relationship, allowing a man to waste months, even years, because she doesn't know how to walk away without a solid reason.

I’m personally guilty of holding girls hostage and brainwashing them because I wasn’t ready to break up with their vagina. No, I didn't want them, but it was better for me to keep them around by acting like I did-- that's a fucked up way to date, but when I was younger it made sense because all of my friends did the same thing! I see today's men playing this game on many of you.

Ladies, there is a good chance that you are a PLACEHOLDER that a man is just too stubborn to let go of. Your ego says "I'm amazing, who wouldn't want to wife me?" but that same ego will have you giving up sex, tears, and years to prove that to the wrong person. Even smart people get played, because it's not about intelligence, it's about pride. Thinking you are too good and exempt from being humbled is a sure way to get your ass humbled. Cocky women miss just as many red flags as naïve chicks.

What Is Your Pussy's Expiration Date?

Sex doesn't keep a man glued to you. Men chase pussy, they obsess over it, they spend money, time, energy, and say things they don't mean to attain sex. The woman attached to that vagina is often times secondary. What happens a year later when the sex lust isn't driving his emotions. What happens three years in when his erections aren't even as hard as they were when you first met? He replaces you, beloved!

Your pussy has expired, not because something is wrong with you, it's expired because that man never fully fell in love with your personality.

How do you keep his attention and stop him from growing bored? Not by buying Fenty lingerie! Pay close attention as I show you how to turn the tables on men: First you must...

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Negative Dating Advice – The Rise & Fall of Kevin Samuels

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

On a scale of 1-10 how would you rank yourself? Hold that answer in your head and I'll tell you why it's all bullshit that's hurting you more than helping you...

Women are under attack by "fake experts" who's only goal is to gaslight those ladies with low self esteem into settling. Who wins when you put yourself down? Low Value Men because now you lower the bar so they can attain you. WAKE UP and break free from this brainwashing and recognize that no matter how you look or how much you weigh, you WILL WIN at love!

On today's show G.L. breaks down Kevin Samuel's ranking system, and how your thoughts on your looks and feeding into BS is manifesting in your love life. Also we discuss the major keys to meeting new men and getting them to actively pursue you no matter how you look.

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Ranking Your Looks + The Problem With Keven Samuels

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On a scale of 1-10 how would you rank yourself? Hold that answer in your head and I'll tell you why it's all bullshit that's hurting you more than helping you...

Women are under attack by "fake experts" who's only goal is to gaslight those ladies with low self esteem into settling. Who wins when you put yourself down? Low Value men because now you lower the bar so they can attain you. WAKE UP and break free from this brainwashing and recognize that no matter how you look or how much you weigh, you WILL WIN at love!

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Why Women Should Only Date Providers

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Being mindful about your life choices is key to success in every aspect of life. When you date, you need to have set standards not based on shallow things like height or physical features that eventually fade with age. Can this man build an empire with you? Can this man insure that your children are born into wealth? If you’re over the age of 24 you have no business dealing with men who aren’t winners! The days of “I like him because he’s cute and funny” are over, sis! Generationally you need to build a partnership with a man who brings more to the table that just “I love you.” A male’s ambition, his intelligence, and his ability to uplift you are key.

It makes no sense to be a woman with a great career and taking care of a man who brings nothing to the table but jokes and dick. It makes no sense to be a woman who is still trying to find herself financially to date a man who has even less than you. Men who HAVE IT will always provide. Men who aren’t financially secure, will always try to brainwash you into settling for what they can offer. See the hustle?

Pick Me women who say “I’m not a gold digger, all I need is love and loyalty” are the same ones that end up divorced or eternally single because they chose men who can never fully give them security. Wanting a provider isn’t about being a gold digger, it’s about being smart. Money will always be the leading cause of breakups, with that now in your mind, why would you ever date someone who shows you at the dating stage that they don’t see a man’s role as a provider yet wants you to submit? Date multiple men, vet multiple men, and choose the one that can actually bring something to your table. You are the trophy, you are the center of the universe, you are the fucking woman, stop selling yourself short just to attain average men…

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You’re Too Masculine – Rewiring Yourself To Be More Feminine & Desired (Feat. Asha Christina)

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

On today’s episode G.L. is joined by YouTube Sensation and High Maintenance “It Girl” Asha Christina (@ashachristinafoster) to break down why she only dates providers, her tips on roster dating, Masculine Vs. Feminine energy, and the core reason so many women are blind to the fact that they come off way too masculine for most men.

“ Men get with who they CAN be with,
women get with who they WANT to be with ”
– Asha Christina

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Dating For Dummies – How To Gain Power Over Men

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

"G.L. I still don't get it. You need to break down dating like I'm DUMB because I've read Solving Single twice but I still can't do any of those things in real life."

The podcast episode you've been waiting for! You're not dumb, you're just stubborn and afraid to Spartan Up! You want a man to see you as special but come off as typical. You give these guys everything based off potential: You're too nice, too easy, and you let them toy with you over and over again. Men, even the decent ones, will never play fair they will always test you during the dating stage, so what are you showcasing? You say you're so great, but why aren't you winning? Why aren't these men chasing you? Why don't you have a roster?

Why are you full of anxiety instead of being fulfilled by REAL LOVE?

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