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Power Dynamics: Reset Your Relationship & Make Him Chase

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

You fucked up. You met a guy and were too nice, too compromising, too understanding, and didn’t set boundaries. Now he’s in the position of power, no longer chasing you like the trophy you are. When women get soft, men get comfortable and either take advantage or take her for granted. The power dynamic in a relationship should never be one where the woman is confused and trying to make a man “act right.” If you’re stressing over a man you aren’t dating like a Spartan, you’re dating like a Basica, and need to hit reset ASAP!

I write a lot about the dating stage, pre-dates, first dates, sex dates, etc… my books are there to be used step by step. However, a lot of you are currently in relationships where you didn’t set your value or are currently in the dating stage with someone who you feel is better than you. Stop the fucking madness. When you allow these men to bully, brag, and bitch check you into thinking that they are the table and you should be happy to have a seat, you lose.

Power isn’t about being masculine, it’s about intelligence. A wise woman understands that men are controlled by lust and obedient to sex. Look at history, at all these powerful men who were taken down or bankrupted because they couldn’t keep their dick in their pants. Men chase money to attain things that make them more attractive to women. Intelligent women know these things, they use this intel to mentally whip men before they even give up any pussy. These Basicas chase dick because they think it’s rare, in reality these dudes are as common as a sale a Sephora. You think he’s special? Why? Because he’s halfway cute and gives you attention? What’s so damaged inside of you that you don’t want more for yourself? Today I’m going to show you how to hit reset, and show these men that you aren’t the basic bitch who rolled over and allowed him to do what he wanted. It’s a new day, and he’s going to learn to respect you, worship you, and bend the fucking knee.

Part 1: Resetting The Foundation

How do you go from weak to powerful overnight? Simple, you...

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No Man Is Out Of Your League – How To Build A Roster of Winners

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Once upon a time there was a Basica who thought that she needed to cater to men, make six figures, have the perfect figure, and suck dick like it was an Olympic sport... in the end that Basica is STILL crying over fuckboys despite bringing all of that extra stuff to the table. The reality of modern dating is that confidence is QUEEN, not effort. Pick me women do the most, brag about what they have, and get victimized. Spartan women simply focus on what they want and manifest those results because negativity is not apart of their worlds! On today's episode we're going to break down roster dating from the standpoint of where you need to be mentality.

Are you still doubting yourself despite all the empowerment materials you consume? Are you going back to old habits the moment you get male attention? Are you still trying to compete with others and chase male validation out of habit? It's time to pump the breaks because this is the time of year when you can easily settle into a long lasting relationship or reestablish the rules of a current relationship, but you need to be mentally prepared to snatch souls! Don't miss out on this episode. Press Play!

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Basic Women Always Settle – How To EVOLVE & Manifest A High Value Relationship

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Today I'm going to answer some of the most popular questions I've gotten. So get your notepad out and read through these wild stories as I'm sure you may be in the same situations as one of these ladies. Let's start with the first question:

Q: I'm in my early 30s and it's not that I don’t want a man on an equal or greater level than me, but where I live the options for established men are very limited. Can it be called settling when you have no choice?

You’re full of shit. Most of you settle because you don't look for options in the first place. You assume that the man that's giving you attention is the only man you are able to get. When was the last time you actually tried to date multiple men instead of dating one at a time. "My city doesn't have that many eligible men" is a big ass lie. The reality is YOU DON'T seek men, you wait to be chose, and then settle. Ladies if you want to become a woman that ends up married to a high value man, here's what you have to understand about the manifestation. To attract better it starts with t...

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Are You Girlfriend Pretty? How To Embrace Your Beauty Inside & Out

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Let's stop being polite: Is the reason you can't find love because of how you look?

Imagine the prettiest girl you've ever met. Now be honest. If you looked like that girl you just thought about would you be in your dream relationship right now? If you changed your own appearance let's say, 20% would guys be approaching you more often or would someone you once dated have stuck around?

Men are shallow, even the ugly ones, and especially the ugly ones with clout or money. Still, how much do looks matter? There are women who you think you look better than that are either married or involved with the type of guy you would love to have. There are women who weigh more than you, that have no problem getting top shelf dick to chase them. Looks play a part in a man choosing a woman, but how much, and how do you put the odds in your favor no matter how you look?

Today I want to break down the idea of Girlfriend Pretty: What level is girlfriend pretty to the typical male. What makes a man choose one woman over another.

Men like petite...
Men like exotic...
Men like thick...
Men like blah blah blah...

MEN LIKE WHAT YOU PUT IN FRONT OF THEM!

Look up the top porn videos that get beat off to on Pornhub, it's not going to be some perfect looking woman.

Look at some of the most successful women on Onlyfans that these men are paying to message, they aren't Vogue cover girls. Stop assuming you know what guys like and understand that WE AS MEN are diverse in our tastes. You are holding your own self back by not embracing your looks!

SPARTAN TEST: Right now I want you to grab a mirror and look at yourself. Next I need you to do a test. On...

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Are You Girlfriend Pretty?

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

If you're single and have a history of getting passed up, cheated on, or strung along then everyone has a theory on why you haven't found the "right one." Family members will bullshit you and tell you that God has a plan and that you can't give up. Your close girlfriends will tell you that it's not you, it's males in general because men ain't shit (yet they can't hang because they're about to go bust it open for one of those ain't shit men). Your platonic male friends or even your exes will tell you how great you are and just blame it on timing. You can even go on YouTube to hear a bunch of unqualified experts give advice on how to dress, flirt, or suck dick in order to transform yourself into some highvaluefemgoddesspickmeassface... In the end, no matter who you listened to, your reality hasn't changed, you still haven't found "the one."

Let's stop being polite: Is the reason you can't find love because of how you look?

Imagine the prettiest girl you've ever met. Now be honest. If you looked like that girl you just thought about would you be in your dream relationship right now? If you changed your own appearance let's say, 20% would guys be approaching you more often or would someone you once dated have stuck around?

Men are shallow, even the ugly ones, and especially the ugly ones with clout or money. Still, how much do looks matter? There are women who you think you look better than that are either married or involved with the type of guy you would love to have. There are women who weight more than you, that have no problem getting top shelf dick to chase them. Looks play a part in a man choosing a woman, but how much, and how do you put the odds in your favor no matter how you look?

Today I want to break down the idea of Girlfriend Pretty: What level is girlfriend pretty to the typical male. What makes a man choose one woman over another. What role does your own confidence play in making a man see you as more attractive. Right now I want you to grab a mirror and look at yourself. Next I need you to do a test. On...

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Black Girls Are Easy Reunion – The Rules Revisited

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On today’s episode we revisit Black Girls Are Easy, the original blog that gave women the upper hand in how to play the game better than men. What has changed in dating in the 12 years since BGAE first started? What are the new rules of the dating game? Most importantly, how can you finally stop being a typical love thirsty Basica and graduate to being a Spartan!? We look back and look froward to explain it all!

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The Truth About Soulmates – part 2

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"...I know this sounds bad, G.L. but don't judge me. I've known this man since I was 22 and I know for a fact that God put him on this earth for me. He cheated, I cheated back and we moved beyond that. He broke up with me, but came running back because he knew there was no other woman for him. Yes we have been very toxic for each other over these past eleven years, but I can't see myself marrying another man. You say to choose yourself and be a Spartan, but I say you have to choose love above all else. Can you please help me win my soulmate back because I already know there isn't anyone else for me..."

That sad shit above was a question sent into my podcast, but I felt it was a good opportunity to revisit this topic of soulmates, soul ties, and this idea that in a world filled with millions of eligible men, there are women who believe that ONE MAN and ONE MAN only, is for her... Basic Bitches believe in love with ain't shit men like 5 year olds believe in the tooth fairy, and it's time to stop.

I bet you believe in destiny, fate, someone with a matching personality and astrological sign who will come in and be the missing half that completes you. I'm not shitting on romance... I'm shitting on delusion. Manipulators will use your "this is fate" superstition to exploit you! "My soulmate is a black man so I'm not dating any other race," is what a woman told me years ago, and because of this stubborn ideology she ended up choosing the wrong black man who abused her. One of my good friends was in a severely toxic lesbian relationship for nearly five years but wouldn't leave because she swore that woman was her soulmate.

The point is, the moment you declare that someone is connected to you on a spiritual level, you paint yourself into this corner where you have to make it work regardless of the pain it's causing you. Spoiler Alert: LOVE ISN'T SUPPOSED TO HURT

Do you know who believes in "Soulmates" the most? Nice, sweet, loyal, ride or die women. The self-centered "Bad girls" don't by into that shit, they use these clowns. The seductive Hos don't buy into that shit, they dig into the pockets of the same men you fall hard over. It's the "nice girls" that are filled with delusion. These men chase bad girls and spend money on hos who don't even like them, then turn around and play games with YOUR heart because you're naïve. You believe that because a man has been in your life for years, he belongs in your life forever! EARTH TO BASICA, it doesn't work like that.

A man hanging around in your life, crawling back when he fucks up, or telling you how special you are after he's made you cry, does not equal love, it equals manipulation. Men use Placeholders as safety nets. He hangs around in your life because he knows you think your connection is magical. Bitch this ain't Hogwarts, that man isn't magical and your up and down relationship isn't destiny, it's pathetic. You've wasted all these years going back and forth because your common sense has been destroyed by this foolish concept of "we belong to each other."  No matter what he does you'll take him back, you'll have a baby by him, you'll believe in his potential... and year after year he fails you.

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The Truth About Soulmates

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

"...I know this sounds bad, G.L. but don't judge me. I've known this man since I was 22 and I know for a fact that God put him on this earth for me. He cheated, I cheated back and we moved beyond that. He broke up with me, but came running back because he knew there was no other woman for him. Yes we have been very toxic for each other over these past eleven years, but I can't see myself marrying another man. You say to choose yourself and be a Spartan, but I say you have to choose love above all else. Can you please help me win my soulmate back because I already know there isn't anyone else for me..."

That sad shit above was a question sent into my podcast, but I felt it was a good opportunity to revisit this topic of soulmates, soul ties, and this idea that in a world filled with millions of eligible men, there are women who believe that ONE MAN and ONE MAN, only is for her... Basic Bitches believe in love with ain't shit men like 5 year olds believe in the tooth fairy, and it's time to stop.

I bet you believe in destiny, fate, someone with a matching personality and astrological sign who will come in and be the missing half that completes you. I'm not shitting on romance... I'm shitting on delusion. Manipulators will use your "this is fate" superstition to exploit you! "My soulmate is a black man so I'm not dating any other race," is what a woman told me years ago, and because of this stubborn ideology she ended up choosing the wrong black man who abused her. One of my good friends was in a severely toxic lesbian relationship for nearly five years but wouldn't leave because she swore that woman was her soulmate.

The point is, the moment you declare that someone is connected to you on a spiritual level, you paint yourself into this corner where you have to make it work regardless of the pain it's causing you. Spoiler Alert: LOVE ISN'T SUPPOSED TO HURT

Do you know who believes in "Soulmates" the most? Nice, sweet, loyal, ride or die women. The self-centered "Bad girls" don't by into that shit, they use these clowns. The seductive Hos don't buy into that shit, they dig into the pockets of the same men you fall hard over. It's the "nice girls" that are filled with delusion. These men chase bad girls and spend money on hos who don't even like them, then turn around and play games with YOUR heart because you're naïve. You believe that because a man has been in your life for years, he belongs in your life forever! EARTH TO BASICA, it doesn't work like that.

A man hanging around in your life, crawling back when he fucks up, or telling you how special you are after he's made you cry, does not equal love, it equals manipulation. Men use Placeholders as safety nets. He hangs around in your life because he knows you think your connection is magical. Bitch this ain't Hogwarts, that man isn't magical and your up and down relationship isn't destiny, it's pathetic. You've wasted all these years going back and forth because your common sense has been destroyed by this foolish concept of "we belong to each other."  No matter what he does you'll take him back, you'll have a baby by him, you'll believe in his potential... and year after year he fails you.

Pay close attention to what I'm about to write because this article can save you from wasting years of your life....

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Make it Official or Walk Away – How to go from The Dating Stage To A Relationship

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Getting dates are easy these days. If you have an internet connection and a cute picture you can log onto any number of dating apps, swipe, and have some guy willing to take you out by the weekend. Attracting quality dates and avoiding fuck boys is a little bit more complex, but IF you have self esteem, Spartan Confidence, and aren’t lazy it’s insanely easy to pull multiple men and build a roster filled with stallions for you to pick from.

Commitment is another story... Too many of you are great at the dating stage and horrible at getting a man to fall hard and make you his girlfriend...

"G.L. when will my "friend" make it official, it's been four months"

Answer: C'mon sis, wake up! How are you giving up rounds of coochie and can't even get out of the Talking Stage? A man knows after 4 weeks if you're GF material, if it's been four months then he doesn't see you as special, just something to do!

"G.L. why did the last guy I dated string me along then jump into a relationship with a new bitch?"

Answer: Because that new woman showed him something exciting and fresh while you were typical and stale! There are too many single women for a man to try and fix a Placeholder's damage.

"G.L. Are some men just not ready to commit or is it me?"

Answer: The right woman will make any man recognize that he has to snatch her now or regret it forever. Men know that bad bitches don't stay single for long and they move accordingly. Therefore, when a man says he's not ready for a relationship he's leaving off the words "with you" because he's waiting for someone better-- his Game Changer.

Their are more Placeholders in this world than Game Changers because women cuff themselves to men with high potential and low follow through. You allow these guys to sample you for months even years because you don’t believe you’re worth more! Why would a man commit to you when he’s given the girlfriend benefits within weeks of meeting you? All these guys have to do is show you attention and take you out a few times and you fall on their dick. Your mouth says “I’m a trophy” but your actions scream “Pick Me I’m on Sale”! If you want a commitment, you have to raise your standards and know what men see as Game Changer traits.

Step One: What Will Make A Man Commit Fast

Let's dive into the m...

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Game Changer Pussy – How To Gain Power Over Men

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Download your copy of the ultimate dating guide for this new world! Stop making excuses– “Men do this, men act like this, I give up–” Stop being a basic ass quitter and Spartan Up!

Are you a Game Changer or are you a Placeholder? Game Changers blow the mind of a man, while Placeholders get excuses, lies, hang on too long OR eventually ghosted in favor of a new woman. This is the year you prove that you are Power, that you are worthy of love, and that you are a game changer.

This is the post pandemic world of dating where you have to know how to use modern techniques. Can’t keep a man interested via texting? Don’t know how to navigate online dating apps? Involved with someone who is showing you red flags? Single, bored, or lonely? It doesn’t matter where you find yourself in life. This book will revamp your romantic life! Get back to the basics of how to build bonds through proper communication and garner treatment based on respect for your character not the chase for sex.

This guide will show you step by step how to use this time to work through the insecurities and the trauma of previous relationships. How to keep a man interested during the lock down or reestablish past relationships. How to build a new roster of men and use dating sites, apps, or social media the right way...

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