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October 18, 2019
Why does everyone want to leave everything behind and go to the Himalayas?
People do not want to go to Himalayas. People want inner peace and tranquility and to fulfil that desire they chose various paths. We want those things which we can’t have. A poor man wants more money. A rich man wants more peace or fame or whatever he can’t get easily. A play boy wants […]
October 16, 2019
Do you live happily?
Yes. My small family is full of energy and vim. Ever visit my house and you shall find only positivity and laughter. We are in extreme happiness and not because of money,air conditioner or amenities but because of personal freedom each one of us enjoys. My kids are never forced to study. They are free […]
October 14, 2019
What is your favorite memory of your mom?
My mother died at 3am at night 24 years back. She died of brain tumor. I was sitting there in the stairs of army hospital. I was young at that time, 15 years old. Doctors told me that she will be fine and asked me to go home. I and my younger brother (he was […]
October 12, 2019
What are the psychological facts about crush or falling in love that people don’t know?
4 quick facts about falling in love Love always start with physical features. You can never neglect your body and aesthetics in dating world. No one sees your heart if you can’t attract them close enough. Love is a mind game in the beginning. No one is going to fall in love with you in minutes. They […]
October 10, 2019
Why are babies generally so darn happy?
Babies are free from Emotional fallacies and little nuances of life. They usually have no hopes or expectations. They have no past or future. They live in present. Their happiness quotient doesn’t have benchmarks set up for them. They are absolutely fine with whatever they are having. They are content with themselves and are hence […]
October 8, 2019
How do you show your man you love him?
Have you ever wondered why men become needy and clingy ? They were pretty sane before relationship but all of a sudden their psychology changes. Because men love connection. Best way to show love is to connect. Take care of them, cook food for them, ask them about their day. Men are caress and are […]
October 6, 2019
Can any body describe, love only in one word only?
I will use one word only but for different stages of love. Initial honeymoon phase : Ecstasy Late night chats phase : Connection Divergence phase : Trust Real love beginning phase (If love survives long enough.Most sperms die off till this phase) : Peace Fighting phase (After real love also their are lot of issues […]
October 4, 2019
Who are all of the people you really feel blessed to have in your life?
My kids. I love them absolutely. They are constantly making noises and chirping inside my house but if they remain silent for a while,my heart skips a beat. My daughter is ever naughty and moody just like me. Has infinite tantrums and is high maintenance. But when she falls asleep, I kind off feel […]
October 2, 2019
What is the saddest truth about smart people?
Smart people always have analysis paralysis. They are usually alone since they like their own company more than anyone else. They are often bored with mundane talks with people and most people are too predictable. Strong mind think alot. They think too much,too many scenarios,too many permutations and combinations. They are so overwhelmed with analysis paralysis that they […]
September 30, 2019
What is your personal secret of success, or happiness, or of being what you are?
My personal secret of happiness No expectations from anyone and anything Living in present Valuing time more than money Ability to say no. I say no to many assignments if they don’t feel right. No mortgage or loans. I have zero debts and hence I am more free than most of people out there. Satisfying […]
