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Why do we love one who is not perfect?

Love is all about loving the imperfection in any one. Love is not when you meet perfect individual of your dreams ( he is nowhere out there). Love is making the person you have perfect. Love is perfect, lover is not. When you start to live everything you once hate about your lover love is […]

What are romantic qualities in a person?

Romance is not a degree.Romance is life. Romance is freedom. A romantic person is however Poetic : He must have a capability to express emotions in words. He must know nuances of love. High EQ : He must be able to read people like an open book.He must be able to decode nonverbal clues to words and […]

What are the top 10 unethical hacks?

Top most unethical hack is the ability to manipulate behavior of people using mind control methods. I have written answers about other non psychological hacks earlier. Our mind is more predictable than we can ever think of. Marketers​ are using these hacks since eon. Seducer,charmers,film stars,politicians are master in them. These hacks give so much […]

‘Love is like a flower, even the most beautiful one dies’ how true is this, if at all?

Love never dies but transforms. Suppose you loved someone but due to some reasons it was not accomplished, then it will remain in your heart as a ‘unfinished feeling’. But later on it will get transformed to either hatred or love for someone else or find its other course. True pure love can never die […]

What are some of the ugly/bitter truths about Life?

10 Bitter truth about human nature World salutes the rising sun. Yes including your parents,spouse and kids. Love always comes second to career. Always. People who don’t realize it,realize it hard! Girls are hardwired (evolutionary and not their fault) to select best man available to them. The best often means more money,more comfort and yes […]

Is fake love better than no love at all?

Most of today’s love is already fake,based on so called compatibilities. Love shall vanish in 15 years or maybe earlier. Marriages are already over. Multiple partners and casual open love is future (already here). We all want instant gratification. We want others to be faithful and trustworthy but never wanna commit ourselves. This is epitome […]

What is the best love advice you got?

6 Best advices for love Treat yourself at par with your lover. Never give them more importance than yourself. Never. Never accept a second class behavior from potential lover. It’s usually a test. You must have a man’s spine to get a women. Women love manly people. In love these things don’t come into consideration. Girls […]

What is your biggest secret?

My secrets are feminine…quite many…and you know…you never break trust. How can I berate people whom I once loved or currently love. In my earlier answers, many secrets are there. But all in veil, disguise, modified details etc. Only love part is true…rest is modified fiction and fill up to make story readable. I write […]

What is the response that your body generated to the stimuli produced when you see the only person you loved falling for someone else?

The main reason is ego depletion. We feel worthless,empty and rejected. Mind takes rejection as pain. We have lot of mental thought and dreams attached to person we love. They become our part of thinking schedule, our life. Thoughts about them gives us high, we feel much better about ourselves and our future. Now some […]

What is the reality of falling in true love?

I have not read all the rosy answers out there (if any),but in reality,love gives a lot of pain. Pain of not able to see or meet your loved ones. True love gives jealousy,feelings of anxiety when you care about them,feelings of grief when they don’t reciprocate etc. Love is a complete package. It is […]