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Stock market: Is Investing in Equity is more about EQ(Emotional Quotient) than IQ(Intelligence Quotient)?

I shall keep this answer short. Investing in markets is about knowing a whole bunch of things. Fundamentals Technicals (Very Important) Business cycles Manipulation of markets, news and fraud practices. Market cycles. When bullish market discounts all bad news and when bearish it discounts all good news. General health of economy. Ability to differentiate between […]

How do you know if you have a secret admirer? Would they admit it or rather keep it secret?

Everyone has secret admirers. The problem with many of these people who have crush on you that they have a near perfect image of you in their imaginary world. The moment you break that imaginary mirage and come out to be normal people, they don’t like you that much. Same thing happens with celebrities. They […]

Why do girls like guys listening to their woes?

We all want to be heard and validated. When anyone listens to our point of view with attention, it validates our self worth and nourishes our ego. Everyone likes to talk and wants other to listen to him or her. It’s a universal phenomenon. Active listening and taking genuine interest in anyone is the best […]

If women are better at verbal skills, then why are most of the authors and polyglots men?

Women are better in expressing emotions but not at writing them. They understand emotions and feelings very well. But they have no point in writing them. Men write to express and impress. Just like a peacock. A woman doesn’t need peacocking. Her body, elegance, charm, way of speaking, aura etc does the job well. Just […]

What kind of personality and style do people get attracted to?

Universal personality types who attract almost anyone and everyone have following qualities. Happy go lucky Cool (in the sense of not being too touchy and smile even when you say wrong things to them). Can take humor and criticism in positive constructive way. Are not too shy or awkward. Helpful, intelligent and good at heart. […]

How can talking to strangers change your life?

I go to gym in my lift from parking every day. I used to see a girl every day in lift (not every day but occasionally). She is good looking and her energy was very warm. I thought many times to jus two have a word with her (with no further intentions). Since she was […]

Is life all about a career and love?

Life is about freedom. Freedom is happiness. Are we free ? If we don’t go to work tomorrow, our lives will be seriously screwed. before everything , I suggest people to achieve freedom, financial freedom. Age is just a number. At fifty or even at sixty you can enjoy pretty much any thing, provided you […]

What would you give more priority to, career or love?

Career come first. Love now a days is not Romeo Juliet love. Care of your money, career and job. Even if you are in true love with a wonderful person, do only that they are willing to reciprocate. Our minds are corrupted and guided by media hype. This cannot be reversed so soon. Hence tread […]

In what ways people are attracted towards you unintentionally?

People (women in particular) find me attractive because I talk sense. I talk things which really matter. I live in emotions and same is with women. I am a good conversationalist because I listen well. I understand the perspective of other people. I am genuinely interested in stories and life people. I am an observer and try […]

I have some very disturbing/upsetting memories and I want to get rid of them forever. How can I do this?

There are few ways to relieve your mind of bad memories. Write them out and reread. Our brains reorganizes thoughts as we reread our selves. Talk/chat to a close friend (who understands you) or complete stranger (who knows nothing about you). The idea is to vent out and not to get feelings.BeBe Naked and don’t hide […]