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February 16, 2020
How can I motivate myself to work hard for my career?
I motivated one of my students last year and recorded the conversation.This is a tete a tete. You can skip some parts in the beginning. Here is the audio file on sound cloud. Motivation Motivation for goals Motivation comes from little accomplishments. Little appreciation fires reward neurons in our mind and we are infinitely motivated. […]
February 13, 2020
What’s the one thing that could have possibly turned your life towards the best, if you had known about it earlier?
Human behavioral psychology. I envy my kids. They would know all before 10 which I know at my age! No one teaches you functional psychology. This so called ‘pop’ psychology is the only thing in psychology which works! Humans are irrational and we must all know how our mind behaves. This not only helps us […]
February 11, 2020
What kind of personalities shouldn’t fall in love?
8 types of people who must avoid falling in love Too Emotional ( specially with particularly insensitive partner). Reverse case of one. Those who love so deeply that they put forward everything they have in the name of love. Too shy and egoistic. They will find love very difficult. Both to start and carry forward. […]
February 9, 2020
How do I find my soulmate?
10 things which happen when you meet your soulmate You cannot find your soulmate.No one can. They are god sent. You can only identify them if ever you are in contact with them. The following signs are there to look out for. Flow of time stops in their presence (physical presence). You feel immense connection. Sometimes your awareness […]
February 6, 2020
Who is the best therapist for people with broken hearts?
Writing is the best tool to heal broken heart I was surfing the internet few days back and stumbled upon this article. You Can Write Your Way Out of an Emotional Funk. Here’s How. Yes the quickest way to get out of a heart break is to write about it. Sooner the better. Not only […]
February 4, 2020
What are the factors that make people stick to a same job?
6 reasons people stick to the same job Lack of better options Convenience (In same city,near their home town,some loved one living near by,less stressful job,nice environment etc. etc.) Learning factor : In some jobs we learn a lot of thing. Learning always trump money in long run. Only knowledge in inflation proof. Lover in […]
February 2, 2020
What is the saddest part of your life you never told anyone?
Saddest Truth : Only mind games give try love The more I loved people truly, more hurt I was bestowed with. More mind games I played, more tricks I assumed, more fake my love was, more love I got back! Now the irony part. Even in true love, I had to play mind games to […]
January 30, 2020
Some girls take time to respond to a proposal. Is there any time limit on that?
Time limit hierarchy for any girls response If you are hot (read good looking, intelligent,talented,wealthy or high earner) and have many options… usually instantly. If you are hot (read good looking intelligent,talented,wealthy or high earner) and have no options… usually in a day. If you are not hot (read good looking intelligent,talented,wealthy or high earner) […]
January 28, 2020
What is the thing that makes your day?
My daughter’s smile.. She makes my day…she is sleeping now and I am writing about her…if that’s not love, what is … She is innocent as well as intelligent. We are alike. Moody, intelligent and observant. She can do many things beyond her age. Like she gives me my meds and suppliments and remembers them. […]
January 26, 2020
How hot would you rate yourself?
Looks, physical features etc. 7/10. Intelligence,logic, knowledge, understanding etc. 9/10. Lover, compassion, understanding emotions, company ( if I love you)… 10/10. No one loves like me. Ask those who have experienced it…( no boasting ). I’m hopeless romantic…totally yours 24/7…what greater thing a lover can want than to have a writer lover!! PS : Love […]
