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Guys what goes through your head when you’re attracted to a woman?

Depends on Women. A woman can never fathom a man’s mind and love. A man is both protector as well as seeker. He cares, protects but needs​ real love and passion. We already live in fake cruel world. We are in fight mode all the time. We seek feminine side of women. Men are different. […]

Is love a different thing for a man from what it is for a woman?

10 Ways Love is different for men and women For a man, love often starts with physicality. Men are visual, they need to see, touch and feel their lovers. We are ever bad with imagination barring porn and nudity. Women also like physical features but love is more internal to them. They ruminate on thoughts , revisit […]

Why do we fall in love with people we can’t have?

Falling in love is not in your hands nor falling out of love. Ever been in love, try falling out! Never in love, try falling in! Ghalib describes it best इश्क पर ज़ोर नहीं है ये वो आतिश “ग़ालिब” जो लगाये न लगे और बुझाये न बने – मिर्ज़ा ग़ालिब Love is not controllable…it is […]

Why do males and females need to have different clothing?

5 ways males and females are different in dressing up Males dress to impress but females dress to attract. The basic premise is different. Men focus on quality of clothes and women focus on clothes which reveal their physical attributes. For men clothes represent class and status. For women clothes are a way to attract. […]

How does it feel to be deeply in love with your greatest friend, even when she has made it clear that there is no romantic interest?

This feels that you are spineless. Sorry for rude words. But brother after proposing the equation can never be same. Once you expressed your vulnerability to her charms and she said no but wants you as a friend…not my way. Let me tell you why this is bad. Do you know the differentiator between love […]

Does true love really exist in this era?

Sure…it does. Who says it doesn’t. But it is not so Common. Out mind have been​ literally filled with obnoxious media hype and shit. We have insanely high standards for body, personality and behavior. In real world every girl is not diva and every guy is not dude. We are humans, we have flaws, mood […]

What is the most heartbreaking thing you have seen in the India?

12 things in India which are heartbreaking PhD and M tech applying ( read dying) to get peon level government job. True love not able to complete due to society pressure, moral policing and so called caste, religion and color. Reservation…nothing more can be said. Enough said. 80% people living under a 1 $ per […]

What is the bravest thing you’ve ever said to someone?

I said cold ‘I love you’ to a bypassing girl. In my University times I was quite bold ( as everyone is). We used to roam in groups, kind of Kings of college rather whole town (as everyone thinks in that age)! I was over charged with that boldness. This time I was alone but […]

What are some hacks that everyone should know?

I recently shifted my house and I did not have broadband activated for some time. I was depending solely on jio-fi for all my broadband needs. Now speed was top notch and I was having good time except for the fact the battery life was poor. In one two hours (with 2–3 connections), jio would […]

How can You tell about yourself in 2-3 lines?

Extremist, Social adept anti social, Loner, Mathematics fanatic, Logic Nazi, Soft narcissistic, polymath, hopeless romantic and satanic human… How do you know if you have a secret admirer? Would they admit it or rather keep it secret?