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March 6, 2020
What’s the best thing to say after someone rejects you?
I have my favorite. Either Mentally or verbally, you must give this vibe Or have this attitude : YOUR LOSS People don’t always reject you for being bad but sometimes being too higher than their level. People sometimes are not ready for a relationship (after a bad breakup or emotional trauma). People at time reject […]
March 3, 2020
Why do some good people fall in love with the bad ones?
I have different reservations. We all have element of good and evil within us. We are selectively nice to people. If you like someone you will be nice to them. But if someone likes you and you don’t, usually you put them in trash basket. It is very convenient to judge people based on their […]
March 1, 2020
Why do some people have weird behavior when someone loves them too much?
Weird behaviour People behave in odd fashion if you love them so much without their conscious effort. You know people value only those thing for which they have worked hard. Almost all of us are insecure from inside. Sometimes when someone loves us totally and without expectations, we tend to derive validation from them. Only […]
February 28, 2020
How do you know when someone really loves you?
If you show you care, I know you love… You may be ‘mad’ over me. You may ‘dislike’ me at times. You may ‘hate’ me at other times. You may not ‘talk’ to me for months, years, decades… (Too extreme view though!). But by some means, some feel, some glance of yours, some gesture of […]
February 27, 2020
What are the common biases about intelligence?
Common biases about intelligence Intelligence is fixed (Also called as fixed mindset). Intelligence is genetic. Yes intelligence depends on nature (genes) but not totally. If that was the case, kids of all scientists would have been scientists. The greatest virtue of low intelligence is ‘fixed mindset’. Intelligent people don’t need to work hard to become […]
February 25, 2020
How do I make guys more attracted to me?
You know what is the most attractive quality in any woman for a man? I think its her grace, her bit shy attitude, her a bit inwardness. Now you know what is most unattractive quality in any woman? It is her awkwardness, her false attitude, over shyness and unapproachability (attributed as ‘shyness’ or culture or […]
February 23, 2020
What is grey psychology?
Grey psychology is like a weapon. When it is the hands of a surgeon it cures else kills. These are tricks to exploit weakness of human mind. Our mind is very predictable. We can easily manipulate behavior of people to our favoring. Advertisers,actors,politicians,seducers,players,media,businessmen, they all do it. It is not always bad. If you use […]
What advice/wisdom would you share with someone in their 20s when you are over 40?
7 must know life lessons for those in 20s I am not yet naughty at 40 but still have seen plenty of life. Do not chase girls. I repeat please do not chase girls when you must be chasing books. I know hormones are rushing at your age and you too want ‘emotional support’ and some […]
February 20, 2020
What is that one thing you hated first and then started loving it?
Mathematics I was a creative wolf. Kind of romantic poet. Thus I hated mathematics without reason. I barely used to pass till grade 8. Getting passing marks in math was an achievement. Due to sibling rivalry I started to take mathematics seriously. Soon in grade 10, I scored 95/100, an unheard number for me! Once […]
February 18, 2020
What makes you happy about living in India?
9 things which make me happier living in India. I have been out of India (Dubai, UAE). India is a country of color and spices. People are more friendly here. Even though they might not disturb you unnecessarily , I can easily stop anyone on street and ask for any small help. We are very less […]
