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April 22, 2020
How do you love someone so far away?
Love is love and has nothing to do with cast,color,creed and distance. Love is a chemical imbalance in mind. As long as it disturbs your mind, it will be there. You cannot love by applying logic.I have been on all sides of fence as far as love is concerned, LDR, short flings,LTR. I know only […]
April 20, 2020
Can an enlightened person fall in love? Is there any love without attachment?
Enlightenment means the realization of futility of everything. Yes they can fall in love but might not need you for pleasure. They are immensely happy among themselves. Don’t need company or any emotional dependencies. Only an enlightened person can fall in love with another enlightened being. Else it is impossible to cope with them. True […]
April 17, 2020
What is the hardest thing to do?
12 hardest things to do in India Say no to a sexy voice. Showing anger to a calm person. Resisting urge to meet your lover. Getting message of loan amount cut from your salary each month and still feeling relaxed. Looking at the face of a sexy girl wearing very low neck top. Being quiet […]
April 15, 2020
Who is the best person for you in your life?
My kids. I love them. They are similar to me. Same tantrums, same thought process, same mind makeup. My son and my daughter, both are naughty and intelligent. They are the only people in this world who have complete authority over me and my possessions. Seeing my daughter grow has removed all the misconceptions about […]
April 13, 2020
What do you do when your depression gets bad and you really want to die?
I have a set rule. If you really want to die, die by running a mile a day. Just get out of your home. Run a mile. Come back. Repeat I don’t think any one died of running yet. PS : The benefits of running a mile a day are well documented and hence I […]
April 10, 2020
How do you know if you’ve lost the love of your life?
Theory of true love Distances makes heart go fondle but too much absence and distance can make heart go disinterested. You must be aware of right amount of space and time. Love should do only one thing. It must calm you. If it is instigating complex, fear or any other negativeness in you, then it’s not love […]
April 8, 2020
How can one differentiate between a jerk and a genuine guy?
Jerk vs nice guy ? Jerks are reformed ‘nice guys’. Nobody who is mildly successful with love and has looks and decent confidence will ever become a Jerk. Jerks are over confident. They are really fast. They don’t give you a damn. Very nice when they are with you but almost forget you when you are […]
April 6, 2020
What is your greatest downfall and how did you overcome it?
My greatest downfall was social stigma. I was shy and studious guy. Till my grade sixth I had only one best friend,Ashish Das. I was particularly shy with girls. I used to play hide and seek with them, the famous ‘look only’ love in India. I knew they were attracted to me. But I lacked […]
April 3, 2020
How do you market your Kindle eBook?
I am gonna give you counter advice. Bear with me. Why free and paid promotions are dangerous and not worth it ? 1. Free promotions are used by audience who are not real and avid readers. They are skimmers and just like any web forum, they just skim your information. They don’t value your work plus they […]
April 1, 2020
Would you rather live a comfortable life and have a miserable old age or a struggling life and a happy old age?
Warren Buffet said ‘saving for old age is like saving sex for old age’. It is fine to invest, be frugal and save for blue times, but it is equally important to enjoy life in every moment. We are slaves to our house loans and car loans. Ask anyone having home loan that how it […]
