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March 30, 2020
What is that one thing you were not willing to do, but you did it and are now proud of it?
Learning mathematics. I was a writer (poet) and lover by birth. I was sort of self forced to learn mathematics. But man it changed my life. My IQ grew, my understanding of life expanded. Hence now I have lethal combination, artistic heart and logical mind. I have best of both worlds. I can understand emotions […]
March 26, 2020
How has love changed your life?
Love changed my life only once (with Bengali Damsel). In other times love changed my mind! Love of teen age is the real love out there folks. Once we become adults our mind takes over our heart. Then whenever we fall in love, there is a conflict between mind and heart. Till this age we all […]
March 24, 2020
Why is your girlfriend special?
No one’s girl friend (in general) or my girl friend in particular (at any point of time) is/was never special. They are just ordinary people with dreams and likes of a common girls. They how come they look so special to you ? You project your idealism of your lover onto them! Don’t believe. Okay […]
March 22, 2020
What are some surprising things about life?
True love revisits after four months. If not, love was not true. Haven’t heard from your ex in last four months, forget them. We fall in love with those people really hard whom we avoid falling in love. Try not to fall in love with anyone! Lust dies in absence of physical body. Relationship dies […]
What is the bright side of being in love?
Sex gives you pleasure. It releases dopamine in your mind (pleasure hormone). Friendship or deep bonding increases oxytocin, the bonding hormone. What does true real unadulterated love does ? It gives you ultimate peace. If I have someone, anyone, who loves me unconditionally, without expectation,irrespective for anything and everything. loves me only and not my […]
March 19, 2020
What was the worst mistake you made that was your fault?
In career : It took long time for me to have courage to start my own business. I really regret that. I wasted lot of my time for paychecks. A brand take 5 years to establish in any market. Initially payoff is low but it grows exponentially afterwards. I am still learning. Second mistake while […]
March 17, 2020
How many pages do you read every day on average, and do you retain everything you read?
On any given day I read on average 100 pages. This includes kindle books, websites and other research. I research a lot on multiple topics ranging from healthy diet to psychology to science to philosophy to what not. I at times make note form the material to my google docs. I have many files named […]
March 14, 2020
What are the biggest challenges facing Generation Z?
7 challenges faced by Gen Z (Of which they are not even aware) Unstable career : Stable career is a myth for Gen Z. In actuals the age of freelancing has began a decade back and now its the future. Companyies don’t hire full time now and they are doing away with short term freelancers […]
March 10, 2020
Why will women never be equal to men?
Because they don’t need to. Men and women are not equal, but it in no way means anyone if them is superior. It’s same as comparing sky and earth (with no bias and assuming anyone as sky or earth). Both have their different domains. Both have their distinct utility and function in society. Both overlap […]
March 9, 2020
What should I do when someone takes me and my love for granted? When I try to leave, I’m blamed of being wrong.
We treat only those people bad whom we think are below our internal standards. We treat those people with love whom we consider equal to our internal yardsticks. Similarly we treat those people with respect (awe), whom we consider higher in social market value status. Math is simple, life isn’t. Mindgame algoritm Right now let […]
