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June 11, 2020
What are the things smart people and average people do differently?
There is no such known species like ‘smart people’. Its only that some have found the hidden tap of creativity and many have just not witnessed. Smart people do a lot of pre-thinking. They always have deep thoughts with themselves and already have a thought data bank for many topics.They think about imaginary situations and processes […]
What are some most important things a man has to learn when he is in his 20s?
6 skills every man in 20 must possess Basics of relationships, true nature of girls like hypergamy and pragmatism (Its inbuilt in them and they can’t help it.) Basics of female psychology to deal with their shit tests and subtle mind games. I pity at fellow men. I have seen very successful people otherwise but […]
What are some turning points in life that give us life lessons?
6 turning points in anyone’s life Failure (Academically) Break up (Specially with unworthy lovers or cheaters) Financial lows (They make you realise the value of philosophical piece of paper). Accidents (You realise value of free things like movement provided to us). Loss of loved ones forever. Loss of health What should be the most important […]
How will you define your life in 5 words?
5 stages of life 1–10 : Ecstasy 11–20 : Hormonal Rush and emotional mess 21–30 : Struggle 31–40 : Peace and calmness (Ongoing) 41–50 : Expectation What are the hardest things to accept?
When we fall in love do we fall in love with the person or the feelings they give us?
Men fall in love when someone shows empathy to them, take care of them and truly cares for them. On the contrary, Women fall in love when some one doesn’t care about them and doesn’t care about how they look. This is the initial stage of love. After some time these methods are meaningless and […]
June 10, 2020
Is it good or bad to take back revenge to those who cheat, harm or hurt us?
Its not worth it. They don’t care about you, hence it doesn’t affect much if you plan to take revenge by inciting jealousy etc. If you are planning a ‘make over’ induced rebound love i.e. getting sexy and then re-enticing them, again not worth it. It wastes your time and shall not change them. Ever […]
How deep is love?
Deepest love happens when you start listening the silence and start seeing the invisible (expressions). When body (language) does the talking and mood is transmitted via presence. When you feel immense eternal peace and internal calm and want nothing from the other person. All unconditional. Not even their presence and attention. That is real love […]
June 8, 2020
What advice would you give someone who is 25 and going through a quarter life crisis?
10 advices for 25 year old 25 is real age to learn. Learn from your seniors at job. Play dumb and ask for advice. Remember they learned those tricks in 10+ years of job. Take care of your body, avoid junk food and alcohol along with cigarette. You have to live in your body for decades to […]
June 6, 2020
How can I tackle a wise man?
Chanakya said long before “ Only way to control wise man is through honesty and innocence”. They catch other games of yours.
What does it mean when someone you’re married to says ‘I guess I fell in love with your potential, then I fell in love with you’?
Love always starts with body (physical features) and then personality (including your potential, sense of humour , compatibility, etc.). Most love stories end in these two phases or get stuck in these two phases. This phase involves lot of sex, material fun, roaming, movies, dates, gifts etc. The ones who cross this phase enter the […]
