Hemant Pandey's Blog: Hemant pandey blog, page 40
July 28, 2019
If we love someone unconditionally, what could we do to change their attitude?
Love is strange. Ever wondered why so many people suffer in love, even though we all know all peculiarities of love. Almost all of us want true love. We know what is unconditional love but still full to get it or reciprocate if we have a chance. Why? Reason is our evolutionary brain and our […]
July 26, 2019
Love is just a game for some people. Why?
I am sympathetic with you. But love ,relationship and marriage are three different things. Girls are very clever now a days. They can be in a relationship with someone, till they find someone better. A relationship is actually a make shift arrangement. Till she gets love of her life, you are (not you but anyone) […]
July 24, 2019
What is the most important thing that happened in your life until now?
All women I loved in my life reciprocated my love. I was very fortunate in this area. My love may or may not have accomplished but I knew they also loved me, truly,unconditionally. I was always a play boy, lover boy or whatever name you can call me. Every time I fell in love , […]
July 22, 2019
What is love and happiness?
Love is not synonym of happiness. Greatest misconception about love is that it is happiness in disguise. Even sex is not good everytime, let alone love. Love is blend of all possible human emotions. Love,like, hatred, jealousy, misunderstanding,pain,passion, compassion, benevolence,lust, company, insecurity, security and all kinds of contradicting emotions. You are some times happy as […]
July 20, 2019
I used to be a ruthless, careless person but since I fall In love.. I became very sensitive, caring, emotional person, why?
Love is extension of your personality. You don’t remain one but you become part of someone’s else’s personality as well and vice versa. It means that your mind and thoughts chance. Usually girls are detail oriented and emotional. Mirror neurons help you to change your personality. Many girls have changed quite a few jerks,seducers,players and […]
July 18, 2019
How does this quote, ‘Experience teaches slowly and at the cost of mistakes,’ motivate you in your daily life?
Let me give you an analogy. Suppose I have to go to a hill top to view whole city. I know the way and decide to go to the top. Obviously there will be slope, hurdles, valleys, rivers,jungle,animals,danger,pain and joy. What do you want to do ? Learn from those hurdles or enjoy the thrill […]
July 16, 2019
What did you assume was exaggerated until you experienced it?
7 things which I assumed to be exaggerated while they were not. iPhone Vacations in exotic resort (4 or 5 star) True love Your kids love for you High quality branded items esp nike,fossil,crocs Inverter AC Love letter written by hand and its long term impact! 10 ultimate advice for Indian guys in relationship
July 14, 2019
How do I propose to a girl in India? What is the best way?
The best proposal is no proposal! Why propose ? Girls are indirect and they take hints quite well. Always keep them in the loop and when right time comes it happens naturally just like kiss or sex. Now if you are asking for formal proposal when you know the answer but only want to make […]
July 12, 2019
Why do I always feel anxious that people getting closer are there to abandon me after using me?
People leave you after using only when you are too ‘nice’. We love variety and colorful characters.If you are too good and are always helping others their evolutionary brain will put you in ‘dump zone’. The reason is that you have no skills to fight real life hurdles and are of no real help to […]
July 10, 2019
How should I end my friendship with my childhood friend?
If you want to kill a plant,there are many ways. You can just snatch it and throw it out of the ground abruptly and it dies. Or you can cut it into half and it will die sooner or later. The best way of death of least pain is to stop nourishing it and feeding […]
