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What did you learn from your life experiences?

Life has two parts. One is normal social life and other is your personal social life like love and relationships. Strangely the rules applicable in normal life do not apply on personal life! This is a stark contradiction and cause of many conflicts. Why so? We are too much sensitive in personal life than in […]

How did one small decision change your life?

Ability to let go. I let go all…the good as well as the bad. Both are intoxicating. Pain and pleasure are same energy. Pain becomes pleasure and pleasure becomes pain. If you are accumulating pleasure even then it shall turn to pain one day. Let go. Everything. You shall be at absolute peace. How do […]

Is Quora male or female?

100% female. Who the hell asks all kinds of questions ? Who the hell is never satisfied from one answer and asks other people for more opinions? Who the hell completes your questions even before you ask one? Who the hell gives you feedback that ‘you question needs improvement!’? Question needs improvement and NOT answer! […]

What are the 10 things that every Indian should know?

Love and relationship are two different things. Love is a relationship but not vice versa. We are a country of double standards. We have different moral code for ‘my daughter’ and ‘your daughter’ , ‘my girl’ and ‘your girl’ and many other similar combinations like money,career choices,sexual orientation,cleanliness,public vs private property etc. Engineering is NOT […]

What is the best habit you’ve taken up from another person?

Golden advice from a wise friend I had a friend, named Gautam. I was in grade 6th then. As usual like any young teenager I used to get upset by small little things like exams,any debating competition,meeting new people etc. I was with him one early morning and during our morning jog we messed up […]

What is important of our luck in our life?

Luck is important but I believe in destiny. I believe whatever happens is already destined in life. Call it law of attraction or hard work or whatever,I believe luck is amalgamation of lot many things. If you go on working hard, luck shall find you. What are some interesting life hacks?

What will be the best revenge for unrequited love?

Revenge for love! May be she hurt your ego and you want to torment her psychologically. Right ? Few points You never loved her but wanted her. Now since she doesn’t value you or your opinion, it is very difficult to harm her psychologically. Your best chance is to become better than every one else […]

What are those things people are most desperate for, in general?

4 Things every one craves True love (emotional people) First time sex,relationships,kiss (youth). Money (people who are ever deprived in life). Traveling (enthusiast) Most of the people are most desperate for recognition,a purpose in life, a social standing, to be ‘something’. What are the best Uber hacks?

What qualities should a good person have?

Most important quality among others must be ability to protect oneself out of misuse by other people. If you can’t protect yourself and are nice, you are dead man. How successful are you without a girlfriend/Boyfriend?

What kind of girls do boys like to be their wife?

Sadly wife and girlfriends are not same for most men. For girlfriend men like smart,progressive, modern, independent,sexy, out going, party loving,presentable,extrovert,extremely good looking girl. For wife (long term relationship), men prefer simple,humble,well mannered,innocent,faithful,cultured,a bit traditional,bit homely,bit silent,slightly introverted,a bit emotionally dependent,devoted girl. You see how adjectives change from flashy to warm. A hotel is flashy […]