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What was the best day of your life?

Today. Yesterday is history and tomorrow is mystery, all we have is this little moment. This moment is the most precocious possession for me. I live in present moment. No memories and no unnecessary future planning. I plan for two hours,for example and then shut my brain off. Enlightenment is the ability to put your […]

How do you realize what is really important in life?

I learnt through my experiences. Earlier in my life (When I was a teenager), I thought love was the greatest thing in life. Love is biggest motivation and biggest achievement. I fell in love, gave everything in love and failed mot of the times (Not because girls were not reciprocated but because I was shy, […]

Do famous Quorans undergo a lot of pressure before writing an answer?

I don’t know whether I am famous or not by your standards but to me personally there is zero pressure. I write because I love to write. Many of my answers have zero up votes and I care not. I write when I feel restless and my creative energy wants an outlet.I please only one […]

What were the best two minutes from your life?

When I was very young (toddler), the best two minutes were relief from peeing a long hold. When I was in junior school,the first two minutes after closing bell of school were the best. Later on in college, my first ever kiss was best two minutes I ever had. It was awkward for both of […]

What is more important in today’s world: beauty or brain?

To get brain’s attention, you need beauty and to get beauties favor, you need brains! They are complimentary you know

What is the best thing you’ve ever learned on Quora?

The best thing I learnt on Quora is that Everyone has an modified version of truth. My truth,your truth and ‘the truth’. All nice guys and decent girls are on Quora and they are never going to find each other and hunters and seductresses are always there to ‘use ‘and ‘throw’ them again and again! […]

Where do you draw the line between kindness and maintaining your self-respect?

The moment my kindness becomes a burden to me and starts to affect me,I draw a line, rather place a full stop. For any emotion , giving you more pain and disturbing your daily life, you must cut short. It might take some courage but you must do it. Have you ever felt why is […]

Have you ever felt so humiliated/useless by the questions you were asked in an interview?

I work in educational industry, primarily IIT JEE entrance test preparation. I was selected for interview of one of the biggest coaching institutes in India after written test and group discussion. Three faculties were interviewing us. They were sort of young teachers. They started by making fun of clothes , shoes etc. I wear casual […]

What is the best thing about you, and why?

I absolutely keep no expectations from others. Since I am always mentally prepared for a shock, in reality I never suffer a shock. In fact I always expect the worst (In the sense of embracing it). I am sort of very sorted.These low key expectations make my life every easy and I usually move on […]

Can we create feelings like love?

Yes…the shocking answer is yes! Love is amalgamation of mind and heart. With covert psychology techniques like Fractionation, seduction,mind control, hypnotic commands,NLP etc you can create instant attraction for any body. It’s like hacking language of mind. Guys who want to get good compatible like partners and girls who want to attract handsome smart dudes […]