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Is possessiveness a sign of true love or immaturity?

Depends on situation and person. If my girl does not returns back on time or she messed up with some guys on subway and I interfere,then it’s good.Possessiveness is good as being protective. But possessiveness is toxic if prohibitive. If I dictate whom she can talk and whom she can not,it’s bad.If I dictate length […]

What is the hardest thing you have ever resisted to in your life?

5 things I resisted in my life Alcohol , even though pressure was immense. I was called a baby,milk used to be ordered for me. They even barred me from eating snacks, if I don’t drink! They told me about the medical benefits of rum! How it prevents heart attacks! Etc etc. But I said no […]

How many messages do you get on Quora per day, if you are among one of the famous Quorans?

I don’t know whether I am famous or not but the message count depends on many factors. My level of activity My topics for answers for that particular week. I get messages from girls as well as boys in 70:30 ratio. More girls are clueless about abrupt change in behavior of their love interests. Some […]

Are successful people who give motivational talks, write self-help books, do seminars being deceptive or inherently lying?

It’s all in the perception Nature of mind : The position from where these guys are speaking is top of a cliff and where you are observing is bottom of that cliff.Mind changes. When you are successful, mind often forgets the negatives details and its intensity. Hence when they give you path ways, the difference in vision […]

What girls want fròm boys?

12 things girls like in a boy Not exactly looks but yes they do care for; Confidence Communication skills Sense of Humor Fashion sense Grooming Clothes Etiquette Emotional intelligence Courage Loyalty Ethics Honesty More than your looks they notice, how much care you take for yourself.Your tidiness, bad breadth,nails,quality of your accessories and other subtle […]

How can you love from the heart when you are thinking from the brain?

True love has phases. Like a good parent our conscious mind protects our tender heart. It goes on protecting till the time it is fully satisfied. Hence mind games,drama etc. will be there. But as love deepens and mind is satisfied, our heart begins to open and then real love starts. It depends from couple […]

Do you know why your resume gets rejected?

10 reasons why your resume gets rejected by employers Too long : CV is just information and not a autobiography. Keep it short and simple stupid (KISS). Too short : If you are not a celebrity and your signature had yet become your CV, don’t write one line resume. Ideal length is one page for anyone having […]

Why do people advise me to fall in love slowly?

Love is like an OCD. You need to keep your harness ready. Once you allow someone to enter your consciousness, it can get nasty. Love is a complex emotion. It comes,it goes,revisits,confuses. True love takes time.If it is not taking time,its only lust. True love means 24 hours,on person one thought,one heart. Let me explain. […]

What is the weirdest/most uncommon thing about girls that turns you on?

I don’t know whether it is weird or not but blushing girls turn me on. More sexy a girl behaves, less sexy she becomes for me. More traditional, simple, soft, polite she becomes more sexy she is to me. To me sexy is the girl who can feel even a gentle touch and not the […]

What is the biggest and most mysterious secret that you have not revealed to anyone?

I have many secrets just like any one. But a secret is an understanding between two people and shall remain between two, forever. Secrets are property of two owners. How can I decide to divulge it ? I am writing this as a precedent for all. Break a heart but never break someone’s trust. What […]