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Have you ever loved someone solely because they loved you first?

This might come as a shocker to girls. Men are quite simple human beings. We need a nice face, okay behavior and some empathy to fall in love with someone. We have very limited list of requirements for a relationship. In short we are less choosy. Thus men fall in love 20 times a day! […]

Which is the best thing that we are ignoring in daily life?

Rising Sun Chirping birds Little droplets of fresh rain True unconditional love Smile of little child Health Little happiness in common things Real life friendships and real commuinication Enjoying wonderful nature and gorgeous landscapes Earning money but not getting tangible experiences Where can we find happiness? Experiences make memories and memories make life. Things and […]

What don’t people know about you?

Yes I have a weakness. I know many life hacks, seen a lot of life, know many psychology principles and what not. But Deep down (In fact many layers deep down), I am quite simple and novice. All these hacks, methods etc. are shields to protect my heart and feelings and I feel they are […]

Why do people get so upset if you don’t reply to a text or a message right away?

Because You felt your self worth is attacked. You feel that you are not as valuable to him as you thought yourself to be. You have expectations with him. You feel that this kind of behavior hampers your chances of you two being together. You have low self worth and your confidence depends on his […]

What would be some of your best advice for a fresher who has just joined the corporate world?

Just joined the dreaded ‘C’ world Avoid all kinds of affairs. A young girl (also boys) and if she is a bit charming too, is everyone’s buddy and in hit list of almost all. Till one year of your job I would advise to keep your social flirting profile at low key value. Boys must […]

What is the best thing I should learn from you?

No one is extra ordinary or extra intelligent. Whatever you see from outside is result of years of hard work and practice. Its a different thing that ‘Art lies in concealing art’ (Ovid). You can never understand the power of consistent hard work and learnin, unless you try it yourself. Just going on doing your […]

What is that one thing in women that men like most?

Most attractive quality in any woman which men like is the ability to take care of him. Yes men like sexy girls, they like nice figure, they like many physical features. But in the long term anything which matters is the ability of woman to handle a man’s vulnerability in tough times. Men are inclined […]

How do I ask out my ex girlfriend?

Not a good idea. Girls have their ego tied to their looks and social profile. Understand this fact that girls can never get any man if he is not interested in her initially. On the contrary a man with some methods, some improvements, some money or social market value, can get a girl. If a […]

What is the nicest thing you have ever felt about men?

Men are not complex. They are utterly simple in their causes and effects. Essentially all men want only one thing from women! Jokes apart men are not very conversant with rules of social hacks and etiquettes as women are. We don’t have dual mode. Our best friend is bc in front of us and at […]

Is there a secret to success? If there is, what would be the secret?

I have already written a lot of content on success principles and secrets. Success – Life Hacks I would like to add a one liner this time. Have an attitude of a successful person when you are new (or not successful). Have and attitude of novice when you are successful. In other word ‘If you are […]