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How can too much expression of love and feeling harm a relationship?

Too much expression of love is harmful in these cases Insecure partners having inferiority complex Low social market value of anyone of them. Too much expressing as if needy partners. Unnecessary display if love as creepy love. Love is an emotion which is to be felt and need not expressed always. Words fail to recreate […]

Do you think millennials have less patience when it comes to nurturing a relationship?

Main reasons millennials are bad at relationships Instant gratification aka noodle relationships. Everyone is in hurry. We want love to happen fast. The time of a relationship now a days is averaged at 2 month. Earlier people used to wait for years before entering a new relationship. Love take time to come and time to […]

Have you ever met someone who could read your mind?

I can’t name her or reveal any other identity signs but there was a girl who could read my mind, my emotions, my mood like a open book. Whenever I was with her I felt that she could sense everything. It was telepathic and magical. The synchrony and chemistry was so great that it was […]

Has anyone ever been so hurt by someone they once loved that it has turned into a disgusting hate?

I don’t know about others but for me, the love is final. If I have ever really loved you, even once, then I can never hate you. That feeling may subside, that raw emotions might die but that warm feeling never goes. Love is converted to hatred only when the other person cheats you or […]

Will I be able to trust again, love again and let people in after my loved ones break my heart too many times?

Heartbreaks are overrated. Yes it pains for a while but sooner or later we all move on. Our minds are positively biased. We tend to forget negative events soon. The problem with heartbreaks is that the intensity of pain is exponentially huge at the onset. But the pains subsides sooner than expected. The rate of […]

What are some differences between a wise man and an intelligent man?

A intelligent man believes he is wise. A wise man believes he is not. What are the best ways to improve your intelligence? Intelligence is about knowing how much you know while wisdom is acknowledging how much more is to me known.

How do you deal with one’s ego issue?

Ego has been misunderstood since ages. Ego may be equal to self pride, excessive self pride, confidence, self belief, self assurance or over confidence. You have ego that you are the best and you strive to be that, the ego is a motivating force in your life. You have a ego that everyone else inferior […]

Have you ever thought that all the people in the world are hiding something really essential from you and what was it? Was it stupid or not?

Yes people hide many things. Everyone things he is super smart and others are damn fools. We think we know everything and others know nothing. People usually hide their insecurities. We all need validation and love. But most of us show to the world that we are super strong. Inside every tough coconut there is […]

How many things do we miss in our daily life?

Humans are a confused breed. We want all those things which we miss. When we get all those things, we don’t value them. When we lose those things, we again crave them. We are infinitely dissatisfied, greedy and selfish. Most importantly all those things we crave are available in front of us (many times), but […]

What defines smartness of a girl?

In academics and in real life, smartness is gender independent. But in love life smartness of a girl is determined by giving the right exposure and hints to keep men interested. On the same time she must hide the right amount of information to be discovered by men to keep them intrigued. To make a […]