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What do you do when you know that your girlfriend is only with you for your money but you can’t leave her because you love her desperately?

A girl who is with you only for money is not your girlfriend. You don’t love her desperately but fear that you will never get someone as good as her, if not better. Few other points There is no such thing as unconditional love. Every friendship or love has at least 20% selfishness to begin […]

Does a guy, who can’t make women laugh, have a chance at getting a girlfriend?

The most important thing to get a girlfriend is not ‘sense of humour’ or ‘Alpha Male attitude’ or ‘street smartness’ or ‘Money’ or ‘Mind games’ or the list goes on. Yes these are important but only to a certain extent and that too only in the beginning of any relationships. Remember all these rules, mind […]

What are some signs that a person will be successful?

I know many people who are successful in life by any yardsticks. Apart from the usual smart hard work, strategic planning, networking abilities, constant motivation, infinite zeal, dedication, mental strength, teamwork, positive never give up attitude etc, I personally consider two common qualities in all of them. Extreme Perseverance : Out of all people I know […]

How do I understand if a guy has moved on or still in love?

A guy who truly loved you never fully moves on. Yes they find new love, find new partners but the true love lingers for long for guys. They often show they don’t care, they often show they have move done, they often behave as if everything is normal, but one gentle stroke of love and […]

What are some things men don’t tell women?

Active love (Interest) outside relationships All men don’t cheat or intend to do so but biologically men are polygamous. God made us to spread our genes to as many females while for females it is to accept the best genes available to them. Hence all men (either consciously or unconsciously) are looking for those ‘extra […]

What advice would you give to a girl entering her 20s?

Take care of your body (aesthetically).You may like it or not but your body, skin tone, mannerisms, knowledge about human psychology and one definite skill set are your biggest assets. Don’t let people fool you that people love you for your heart and ‘be yourself’. Don’t just ‘be yourself’ but be the best version of […]

What is the biggest mistake that boys usually do if they like a girl, before knowing the interest of girl?

The biggest mistake any guy can do while pursuing girls for courtship is to let her know about his interest in her early on. Most guys can fall in love with any decent looking girl by just looking at her! This is fine as male interest is primarily physical in the beginning. To let a […]

What have you done in your youth that you deeply enjoyed but now intensely regret?

Wasting my time roaming, watching movies,TV (I don’t watch TV now). I wonder had I used that time to gain real life insights, read some more books, worked with mentors to improve my self, devoted that time for more self developement, my life would have been 10 years fast. Time is the most important possession […]

What lesson should I teach for a friend who betrayed me?

In love Love is very strong chemical imbalance. Nothing matches the euphoria when you are in love. But believe me the one who leaves the equation often has no feelings left towards you whatsoever. However strong your love was, if a nasty breakup occurs, more often than not all those butterflies in stomach turn into […]

How do I get confidence and attitude like bad boy?

The common misconception about relationships is that bad boys gets all girls. This is far from truth. A bad boy cannot get a very confident and level headed women. A bad boy usually gets less experienced underconfident girl. Bad boys gets girls because they have few alpha male traits inbuilt like confidence, non chalance and […]