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Everyone says wait for the right person and now I am above 30 still waiting. What’s wrong with this?

Yesterday I was planning to go to Pune (For some official work). I was waiting at my home for the bus to arrive, but it never arrived! Then I realised my mistake. I went to a bus station and started waiting over there. Many buses came, tried looking at me for a signal (whether I […]

Why is it difficult to date an Indian girl compared to an American girl for an Indian guy?

I have (had) quite a few foreign friends (not necessarily american but american included). The major differences are They don’t show unnecessary tantrums. In fact you can easily approach any american girl of the street s or on social media. Don’t be too creepy and start demanding sex pics in your very second message, but […]

What are the best ways to make yourself more attractive?

You know what is the most attractive quality in any woman for a man? I think its her grace, her bit shy attitude, her a bit inwardness. Now you know what is most unattractive quality in any woman? It is her awkwardness, her false attitude, over shyness and unapproachability (attributed as ‘shyness’ or culture or […]

How would you react if you see the girl with whom you had a breakup couple of years ago?

I have had better experiences in this regard. I usually never break up but break contact. My break ups are swift and light. No hard fighting, no harsh memories, no blaming, begging, extreme ego etc. I usually left people on decent note that in case they want to come back they are welcome. I believe […]

Multiple boys want to start a relationship with me, but I only like one of them. How do I date the boy I like without hurting the other ones?

Let me give you a different perspective. Men are not like that as you believe them to be. Ever wondered that for every girl there are 10X more lovers, followers and admirers. How is that possible? The reason is polygamous nature of men. A boy do not only exclusively follow you. Besides you he has […]

Which is right age for girls to get married?

The diplomatic answer would be ‘When you get your prince charming’. The real life answer would be around 27 years. Till 27 your education is over and you have a set defined career path and life goals. You are into 5 years into an profession and know your growth trajectory. Contrary to popular beliefs, high […]

What are the mind games that I can play to get a girlfriend?

You don’t need mind games to get a girl or make any girl fall in love with you. One may ask then why so many failed relationships, so many cheating girls (partners) and so much of bloodshed in the arena of love? The primary reason is that you just need real manhood to impress any […]

Do you think a womanizer can truly fall in love with one person ever in his life?

You eat chicken but you sleep with your dog. Analogically speaking a womaniser will fall in true love with a quality women and might use others for fun and sex. Humans are insanely simple as well as insanely complex, both at the same time. We are selectively cruel ann benevolent. There is no common yardstick […]

How long does a crush exist?

I don’t know about you but for me it is 48 hours. If someone doesn’t reciprocate afterwards, it usually dies its own death in a week. Enough fish in the sea, you know!  

How do you know if you’re with the right person or not?

If you are thinking about love then Your mind must come at absolute calmness in presence of your right one. You must feel bliss and no other emotion. Absolute cohesiveness. Time must stop fleeing and you must stop looking at your watch with them. Absolute comfirt, no complexes, no pressure to perform or impress. Either […]