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How do you deal with people when you realise that your love doesn’t count to them?

v I have a set rule regarding love. I never love those who don’t reciprocate. This is non negotiable. You must keep a tab on your feelings. At any point you find your love is not reciprocated, you must have the guts and spine to back off. People love you for what you are. People […]

What do you learn by falling in love?

How much you know about human psychology, how many relationships you have been in, how big love guru you might be, when you fall in true love with someone, all you games, manipulation, tricks, methods vanish. We all crave true love. What do you think makes ‘nice guys’ learn red pill and seduction methods? They […]

What should one do in their 30s to avoid regrets in their 40s and 50s?

In your thirties Quit alcohol and smoking if you haven’t done yet. In 20s your immunity is strong, your liver young and your wisdom low. Now quit as soon as possible. Make important dietary changes. Leave sugar (processed sugar) completely, including all sugar drinks, soft drinks and energy drinks. Stop running after girls. Either settle […]

What can you say about Indian girls?

In India you can see every possible kind of girl. Sexy girls, normal girls, sexy and egoistic girls,sexy but humble girls, gold diggers, manipulative girls, simple girls and so on. Indian girls have plethora of options but the secret is that 90% of those are creepy followers wanting only one thing from them. Girls hate […]

What are some most important unspoken rules in life

Money is your self worth. Your job, your career, your bank balance is above everything you have known till in your life. A man (slowly changing also for a woman) is always the personality which he represents in society. Never be delusioned about this. Never. Second most important thing you have is your health. Take […]

What are some body language hacks?

Eye contact : Eyes are most seductive tool in love affair and otherwise. Eyes are indeed index of your soul. You can lie, you body can lie, your eyes can never lie. Pupils dilate when we are excited. Our eyes smile when we see someone we love. Studies have shown that prolonged eye contact can […]

What is the best way to get your love back?

For a boy the best way to get your love back is to leave your lover for sometime. Girls ruminate, rethink,revisit their decision. They are often moody and their mood changes after some time. It is never a good idea to disturb your lost girlfriend before at least two months of breakup. No contact rules […]

What’s the thing people regret most in life?

Not proposing or asking out people they really love. Greatest regret persists and happens when you know love was reciprocal but neither could convey it in clear terms. 90% of true unfinished love stories fall in this category. Not able to marry or live with people they loved due to circumstances. Surprisingly more women than […]

What do you realize when you reach 40 years old?

It’s not that scary or demotivating as it seems at 20. No your knees don’t pain, your stamina is not lost, your vigour and energy doesn’t drop to 50%. All that is relative. If you have active life style, take proper nutrition, go to gym or jog, take supplements, your are as good as anyone […]

What are the best social hacks ever?

I have read and mastered enough psychological and self help books. The best social hack ever invented by man is Active listening Genuine interest in other people’s life I have never seen these two hacks fail ever. Genuinely like people. Take interest in them, in their lives, their joys, their success, their failure. Laugh with […]