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Is it true that girls tend to be attracted to the guys that give them the least amount of attention?

Not in exact sense. Girls are humans but certain characteristics are inbuilt in them. Ironically they will fiercely deny it if you ever ask them. Girls like independent Alpha males. What does an Alpha male do? He is busy in his goal, life, business, job or whatever. He has a single point focus on his […]

What are the magical words to use when you are flirting?

Contrary to the popular belief, there are no magic words to flirting. Flirting is 90% body language and confidence. An under confident person speaking the best pick up lines looks like a fool. While just ‘Hi I am Hemant, glad to see you’ said with confidence can do the magic. It’s not what you say […]

Why don’t girls commit to any relationship easily?

Girls are cautious. In earlier phases, for boys relationships are just another time pass. Boys fall in love with every second girl they meet. If girls too start falling in love with boys so soon the whole world will turn into one night stand people. Commitment for a girl means giving access to mutual intimacy. Physical intimacy […]

What are some of the weirdest observations you have ever made?

4 weird observation about human nature People change faster than you expect. With changing socio-economic factors you can see through people and their real motives. There are very few people (Around 1%) who are really with you, like you, love you and not who you are. You think your girlfriend love you for what you […]

What are the most important cognitive biases to be aware of?

72 hour waiting hack to prevent overspending We are guided by our programmed mind rather than conscious mind. Ever heard of biases. Confirmation bias,out come bias and 100s of other psychological principles.Even if we are aware of our weaknesses we behave accordingly! Meta cognition (watching your thoughts and analyzing your self as if you were […]

How can I be more attractive to women?

Attraction is not a magic pill. Confidence : Number One thing which attracts any woman is genuine confidence. Confidence is not being the best in the room or being the most attractive guy on the floor. Confidence is the ability to be yourself and ability to accept yourself with all your flaws. No one is perfect but the […]

What makes life too complicated for people?

8 things which really make life complicated Unnecessary Ego : Little ego boosts performance and helps in development of personality. But now a days we see super hyper inflated egos. People are getting killed for 20 INR. A bullet costs 90 INR! Ego as a confident state of mind is productive but ego as devaluing others […]

Can a man be loyal to one woman throughout his lifetime?

4 reasons men cheat on you Why does a man cheat? What ‘other’ woman gives a committed man which the ‘main’ woman can’t? I am referring to the ideal scenario of perfect relationship in which both partners mutually love each other. Only thing which bores any man out of relationships are Lack of novelty : You […]

What are things that every woman in this world can agree about men?

12 things women know about men but are not sure. All men flirt : Men have basic tendency to flirt with women. It is biological.How ever sexy my girlfriend, wife or partner might be, I see another attractive women, my compass will turn towards her. Men are careless : Men are careless and no doubt about it. […]

What is the typical mentality of the Indian society?

10 typical things you find in Indian Society Pseudo morals: Many of us have skin deep morals.We may bash about 10 commandments on social media and in public life but given a chance many of us just lose our morality in no time. Looting train accident victims as seen in media is a prime example of […]