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X is for Share XL

The Share XL is for Xtra large lovin’.

From the Fun Factory website:

“The active side in this love game vaginally inserts the shorter part and pleasures her partner with the longer end. Optimal hold, a slightly curved tip and a flexible consistence guarantee on-target stimulation. The end inspired by the shape of glans delivers pure desire. While the passive partner enjoys penetration the partner in control experiences clitoral stimulation and a gentle G-spot massage. A toy certain to completely fulfill you. Mutual moments of pure indulgence are guaranteed and all without a harness.”

I’m not entirely sure how the above paragraph applies to hetero or gay male couples, since it sounds like it’s telling two women to insert the shorter end vaginally to the “top” while the “bottom” gets to enjoy being penetrated by the longer end. It doesn’t really sound suited to gay sex at all (although I suppose most double dildos generally aren’t), though it could work for a woman topping a man.

For women interested in a harness-free dildo or a unique twist on the double dildo, this looks like a great product.

Would you ever go XL with your sex toys?

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W is for We-Vibe

The We-Vibe is a couple toy, meant to deliver hands-free vibrations during penetrative sex. It looks like this:

This vibrator is meant to hug both the clit and the G Spot simultaneously, but still allow room for your partner to get in on the action. Pretty ingenious, right?

The We-Vibe is on version 4 right now, which comes with a remote control as well as an “echo” mode that will switch vibrations from G Spot and clit and back again. With 6 vibration modes and 10 intensity levels, you can vary your pleasure – or allow your partner to remotely control it from across the room.

Want to WIN a We-Vibe? There’s still two days left to enter the Redhead Bedhead’s Sex Toy Giveaway for a shot at this toy, so check out her blog here for full details on how to win one of your very own!

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V is for Vibrators: 3 Quirky Toys for Sensational Vibration

“Laura, haven’t most of the sex toys you’ve already talked about been vibrators?” you are probably asking.

Yes, dear reader, that is true. And thanks for sticking with this series of Sex Toys from A to Z! I hope you’ve been enjoying the ride.

But today I thought I’d highlight a few of the most interesting, unusual and, indeed, occasionally the most expensive vibrators I’ve come across in my sex toy research, to give you a few more examples of what a wide, wonderful world of sexual vibration there is out there, just waiting for you to come play.

First up, The Cone:

As you can see, The Cone is a conical vibrator — a decidedly atypical shape for stimulating one’s naughty bits. There are two buttons, one of which allows users to vary the speed and pattern of the vibes, and the other of which is the “orgasm button,” that just puts the motor on full speed for instant gratification.

I’ve written more extensively on The Cone in terms of vibration innovations in my book The Vixen Files, in case you’re curious to learn more about this one. Though it’s not my favorite vibrator, it’s definitely got unique potential, depending on how athletic you are – or would like to be – in bed.

Another curious find is the Earth Angel Battery-Free Wind-Up Vibrator:

This product has actually been discontinued, probably because winding up your vibrator is pretty time consuming and super annoying when you’re in the mood to get off right now. Also, since it’s made of rigid plastic, with no G spotting curves or other preferred vibrator frills, it’s not exactly the ideal shape. So, although this one is a win for the eco-conscious, it never seemed to wind up the ladies the way its manufacturer thought it would.

Another vibrator that gets a lot of people’s engines revving is the Sybian device:

Built a bit like a mechanical bull with a variety of detachable dongs to ride, the Sybian is the stuff of plenty of perverts’ wet dreams. (For instance, it’s been road-tested by Carmen Electra on the Howard Stern Show.) It’s got a lifetime guarantee – but then again, at $1,345 a pop it’d better!

Those are just my top three most quirky vibrators, but there are plenty more out there to suit just about every fancy. Be sure to check out Babeland for lots more vibrators to get your motor running.

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U is for Underwear

I have no idea why the idea of vibrating underwear is getting me so hot and bothered today, but it is.

Maybe it’s more the idea of a lover being able to remotely control your orgasms. While some might think this sounds a bit robotic and weird, I like the idea of having a vibrator in my panties while I’m toiling away, creating a new piece of erotic fiction, and my husband pressing the button in the other room to keep me stimulated.

Of course, I probably would never finish writing the piece and end up pulling him into the bedroom, instead, but that’s all part of the fun.

If this idea appeals to you, too, there are a few vibrating underwear options out there.

The Bnaughty Unleashed (pictured above) can be operated from up to 30 feet away and comes with 7 different vibrational patterns.

Alternately, the OhMiBod Club Vibe 2.OH is a device you slip into an accompanying set of panties. There’s a nub for clitoral stimulation, and the remote on this is said to work up to 20 feet away. The fun part of this vibrator is that it also has a “music responsive” mode that lets you groove to the beat of your favorite songs. I’m guessing the more bass-heavy, the better, so test drive it to some D&B.

Finally, though it’s not exactly a set of vibrating underwear, I’m also digging the idea of this Vibrating Lipstick Garter Belt:

The vibrator itself is styled to resembled a tube of lipstick, and tucks into an old-fashioned garter belt. Though I’m not quite sure where you’d realistically make use of this item (I mean, hogging the bathroom at a crowded club just to jill off seems rather rude…), I like the idea of always being prepared for any sexy situations that might arise.

Have you ever made use of vibrating underwear, and if so, what did you think?

 

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T is for Tenga

In contrast to the vast number of sex toys I’ve mentioned here that are aimed at women, Tenga is a sex toy company primarily aimed at men.

With unique toys that offer different types of frictional pleasure for the penis, Tenga has come up with a few variations on the traditional masturbation sleeve, and all of them are way better than your ratty old sweat sock. For instance:

The Flip may look a bit space-age from the outside, but inside it’s lined with different types of silicone patterns that create stroking, caressing or sucking sensations. Slip your cock inside and groove on.

In addition to these self-contained sleeves, Tenga also makes Egg sleeves:

Inside the egg is a textured sleeve that vaguely resembles a condom, with different patterns on the inside to stimulate your penis. The website also notes that you can turn the sleeves inside out and slip them over other vibrating toys for additional pleasures.

Tenga also produces a toy called the Vi-Bo, which is meant to be used during massages and hand jobs:

You attach the loops to your thumb and pinkie fingers, and then massage away.

What’s your favorite Tenga toy?

P.S. Thinking of investing in some sex toys after reading this post? Be sure to enter The Redhead Bedhead’s Sex Toy Giveaway for a shot at winning some of your favorite items!

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Hump Day Reviews: Shuck

I’ve been neglecting my Hump Day Reviews, thanks to the A to Z Blogging Challenge, so I thought I’d post a quickie that hits the letter S this week. If you haven’t already read Daniel Allen Cox’s Shuck, you definitely should.

In the pantheon of Great Living Writers in English, few immediately spring to mind. Leonard Cohen tops my list, and some enjoy the ambiguous (or even sudden-drop-off) endings of Margaret Atwood. Most agree that Michael Ondaatje also falls into this category, along with heavyweights like Salman Rushdie, J.M. Coetzee and Paul Auster. Then there are the popular writers, who command respect from a core group of readers, though wouldn’t necessarily be considered “great.” Stephen King, Tom Clancy, Michael Crichton, Jackie Collins, maybe even Douglas Coupland (or does he fall under “great”?) live and work here.

Poised to join one or both of these lists is Daniel Allen Cox, a Montreal writer whose first book, Shuck, has got me all aflutter about sex, love, and aspiring authors in late-90s NYC.

Shuck is the story of Jaeven Marshall, a New York City hustler who aspires to become a published author. He obsessively journals and picks through trash in search of inspiration, living by his wits and his street smarts (at one point he explains how no homeless person should ever have to sleep on the streets, by slipping into the back rooms of large department stores). The character is shrewd, calculating, and utterly captivating. Like a male Holly Golightly, Jaeven manages to twist everyone around his little finger with a wink and a smile – or maybe a smirk and a pout.

Jaeven’s diaries reveal his rise to fame through a series of tableaux, from his humble beginnings as a street rat to gay porn icon Boy New York. Somewhere along the way, we get close to Jaeven, despite the prickly exterior he uses to protect himself from those that might hurt him, whether purposefully or unluckily in love. We are the hungry voyeurs who love and then hate him for his increasing exposure on the covers of dozens of porno mags, and we get to dig through his innermost thoughts, searching for meaning.

The book is a thrilling Coney Island roller-coaster ride through the close of the last century. The glittering menace of New York is portrayed as both seductive and dangerous, by turns, though Jaeven always seems to come out on top. The city’s hardness often reflects Jaeven’s own coldness, and even brutal acts are described with a veneer of pleasure in the pain.

Jaeven is, indeed, a rather ambiguous hero – more anti-hero than the classic protagonist, yet somehow loveable despite his flaws. His dream of becoming a writer via porn is terribly misguided, and yet almost makes sense. He dreams big, perhaps even delusionally so, but it is precisely his big dreams that keep him moving forward, always hustling, always striving for something more.

Shuck is definitely a page-turner, which will surely make it a popular hit. Even more importantly, it nails a particular time and space while making the unbelievable both real and personal. Cox has tremendous talent, and as he propels himself with dreams as big as Jaeven’s, I think it’s safe to say he’s joined the ranks of those destined for greatness.

(Originally reviewed at Black Heart Magazine)

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S is for Silver Bullet

The Silver Bullet is quite the multipurpose sex toy.

First, it can be used on its own as an insertable, remote controlled vibrator with multiple speeds. Hand off the controller to your lover for a real thrill.

Secondly, the Silver Bullet plays well with other toys, like Cock Rings:

The Sonic Ring (pictured above) uses a variation on the Silver Bullet called the Babeland Buzz, which is waterproof.

And finally, the Silver Bullet is also the inspiration behind the Vibrating Underwear concept I’ll be exploring on Thursday. U is for Underwear that makes me want to come just thinking about it.

In short, the Silver Bullet is a small but mighty vibrator that’s sure to please. What’s your favorite use for the Silver Bullet?

P.S. Thinking of investing in some sex toys after reading this post? Be sure to enter The Redhead Bedhead’s Sex Toy Giveaway for a shot at winning some of your favorite items!

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R is for Restraints

Since the infamous Rabbit has already made an appearance in a previous post (I is for Ina by Lelo, in case you missed it), let’s explore another R-rated sex toy: Restraints.

For those of you interested in exploring bondage, restraints are a must. While you can DIY these with whatever comes to hand (silk neckties, anyone?), and some bondage enthusiasts actually hit up their nearest hardware store for their preferred ropes and chains, the easiest way to start off with sexual restraint is by buying a pair of handcuffs.

I’m not talking about your standard police-issue metal cuffs, either. (Who wants to lose the key in this all-too-played-out horror story plot? Not me!) I’m talking about a good quality leather or vegan-alternative restraint that looks something like this:

These Super Cuffs are made of neoprene with nylon straps and Velcro closures, and come with stainless steel D rings for hooking them together or to a headboard.

If those still look a little too much like a BDSM dungeon for your tastes, there are also the Tickled Pink Restraints:

These also use Velcro closures, and come with a 3-foot strap to tie your partner to most any available surface.

For those without a headboard, or who like to conceal their toys in a secret stash when not in use, there are Under the Bed Restraints:

No need to drill holes in the wall, install hardware hooks, or otherwise mess with your bed and get sweaty before sexytime. Just slide the connector under your mattress, hook on the wrist and leg restraints, and strap your partner down. When you’re done, you can easily tuck the restraints under your mattress until next time.

For those just starting out, these are all great options for restraint and roleplay. More dedicated bondage enthusiasts will likely yawn at these more mainstream restraints, but we’ve all got to start somewhere before becoming Asian rope bondage masters, right?

Speaking of which, here’s a great book on the subject:

Midori regularly teaches Rope Dojo workshops to share her knowledge of Japanese rope bondage techniques, which are both beautiful and sensual. To learn more about this particular type of restraint you can also grab a copy of her DVD The Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage with Midori.

Have you ever used restraints in the bedrom — or restraint or any kind?

P.S. Thinking of investing in some sex toys after reading this post? Be sure to enter The Redhead Bedhead’s Sex Toy Giveaway for a shot at winning some of your favorite items!

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Sex Toy Giveaway!

Yep, you read that right. SEX TOY GIVEAWAY!

It’s not my giveaway, though. Instead, my fellow sex blogger The Redhead Bedhead is holding a super huge sex toy giveaway in order to help one of her friends fight cancer.

Here’s the deal:

Hit up The Bedhead to learn more about this giveaway.
Check out all the awesome prizes. (Seriously, there are a ton. She has the sex toy connects!)
Enter to win by following the simple Rafflecopter instructions.
Donate a few bucks to help out Jay Byrd for additional entries.
Kick back with the warm and fuzzy feeling of having helped a fellow human being on Easter Sunday/4–20/whenever you’re actually reading this.

So, if you’ve been thinking of giving sex toys a whirl this month, this is your chance to win some for free, from a huge pile of ethical and awesome manufacturers plus help out a great human being in the process.

What’s not to love?

Good luck, and have a great Sunday.

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Q is for Quiver

Quiver is a vibrating butt plug. It looks like this:

It’s also the only sex toy on the market that starts with Q. Marketing gurus, take note!

I’m actually pretty surprised there aren’t a ton more sex toys to choose from for the letter Q, given that there are plenty of Q words that relate to sex generally. Here are just a few:

queen
quim
queer
quiff
queef
quickie
quoit

Those are good for upping your Scrabble score quite quickly. You’re welcome.

Another thing I’d like to mention here is the issue of quality when it comes to sex toys. As I noted in my introduction to this series, I’ve been including affiliate links only to products that are sold by Babeland, because they’re one of a few stores that strive to sell only quality toys from manufacturers that they can trust. Babeland has also been in the business since 1993, which feels like forever, so they’ve earned my trust based on longevity as well as their core business ethics.

In case you’ve been wondering about how big an issue toxic and unsafe sex toys really are, here is a great article from Bitch Magazine on the subject. As writer Caitlin Murphy notes, sex toys are not regulated here in the U.S., even though they should technically qualify as something the FDA would monitor, being that most toys are used internally and not as “novelty products” as some are labeled.

Finally, here’s a link to a great list of “Superhero Sex Shops” from sex writer The Redhead Bedhead to help you find an ethical sex toy supplier near you. I would also add Montreal’s Joy Toyz to that list, if you live in Quebec; they’re a woman-owned company that sells online but also offers in-home sex toy parties for those interested in learning more about different types of toys. I’ve been to one of their parties, and it was really fun to get a group of ladies together for some drinks, sex ed and vibrator test drives. Highly recommended!

Have you ever been to a brick-and-mortar sex shop? What was your experience like?

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