Lisa Daily's Blog, page 19
May 6, 2013
Find the Love of Your Life After 50!


Find the Love of Your Life After Fifty! resolves many issues important to dating and mating at this stage in life: improving on attitude and adaptability; where to meet others; dating with dignity and not dismay; whether sex is important still; overcoming feelings of rejection, and more. Offering true life stories, guidelines, and self-help quizzes, it will motivate, educate, and encourage a totally new and positive attitude about dating. What does it take to find a companion, a lover, a mate at this stage in life? It takes acknowledging that dating is different from years past. It takes summoning courage and taking risks. It takes the right timing. It takes being adaptable. It takes being realistic, being creative, and educating yourself. It takes looking good. And, at the very least, it takes knowing the best places to socialize.What a task, you might say? Not really. Find the Love of Your Life After Fifty! will demonstrate how anyone can bring love, romance, and companionship into life once more.
May 3, 2013
The Myth of Monogamy: Fidelity and Infidelity in Animals and People


Applying new research to sex in the animal world, esteemed scientists David P. Barash and Judith Eve Lipton dispel the notion that monogamy comes naturally. In fact, as The Myth of Monogamy reveals, biologists have discovered that for nearly every species, cheating is the rule — for both sexes.
Reviewing findings from the same DNA fingerprinting science employed in the courtroom, Barash and Lipton take readers from chickadee nests to chimpanzee packs to explain why animals cheat. (Some prostitute themselves for food or protection, while others strive to couple with genetically superior or multiple mates.) The Myth of Monogamy then illuminates the implications of these dramatic new findings for humans, in our relationships, as parents, and more.
The Myth of Monogamy at last brings scientific insight into this emotionally charged aspect of the ultimate dating and marriage quandary.
April 30, 2013
Anxious in Love: How to Manage Your Anxiety, Reduce Conflict, and Reconnect with Your Partner


Healthy relationships require trust, intimacy, effective communication, and understanding. However, if you suffer from chronic anxiety you may have trouble dealing with everyday conflicts and tensions that can arise in relationships. No matter how committed you are, anxiety can leave you feeling distanced from your partner. Fortunately, there are steps you can take to overcome the anxiety-fueled reactions that keep you from achieving true closeness in your relationship.
Written by two experts on anxiety disorders, Anxious in Love offers easy-to-use techniques for calming anxieties and strengthening communication in your relationship. With this book, you will learn to stay centered when faced with conflict, understand your partner’s perspective, and become more independent. By changing the way you react to triggers and stress, you will be able to focus on enjoying time with the one you love, without anxiety getting in the way.
The Rescue You Program: How to Improve Your Life and Reinvent Your Love after an Affair. Workbook 6: Allow Acceptance


The Rescue You Program is a 9-step process designed to help you, the wounded partner, reconstruct your life in the aftermath of an affair. After you have done some healing, the focus shifts to enhancing your love forever. The person who has been betrayed can still be saved! A broken relationship is an opportunity to learn new lessons of love and life, but most of us do not see that possibility. Many people are doomed to make the same mistakes and sleep-walk through their physical existence. Wounded partners, whether they remain in the relationship that hurt them or not, are likely to experience years of frustration in a fog of fear, anger, and resentment. The purpose of The Rescue You Program: How to Improve Your Life and Reinvent Your Love after an Affair is to equip hurting partners with the tools to find understanding, reason, and forgiveness.
Based on three years of research and real-life practice, Lisa Jacobs writes to people suffering a broken heart. The program available here will offer you direction toward brighter days and hopeful possibilities. Furthermore, you will discover how to turn what appears to be a powerless situation into an opportunity to find more in life and ask for the best from love.
Rescue You is the only resource on infidelity to employ natural stress management and mind-body awareness techniques to healing both the pain and panic induced by an affair. You will not only recover from the past, you will learn how to embrace the present moment and become excited about the future.You can create a new and improved self! Eventually, you will be at peace with life, as if it were all in order and on purpose to create the best version of you. Imagine that.
Workbook 6: Allow Acceptance opens the road to reinvention. You are so much more than the affair and The Rescue You Program aims to tap into your potential! Let's get started today.
April 29, 2013
Sperm Wars: Infidelity, Sexual Conflict, and Other Bedroom Battles


Published to acclaim and controversy a decade ago, Sperm Wars is a revolutionary thesis about sex that turned centuries-old biological assumptions on their head. Evolution has programmed men to conquer and monopolize women while women, without ever knowing they are doing it, seek the best genetic input on offer from potential sexual partners. In this book, best-selling author Robin Baker reveals these new facts of life: ten percent of children are not fathered by their "fathers;" less than one percent of a man's sperm is capable of fertilizing anything (the rest is there to fight off all other men's sperm); "smart" vaginal mucus encourages some sperm but blocks others; and a woman is far more likely to conceive through a casual fling than through sex with her regular partner. It's no wonder that Sperm Wars is a classic of popular science writing that will surprise, entertain, and even shock.
One Soul, One Love, One Heart: The Sacred Path to Healing All Relationships


How do we heal our difficult relationships and nurture our healthy ones? What is their significance in our spiritual life? In this deeply moving, groundbreaking book, John E. Welshons answers these questions and many more. He shows why the path to real and lasting happiness lies in recognizing that we are all One, and in living in that awareness. He shows us how to heal our most difficult relationships by transforming them into our greatest spiritual lessons and how to love, forgive, and care for our fellow human beings — even those we find most difficult to love and forgive. With compassion and wisdom, Welshons invites us into a revolutionary new understanding of ourselves, our spiritual life, our world, and all our relationships.
April 27, 2013
The Manipulative Man: Identify His Behavior, Counter the Abuse, Regain Control


Conventional wisdom says that women are the manipulative ones – but tell that to the thousands of desperate women suffering at the hands of a manipulative man. Men can be just as sneaky, passive-aggressive, needy, underhanded, whiny, guilt-inducing and emotionally demanding as women are accused of being – and perhaps more so! As any woman in love with a manipulative man can tell you, it's not easy to get past his charm and your guilt to a place where you can see your relationship for what it is – out of balance, extraordinarily stressful, emotionally exhausting and potentially dangerous. This book is a groundbreaking prescription for dealing with the manipulative men in your life by using: tests to help women decide if they are involved with mama's boys, narcissists, sociopaths or even psychopaths; techniques for defining and setting boundaries with their men; and tools to help women improve their relationships with manipulative men. In "The Manipulative Man", acclaimed psychotherapist Dr. Dorothy McCoy shows readers how to identify the type of manipulative man they're involved with, deal with the issues his behaviour provokes and ultimately, salvage the relationship – or move on.
Surprised By Love: One Couple’s Journey from Infidelity to True Love


Through the harsh realities of infidelity and destruction… to awakening, change, and restoration. In compelling prose, readers are drawn into an intimate encounter with the harsh realities of infidelity, of how and why it occurs and led transparently through a pathway of awakening. Decisions are made to change, and recreate, and ultimately a transformation of a broken marriage ending in divorce becomes a new relationship. Readers are inspired with hope and possibility
April 24, 2013
Cheated On: The 10 Minute Reality Check


A mini guide to dealing with infidelity. Practical things to contemplate in the heat of the moment.
April 23, 2013
Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity


A pornography addiction can feel like real infidelity to a spouse. There s nothing virtual about the damage done to a relationship, and the wounds are reopened each time a relapse is discovered. As tough as it is to overcome this addictive habit, healing a marriage damaged by pornography is even harder. For spouses, it s not enough for their partners to simply stop looking at porn. They need healing themselves. Some couples separate and divorce. Others stay together, but the strain of unresolved feelings takes a distinct toll. Many wonder, Can our marriage heal? Will we ever feel close again? Love You, Hate the Porn shows couples how to identify and address vulnerabilities in their relationship. Offers healing advice for spouses. Provides help for the struggling partner to avoid relapse. Focuses on how to make the marriage relationship stronger than it was before.