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April 21, 2012
What his taste in movies, his car, and how fast he falls asleep after sex can tell you about whether or not he’ll cheat on you.
If you want to know if he loves you so, it’s not his kiss you should be worried about — it’s his car, his job, his love of horror movies, and whether he talks or snores immediately after sex. Studies estimate that infidelity occurs in almost 80% of marriages.
Is He Cheating? Crack the cheat code and find out right now if he is cheating or not, why he cheats, and what you need to do next, is a new book from relationships expert Lisa Daily, the best selling author of Stop Getting Dumped!, and the resident love guru on DAYTIME, a nationally-syndicated morning TV show.
Daily says she was inspired to write the book after receiving thousands of letters from women all over the world, “The scenarios are different, but the fear and worry and heartbreak are always the same. After a while, I started noticing that there were very specific patterns in the behavior of the men who were cheating. Once I began researching infidelity behavior in-depth, I realized there was a definite and predictable pattern to men’s affairs — everything from what they told their wives and girlfriends to where they stashed the evidence. This “cheat code” of utterly predictable cheating behavior became the basis of Is He Cheating?.”
In Is He Cheating? Daily answers readers’ most common and “Am I crazy or does this mean something?” questions including identifying men most likely to cheat (men who have a specific “cheater” gene, men who love horror movies, aggressive drivers, men who fall asleep immediately after sex, and doctors and lawyers), and what she calls “doomsday” evidence: “The pre-paid cell phone or secret SIM card.”
Daily’s book also covers topics like the best places and equipment to snoop for clues, tips on protecting your relationship from an affair, the biggest mistakes women make when confronting a man if they think he is cheating, and the cheating red zone most men are knee-deep in every day.
“Infidelity affects women profoundly — the fear, stress, and worry that their partner is cheating spreads like a cancer to every other area of their lives, affecting their jobs, their friendships, their self-esteem, and their children. Until women find out the truth, their lives just continue to unravel.”
“Once you find the first piece of proof, his entire story starts to fall apart,” Daily says. “And that’s the first step to getting the resolution you need.”
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Download Is He Cheating? Crack the Cheat Code and find out right now if he is cheating or not, why he cheats, and what you need to do next on Kindle or Nook right now, and get the truth now.
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April 18, 2012
Is He Cheating?
My brand new book, Is He Cheating? Crack the Cheat Code and find out right now if he is cheating or not, why he cheats, and what you need to do next is out in stores this week.
Cheating questions are some of the most common requests for advice for dating that I get from both men and women — everything from “Is he cheating on me?” to “How can I make him stop?” to “Why is that tramp always trying to steal my man?”
This is why, after several years of collecting more information on cheating and cheaters than any person should need in a lifetime of dating jerks, I have finally compiled it all into one easy to use book. So even when you’re on the verge of a nervous breakdown, and it’s all you can do to stop yourself from hurling your plate at the (alleged) lying, cheating, jerk, you can find out what you need to know.
I hope you never need it. But if you do, at least you can find out the truth fast, get the whole stinking thing out in the open and move on with your life. Finding out the guy you’re in love with is cheating on you is painful. At least now it doesn’t have to be slow and painful.
xo,
Here’s the official release:
From the DAYTIME show relationships expert Lisa Daily
Find out right now if your husband or boyfriend is having an affair. Or just thinking about it.
Are you afraid your partner might be cheating with another woman?
Are you worried he’s cheating with someone he met online?
Are you starting to feel that something has changed in your relationship?
Are you feeling stressed and anxious, feeling like you might be going crazy, and wondering what is really going on?
If you’re like a lot of women, you may suspect your partner is cheating.
Maybe he’s been acting differently lately, odd little things that leave you feeling unsettled: Maybe he keeps mentioning the same woman from work. Maybe his phone is off when you need to reach him. Maybe he’s distant, disconnected, or he’s picking a lot of fights lately. Maybe you can’t quite put your finger on it, but something’s off. You can feel it.
You try to trust him, but you can’t help but picture him with another woman, maybe someone you know — your friend or neighbor — maybe even in your own bed. (It happens more than you’d think!)
85% of women who suspect their partner is cheating are right.
There’s a reason those alarm bells are going off in your head, that you can’t seem to shake the feeling that something bad is happening.
We know how you feel: You feel sick every time you think about it. You feel betrayed and humiliated and ashamed. You don’t understand what went wrong, why he feels the need to cheat on you with someone else. Why aren’t you enough for him?
You’re not alone.
What you need is help and support — some proven advice to find out right now, for sure, if your partner is cheating on you or not. And even more importantly, what you should do next. That’s why Lisa Daily, infidelity expert on the DAYTIME show and best selling author of numerous relationship advice books, wrote Is He Cheating? : Crack the cheat code and find out right now if he is cheating or not, why he cheats, and what you need to do next. It’s a detailed, step-by-step plan to finding out the truth about whether or not he’s cheating on you. Lisa holds your hand every step of the way –from validating your suspicions to gathering evidence to teaching you exactly what to say to him to get the truth you need.
Find out:
The types of men most likely to have an affair, and how to spot men who are genetically-programmed to cheat
The reason WHY he cheats (It’s not what you think!)
How to affair-proof your relationships with men
The unmistakable and easy-to-spot signs he’s cheating on you
The single best place to look for evidence if you suspect he’s having an affair
How to become a human lie detector and know instantly if he’s telling the truth what he’s been doing – or catch him in a lie on the spot
What you need to do right this minute if you think he’s cheating
What you should say to the other woman
How to keep yourself from going crazy while you figure out what you want to do next
The biggest mistake you can make when confronting your partner about his affair that can keep you from ever learning the truth
How to move on once you learn the truth about the affair — whether you stay in your relationship or not
Not knowing the truth is killing you.
The worry and fear you feel is keeping you up at night, making you doubt what’s real and what’s not, making you feel scared and humiliated and alone. Your relationship is in trouble. And no matter what you learn when you discover the truth, you can’t continue on the path you’re on. If it hasn’t already, eventually the stress of the situation will spread like a cancer into every other area of your life – your job, your self-esteem, your other relationships, your kids. You can’t go on this way.
Find out the truth with the best book on the subject of cheating.
Download Is He Cheating? Crack the Cheat Code and find out right now if he is cheating or not, why he cheats, and what you need to do next on Kindle or Nook right now, and get the truth now.
Need advice for dating? Lisa Daily is the bestselling author of dating books and romantic comedies. Check her out at LisaDaily.com
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March 27, 2012
Advice for Dating: What Your Mad Men Obsession Says About Your Personality
What Your Favorite TV Shows Say About You
I’m not sure there’s anyone on the planet who was as excited about the return of Mad Men as I was. Sure, it’s possible, but not very likely. I was reallllllllly excited.
Anyway, all this obsessing over Mad Men got me thinking about a Media Mindset study I covered a while back on DAYTIME that found that viewers of certain shows tended to have similar personality traits.
For example, if you watch me every week on Daytime, you’re quite obviously smart, good-looking, and destined to find true love.
If you watch Mad Men (my all-time favorite show) you’re most likely creative, emotionally sensitive, intellectually curious, and socially liberal. You’re also more likely to choose a Mac over a PC. But hey, who isn’t? (In case you’re wondering — I’d claim “all of the above” on personality traits.)
If you watch The Office, you’re more likely to have a bit of a superiority complex (I’m not saying you’re wrong, I’m just saying.) Office watchers are more likely to consider themselves superior to others, believe that they are extraordinary, and, of course, toot their own horns about their accomplishments. Hey, if you’ve got it, flaunt it, right?
Watchers of Glee are most likely creative, open to new things, and searching for unusual and varied experiences in their lives.
If you watch The Real Housewives you’re probably pugnacious (unafraid to tell other people exactly what you think), you value honesty over keeping the peace (what kind of friend would you be if you didn’t tell it like it is?), and probably a leader. Real Housewives fans also like Botox. Seriously!
Watchers of The Biggest Loser are traditional and realistic — which means they work with what they’ve got (marriage, job, kids) and they live in the present. Practical people.
Did you see what whatshername was wearing last night on Dancing With The Stars? Then you’re more likely to be compliant, traditional, respectful of authority, deferential to others, and a person who prefers stability — (and judging from high profile members of the GOP like Tom Delay and Bristol Palin — possibly Republican.)
If you watch Family Guy, you’re probably obnoxious. Oh wait, that’s just my opinion. Here’s what the study said: Family Guy watchers are rebellious, risk-taking, averse to rules and structure, open to challenges, and give their opinions using sarcasm and/or anger. Charming, right?
XO,
Need Advice for Dating? Dating Coach and Relationships Expert Lisa Daily is the bestselling author of two dating books, Stop Getting Dumped!, How to Date Like a Grownup and the totally funny novel Fifteen Minutes of Shame. You’ve seen her everywhere from Entertainment Tonight to the HITCH movie DVD.
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My Interview on Is He Cheating
Hi all,
Just finished an interview over at DatingSite.org where I talked about my new book coming out April 9, Is He Cheating?
Here’s a little bit of the interview:
You speak on the topic: 7 Signs Your Guy is Cheating. Can you give us three signs?
1. The biggest sign is a change in sexual behavior — either no sex or different sex. This usually means he’s getting it somewhere else, or learning it somewhere else.
2. A pre-paid cell phone. No bill, no evidence.
3. He changes his appearance. Maybe your guy starts working out after six years of bliss on the couch. Maybe he has a sudden interest in Armani when nacho cheese-covered Chinos have always been just fine. From a new gym membership to a new cologne, big appearance changes can mean big trouble.’
4. His feet are pointed away from you when you’re together. Even when we fake our emotions, our body language leaks them. When you’re in love, your bodies will line up, heart to heart, toes to toes. If lately his toes are always pointing at someone else, out the door, or just far away from you, you have reason to worry.
Oops, that’s four.
I actually have a list of more than 40 signs of cheating, including where to look for evidence, and the worst way to stage a confrontation in my new book coming out April 24 — Is He Cheating? Crack the cheat code and find out right now if he is cheating or not, why he cheats, and what you need to do next.
You can buy Is He Cheating here
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June 10, 2011
Anthony Weiner: Is Internet Nooky Really Cheating?
#weinergate : Is sexting the same as cheating?
Every week I receive lots of letters from women complaining that their boyfriends or husbands are engaged in a little online lust-fest. Is cybersex really cheating? Does it mean he loves me less? Is looking at porn on the Internet the same as flirting with someone anonymously in a chat room?
Most of the women who write to me believe that cybersex is cheating. Here’s the rub: a surprising number of men (54% in fact, according to Divorce Magazine,) believe it’s not.
Sure, typing words on a keyboard is not exactly the same thing as making out with a stranger in a bar after too many cosmopolitans, or sleeping with a coworker on a business trip. Unfortunately, what women seem to understand that men frequently do not, is that online relationships mean intimacy between two real people, whether they are in the same room (or Jacuzzi) or not.
Lots of guys use Internet flirting or cybersex as a sort of interactive girly magazine, and frankly, they leave their emotions at the bathroom door. The problem is that to women, both the woman in their lives and the woman on the other end of the Facebook profile, the interaction is real. A cyber-relationship holds promise, and to a wife or girlfriend that promise feels like a very real threat.
RELATED: 13 Signs You’re About to Get Dumped
There’s more. According to recent studies, evidence proves there is a high correlation between online cybersex and subsequent real-time sexual affairs. The same study stated that a whopping 31% of people have had an online conversation that has led to real-time sex.
Which means that cybersex, whether you think of it as cheating or not, poses a real hazard to relationships.
So, what can you do to protect your relationship against cyber-nooky? Well, your best defense is to let your partner know exactly what your position is. He’ll either respect your feelings, or he won’t. (Which is telling in itself.) But either way, you’ll know where you stand, and exactly the type of person you’re with.
Ack! I really think you need this dating book!
XO,
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May 19, 2011
13 Signs You’re About To Get Dumped! by Lisa Daily
Is it Romantic Armageddon or Uncomfortable Shoes? 13 Warning Signs You’re About To Get Dumped!
Want to know if your relationship is about to hit the skids?
Looking for tell-tale signs that your love will last through next week?
Well, look no further. Below you’ll find the “Unlucky 13″ -13 warning signs you’re about to get dumped.
We surveyed a variety of experts to find the most common warning signs a person is about to get dumped –including psychologists, body language experts, graphologists, private investigators and a divorce attorney. And here’s what we found:
1. Is it romantic Armageddon, or uncomfortable shoes?
Where the toes point, the heart follows. According to body language expert Patti Wood, MA, CSP, you should, “look at your sweetie’s feet when you are out with other people.” She says, “if they are pointed at you, great.” If they’re pointed at someone else, your partner may be looking to walk.
2. You’re starting to feel like a telemarketer.
Is your sweetie anxious to end phone conversations right away? A person who knows she’s going to end the relationship with you, but hasn’t done so yet will be itching to get off the phone with you. If she is talking to you, but not adding anything to the conversation it’s sign she is heading towards the finish line. She’s probably just pacing herself.
3. He’s no longer interested in sex, or worse, he has a new bag of tricks and a trapeze with the tags still on it.
A dramatic change in sexual behavior can mean two things:
a) He wants to avoid any situation where he might have to express emotion or attachment to you, or
b) He’s getting it somewhere else.
4. He avoids talking about the future.
We’re not just talking the general, garden-variety aversion that men have to discussing relationships. We’re talking about a man who avoids having one of those “we have to talk” talks like it’s a shot of the Plague. As for the future, when next Thursday seems like too much of a commitment, it could be because he’s trying to extricate himself by Wednesday night.
5. He says, “I need some space” or “I think we should see other people.”
According to psychologist Jesse Rabinowitz, Ph.D, people don’t usually want to hurt someone else, so they use “exit strategies.” By telling you he wants to see other people, he’s not technically breaking up with you (so no big crying scene to endure) but he’s given himself a way out. Of course, the second he gets a little distance, he’s going to make a run for it.
6. If she’s looking left, something’s not right.
According to Bill Raduenz, private investigator, a person who looks up into the air and to the left when she speaks to you is “not being truthful.” The look left is an indication we’re using the “creative” side of our brains and a good indicator she’s telling you a whopper.
7. He gives you that little pat on the back.
Watch out for this one. A person who gives you a hug while patting you on the back is indicating that they are uneasy. According to Raduenz, the “hand pat” on the back indicates someone is uncomfortable with what they’re doing. The bigger the pat, the more discomfort they feel.
There’s more. Another important sign that things may not be going well is the amount of contact during a hug. Full frontal contact is good. The one-shoulder hug, or pulling away in other areas could be a sign the person is “distancing” in the relationship. If it’s a new relationship, the other person may not be quite ready for that level of physical contact. If it’s an established relationship, it could be a sign the person is pulling away, or getting ready to break off the relationship.
8. You don’t like what you see in the mirror.
People mirror each other’s body language when they are in love with similar gestures, voice volume, etc. If you’re noticing the two of you are out of sync, you probably are.
That’s not all. According to body language expert Wood, a person who is about to dump you will display a lack of open “windows” towards you. “Windows” being his heart, eyes, neck and palms. If your man turns his heart (the center of his chest) away from you as you are talking to each other, it’s a big sign he’s not interested.
9. You see the writing on the wall.
According to graphologist Karen Weinberg, QDE, a person who is thinking of ending a relationship will show clues in her handwriting. When writing the word “love” she may begin to drop down the letter “e.” Another sign to watch for is if your partner diminishes the size of your name (sign of your importance to her.)
10. Every normal person should know which way the toilet paper goes…
If she’s picking silly fights, or there’s an unusual increase in emotional distance, you’ve got bad news. According to Melvyn Frumkes, an attorney specializing in divorce, “a person who picks nonsensical arguments is trying to get the other person (you) to make the first move.”
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11. He keeps you waiting. And waiting. And waiting.
“Time is an important non-verbal communicator,” says Wood. If he keeps you waiting, it’s a sign his interest is waning, and a sign of disrespect.
This is true for dates as well. If he starts waiting until the very last minute to make date plans with you, it’s likely he’s lost interest, or he’s hoping something better will come along and he’s using you as a back-up.
Ack! I really think you need this dating book!
12. She buys a personal pager, or a pre-paid cell phone.
This is bad news. Just about every private investigator in the book will tell you the pager purchase is a sign of impending heartbreak. Sure, it could be for work, but more likely, she’s using it to get a head start on her post-you life. Beep Beep – Bye Bye.
13. He used to be a three-blue-shirts-and-four-pair-of-Chinos kind of guy, and suddenly he’s obsessed with Armani.
According to Attorney Mel Frumkes, a person who is about to leave (or is cheating) will take greater care with his appearance – updating his wardrobe, losing weight, working out and even changing cologne. If your sweetie looks like he just finished taping an episode of “A Makeover Story” – Those Chinos might not be the only dud he’s looking to lose.
Want to know when you’re most likely to get the axe? Most experts agree it’s somewhere in the neighborhood of the first 3-5 months. So, stock up on tissues and Ben & Jerry’s if you’re heading into the danger zone.
Only time (and his shoes) will tell.
XO,
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April 12, 2011
Advice for Dating -Does Beauty Doom Your Relationship? Yep.
Be sure to tune in to Daytime on Tuesday, April 12 when I’ll be talking about how beauty can be the kiss of death in your relationship
Advice for Dating: The Ugly Truth About Dating A Gorgeous Woman
A recent study published in the UK’s Daily Mail found that there’s an unexpected downside to dating a beautiful woman — Relationships where the woman is more attractive than the man are more likely to fail.
What did the study find? Basically, if the woman is more attractive than the man, the relationship will only last a few months.
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How did the study explain the many romances of Angelina Jolie? Now, she’s a perfect case study, isn’t she? Angelina Jolie Billy Bob Thorton = doom. Angelina Jolie Jonny Lee Miller = Big Fizzle. Angelina Jolie Brad Pitt = her longest-running and most-successful relationship. Why? Brad Pitt is one of about 6 men on the planet who is equally attractive to the lovely Angelina. Billy Bob didn’t stand a chance.
Why would the fact that the woman is more attractive set the relationship up for failure? Frankly, beautiful women have more options.
Does having a more handsome boyfriend or husband doom the relationship?
Interestingly enough, no. So feel free to date Brad Pitt if Angelina decides to move on.
All for now. For more advice for dating, check out Stop Getting Dumped!, which has a lot of good info on finding someone who is right for you.
XO,
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April 5, 2011
Advice for dating : How to find out what you REALLY want to know on a first date.
Be sure to tune in to Daytime on Tuesday, April 5 when I’ll be talking about which low-risk questions you should ask on a first date to find out what you really want to know
Advice for Dating: First Date Questions That Give the Answers to Unspeakable Truths
Everybody knows that first dates are awkward, mostly because you’re trying to learn as much about the person as you can in the least amount of time, without getting a drink thrown in your face, or ditched the second you head for the ladies room. But how can you find out what you really want to know about your date’s views on commitment, or politics or religion if it’s rude to come right out and ask?
Once again, the genius number crunchers over at OKCupid compiled and sifted through the data of their 7 million or so members, looking for questions that were fairly benign and easy to ask, but that correlated to some deeper, unspeakable truth. (As in, what are the chances that you and I are going to end up in a relationship, or, you know, bed?) The questions are weird, for sure. But they might just give you all the answers you’re looking for.
What question should you ask if you want to know if you’re going to get lucky on the first date?
Ask: Do you like the taste of beer?
Why? People who like the taste of beer are 60% more likely to think it’s okay to sleep with someone on the first date. True for both men and women, straight and gay.
What question should you ask if you want to know if you and your date have long term potential?
Ask 3 questions actually:
Do you like horror movies?
Have you ever traveled around another country alone?
Wouldn’t it be fun to chuck it all and go live on a sailboat?
What they say doesn’t matter so much as whether or not their answers match with yours. 32% of successful couples agreed on all three questions, which 3.7 times the usual. What’s more interesting — these questions were a better predictor than sharing beliefs in God, sex & smoking.
What question should you ask if you want to know if you and your date share the same politics?
Ask: Do you prefer the people in your life to be simple or complex?
If your date answers “simple” they’re most likely (2:1) a republican, if they answered “complex” they’re most likely a dem (2:1).
What question should you ask if you want to know if your date is religious?
Ask: Do spelling and grammar mistakes annoy you?
If your date answers no, they’re not particularly annoyed with bad grammar and spelling???the odds of he or she being at least moderately religious is slightly better than 2:1.
Bad spelling and grammar make me crazy. I’m not sure if this is because I’m a writer, or because I’m not particularly religious. (I have a strong faith, I just find it tough to get on board with organized religion.)
All for now. For more on what to do on a first date, check out Stop Getting Dumped!, which has a lot of first date strategies.
XO,
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March 23, 2011
It’s hard to get found sometimes
When you search online for something totally random like carpet drying fans Austin, or carpet flood damage Austin , or carpet repair service Austin, which are fairly specific, you get almost 7 million results. 7 million! Which means if you’re a 31-year old blonde from Duluth, looking for Mr. Right online, you’re probably in really big trouble.
My point? It’s tough to stand out, no matter how special you are.
So what do you do? Lead with what’s original about you, rather than the traits you share with thousands of other people. Like brown hair or blue eyes or a fondness for Jon Stewart or Katy Perry. Focus on what makes you stand out, rather than what makes you blend in. (You once arm-wrestled Jon Stewart, or Katy Perry borrows stuff from your closet, or you just happen to train seeing-eye dogs to read call-waiting, and bark differently when Great Aunt Edna calls versus say, somebody conducting a Gallup Poll on how much bacon you consume in a calendar year.)
Because that’s the thing that will mean the difference between meeting someone who likes you versus meeting someone who gets you.
And that’s all we really want, isn’t it?
XO,
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