Lisa Daily's Blog, page 29
January 24, 2013
When Good People Have Affairs: Inside the Hearts & Minds of People in Two Relationships
View on Amazon A world-renowned therapist, Mira Kirshenbaum has treated thousands of men and women caught in the powerful drama over what to do when an affair reaches into their emotional lives. Now, in When Good People Have Affairs, Kirshenbaum puts her unsurpassed experience into one clear, calming place. She gives readers everything they need to cut through the thickets of fear, hurt and confusion to find their ways to happier, more solid relationships with the person who’s right for them. For example, Kirshenbaum identifies seventeen types of affairs, helping readers figure out which type they’re in and what it means. Is it a:
–“See-if” affair?
–Ejector-seat affair?
–Distraction affair?
–Unmet-needs affair?
–Panic affair?
Kirshenbaum encourages honest answers to such questions as:
–What am I missing in my marriage?
–How do I decide between two people when it’s like comparing an apple to an orange?
–How do I decide to end my marriage, end my affair, or end them both?
She leads readers through six easy-to-navigate steps that will take anyone from anxiety to clarity. When Good People Have Affairs will be a lifeline to any man or woman who feels caught between two lovers, and its insights are indispensable to anyone else touched by an affair.
January 23, 2013
How To Avoid The One Night Stand
View on Amazon Learn how to guard against the “accidental affair”. Learn what you’re up against when you enter the ‘bar scene’ unprepared. Know what to expect when you fail to heed the warning signs of an oncoming affair.
January 22, 2013
Emotional Infidelity: How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage and 10 Other Secrets to a Great Relationship
View on Amazon What’s holding you back from a great marriage?
“I don’t believe in ‘okay,’ ‘decent,’ or ‘solid’ marriages. I’m against them,” says M. Gary Neuman. “I believe only in great marriages, and that you should expect and reach for no less.” In the last fifteen years, M. Gary Neuman, marital therapist and architect of the Sandcastles Divorce Therapy Program, has helped thousands of couples in crisis. Couples who fight. Who’ve grown apart. Who are stuck in relationships that run more on routine and rancor than love and understanding. What he’s found is that, contrary to popular belief, the problem is usually not poor communication. It’s the failure to put most of your focus into your marriage. You’ve only got so much energy. Are you spending it by being emotionally unfaithful?
Take a quick check: Do you send that funny e-mail to your friends at work—but not to your spouse? Do you chew over all the problems on the job so thoroughly with your colleagues that by the time you get home, you just don’t feel like going into it all over again? Do you get a secret thrill out of flirting with coworkers—thinking it’s safe because you know it’s not going any further? If so, you’re committing emotional infidelity—and you’re draining your marriage of the energy it needs to be great. Learning how to break this cycle is one of eleven secrets M. Gary Neuman shares in his provocative new book.
Based on the ten-week program he’s developed in his successful couples counseling practice, the book offers guidelines that are often counterintuitive, even outrageous or shocking. But they work. Dare to limit contact with members of the opposite sex. Dare to need each other. Dare to put in writing the nitty-gritty realities of a marriage plan. Dare to put your marriage before your kids or job. Dare to make love in a whole new way. Dare to change your focus: make the commitment to focus on each of the eleven secrets (ten plus one bonus secret) for one week apiece and you’ll reap the rewards of a transformed marriage and a reconfirmed relationship.
M. Gary Neuman’s program is guaranteed to challenge you and make you reexamine the myths holding you back from true happiness and satisfaction. It will change your marriage forever.
Dating a Married Man: Memoirs from the “other Women”
View on Amazon However the two of you come across one another, it is almost going to feel like an instant attraction and a mutual recognition of "understanding each other". This typically happens in an office setting or through other work-related activities where there is the opportunity and the setting to subtly exchange non-verbal cues which will lead to this attraction.
Is this feeling real? Yes, and it's intense!
Would you feel this way if he weren't married and appropriate for you?
The script unfolds predictably where you become a special friend and the two of you have harmless lunches, coffee, etc? At this point you may be asking your friends what they think because nothing physical has happened. It's really simple. This is stage one of the seduction process….
January 20, 2013
Cheating Wife: My Adultery, My Emotional Affairs
View on Amazon Shelly Stepford is a woman who is familiar with the subject of cheating.
Whether it’s the adulterous affairs she engaged in whilst married to her first, violent husband – or the emotional affairs she stepped willingly into with married Christian men after marrying her good second husband – Shelly has learned hard lessons about dipping her diamond-adorned fingers too close to a fire that initially looks dreamily tempting, but hurts and burns in nightmarish reality.
Step inside her world of emotionally raw and expositorily real events of infidelity that she lays bare for the reader to share, wonder about and delight in as they learn what not to do – or find help to stop doing, before it’s too late.
Recovering From an Affair: How to Save a Relationship after Infidelity
View on Amazon At least once in your life you might have a chance to hear one of your friends or family or colleagues saying “oh, my husband cheated on me” or “my wife has an affair”. Or you can be one of them who said it. You may not realize that this thing is quite common and happening in every corner of this world. It looks like we humans are destined to be happy and become unhappy afterwards. Nevertheless, this could just be some kind of terrible test that if you fail, you marriage is done.
Recovering from an Affair is a book of relationship advice to any couple who confront the marriage trouble when one of them is cheating. The book is parted into 6 chapters:
Chapter I Signs of an Emotional Affair
Chapter II Can A Relationship Survive Cheating?
Chapter III Forgiving an Affair
Chapter IV Trust after Infidelity
Chapter V Life after an Affair
Chapter VI Spicing Up a Relationship
Make Him Beg To Be Your Boyfriend In 6 Simple Steps
View on Amazon Hi, I'm Michael Fiore . . .
I’m a nationally known romance and relationship expert who’s helped tens-of-thousands of women discover the weird truth about men and have the committed, passionate relationships of their dreams . . .
And I’m here to tell you that there’s a simple, step-by-step system any woman can use to finally flip the “commitment switch” in that one special man’s brain . . .
And make him beg you to be his (and only his) even he swears up and down that he doesn’t want to commit or if he sees you as a “Friend with Benefits” or an “occasional date” now.
Even better, this simple, powerful method has been proven again and again to work on almost ANY guy (no matter how stubborn he is or how desperately he’s holding on to his “freedom.”)
This method works like clockwork on . . .
* “Players” who are dating (and even sleeping with) multiple women and swear they’ll never settle down. (Follow these simple instructions and he’ll be your own personal monogamy addict who can’t even LOOK at another girl.)
“Comittment-phobes” who think “having a girlfriend” is some kind of freedom-killing prison sentence (use step 3 on this guy and he’ll crawl over broken glass to make you his and ONLY his.)
“Wounded Bears” who have been beat up and battered in relationships in the past. In love (or even just like) with a divorced guy? This is the ONLY way to break through the ice he’s erected around his heart and have him finally open up.
“Alpha Males” who can have their pick of any woman. You’ll learn how to make him choose you (and choose you NOW) while thinking it’s 100% his idea.
This 25 page report is nothing but the raw, powerful, step-by-step information you need to pry open his heart and make him yours for good.
Here’s just a LITTLE of what you’ll discover in this astonishing report . . .
* Why he’s not your boyfriend now . . . the 6 secret reasons men don’t commit even to women they love. (page 4)
* The secret and downright silly fantasy banging around in the back of his unconscious that’s sabotaged every attempt you’ve made to get him to commit . . . and how to get him to CHOOSE to grow up and be yours forever.
* Why you fell into the “Friends With Benefits Trap” . . . and how to “break out” of the “girl I have sex with” box with a guy so he sees you as you as “girlfriend material” . . . the mother of his children and the woman of his dreams.
* Why ultimatums NEVER work . . . and why “forcing” him to commit to you will blow up in your face, ruin your relationship and leave you desperate, angry and alone. (Whatever you do, do NOT confront your guy before you read this section on page 7).
The 16 word “Man Magnet Mantra” . . . Silently repeat this one sentence to yourself in your mind and you’ll be shocked at how he transforms into an eager puppy suddenly desperate for your attention no matter how “cool” he’s been in the past.
“The Death Of Possibility” . . . The real reason men are petrified of commitment and wake up in cold sweats at the idea of being with just one woman . . . (this will depress you at first . . . until you realize the astonishing power you’ve gained from this one piece of information.)
How to make him compete for you, earn you and chase you even if he’s shown no interest in getting serious with you before now.
How to get him to call you “his girlfriend” to his friends, family and even his ex without whining, begging or pleading.
And much, much more.
All packed into 25 lean and devastating pages and for less than you'd pay for a coffee at Starbucks.
January 19, 2013
Make Every Man Want You: How to Be So Irresistible You’ll Barely Keep from Dating Yourself!
View on Amazon Unleash Your Irresistibility!
"Make Every Man Want You gives every woman the tools she needs to unlock her inner magnet."
–Kelly Ripa
Let's make one thing clear: this book is like no other dating book you've read. There are no rules, no list of things to do to land a husband in thirty days, and no reason to blame yourself if “he's just not that into you.” Please. Throw those books away.
Instead, let's focus on you–and how you can make yourself more appealing to others in almost every situation–whether you have a man or not. Think of it as a crash course in desirability, a life-changing lesson in loving yourself inside and out. Once you embrace your unique qualities and dissolve your bad relationship habits, you'll be amazed to find how irresistible you are to others! This girl-friendly guide reveals: Five Truths Every Irresistible Woman Needs to Know: Live in the moment, Men do not want to be changed or improved Seven Habits of Highly Unattractive Women: Boring in bed, Being needy Eight Secrets of Attracting the Right Man for You: Get rid of your "perfect man" checklist, Have your own life
January 18, 2013
Infidelity: How to Catch a Cheating Spouse in One Hour or Less
View on Amazon Stop the Agony and Find Out the Truth Tonight!
Relationship expert John Thornton tells you exactly where to go and exactly what to look for. Find out if your spouse or lover is who he or she pretends to be—right here, right now—without expensive investigators, complex gadgets or bogus software. You don’t need any of that stuff as long as you know:
• Thornton's simple step-by-step recipe for reaching the truth. He tells you exactly what to do. And you can do it tonight!
• The one common thing everyone does except cheaters. If your lover does this, even occasionally, you can be assured that he or she is not cheating.
• The magical five-word question. And what his or her answer reveals as clearly as lipstick on a collar.
• 21 places to look—before you even finish the book—for undeniable proof of infidelity. Trust me, you won’t believe your eyes!
• The countless bonehead moves every cheater makes. And I mean every cheater, no matter how intelligent he or she is!
• The four involuntary attitude shifts that cheaters can’t avoid. You’ll learn to read them like a book!
• The Cheater’s Trinity. Three more extra-foolproof signs that he or she is, in fact, cheating.
• And much, much more!
Whether your spouse is cheating or not, John Thornton will help you verify the Truth many times over until there is no doubt in your mind.
“Ten minutes after downloading your book, I found myself holding undeniable proof that my wife was cheating with a longtime friend. I hate to think of how long this might have continued without your smart, simple formula!”
–Paul
Cherry Creek, CO
“I was convinced that my husband was having an affair, but your step #3 proved otherwise. The relief I felt was worth a million times the price I paid for the Ebook. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!”
–Cheryl
Dayton, OH
“After I discovered my boyfriend was cheating, I shared your book with my best friend. Less than an hour later she called me in tears with the news that her husband was also having an affair.”
–Annie
Seattle, WA
“I uncovered an eight year affair in less than an hour.”
–Chuck
Richmond, VA
“I was on right on the verge of accusing my husband when I stumbled across your E-book. Thankfully you proved to me that he was faithful after all. I hate to think what it might have done to our relationship if I had wrongly accused him.”
–Kelle
Aurora, CO
“After I proved my husband’s infidelity, I gave copies of Infidelity to each of my three daughters. I dare their husbands to try doing what mine did.”
–Toni
Clearwater, FL
“The hardest part of this whole process was making the decision to download the ebook. Once I started reading, everything got easier, even though the news was bad. Knowing is better than not knowing anyday!”
–Shara
Canandaigua, NY
“One piece of proof would have been enough. Your fourth Action Item gave me sixteen! I didn’t even need to read the rest of the book.”
–Stephen
Chicago, IL
January 17, 2013
What to Say if He Shows You His #$*& (And other Blunt Dating Advice for Women)
View on Amazon In this collection of short essays, Amazon-best-selling author and international relationship expert Michael Fiore shares his blunt advice with women on how to survive the emotional thunderdome that is the modern dating world.
In this slim ebook you'll learn . . .
Exactly what to say if a guy texts you his @#$$ (and why men are so obsessed with their $#@$ in the first place.)
How to tell if a guy is "the one" or some douchebag you should avoid like the plague.
How to break up with a guy so he doesn't turn into your own personal stalker (and the HUGE mistake you've made every time you've dumped a guy in the past.)
How to find GREAT guys online (while letting the freaks know in half a second to hunt elsewhere.)
What a married guy REALLY means when he says he "hates his wife and will leave here soon."
And a LOT more.
