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FIRST AID FOR THE BETRAYED by Richard Alan, Expanded Edition, 2008

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"This writing is extraordinary and unique. First, because it was written by a man whose wife had an affair. Most first-person writing about affairs has been from women. It contains some of the rawest honesty about the pain of an affair that I have ever read. It provides a great deal of hard-earned wisdom about the whole issue of affairs, particularly in healing from the devastation. I highly recommend this book to anyone who truly wants to know what it's like to deal with a spouse's affair – and to learn practical ways to recover and heal."

Peggy Vaughan, author of The Monogamy Myth

Written over a period of four years and based on his personal experience and those of over 100 others who have suffered the betrayal of a partner's adultery, in this second edition the author has captured the essence of the pain, anguish and inestimable psychological effects of a partner's affair.



This expanded edition has added three new chapters and additional information helpful to the reader in dealing with the other person, the offending spouse and other new information.

Daring to Trust: Opening Ourselves to Real Love and Intimacy

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Most relationship problems are essentially trust issues, explains psychotherapist David Richo. Whether it’s fear of commitment, insecurity, jealousy, or a tendency to be controlling, the real obstacle is a fundamental lack of trust—both in ourselves and in our partner.

Daring to Trust offers key insights and practical exercises for exploring and addressing our trust issues in relationships. Topics include:



• How we learn early in life to trust others (or not to trust them)

• Why we fear trusting

• Developing greater trust in ourselves as the basis for trusting others

• How to know if someone is trustworthy

• Naïve trust vs. healthy, adult trust

• What to do when trust is broken

Ultimately, Richo explains, we must develop trust in four directions: toward ourselves, toward others, toward life as it is, and toward a higher power or spiritual path. These four types of trust are not only the basis of healthy relationships, they are also the foundation of emotional well-being and freedom from fear.

Is He Cheating? : Crack The Cheat Code And Find Out RIGHT NOW If He Is Cheating Or Not, Why He Cheats, What You Need To Do Next — Surviving Infidelity

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Infidelity: You suspect he's having an affair. Now what?

Are you stressed, anxious, feeling like you're going crazy, can't sleep, wondering what's really going on — if he's been with another woman, or flirting with someone at work or online? You can't stop thinking about infidelity in marriage?

For your own sanity, you need to find out if he's cheating once and for all:

* Find out now if your man is high-risk for an affair, and how to tell if he's genetically-programmed to cheat

* Why he cheats, how to affair proof your relationships, how to tell if they’re not just friends, and the key to surviving infidelity

* Unmistakable signs of cheating, deception, how to spot affairs in marriage

* The single best place to look for evidence if you suspect an affair

* How to become a human lie detector: know instantly if he's telling the truth about infidelity or catch him in a lie on the spot

* What you need to do right this minute if you think he's cheating

* The biggest mistake you'll make when confronting your partner about his affairs and infidelity that can keep you from ever learning the truth

* How emotional affairs can be worse than sex

* After the affair – How to reclaim your power and move past it once you learn the truth about affairs and infidelity — whether you stay in your relationship or not



85% of women who suspect their partner is cheating are right

There's a reason the alarm bells are going off in your head, and you can't seem to shake the feeling that something bad is happening.

Why is he acting so differently lately?It's the odd little things that leave you feeling unsettled: He keeps mentioning the same woman from work. His phone is off when you need to reach him. He's distant, disconnected, or picking a lot of fights lately. Maybe you can't quite put your finger on it, but something's off. You can feel it. In your gut.

You try to trust him, but you can't stop picturing him with another woman, maybe even someone you know.

You're not alone

What you need is relationship advice and support — proven advice to find out right now, for sure, if he's cheating on you or not. And most of all, how to survive infidelity, reclaim your power, and find happiness again. That’s why Lisa Daily, the expert on infidelity and affairs on NBC's DAYTIME show and author of numerous best selling books on dating for women, wrote "Is He Cheating? It's a detailed, step-by-step plan to finding out the truth — whether (or not) he's sleeping around, cheating online, or having affairs in marriage. Lisa holds your hand every step of the way –from validating your suspicions to gathering evidence to teaching you exactly what to say to him to get the truth you need. And then, Lisa teaches you how to reclaim your dignity and move past this.

Lisa knows exactly how you feel: You feel sick every time you think about it. You feel betrayed, humiliated and ashamed. You feel like a fool. How did this happen?

Not knowing the truth is destroying your life

Worry and fear keep you up at night, make you doubt what’s real and what’s not. You feel scared, humiliated and alone. Your relationship is in trouble. And no matter what you learn when you discover the truth, you can’t continue on the path you’re on. Eventually the stress of the situation will spread like a cancer into every other area of your life – your job, your self-esteem, your other relationships, your kids. You can’t go on this way.

"Truly the best book to get every answer you need on infidelity — a survival guide"

Why Men Prefer Bitches & Hoe’s – (Relationships)

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Relationships – Discover what men really want when it comes to the ideal woman; never miss the chance of attracting your dream man by giving off the wrong impressions.

Elevate and have the relationship of your dreams, by learning how to turn any man into your soul mate and ultimate lover.



Why Men prefer Bitches & Hoes consigns a unique viewpoint as to why men are captivated to a powerful woman who stands up for herself. With saucy minutia on every sheet, this no-nonsense guide discloses why a powerful modern woman is much more desirable than a "yes woman" who regularly forfeitures herself.

The scribe presents convincing responses to the strong questions women often ask:

Why do men so love in the start of a relationship and why they change?

Why do men take pleasant girls for granted? – Why does a man esteem a woman when she stands up for herself? Full of recommendations, hilarious real-life relationship scenarios, Attraction Principles," Why Men prefer Bitches and Hoes gives you a bottom-line responses.

I Got Caught Cheating – How Can I Save My Marriage?

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There is possibly no more painful experience in life than finding your spouse or partner has been unfaithful. Infidelity is probably the most damaging event that can happen in any relationship. However, if the two of you can get to the root cause of the affair, your relationship can truly emerge stronger than ever. Nevertheless, for that to happen, both of you have to be willing to do some hard healing work. Adultery usually means the partner who cheated wasn’t getting something they needed from the relationship. The person who was cheated on has to acknowledge their part in the affair. That is not to say that the infidelity was your fault; it is only the fault of the perpetrator who decided to cheat. But, the injured partner played some part, however small, and that role must be identified. A relationship is made up of two people; when something goes wrong it involves both people. There is a growing trend in America today for couples to work toward reconciliation after an infidelity. Where successful this trend is good for families, for society, and for civilization as a whole. This book is dedicated to helping this trend grow. With effort reconciliation is usually successful, and most couples find their relationships stronger and more loving than ever.

Drs. Seiden and Bilett have accumulated decades of counseling experience between them, both independently, and then as a team. The expertise they have gained over the years, dealing with all types of relationship problems has gone into the writing of this book on infidelity reconciliation.

Liar, Liar, Pants on fire – How to catch a cheating partner with their pants down

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If you are suspicious about your partner cheating on you then this is a must buy book.

Written by a female author who found her partner was not only married but having another affair and using sex sites. This book is a no holds bar look at both internet including, cybersex, phone sex, extra marital affairs, dating sites, swinging sites and affairs with sex workers. It has been extensively researched including interviewing men and women who have cheated and those that enable cheating including sex workers . Liar Liar explains who is most likely to cheat, why they cheat and more importantly where they cheat. It includes numerous tools to help you become your own private detective and discover once and for all if your partner really is cheating. It explains how to catch them, how to gather evidence and when to confront them. This book is suitable for both men and woman and contains adult material. It is not suitable for anyone under 18.

Finding Forever Love: 7 Steps to Attract The One (Love Attraction Series)

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This is the QUICKSTART guide to famed love guru Kathryn Alice's love magnetization process.

This super effective method has worked for tens of thousands of people, now happily together with their soulmates



As you begin this magical journey, rest assured you will be next!

* Start magnetizing love to you within moments of beginning this book

* Get introduced to a method of attracting love that has worked for thousands

* A short, concise 'quickstart' guide to a proven "calling in love" process

* Become aware of how easy finding love can be

* Overcome your past and any blocks you've had to finding your soulmate

* Learn the REAL SECRET to bringing in the love you want

Kathryn Alice, author of the bestseller LOVE WILL FIND YOU, is the U.S.'s foremost expert on soulmates and spiritual dating. She appears in the 2012 Feature Film Secrets of Love. She has helped tens of thousands of people attract their soulmates. Her work has appeared in Psychology Today, USA Today, The New York Times, Associated Press, Body+Soul and on Montel, NBC and The Aware Show. Kathryn directed Agape's Crisis Support Team for 6 years & teaches in the U.S., Australia and South Africa. She has been married for over a decade to her own soulmate, and they have 4 boys.

Marriage Repair After an Affair

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If you’re facing the daunting task of repairing your relationship after infidelity, you need Marriage Repair After an Affair. This five-step guide will help you understand infidelity, and show you how to work through the obstacles that occur on the road to marriage recovery.

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There are many good books out there about infidelity and helping you understand your feelings. But I have found they fall short in helping people actually work through the ordeal and transition into a better marriage.



While you’re in this emotional tornado, it may seem impossible to repair a marriage, and you may not be sure you want to repair it, but I have seen marriages actually blossom after this kind of storm.

This five-step guide will help you understand infidelity, and show you how to work through the obstacles that occur on the road to marriage recovery. It is written in my voice, so you will learn the specific techniques, just as if you were sitting in my office.

“Working with Melanie has been a life-changing experience. I have learned to look at many aspects of my life in new and healthier ways. The changes are more widespread than I would have ever imagined. Melanie introduced me to the tools that I needed to take care of my emotional health and supported me patience and compassion."

Coping With Infidelity – Tips For Getting Support

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If you're dealing with infidelity or even think your spouse might be cheating, you need support. But how do you go about getting what you need? Who do you trust? How much do you share? What should you be aware of when talking to friends and family?

This book answers all those questions and more.



This is a companion book to Leigh Richwood's first book "What To Do When Your Spouse Cheats" also available on Amazon Kindle. Leigh has been helping others deal with infidelity in their lives since she went through her husband's affair. Her approach is logical and practical to help you make good decisions in one of the most troubling times a person can experience.

Getting Naked: Five Steps to Finding the Love of Your Life (While Fully Clothed & Totally Sober)

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From Harlan Cohen, the bestselling author of THE NAKED ROOMMATE: And 107 Other Issues You Might Run into in College, comes GETTING NAKED, an honest, hopeful guide to getting a date, falling in love—or lust—and finding happiness in love (and in life). With a simple 5-step approach to finding the love of your life, Harlan answers the most commonly asked questions from his syndicated advice column, his college tours, his website, and his newest book for Gen Y. He helped a generation make the most of college life, now he’ll help them find the love of their lives.