CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian

“You think your pain and your heartbreak are unprecedented in the history of the world, but then you read.”
― James Baldwin

“An honorable human relationship – that is, one in which two people have the right to use the word "love" – is a process, delicate, violent, often terrifying to both persons involved, a process of refining the truths they can tell each other.

It is important to do this because it breaks down human self-delusion and isolation.

It is important to do this because in doing so we do justice to our own complexity.

It is important to do this because we can count on so few people to go that hard way with us.”
― Adrienne Rich, On Lies, Secrets, and Silence. Selected Prose 1966-1978

“The world is full of seemingly nice guys who assault women. Guys who don't have healthy attitudes about women and sex in general, who see sex as something they are entitled to, who hurt women and don't even know they are doing it because we don't educate our young men on how not to become rapists.”
― Amy Hatvany, It Happens All the Time

“Beauty and ingenuity beat perfection hands down, every time.”
― Nalo Hopkinson, Sister Mine