Blame Quotes

“Evil loves to subvert all blame onto the innocent.”
― E.A. Bucchianeri, Vocation of a Gadfly

“Stop blaming other people for your own behavior! Own the truth. If you don't like it, then invest the time and energy to change it.”
― Akiroq Brost

“The habit of passing the blame onto someone is a sign of being dependent on that person.”
― Tapan Ghosh

“The kitchen car was dead, and Morrigan was to blame.
She didn't know how it had happened, or when. She thought perhaps he'd eaten something poisonous overnight. There were no injuries to suggest a fox or dog attack. Apart from a bit of dried blood at the corner of his mouth, he looked like he was sleeping, but he was cold and stiff.”
― Jessica Townsend, Nevermoor: The Trials of Morrigan Crow

“People would rather prefer blaming their crimes on a third party than taking responsibility upon themselves... It is their nature.”
― Tamuna Tsertsvadze, The Guardian Spirit

“The gossips, slackers, and hypocrites have always hated me. I'm ok with that. The weak minded often blame the mirror.”
― Steve Maraboli

“When disclosure occurs for a trans woman, whether by choice or by another person, she is often accused of deception because, as the widely accepted misconception goes, trans women are not 'real' women (meaning cis women); therefore, the behavior (whether rejection, verbal abuse, or sever violence) is warranted. The violence that trans women face at the hands of heterosexual cis men can go unchecked and uncharted because society blames trans women for the brutality they face. Similar to arguments around rape, the argument goes that 'she brought it upon herself.”
― Janet Mock, Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More

“But it’s a lot easier to blame someone else than accept blame for your own failings.”
― Jacqueline Carey, Santa Olivia

“You don't owe me your love. You didn't owe me a polite yes. It was not on you to let me down gently and somehow ward off punishment I was fucking stupid enough to think you deserved.”
― Charlotte Stein, Never Sweeter

“The question of the fearful person is “who did it?” The question of the courageous person is “did I have a part in it?” The former is something of a witch-hunt. The latter is a hunt for a solution.”
― Craig D. Lounsbrough

“All judgment is, in one way or another, self-judgment.”
― Joseph Rain, The Unfinished Book About Who We Are

“Of course it's not your fault." She smoothed Hazel's hair. "Don't ever blame yourself for someone else's choices.”
― Lea Doué, The Midsummer Captives

“So the good things you've accomplished, those you had help with. But the danger. The blame. Those belong to you alone?”
― Shane Arbuthnott, Terra Nova

“Even if the past was not kind to us, we must not be the kind that blames the past all the time.”
― Gift Gugu Mona

“Some people only know how to criticize and blame but haven't a clue on how to forgive.”
― Jeffrey G. Duarte

“You don't have to take the blame just because nobody wants it.”
― Joyce Rachelle

“Give God a break: everybody dumps their crap on God.”
― J. Earp

“Some children [and adults] conclude that a parent's [or partner's] anger is justified. It can be more painful to believe that a parent is uncontrolled, unreasonable, and spiteful than to see yourself at fault. It can be more painful to look on confusion and chaos that to make sense of a parents behavior by concluding that you deserve her punishment.”
― Terri Apter

“When people feel they know who to blame or to snicker at, they seldom feel the need to know more.”
― Marilynne Robinson, What Are We Doing Here?

“In life everything happens for a reason, I can no longer point the finger of blame. It is up to me to remain positive regardless of what’s happening around me.”
― Dee Waldeck

“If you to get progress... less fuck is the formula + label people... and put yourself in high status...
you are there and you own the room... you ain't jealous, you ain't freak or blame.”
― Deyth Banger, How to Talk to Anyone

“If you don't hold yourself 100% accountable for every thought you think, word you speak and action you take, you are living in denial and playing the blame or victim game.”
― Pam Malow-Isham, Brilliant Words to Grow By: A Devotional Celebrating the Duality of Life

“However, it is important to remember that only 15 years ago most major training schools did not accept the existence of child abuse and condemned what they saw as the unhealthy excitement that was considered to emanate from the earliest exponents. The language of their criticism is very similar... to what greets the clinician of today who speaks of DID. It has been a later knowledge that understands the way the shame and trauma of abuse become projected into the professional network leading to splitting and blame.”
― Valerie Sinason, Attachment, Trauma and Multiplicity: Working with Dissociative Identity Disorder

“We want the black-and-white picture, someone to blame. So we blame George Bush or Saddam Hussein, or black people or white people, or capitalism or communism, or the left or the right, or human nature, but reality is something else altogether. I could be any of those people. None of their behavior is anything I haven’t—on some scale—done myself. If you see that, and any real meditation work will reveal it to you beyond the shadow of a doubt, then you cannot possibly imagine that there is a “solution” to be found in fixing blame.”
― Joan Tollifson, Bare-Bones Meditation: Waking Up from the Story of My Life

“We are now past the era of speculation and blame. We need to create the era of positive direct action.”
― Freequill, What's Going On? How Can We Help?: The consequences of capitalism and actionable steps towards a healthy and sustainable future

“মাঝে মাঝে কিছু স্বার্থপর লোক নিজেদের স্বার্থ উদ্ধার করার জন্য নির্দোষ কাউকে দোষী সাজায়!”
― Md. Ziaul Haque

“Accepting the blame for shame is agenda and happens like a silent handshake of agreement. By resolving the blame for the shame, you resolve the anger.”
― Deborah Bravandt

“If you are not connected to the source then life happens “to” you. You learn little and blame much in an effort to understand your suffering." ~ Linda Deir”
― Linda Deir, Guided: Her Spirit Guide Angels Were Her Best Friends and Life Coaches

“If you are not connected to the source then life happens “to” you. You learn little and blame much in an effort to understand your suffering.”
― Linda Deir, Guided: Her Spirit Guide Angels Were Her Best Friends and Life Coaches

“Ouch! One huge problem is internalized blame. The very scary and almost always wrong idea that somehow you did something to deserve being hurt.”
― Helen S Rosenau